Why would a virgo woman act really childish?

This Virgo woman acts really childish and silly around me, is this her trying to flirt with me? I have never had a Virgo woman act so childish around me, she almost has all Virgo placements besides her Sagittarius Moon and True Node in Aries, and can a True Node really effect someone's personality? Because to me she acts like an Aries....

Aries are awsome ,why do you think she is childish?

Posted by LoveSeeker
Aries are awsome ,why do you think she is childish?

lol I have nothing against Aries I am one afterall, but she is just really silly (a bit over the top) and she literally acts childish , for example she pouts, asks me really childish questions, acts really reactive and overly emotional around me, likes to scare me, uses a pouty tone and words things a certain way, looks at me like I'm a toy/shiny object, grins at me, etc....

I'm just confused most Virgo women I have met act more serious around me.

If she has "almost all" Virgo placements that would be considered a stellium. Depending on the person, a stellium may actually blow itself out in some cases, something like a short circuit where there is too much energy located in one area so it cancels itself out leaving other placements more pronounced. The house(s) that these placements are located in will also play a role in how that energy manifests. If this person happens to have a Virgo rising then a significant number of her placements could be located in the first house giving a more distinct Aries influence. Having a moon in Sagittarius could also potentially play up those fire traits.

I've come to believe that we can also find the worst parts of ourselves in the negative manifestations of our axis opposites. For a negative Virgo this would appear as the worst traits found in Pisces, which is not at all a slight against Pisces because their worst traits would come from the Virgo end of the axis.

Think laziness, emotional manipulation, mental manipulation, escapist tendencies, lies, etc. There may be some personal aspects at play as well, such as those with the individual's Moon and Mercury.

Lol, I had a feeling but this confirms it. Her b-day is around the 2nd of September in 1987?

Are you sure she has an ascendant of 0?? Aries?

Posted by TMV
If she has "almost all" Virgo placements that would be considered a stellium. Depending on the person, a stellium may actually blow itself out in some cases, something like a short circuit where there is too much energy located in one area so it cancels itself out leaving other placements more pronounced. The house(s) that these placements are located in will also play a role in how that energy manifests. If this person happens to have a Virgo rising then a significant number of her placements could be located in the first house giving a more distinct Aries influence. Having a moon in Sagittarius could also potentially play up those fire traits.

I've come to believe that we can also find the worst parts of ourselves in the negative manifestations of our axis opposites. For a negative Virgo this would appear as the worst traits found in Pisces, which is not at all a slight against Pisces because their worst traits would come from the Virgo end of the axis.

Think laziness, emotional manipulation, mental manipulation, escapist tendencies, lies, etc. There may be some personal aspects at play as well, such as those with the individual's Moon and Mercury.

hmm I never thought of it thay way here is her chart:




Have you ever had a Virgo act this way towards you? and maybe that is why I am sensitive to her because she i refkecting negative Aries or Piscean energy which I have a good amount of each also her North Node is conjunct my Moon that a major synastry aspect right? Also her ascendant may or may not be accurate because I don't know her exact birthtime.

Posted by TMV
Lol, I had a feeling but this confirms it. Her b-day is around the 2nd of September in 1987?

Are you sure she has an ascendant of 0?? Aries?

her birthday is 08/31/1987

Oh snap... I just pulled up her wheel chart. Triple trine going on between her Sun/Venus/Mars and Neptune and Jupiter helping to form a kite with her Aries Jupiter at the apex. Very interesting...

No, I've never had a Virgo act that way towards me personally, but I can tell you that my b-day is fairly close to hers and I've displayed some less than mature behavior on occasion. She could be doing it to screw with you. There's some amount of Uranian influence with this chart, and with that, particularly with the Merc square can come a quirky sense of humor that's difficult for others to understand. She may have gotten some kind of impression that her behavior is acceptable, or perhaps even desirable for some reason.

Or she could just be in a strange place in her life and acting the part of the screwball she feels like. (Like that negative energy manifestation I mentioned earlier.)

This is a good video about Jupiter Rx. With hers being in Aries and in a significant position in her chart (also being in the same sign as her N. Node) it may be helpful in shedding some light on things.

Posted by TMV
This is a good video about Jupiter Rx. With hers being in Aries and in a significant position in her chart (also being in the same sign as her N. Node) it may be helpful in shedding some light on things.

Hmmm very interesting this has given me a new way to look at the situation, she only seems to act the way she does around me, I have jupiter retograde in Scorpio and North Node in Scorpio too, I also am Aries sun and moon with pisces placements, I just don't udnerstand why we effect each other so much/ why she acts so erratically around me it's more than confusing (I'm use to people having strong reactions to me too), Like I said my Moon is conjunt her NN and I have other planets that are interacting with her NN, and my Chiron and MC and IC also interact with a lot of her personal planets.

Ah, yes, I forgot to confirm that Moon/N. Node in synastry is a very attractive aspect. People with those contacts will either find themselves drawn to each other, or repelled by one another depending on the specific situation. Generally speaking, erring towards the point of attraction is a safe bet.

If you have multiple personal placements interacting with that part of her chart it could be drawing that type of energy out of her in your encounters. There are also a few signs that her ascendant could be in which would create a type of mirroring effect. Just for an example, an ascendant in Pisces or that would place her Neptune in the first house may cause this effect where she automatically mirrors those she's around, basically reflecting observed behaviors. Or it could manifest where others see traits in her that aren't necessarily there, seeing what they want to or what they feel rather than the truth of her individual personality.

In that type of case because you're an Aries (and with your Pisces placements) you could be especially prone to seeing those traits in her. It gets tricky without a real birth time.

Posted by TMV
Ah, yes, I forgot to confirm that Moon/N. Node in synastry is a very attractive aspect. People with those contacts will either find themselves drawn to each other, or repelled by one another depending on the specific situation. Generally speaking, erring towards the point of attraction is a safe bet.

If you have multiple personal placements interacting with that part of her chart it could be drawing that type of energy out of her in your encounters. There are also a few signs that her ascendant could be in which would create a type of mirroring effect. Just for an example, an ascendant in Pisces or that would place her Neptune in the first house may cause this effect where she automatically mirrors those she's around, basically reflecting observed behaviors. Or it could manifest where others see traits in her that aren't necessarily there, seeing what they want to or what they feel rather than the truth of her individual personality.

In that type of case because you're an Aries (and with your Pisces placements) you could be especially prone to seeing those traits in her. It gets tricky without a real birth time.

Alright well thank you for taking the time to type all that, All very good advice and it gives me a new perspective on the situation.

I have a saggitarius moon and I remember acting childish with a guy that i liked too much but just didn't know how to have his attention. But I agree this is pretty unusual ! I had a biggggg crush! 🙂

She has the same chat as me except her moon sign is in sag I was born on the 3rd i world look at her moon sign women act more like there moon sign. Plus Virgo Venus can act a Lil silly in love.

Hmm Alright it's just confusing how weird she acts around me.

Anyone's opinion on this would be appreciated =)

I hope my men dont think that I act childish lol.

I think she act like that because she is shy!

Maybe you should tell her how much interested (if you are) in her and I am sure that calms alot.

I know at times I used to say/act a certain way when I was nervous. I have learned to control this alot.

How old is she?

Posted by VirgoCupcake
I think she act like that because she is shy!

Maybe you should tell her how much interested (if you are) in her and I am sure that calms alot.

I know at times I used to say/act a certain way when I was nervous. I have learned to control this alot.

How old is she?

Hmm alright that's probably a good idea . and she's 27.

Seems Virgo women do act childish. I had 2 high jack my thread seeking advice. Seems they just cant help themselves. Now I see why my brother broke up with his. And hes a Scorpio! LMAO!

I struck a nerve 😆

I have never seen Virgo women as childish ever, I love their maturity/intelligence , and this Virgo woman acts just really childish and akward around me it's just confusing.......

I'm a virgo win sag moon. Sometimes there's no rhyme or reason to why I do the things I do. You're reading into it too much. Why don't you straight up ask her if she's flirting with you and see how she reacts.

Posted by bloodflood
I'm a virgo win sag moon. Sometimes there's no rhyme or reason to why I do the things I do. You're reading into it too much. Why don't you straight up ask her if she's flirting with you and see how she reacts.

I guess that would be a good idea, but I'm definitely not reading too much into, I have seen the way she acts around other people and she seems to direct this attitude/behavior towards me.

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Posted by bloodflood
I'm a virgo win sag moon. Sometimes there's no rhyme or reason to why I do the things I do. You're reading into it too much. Why don't you straight up ask her if she's flirting with you and see how she reacts.

I guess that would be a good idea, but I'm definitely not reading too much into, I have seen the way she acts around other people and she seems to direct this attitude/behavior towards me.

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That may be so, but that doesn't necessarily mean she's flirting with you. For example I have an aries friend who I'm playful with but I don't like him in that way so my intentions aren't to flirt with him. I just like him as a person

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Posted by bloodflood
I'm a virgo win sag moon. Sometimes there's no rhyme or reason to why I do the things I do. You're reading into it too much. Why don't you straight up ask her if she's flirting with you and see how she reacts.

I guess that would be a good idea, but I'm definitely not reading too much into, I have seen the way she acts around other people and she seems to direct this attitude/behavior towards me.

That may be so, but that doesn't necessarily mean she's flirting with you. For example I have an aries friend who I'm playful with but I don't like him in that way so my intentions aren't to flirt with him. I just like him as a person

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I guess that could be it but it's hard not to see it was flirting.

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Posted by VirgoCupcake
I think she act like that because she is shy!

Maybe you should tell her how much interested (if you are) in her and I am sure that calms alot.

I know at times I used to say/act a certain way when I was nervous. I have learned to control this alot.

How old is she?

Hmm alright that's probably a good idea . and she's 27.

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Yea my therapist told me and I also realized myself that I tend to say things, that I know stands out just so my feelings wont be hurt.

Ex. If I come over your house and eat some of your food. Then I say I may want some more a few hours later. I will "jokinly" say "I am being greedy huh?". "I am sure you wont want me over here anymore since I keep asking for food". I do that so if I am not invited over anymore then I can say that its because I ate all of your food. Its not logical, and may be dumb to some. But its a defense mechanism, that makes me calm. It makes me speak for the other person. (Which I have no business doing). Who am I to speak about how someone may feel? Maybe because thats something I would be thinking in my head lol. But to men I am sure, its childish, annoying etc. Ive worked on it ALOT. and when I catch myself doing it, I just back off.

With the reassurance the anxiety gets calm and I am sure that the things that annoy you that she may not even know she is even doing will surely decrease. I think its from being shy, to turn the focus else where. Cause when I act like that, I know it was me just being shy. Because I liked the guy a whole lot. Now a man I dont like? I am confident, because if he doesnt want me over his house irdgaf in the 1st place lol. It can be Virgo ppl period. Cause my virgo guy when he come over he would say stuff that would be childish or uncalled for because he felt like he was too much in my space.

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Posted by VirgoCupcake
I think she act like that because she is shy!

Maybe you should tell her how much interested (if you are) in her and I am sure that calms alot.

I know at times I used to say/act a certain way when I was nervous. I have learned to control this alot.

How old is she?

Hmm alright that's probably a good idea . and she's 27.

Yea my therapist told me and I also realized myself that I tend to say things, that I know stands out just so my feelings wont be hurt.

Ex. If I come over your house and eat some of your food. Then I say I may want some more a few hours later. I will "jokinly" say "I am being greedy huh?". "I am sure you wont want me over here anymore since I keep asking for food". I do that so if I am not invited over anymore then I can say that its because I ate all of your food. Its not logical, and may be dumb to some. But its a defense mechanism, that makes me calm. It makes me speak for the other person. (Which I have no business doing). Who am I to speak about how someone may feel? Maybe because thats something I would be thinking in my head lol. But to men I am sure, its childish, annoying etc. Ive worked on it ALOT. and when I catch myself doing it, I just back off.

With the reassurance the anxiety gets calm and I am sure that the things that annoy you that she may not even know she is even doing will surely decrease. I think its from being shy, to turn the focus else where. Cause when I act like that, I know it was me just being shy. Because I liked the guy a whole lot. Now a man I dont like? I am confident, because if he doesnt want me over his house irdgaf in the 1st place lol. It can be Virgo ppl period. Cause my virgo guy when he come over he would say stuff that would be childish or uncalled for because he felt like he was too much in my space.

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Thank you that was very insightful and your probably not as childish as you think, because you actually seem aware of it unlike some people.

Also I never have looked as acting chidish as being shy, but I guess it makes sense in that way.