Wife best friend coming on to me? (Page 2)

Posted by SensitiveBlues

Posted by feby
@iVirgo you would be surprised how many women cheat. It's just more cemented that men cheat but if you look at statistics you can see the real statistics.

don't try to blame women on this cause his sl6tty wife is an aqua.

and her slutty friend is a scorpio

now you're putting bad thoughts in his head.

many of us are loyal...

click to expand

You know iVirgo.. Blues secretly loves Virgos.. it's a love/hate thing. 😉

Posted by SensitiveBlues

Posted by iVirgo
She cheated10years ago but just recently felt the need to tell, after something came out about her ex, he made a comment to her friend so and all her friends knew and she was afraid it would come back to me by second or third party

i personally think you should get over it and move through this, see a therapist, and get back on track with your wife, until she shows you again she can't be trusted.

click to expand

I don't disagree with this. Wife is NOT to be trusted at the moment but I am a firm believer that people can change and I think she does deserve credit for not cheating during marriage... see how flipfloppy Libs are? Can't make up my mind!! Just joking, it's not that. It's just that life is complicated and there are a lot of details to consider.

But do not trust her bestie, ever, ever, ever. She has zero good intentions regarding you.

Posted by iVirgo
The first 2 years were bad, but the last 8 were perfect she was my queen my everything, I couldn't get enough of her, I brought flowers or "I love u card" at one point every other day then monthly then every other month as time passed less and less but I never stopped showing her I loved her.

This here is enough to consider therapy and working through it.

I'm sorry for you .. Ur a victim .. lied to , cheated on and still love that slut and want her back ?.. Omg. . U deserve Ur life... 👎

Posted by Greentea

Posted by iVirgo
She cheated10years ago but just recently felt the need to tell, after something came out about her ex, he made a comment to her friend so and all her friends knew and she was afraid it would come back to me by second or third party

I get it, you're punishing her for a mistake she made a decade ago. It's not right she didn't tell you before, but work in your marriage, establish trust again. She seems to be have been devoted wife and mother since. People tend to forget all the good things a person has done over just 1 mistake. I think you two can move past this.

Scorpio is just using you as opportunity, vulnerable prey to get back at her husband. She has insecurities of her own she has to deal with. Don't let her get between you and your wife.

click to expand

I hope mercurial is right about this. It would obviously make Scorpio the most atrocious friend on the planet. I prefer the idea that she's trying to help her bestie feel you out but idk.. it would be a better situation than yoir wife trying to destroy yoi.

@greentea

I think I am just punishing her for what happened, because I know deep down inside I can't go thru a divorce, unless something else came out that was more recent and deceitful.

@duchesslibro

I'm still considering since I calmed down from the blows to my heart.

Posted by Vegetta91

Posted by duchesslibro

Posted by SensitiveBlues

Posted by iVirgo
She cheated10years ago but just recently felt the need to tell, after something came out about her ex, he made a comment to her friend so and all her friends knew and she was afraid it would come back to me by second or third party

i personally think you should get over it and move through this, see a therapist, and get back on track with your wife, until she shows you again she can't be trusted.

I don't disagree with this. Wife is NOT to be trusted at the moment but I am a firm believer that people can change and I think she does deserve credit for not cheating during marriage... see how flipfloppy Libs are? Can't make up my mind!! Just joking, it's not that. It's just that life is complicated and there are a lot of details to consider.

But do not trust her bestie, ever, ever, ever. She has zero good intentions regarding you.

But is it worth that much effort?

click to expand

Idk.. women can be so crazy. Have you ever known a women. We can be SO CRAZY. lol And the way a Virgo will just cut you off.. the only thing in the world that makes me looney is my Virgo husband giving me The Silent Treatment. Temporary insanity is my reaction. It's so awful and I'm so ashamed to admit it to dxp. lol

Posted by Vegetta91

Posted by Greentea

Posted by iVirgo
She cheated10years ago but just recently felt the need to tell, after something came out about her ex, he made a comment to her friend so and all her friends knew and she was afraid it would come back to me by second or third party

I get it, you're punishing her for a mistake she made a decade ago. It's not right she didn't tell you before, but work in your marriage, establish trust again. She seems to be have been devoted wife and mother since. People tend to forget all the good things a person has done over just 1 mistake. I think you two can move past this.

Scorpio is just using you as opportunity, vulnerable prey to get back at her husband. She has insecurities of her own she has to deal with. Don't let her get between you and your wife.

Once a cheater always a cheater, I have no idea in which world cheating is normal or you should get back together
Mistakes don't exist , cuz you don't just fuck with some one while your married or even when in a relationship
Your trying to cheer up Op but getting back together might work but OP will have to leave with the thought that her wife did that
It's not just one mistake, it's the mistake
Crashing the fucking car that's a mistake fucking with some one else is not

click to expand

He still loves her amd she does as well. Just throw everything away that they've built together because of a mistake she made a decade ago when things have been great until this came out into the open. I'm not saying it'll be an easy road, they need to get past this if they don't wamt to ruin all of what they are.

If they love eachother enough amd are strong enough to forgive and work through it, they can get back on track.

Posted by Vegetta91

Posted by Greentea

Posted by iVirgo
She cheated10years ago but just recently felt the need to tell, after something came out about her ex, he made a comment to her friend so and all her friends knew and she was afraid it would come back to me by second or third party

I get it, you're punishing her for a mistake she made a decade ago. It's not right she didn't tell you before, but work in your marriage, establish trust again. She seems to be have been devoted wife and mother since. People tend to forget all the good things a person has done over just 1 mistake. I think you two can move past this.

Scorpio is just using you as opportunity, vulnerable prey to get back at her husband. She has insecurities of her own she has to deal with. Don't let her get between you and your wife.

Once a cheater always a cheater, I have no idea in which world cheating is normal or you should get back together
Mistakes don't exist , cuz you don't just fuck with some one while your married or even when in a relationship
Your trying to cheer up Op but getting back together might work but OP will have to leave with the thought that her wife did that
It's not just one mistake, it's the mistake
Crashing the fucking car that's a mistake fucking with some one else is not

click to expand

I dont exactly see getting back together as a cheerful situation at this point.. seriously.

Posted by iVirgo
@greentea

I think I am just punishing her for what happened, because I know deep down inside I can't go thru a divorce, unless something else came out that was more recent and deceitful.

@duchesslibro

I'm still considering since I calmed down from the blows to my heart.

I know you are, you're hurting and I get it. Just don't be too cruel with it.

So she text me "why did I forward the DAMN text her husband',

I said "because you are calling and texting to see me at night, giving me compliments about my body that I dnt want hear , and your married, and your my wife friend, if this is a game, I'm not playing I'm not interested period..

Posted by SuperMercurial
If this were to happen to me, I would feel like there should be a statute of limitations on this kind of thing. Weren't the last nine years good?

Previously he was concerned that there might have been more she was hiding. Loss of trust in her word, etc,

Whether you stay together or not, you should definitely do therapy together. If only to make amends, come to a mutual respect and be civil for the children.

Posted by iVirgo
@greentea

I think I am just punishing her for what happened, because I know deep down inside I can't go thru a divorce, unless something else came out that was more recent and deceitful.

@duchesslibro

I'm still considering since I calmed down from the blows to my heart.

Very fair.

Posted by Greentea

Posted by Vegetta91

Posted by Greentea

Posted by iVirgo
She cheated10years ago but just recently felt the need to tell, after something came out about her ex, he made a comment to her friend so and all her friends knew and she was afraid it would come back to me by second or third party

I get it, you're punishing her for a mistake she made a decade ago. It's not right she didn't tell you before, but work in your marriage, establish trust again. She seems to be have been devoted wife and mother since. People tend to forget all the good things a person has done over just 1 mistake. I think you two can move past this.

Scorpio is just using you as opportunity, vulnerable prey to get back at her husband. She has insecurities of her own she has to deal with. Don't let her get between you and your wife.

Once a cheater always a cheater, I have no idea in which world cheating is normal or you should get back together
Mistakes don't exist , cuz you don't just fuck with some one while your married or even when in a relationship
Your trying to cheer up Op but getting back together might work but OP will have to leave with the thought that her wife did that
It's not just one mistake, it's the mistake
Crashing the fucking car that's a mistake fucking with some one else is not

He still loves her amd she does as well. Just throw everything away that they've built together because of a mistake she made a decade ago when things have been great until this came out into the open. I'm not saying it'll be an easy road, they need to get past this if they don't wamt to ruin all of what they are.

If they love eachother enough amd are strong enough to forgive and work through it, they can get back on track.

click to expand

All of this is 100% why you SHOULD NOT RESPOND to the friend. AT ALL. Don't do it ivirgo.

Why can't you simply tell the Scorp to feck off man, now you're creating more headaches for yourself.

Here's the deal with my wife why I dnt want lose her, or judge her by her past when she slept with a lot of guys which I stated in y earlier post on aqua forum, but I am angry still at her action

These are sensitive details and information but I know this is all done behind avatars and to stranger I will never meet, but you guys are giving me good feed back, and also to understand why I want it to work is because she was damaged prior to meeting me.

Here we go....

She was rapped when she was 9years old by her friends father, he knocked her out unconscious, she woke up in the back seat of his with a cover over her and with a bad headache, she looked around and stared crying, she was in a empty car parked in a gas station she opens the door and walked into the gas station with swollen face yo the clerk, her friends father was in the gas station he fled after that.they caught him months later and he got 2 years in prison.she never had real therapy, because she moved from state to state.

Posted by SuperMercurial

Posted by Greentea

Posted by Vegetta91

Posted by Greentea

Posted by iVirgo
She cheated10years ago but just recently felt the need to tell, after something came out about her ex, he made a comment to her friend so and all her friends knew and she was afraid it would come back to me by second or third party

I get it, you're punishing her for a mistake she made a decade ago. It's not right she didn't tell you before, but work in your marriage, establish trust again. She seems to be have been devoted wife and mother since. People tend to forget all the good things a person has done over just 1 mistake. I think you two can move past this.

Scorpio is just using you as opportunity, vulnerable prey to get back at her husband. She has insecurities of her own she has to deal with. Don't let her get between you and your wife.

Once a cheater always a cheater, I have no idea in which world cheating is normal or you should get back together
Mistakes don't exist , cuz you don't just fuck with some one while your married or even when in a relationship
Your trying to cheer up Op but getting back together might work but OP will have to leave with the thought that her wife did that
It's not just one mistake, it's the mistake
Crashing the fucking car that's a mistake fucking with some one else is not

He still loves her amd she does as well. Just throw everything away that they've built together because of a mistake she made a decade ago when things have been great until this came out into the open. I'm not saying it'll be an easy road, they need to get past this if they don't wamt to ruin all of what they are.

If they love eachother enough amd are strong enough to forgive and work through it, they can get back on track.

Have you ever been cheated on? The thing that hurts the most is the part where they lied to your face for months.

click to expand

Yes I have, and didn't know for a long time, and didn't even find out about it through him. So I know how he feels, it's not easy. I'm trying to put myself in his shoes, with the timeline, what they've built, family, children, how they've been since, etc. That's what I would do, I would work on trust level again and assurance, if everything else was good. Why throw all of it away.

"Is it worse than the Piscean silent treatment or the same?" Vegetta91

I have no idea, never gotten a Pisces Silent Tx before. (Used to work in medical. Tx = treatment)

Virgo Silent Tx is like this: Virgo appears completely pulled together and cold, even if they are very upset. They speak rationally and ignore your feelings.

It's so terrible because when I am angry I have two modes.. first my cold Cap Mars and piercing words. This does not work on him at all. He is not at all phased. So then my Scorpio bits come out and he eventually reacts because.. Scorpio energy digs and digs until the other person cracks.

We don't fight often and nothing serious has ever come of it. It doesn't last long and usually we tend to understand eachother on a deeper level after. Having so much Scorp energy in me I happen to belong to the side that believes arguments can be helpful and healthy and useful for growth. But that's another discussion. Back to the topic at hand..

*to

It's ok , it's an old story... plus , how many showers she took since then.. ?! .. forgive her.. please ..the sin is too old to be counted .. this post makes me sick
..lmao ..
I would rather respect a man who would kick me out of his life for being a slut , than taking me back and losing my respect for him forever ..

Posted by SuperMercurial

Posted by Greentea

Posted by Vegetta91

Posted by Greentea

Posted by iVirgo
She cheated10years ago but just recently felt the need to tell, after something came out about her ex, he made a comment to her friend so and all her friends knew and she was afraid it would come back to me by second or third party

I get it, you're punishing her for a mistake she made a decade ago. It's not right she didn't tell you before, but work in your marriage, establish trust again. She seems to be have been devoted wife and mother since. People tend to forget all the good things a person has done over just 1 mistake. I think you two can move past this.

Scorpio is just using you as opportunity, vulnerable prey to get back at her husband. She has insecurities of her own she has to deal with. Don't let her get between you and your wife.

Once a cheater always a cheater, I have no idea in which world cheating is normal or you should get back together
Mistakes don't exist , cuz you don't just fuck with some one while your married or even when in a relationship
Your trying to cheer up Op but getting back together might work but OP will have to leave with the thought that her wife did that
It's not just one mistake, it's the mistake
Crashing the fucking car that's a mistake fucking with some one else is not

He still loves her amd she does as well. Just throw everything away that they've built together because of a mistake she made a decade ago when things have been great until this came out into the open. I'm not saying it'll be an easy road, they need to get past this if they don't wamt to ruin all of what they are.

If they love eachother enough amd are strong enough to forgive and work through it, they can get back on track.

Have you ever been cheated on? The thing that hurts the most is the part where they lied to your face for months.

click to expand

*Years. She hid the truth for years. It took months to fully come out once she decided she needed to say something and started to confess.

I've placed in that info because on the last post and in this one people continue to call her a slut if she is I dnt care, because I know she is not she was just confused but it doesn't make it right to lie and cheat on me.

Posted by Vegetta91

Posted by iVirgo
So she text me "why did I forward the DAMN text her husband',

I said "because you are calling and texting to see me at night, giving me compliments about my body that I dnt want hear , and your married, and your my wife friend, if this is a game, I'm not playing I'm not interested period..

Ah Scorps . scorps playing games
You did the right thing

click to expand

Well that's one way to deal with.

But for real ivirgo. That was enough.

Now you should completely ignore her.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
lol grabs popcorn....

I think maybe YOU are addicted to Virgo drama 😉

Posted by feby
She asked you why you sent it, you responded. Don't continue the drama. Your message is clear at this point. @iVirgo

+1 billion

I got get my work finish I'll continue to read but won't post til later.

Posted by SensitiveBlues

Posted by feby
And I have a feeling there's a lot more she hasn't said and revealed. You both need therapy OP. Do it for your children if you can't do it for yourself.

Her leaving the house for something she did 10 years AGO

tells me there is ALOT of something going on.

i would have fought and stayed in my house and been like i made a mistake, but i am here for you, and have never repeated it.

I think she found a Simp and used him

click to expand

I think he kicked her out, she probably tried to state her case...is that right OP?

Posted by feby

Posted by SuperMercurial

Posted by duchesslibro
I agree with @supermercurial. Don't respond in any way to the looming mega-disaster involving bestie Scorpio.

First if all.. this applies to both Scorpio and Aqua.. if you fuck with them they will stop at NOTHING to DESTROY you. I am so fucking serious. My hunch is that these two women are in cahoots to ruin you and you simply ignore the Scorpio. Period. End of story.

When revenge is on the menu Scorp and Aqua are the most dangerous signs. They are smart and irrational. Just don't. Don't even mention to her husband. You will regret it.

This. Hopefully your wife doesn't side with the scorpio now that you've angered the stinger.

If she does, good riddance. He has the upper hand.

click to expand

ONLY if he cuts the Scorpio off now and treads lightly and watches his back.... otherwise he is toast.

@iVirgo.. don't assume you can trust anyone right now. They could find another chick to attempt to entice you to cheat. Seriously DO NOT sleep with anyone.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
if a dirty azz old man put his thing on you as a child, why in the hell would you give up your cookies to randoms and be used as a sex tool, id think you would want to protect yourself even more.

now i could understand intimacy issues, that makes sense...or even hate for men in general....

I completely agree. I don't understand it at all..

Posted by SensitiveBlues

Posted by Greentea

Posted by SensitiveBlues

Posted by feby
And I have a feeling there's a lot more she hasn't said and revealed. You both need therapy OP. Do it for your children if you can't do it for yourself.

Her leaving the house for something she did 10 years AGO

tells me there is ALOT of something going on.

i would have fought and stayed in my house and been like i made a mistake, but i am here for you, and have never repeated it.

I think she found a Simp and used him

I think he kicked her out, she probably tried to state her case...is that right OP?

a man ain't kicking me out from my home or children unless there's extreme guilt

click to expand

We weren't there, he probably said some hateful words that made her feel that way. Who knows..or perhaps she felt bad after all that was said by him and thought it woukd be best to go for a while until things settled down. Who knows, we're not in their home or even know them.

Posted by iVirgo
I've placed in that info because on the last post and in this one people continue to call her a slut if she is I dnt care, because I know she is not she was just confused but it doesn't make it right to lie and cheat on me.

You're a good man for caring for your wife.

Therapy Therapy Therapy.

Cannot stress it enough.

Posted by SensitiveBlues

Posted by duchesslibro

Posted by SensitiveBlues
lol grabs popcorn....

I think maybe YOU are addicted to Virgo drama 😉

Virgos are just retarded. they just don't know what's good for them.

A CRAB lol🙂

click to expand

lol

Posted by Vegetta91

Posted by duchesslibro
"Is it worse than the Piscean silent treatment or the same?" Vegetta91

I have no idea, never gotten a Pisces Silent Tx before. (Used to work in medical. Tx = treatment)

Virgo Silent Tx is like this: Virgo appears completely pulled together and cold, even if they are very upset. They speak rationally and ignore your feelings.

It's so terrible because when I am angry I have two modes.. first my cold Cap Mars and piercing words. This does not work on him at all. He is not at all phased. So then my Scorpio bits come out and he eventually reacts because.. Scorpio energy digs and digs until the other person cracks.

We don't fight often and nothing serious has ever come of it. It doesn't last long and usually we tend to understand eachother on a deeper level after. Having so much Scorp energy in me I happen to belong to the side that believes arguments can be helpful and healthy and useful for growth. But that's another discussion. Back to the topic at hand..

Well Piscean treatment goes something like this: You upset me or do something against me and i will do anything within my power to destroy you, cold stares, no emotion stuff like that mostly

click to expand

Nah.. I don't think Virgos really go into destruction mode. They are too rational usually. Although I do know one crazy ass Virgo female. She is V/Leo cusper but I am unclear on the rest of her chart. Aqua moon I think.

Posted by Vegetta91

Posted by duchesslibro

Posted by Vegetta91

Posted by iVirgo
So she text me "why did I forward the DAMN text her husband',

I said "because you are calling and texting to see me at night, giving me compliments about my body that I dnt want hear , and your married, and your my wife friend, if this is a game, I'm not playing I'm not interested period..

Ah Scorps . scorps playing games
You did the right thing

Well that's one way to deal with.

But for real ivirgo. That was enough.

Now you should completely ignore her.

OP had to do it to find out where he stand on this whole mess, he should stop now that's true but he had to know

click to expand

Yeah agreed.

Posted by Vegetta91

Posted by Greentea

Posted by SensitiveBlues

Posted by Greentea

Posted by SensitiveBlues

Posted by feby
And I have a feeling there's a lot more she hasn't said and revealed. You both need therapy OP. Do it for your children if you can't do it for yourself.

Her leaving the house for something she did 10 years AGO

tells me there is ALOT of something going on.

i would have fought and stayed in my house and been like i made a mistake, but i am here for you, and have never repeated it.

I think she found a Simp and used him

I think he kicked her out, she probably tried to state her case...is that right OP?

a man ain't kicking me out from my home or children unless there's extreme guilt

We weren't there, he probably said some ateful words that made her feel that way. Who knows..or perhaps she felt bad after all was said and thought it woukd be best to go for a while until things settled down. Who knows, we're not in their home or even know them.

Yes but whatever OP could have said she should have accepted because he had the right to, being lied to, cheated on, now a puppet in a game he doesn't understand(neither do I because I don't understand why she wants back now) but we need a scorp here cuz he/she knows these kind of things
Emotional manipulations? Regret? Fucking up OP's life? very likely
You don't make mistakes like that and want to come back unless OP is fine with that

click to expand

He has a right to be angry, not disagreeing woth that at all, amd I would've left too if that's what he wanted, even after I would've told him it was a mistake, I'm not that person, amd I have always love and only ever wamted him, etc.

I wouldn't force myself to stay in a house that I'm not welcomed to, I think I woukd do whatever it took, whatever he felt like he needed me to do to stay with me because I wouldn't want anyone else. I wouldn't fight him because of my ego, it's his ego amd heart i hurt, not mine. People need time to get over this kind of stuff.

Posted by SensitiveBlues

Posted by duchesslibro

Posted by feby

Posted by SuperMercurial

Posted by duchesslibro
I agree with @supermercurial. Don't respond in any way to the looming mega-disaster involving bestie Scorpio.

First if all.. this applies to both Scorpio and Aqua.. if you fuck with them they will stop at NOTHING to DESTROY you. I am so fucking serious. My hunch is that these two women are in cahoots to ruin you and you simply ignore the Scorpio. Period. End of story.

When revenge is on the menu Scorp and Aqua are the most dangerous signs. They are smart and irrational. Just don't. Don't even mention to her husband. You will regret it.

This. Hopefully your wife doesn't side with the scorpio now that you've angered the stinger.

If she does, good riddance. He has the upper hand.

ONLY if he cuts the Scorpio off now and treads lightly and watches his back.... otherwise he is toast.

@iVirgo.. don't assume you can trust anyone right now. They could find another chick to attempt to entice you to cheat. Seriously DO NOT sleep with anyone.

Scorpios aren';t that crazy okay not to an Insane Crab with 5 fire placements.

They don't scare me and neither should they scare the OP

but i would have iced the Scorpio so cold. she wouldn't have seen the Winter coming.

You don't give room to anybody to come at you.

okay im in a military mind state right now

come at me dawg

click to expand

No way. A rational Virgo should DEFINITELY be nervous about an angry Scorp and/or Aqua because the Virgo is simply too rational to foresee what these women are capable of and can easily fall into a trap and get screwed over big time.

CC, you're a crab, you've got water intuition. OP is Earth and Air with if I recall correctly now, a Leo Mars maybe? Don't hit on him though. I see that twinkle in your eye. lol

Posted by SensitiveBlues

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
"Another legacy of sexual abuse is that children abused at any early age often become hyper-sexualized or sexually reactive. Issues with promiscuity and poor self-esteem are unfortunately common reactions to early sexual abuse."
- I know your wife is wrong for what she did and how she lied to you, but after what you told me about her past I deeply empathize with her. I empathize with both of you.



https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/somatic-psychology/201303/trauma-childhood-sexual-abuse

this is just complete BS. When do people take ownership of their lives?

click to expand

They can take ownership once they get their head on straight sure.... but most probably never seek help so they just wander around life confused and resentful spreading the bad karma. It's very sad and there's no simple solution.

Posted by Vegetta91
Greentea

I agree but she has to make it up to OP if he even wants that at all, but using her friend and all that bullshit
Part of a game I'm sure , using the Scorp bitch to find out if he would cheat on her or some shit

I honestly don't think that's the case. I think scorp is just trying to use this as an opportunity. Playing the white knight role to get back some control of her own.

Posted by SensitiveBlues
The more i think about it.

i think him telling the Scorpios husband beautiful.

I would have been choking with laughter afterwards.

that's what her punk azz manipulative soul gets.

she got checked so hard and so cold.

i love it.

True.

But one possibility could be the Scorp told her husband, "Chill out husband. I'm just testing iVirgo for my friend Aqua. Ain't no thing."

She totally got checked though. I just hope she doesn't backlash over it.

Posted by Vegetta91
Greentea

I agree but she has to make it up to OP if he even wants that at all, but using her friend and all that bullshit
Part of a game I'm sure , using the Scorp bitch to find out if he would cheat on her or some shit

This isn't a fact, for the record. It is simply a theory I presented to OP to give him an idea of what he could possibly be dealing with for the sake of being cautious and protecting himself and the interests of his family and what he likely hopes to salvage from the mess.

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX

Posted by SensitiveBlues

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX

Posted by SensitiveBlues

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
"Another legacy of sexual abuse is that children abused at any early age often become hyper-sexualized or sexually reactive. Issues with promiscuity and poor self-esteem are unfortunately common reactions to early sexual abuse."
- I know your wife is wrong for what she did and how she lied to you, but after what you told me about her past I deeply empathize with her. I empathize with both of you.



https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/somatic-psychology/201303/trauma-childhood-sexual-abuse

this is just complete BS. When do people take ownership of their lives?

It doesn't absolve her of her selfishness. I'm not saying what she did was ok young crab. What I'm saying is that I UNDERSTAND why she probably is the way that she is and because of that I can empathize with her. I don't support her actions, but I do understand why she is how she is. It's funny because one of my close friends is an Aquarius who was also raped at a young age by an older cousin. She too, is sexually promiscuous and has sabotaged past relationships by cheating. She feels extremely bad for doing the things that she's done and she hates herself for it. She just doesn't know how to have proper relationships with men. Her mind is all messed up. My friend is a good person and she has a good heart, but she's battling a lot of demons on the inside. This is why I can empathize with iVirgo's wife. I'm not ok with what she did by any means, but I do feel for her.

i might write young but im pretty old. older then you.

Yes you do write young. I thought you were around 19 years of age with the way you speak and write lol. Young spirited.

click to expand

lol it's true. Back when she was CC I imagined her as a young, wealthy, Jewish princess type bouncing around NYC or London or some other major city all spoiled and always mad at her Virgo for no good reason. Hahaha. #confessions lol

@sensitiveblues

His birth day is coming up January 29th dnt know the year he looks mid 40s late 30s

@Alicia

Thank you I always felt something was missing in her life. Her child hood snatched away, I felt a need to protect her when she first told me I wanted find the guy and put my hands on him myself I still do.

Posted by iVirgo
@sensitiveblues

His birth day is coming up January 29th dnt know the year he looks mid 40s late 30s

All we can know is his sun is Aqua and they are all potentially more dangerous than you. Godspeed iVirgo.

Posted by faceroll

Posted by Vegetta91

Posted by faceroll
i could only get to page 4 before i gave up reading this thread.

these hos, man.

why not try for a threesome? it's not like any of the women involved have any kind of integrity at all.

everyone involved likes banging people they're not married to. maybe invite the scorpios husband too.

just remember to not cross swords.

that's a little gay.

Not sure if your sarcastic or really saying what you mean
If you are well shame on you...

i was joking because of how ridiculous this seems. this is some days of our lives/jerry springer shit.

i'm not entirely sure this isn't a troll thread.

do people really have lives like this? LOL.

click to expand

I was thinking more Desperate Housewives than Springer. The details indicate to me that iVirgo is likely very well off financially. He and wife both have Cap Moons, he is a self-labeled workaholic Virgo, they all know eachother from college, wife is staying in her parents 5 bedroom house, iVirgo doesn't want to spend $ 90 a night on a hotel but didn't say he couldn't. Sounds like money to me.

@duchesslibro

I'm not worrying about, I simply informed him, if he feels some type of way that's his wife he needs to get answers from. If asks me anything I will gladly tell him, he knows the story of our friendship in the past, hell..he cheats on her with women he works with, and has a child out of wedlock during his marriage, if he feels the need to step to me that's find 1 thing I won't do is back down from a fight....especially if I tried to help him become enlighten on what his wife is doing. If she was setting me up that's cool it didn't work, if she was seriously trying to hook that's cool it didn't work either. They keep that away from me...right now I'm just thinking of my wife and only her.

Posted by Vegetta91

Posted by SensitiveBlues

Posted by iVirgo
@sensitiveblues

His birth day is coming up January 29th dnt know the year he looks mid 40s late 30s

damn if i was scorpio id chase you too, aqua no way in hell

What;s wrong with aquas?
The one i know was retarded , well oh well

click to expand

Can be super cold and SUPER mean and very irrational. Seems counterintuitive but too much logic can be a major problem for rationality.

But many are very sweet, kind people. Flowingwater for example. Idk what happened to her..

Posted by Vegetta91

Posted by WhiteChocolate
We can sit here and debate motivation all day, but when it comes down to it, this guy has unwittingly surrounded himself with oversexed assholes with poor character who aren't adult enough to keep their pants zipped.

So make the best out of it?

click to expand

Your first film could be a porn.

*Laughs*
*Grimaces at how my own bizarre humor offends my own Libra parts*
lol

Posted by iVirgo
@duchesslibro

I'm not worrying about, I simply informed him, if he feels some type of way that's his wife he needs to get answers from. If asks me anything I will gladly tell him, he knows the story of our friendship in the past, hell..he cheats on her with women he works with, and has a child out of wedlock during his marriage, if he feels the need to step to me that's find 1 thing I won't do is back down from a fight....especially if I tried to help him become enlighten on what his wife is doing. If she was setting me up that's cool it didn't work, if she was seriously trying to hook that's cool it didn't work either. They keep that away from me...right now I'm just thinking of my wife and only her.

Good move iVirgo. Way to keep your own ducks in a row.

Posted by Vegetta91

Posted by SensitiveBlues

Posted by WhiteChocolate
We can sit here and debate motivation all day, but when it comes down to it, this guy has unwittingly surrounded himself with oversexed assholes with poor character who aren't adult enough to keep their pants zipped.

he calls these dysfunctional people friends.

Shht. porn movie in progress but I don't have a title yet
Maybe the Dysfunctional friend strikes back🙂) ,

click to expand

Haha, terrible name but there it might appeal to some people... lol