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Posted by Vegetta91Haha. No. I have zero interest in sexual exploitation of emotionally disturbed individuals. And the thought of sex with friends is super weird. Not at all enticing.Posted by duchesslibroGot you interested ?🙂)Posted by Vegetta91Haha, terrible name but there it might appeal to some people... lolPosted by SensitiveBluesShht. porn movie in progress but I don't have a title yetPosted by WhiteChocolatehe calls these dysfunctional people friends.
We can sit here and debate motivation all day, but when it comes down to it, this guy has unwittingly surrounded himself with oversexed assholes with poor character who aren't adult enough to keep their pants zipped.
Maybe the Dysfunctional friend strikes back🙂) ,click to expand
Lol my life is not a porno
Posted by P-AngelThe original saga is posted on the Aqua board. Basically his wife cheated ten years ago when they were dating in college before they got married and had children and OP is disillusioned and hurt because she never told him the truth until very recently. Her confession came because their friends caught wind because one of her old flings spilled the beans and she feared he would learn the truth through the grapevine.
I read beginning and end .. so somewhere in the middle, the point of this thread changed.
From how you described this lady in the beginning ... it appears as though you're encouraging her by accepting her communication to you, she can only be in your house because you opened your door to her.
Then we find out that there's this whole dramatic saga attached, that you've obviously been equally participating in.
Why did your wife cheat on you? What was her reason?
Posted by iVirgoNobody's gonna trust Virgo males.. Everything is your fault. Don't tell me that you were the best husband ever and never cheated on your wife, cause it would be total lie.. You guys love making people fool,. I bet you were flirting lot with other women and even had physical relationships , . Not my business, I just don't trust you
Lately I have been dealing with a lot in my marriage, due to lies, secrets and affair on my Aqua wife part , so I ask my wife to leave, and I m now taking care of my oldest 3 children.
That's the run down....
But my wife's BEST friend a who is Scorpio(Oct 30 1970) has stopped by 4 times recently, 1 looking for my wife 2end to pick some stuff up, last 2 times we talked in the living room, and she said she could relate to how I felt, because her husband of 15years cheated on her repeatedly, and how much she hated him for it, and she is planning on leaving him. My wife friend has been texting me the past 2 days none stop, compliments, how my wife has a good thing but messed up, last night I had a 2 missed calls and a text at 1am from her saying" I need c u can I stop by, its important" she wants to see me at 1am??...and her husband works night, plus I know him well enough, to say something to him.
But If she is coming on to me I dnt like it, shes my wife best friend but I also feel like maybe in awsy it's a set up, but my wife wouldn't play games to test my trust.
It's just weird are women that scandalous.
And
Should I tell my wife
Should I tell her husband
Or should i just keep it to myself since everyone else around me has secrets.
Posted by Vegetta91OP feels protective of his wife because she was raped as a child.Posted by duchesslibroAnd something about rapePosted by P-AngelThe original saga is posted on the Aqua board. Basically his wife cheated ten years ago when they were dating in college before they got married and had children and OP is disillusioned and hurt because she never told him the truth until very recently. Her confession came because their friends caught wind because one of her old flings spilled the beans and she feared he would learn the truth through the grapevine.
I read beginning and end .. so somewhere in the middle, the point of this thread changed.
From how you described this lady in the beginning ... it appears as though you're encouraging her by accepting her communication to you, she can only be in your house because you opened your door to her.
Then we find out that there's this whole dramatic saga attached, that you've obviously been equally participating in.
Why did your wife cheat on you? What was her reason?click to expand
Be gentle P.
I just cannot begin to imagine how any person could partner with another who is only honest because they have to be.
Posted by pisceanlovesOh for goodness sakes. Dumb.Posted by iVirgoNobody's gonna trust Virgo males.. Everything is your fault. Don't tell me that you were the best husband ever and never cheated on your wife, cause it would be total lie.. You guys love making people fool,. I bet you were flirting lot with other women and even had physical relationships , . Not my business, I just don't trust you
Lately I have been dealing with a lot in my marriage, due to lies, secrets and affair on my Aqua wife part , so I ask my wife to leave, and I m now taking care of my oldest 3 children.
That's the run down....
But my wife's BEST friend a who is Scorpio(Oct 30 1970) has stopped by 4 times recently, 1 looking for my wife 2end to pick some stuff up, last 2 times we talked in the living room, and she said she could relate to how I felt, because her husband of 15years cheated on her repeatedly, and how much she hated him for it, and she is planning on leaving him. My wife friend has been texting me the past 2 days none stop, compliments, how my wife has a good thing but messed up, last night I had a 2 missed calls and a text at 1am from her saying" I need c u can I stop by, its important" she wants to see me at 1am??...and her husband works night, plus I know him well enough, to say something to him.
But If she is coming on to me I dnt like it, shes my wife best friend but I also feel like maybe in awsy it's a set up, but my wife wouldn't play games to test my trust.
It's just weird are women that scandalous.
And
Should I tell my wife
Should I tell her husband
Or should i just keep it to myself since everyone else around me has secrets.click to expand
Being raped as a child doesn't create whorism
Posted by P-AngelYeah. That's one of the major problems. But from the sound of it OP really loves his wife and she's been a good wife since they got serious, married, etc. Or should I say since She got serious.. obviously the lines between casual and exclusivity were blurry in the beginning..
I just cannot begin to imagine how any person could partner with another who is only honest because they have to be.
Posted by cosmicbutterYou act like divorce and the complications and sadness with children involved is the easy answer to a happier life.Posted by iVirgoWhy do you virgoes make a simple decision so complicated...why do you virgoes CHOOSE a sad life when you could do better.. I know some of you who are just carrying on with their sad/bad lives ...i tell you why? Coz that's what they r used to ...rut! And they dread any change.
I'm just ignoring her I feel I need to tell my wife, but I'm set at her so not right now,I'll wait to see how all this plays out with my marriage if I should feel compelled to tell her. I honestly do not want a divorce because I love her, but I dnt know if I can forgive her.
Her friend is something else I hope it's not true when they say "birds of a feather flock together"click to expand
Posted by Vegetta91I knew someone would misinterpret that. I wasn't suggesting money is a huge factor in his decision.. I was just saying it sounds more Desperate Housewives than Jerry Springer. lolPosted by duchesslibroI think it;s more than love, afraid of losing her that he will never find some one else like her or somethingPosted by P-AngelYeah. That's one of the major problems. But from the sound of it OP really loves his wife and she's been a good wife since they got serious, married, etc. Or should I say since She got serious.. obviously the lines between casual and exclusivity were blurry in the beginning..
I just cannot begin to imagine how any person could partner with another who is only honest because they have to be.
Or somebody suggested money but whatever the case..click to expand
Posted by cosmicbutterSome people can keep things secret from their children.Posted by duchesslibroLike the children have not already seen enough! SmhPosted by cosmicbutterYou act like divorce and the complications and sadness with children involved is the easy answer to a happier life.Posted by iVirgoWhy do you virgoes make a simple decision so complicated...why do you virgoes CHOOSE a sad life when you could do better.. I know some of you who are just carrying on with their sad/bad lives ...i tell you why? Coz that's what they r used to ...rut! And they dread any change.
I'm just ignoring her I feel I need to tell my wife, but I'm set at her so not right now,I'll wait to see how all this plays out with my marriage if I should feel compelled to tell her. I honestly do not want a divorce because I love her, but I dnt know if I can forgive her.
Her friend is something else I hope it's not true when they say "birds of a feather flock together"click to expand
Being raped is a very private thing. It is so personal that a lot of women don't even seek help, or justice.
Coming to a forum to make a public announcement about it is NOT protecting the wife. Quite the opposite to be exact.
You have in your mind that to protect her means to stand a ground of territory .. and that's all fine and dandy for you being a dude.
But, she's not a guy. to protect her about a topic as sensitive as that means to NOT talk about it to other people because as her protector you should understand that it's too personal to discuss openly - unless of course, she is ready to discuss.
So, don't think you're going to come in here and tell us that you are treating her like a dude ... while you're completely surprised that she got disillusioned by you and sought out attention from another.
I'm not condoning her cheating by any means .... but, what I am doing is saying that you're exploiting her by telling us something you're not allowed to reveal, and you have no clue that you're not suppose to exploit her like that ... so my point is that your insensitivity likely drove her away.
And if you want to deal with the real truth ... then I suggest you taking your blinders off so that you will recognize the truth.
^^^ We've already been over this. Those of us that do not have Pisces Venus do not find it at all offensive that he is sharing his experience with strangers on the internet.
Posted by duchesslibroahaha you talking about yourself? if you don't like anything go to hell just, no need to answer stupid. I just know them very good. You just seem like licking that guys butt have no idea why, I didn't read all your shit 😛Posted by pisceanlovesOh for goodness sakes. Dumb.Posted by iVirgoNobody's gonna trust Virgo males.. Everything is your fault. Don't tell me that you were the best husband ever and never cheated on your wife, cause it would be total lie.. You guys love making people fool,. I bet you were flirting lot with other women and even had physical relationships , . Not my business, I just don't trust you
Lately I have been dealing with a lot in my marriage, due to lies, secrets and affair on my Aqua wife part , so I ask my wife to leave, and I m now taking care of my oldest 3 children.
That's the run down....
But my wife's BEST friend a who is Scorpio(Oct 30 1970) has stopped by 4 times recently, 1 looking for my wife 2end to pick some stuff up, last 2 times we talked in the living room, and she said she could relate to how I felt, because her husband of 15years cheated on her repeatedly, and how much she hated him for it, and she is planning on leaving him. My wife friend has been texting me the past 2 days none stop, compliments, how my wife has a good thing but messed up, last night I had a 2 missed calls and a text at 1am from her saying" I need c u can I stop by, its important" she wants to see me at 1am??...and her husband works night, plus I know him well enough, to say something to him.
But If she is coming on to me I dnt like it, shes my wife best friend but I also feel like maybe in awsy it's a set up, but my wife wouldn't play games to test my trust.
It's just weird are women that scandalous.
And
Should I tell my wife
Should I tell her husband
Or should i just keep it to myself since everyone else around me has secrets.click to expand
Posted by iVirgoyou obviously have something to do with her texting you at 1 am...
Lately I have been dealing with a lot in my marriage, due to lies, secrets and affair on my Aqua wife part , so I ask my wife to leave, and I m now taking care of my oldest 3 children.
That's the run down....
But my wife's BEST friend a who is Scorpio(Oct 30 1970) has stopped by 4 times recently, 1 looking for my wife 2end to pick some stuff up, last 2 times we talked in the living room, and she said she could relate to how I felt, because her husband of 15years cheated on her repeatedly, and how much she hated him for it, and she is planning on leaving him. My wife friend has been texting me the past 2 days none stop, compliments, how my wife has a good thing but messed up, last night I had a 2 missed calls and a text at 1am from her saying" I need c u can I stop by, its important" she wants to see me at 1am??...and her husband works night, plus I know him well enough, to say something to him.
But If she is coming on to me I dnt like it, shes my wife best friend but I also feel like maybe in awsy it's a set up, but my wife wouldn't play games to test my trust.
It's just weird are women that scandalous.
And
Should I tell my wife
Should I tell her husband
Or should i just keep it to myself since everyone else around me has secrets.
Posted by duchesslibroReferring to @P-angel 's comment
^^^ We've already been over this. Those of us that do not have Pisces Venus do not find it at all offensive that he is sharing his experience with strangers on the internet.
Posted by Vegetta91I never understand this. How does money ever trump everything else? Does not compute. So stupid.Posted by duchesslibroOh that was you 🙂, but anywayPosted by Vegetta91I knew someone would misinterpret that. I wasn't suggesting money is a huge factor in his decision.. I was just saying it sounds more Desperate Housewives than Jerry Springer. lolPosted by duchesslibroI think it;s more than love, afraid of losing her that he will never find some one else like her or somethingPosted by P-AngelYeah. That's one of the major problems. But from the sound of it OP really loves his wife and she's been a good wife since they got serious, married, etc. Or should I say since She got serious.. obviously the lines between casual and exclusivity were blurry in the beginning..
I just cannot begin to imagine how any person could partner with another who is only honest because they have to be.
Or somebody suggested money but whatever the case..
So maybe divorce is not an option because of the money cuz they have to split thingsclick to expand
@Piscenanlove
I never said I was the best or made out that I was the best I admit the first 2 years were bad and I wasn't aware she cheated, it was just bad time in our lives, I didn't understand her she didn't understand me, but I never was physically abusive, verbally yes.
I flirted but that's were I left it. If I wanted something physical my wife was more then enough she had me sprung. It's hard to think about any body else when u got kids, work, and sexy wife who took care of me...
I think it's the fact she took care of me I just realize she did everything I was to busy to do.
I never said I was the best or made out that I was the best I admit the first 2 years were bad and I wasn't aware she cheated, it was just bad time in our lives, I didn't understand her she didn't understand me, but I never was physically abusive, verbally yes.
I flirted but that's were I left it. If I wanted something physical my wife was more then enough she had me sprung. It's hard to think about any body else when u got kids, work, and sexy wife who took care of me...
I think it's the fact she took care of me I just realize she did everything I was to busy to do.
Posted by pisceanlovesLumping all men of a particular Sun sign into all of what you said is ridiculous.Posted by duchesslibroahaha you talking about yourself? if you don't like anything go to hell just, no need to answer stupid. I just know them very good. You just seem like licking that guys butt have no idea why, I didn't read all your shit 😛Posted by pisceanlovesOh for goodness sakes. Dumb.Posted by iVirgoNobody's gonna trust Virgo males.. Everything is your fault. Don't tell me that you were the best husband ever and never cheated on your wife, cause it would be total lie.. You guys love making people fool,. I bet you were flirting lot with other women and even had physical relationships , . Not my business, I just don't trust you
Lately I have been dealing with a lot in my marriage, due to lies, secrets and affair on my Aqua wife part , so I ask my wife to leave, and I m now taking care of my oldest 3 children.
That's the run down....
But my wife's BEST friend a who is Scorpio(Oct 30 1970) has stopped by 4 times recently, 1 looking for my wife 2end to pick some stuff up, last 2 times we talked in the living room, and she said she could relate to how I felt, because her husband of 15years cheated on her repeatedly, and how much she hated him for it, and she is planning on leaving him. My wife friend has been texting me the past 2 days none stop, compliments, how my wife has a good thing but messed up, last night I had a 2 missed calls and a text at 1am from her saying" I need c u can I stop by, its important" she wants to see me at 1am??...and her husband works night, plus I know him well enough, to say something to him.
But If she is coming on to me I dnt like it, shes my wife best friend but I also feel like maybe in awsy it's a set up, but my wife wouldn't play games to test my trust.
It's just weird are women that scandalous.
And
Should I tell my wife
Should I tell her husband
Or should i just keep it to myself since everyone else around me has secrets.click to expand
Moving on..
OP, Why would you even tell anyone? Like, nothing happened...
melodrama
Posted by iVirgoI had a feeling something like this happened. When people don't feel secure with their man or relationship. The mind and feelings start to get blurred amd go every which way. So you did make her insecure where she found solace somewhere else, even for a moment. Not saying it's right but...that's life and it happens.
@Piscenanlove
I never said I was the best or made out that I was the best I admit the first 2 years were bad and I wasn't aware she cheated, it was just bad time in our lives, I didn't understand her she didn't understand me, but I never was physically abusive, verbally yes.
I flirted but that's were I left it. If I wanted something physical my wife was more then enough she had me sprung. It's hard to think about any body else when u got kids, work, and sexy wife who took care of me...
I think it's the fact she took care of me I just realize she did everything I was to busy to do.
Seriously, stop flirting with other women, these emotional affairs hurt people, while you're just trying to have a good time with the ego stroking. That's if you are continuing to do it.
@p-Angel
People don't lie because they are brave
They lie because they are afraid
Honesty takes courage.
She could have just denied it and continued to lie
People don't lie because they are brave
They lie because they are afraid
Honesty takes courage.
She could have just denied it and continued to lie
I wounder how many ppl on here have secrets of infidelity but chose not say anything regardless if the significant other would find out or not...
@greentea
I try not to flirt but sometimes I do it with out even thinking, but 100% of the time it's me joking or not even knowing its happening
I try not to flirt but sometimes I do it with out even thinking, but 100% of the time it's me joking or not even knowing its happening
LOL
Posted by iVirgoDo you think I was born yesterday? If you try not to flirt, then you know when you do dude. You just can't help wanting to charm people. It gets you off somehow.
@greentea
I try not to flirt but sometimes I do it with out even thinking, but 100% of the time it's me joking or not even knowing its happening
Posted by SensitiveBluesI'm defending her at all. I can't stand cheaters, especially when they cheat in a marriage.Posted by Greenteayou're really trying so hard to defend her cheating azz. stop it please. no matter what a man does you have to have your own integrityPosted by iVirgoI had a feeling something like this happened. When people don't feel secure with their man or relationship. The mind and feelings start to get blurred amd go every which way. So you did make her insecure where she found solace somewhere else, even for a moment. Not saying it's right but...that's life and it happens.
@Piscenanlove
I never said I was the best or made out that I was the best I admit the first 2 years were bad and I wasn't aware she cheated, it was just bad time in our lives, I didn't understand her she didn't understand me, but I never was physically abusive, verbally yes.
I flirted but that's were I left it. If I wanted something physical my wife was more then enough she had me sprung. It's hard to think about any body else when u got kids, work, and sexy wife who took care of me...
I think it's the fact she took care of me I just realize she did everything I was to busy to do.
Seriously, stop flirting with other women, these emotional affairs hurt people, while you're just trying to have a good time with the ego stroking. That's if you are continuing to do it.
stop this bsclick to expand
Posted by SensitiveBluesNo shit!, but flirting with people is where it can start. Read the boards.Posted by Greenteaflirting and cheating are two different things.Posted by iVirgoDo you think I was born yesterday? If you try not to flirt, then you know when you do dude. You just can't help wanting to charm people. It gets you off somehow.
@greentea
I try not to flirt but sometimes I do it with out even thinking, but 100% of the time it's me joking or not even knowing its happening
click to expand
Posted by SensitiveBluesYa, put yourself in the wife's shoes too..what she did wasn't right but maybe she wasnt sure about him..maybe she felt like he was creeping too and he didnt communicate...that's why I say, we don't know the whole story..he could've cheated on her before she did and he's mad that he didn't find out like she did. We can preach until pigs fly about doing the right thing, but this is reality in a lot of relationships.Posted by GreenteaWell we all know Virgo men are insecure as feck if they aint cheating on you they eventually will.Posted by SensitiveBluesNo shit!, but flirting with people is where it can start. Read the boards.Posted by Greenteaflirting and cheating are two different things.Posted by iVirgoDo you think I was born yesterday? If you try not to flirt, then you know when you do dude. You just can't help wanting to charm people. It gets you off somehow.
@greentea
I try not to flirt but sometimes I do it with out even thinking, but 100% of the time it's me joking or not even knowing its happening
if they're not you think they are cause they seem so uninvested emotionally....click to expand
Posted by iVirgoI can see why you're surrounded by drama. What would telling these people accomplish if you end game is to simply shut her down and make it clear you're not interested---unless that isn't your end game? Hmph.
... Should I tell my wife
Should I tell her husband
Or should i just keep it to myself since everyone else around me has secrets.
Stop making it complicated. Tell the Scorp to bugger off, stop communicating with her and take care of your kids. Wth?....
I'm just a nice guy, bring nice comes off as flirting
Posted by iVirgoUn huh. Here we go....
...What I had with her was a long time ago, I moved on and married her friend.....
Posted by SensitiveBluesThis is why I think most virgos make better friends, they treat friends much better imo.Posted by iVirgoyou guys overdo the nice to stupid territory.
I'm just a nice guy, bring nice comes off as flirting
im just helping her move furniture, im just a nice guyclick to expand
Personally I'd be straight up with the wife's friend. Telling the wife could be a bad idea, and start lots of drama. I'd just tell the friend to back off, you're happy with your wife and will forever be loyal. Say you won't tell the wife, but the flirting is making you uncomfortable.
I will damit I have only gotten about half way through this but lunch is about over and wanted to ask a few things.
Your wife didn't technically cheat though I thought from this thread..
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/do-aqua-girls-cheat-when-in-love-5984618/
She tried to continue her friendship with an ex, which was what you did with the scorpio, no? Double standards much?
Yea she withheld information about maintaining contact while dating- but dating is just that dating. Had you two discussed it being exclusive? You even said in your prior thread it wasn't sexual between her and the ex... Did more information reveal itself?
This scorpi chick- kick her to the curb and tell her you are married and love your wife- you are being set up .
Tell your wife- if you are pissed and kicked her out over not sharing her past wtf kind of double standard are you playing to not tell her about the scorp friend?
There seems to be much missing to this "story".
Your wife didn't technically cheat though I thought from this thread..
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/do-aqua-girls-cheat-when-in-love-5984618/
She tried to continue her friendship with an ex, which was what you did with the scorpio, no? Double standards much?
Yea she withheld information about maintaining contact while dating- but dating is just that dating. Had you two discussed it being exclusive? You even said in your prior thread it wasn't sexual between her and the ex... Did more information reveal itself?
This scorpi chick- kick her to the curb and tell her you are married and love your wife- you are being set up .
Tell your wife- if you are pissed and kicked her out over not sharing her past wtf kind of double standard are you playing to not tell her about the scorp friend?
There seems to be much missing to this "story".
Posted by SensitiveBluesAlso JAG, the married Scorpiho is Wife's bestie. Smells fishy.Posted by justagirlread other thread, she admitted to cheating with 3 other men. The scorpio was prior to meeting Aqua wife. went on a few dates only, nothing more
I will damit I have only gotten about half way through this but lunch is about over and wanted to ask a few things.
Your wife didn't technically cheat though I thought from this thread..
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/do-aqua-girls-cheat-when-in-love-5984618/
She tried to continue her friendship with an ex, which was what you did with the scorpio, no? Double standards much?
Yea she withheld information about maintaining contact while dating- but dating is just that dating. Had you two discussed it being exclusive? You even said in your prior thread it wasn't sexual between her and the ex... Did more information reveal itself?
This scorpi chick- kick her to the curb and tell her you are married and love your wife- you are being set up .
Tell your wife- if you are pissed and kicked her out over not sharing her past wtf kind of double standard are you playing to not tell her about the scorp friend?
There seems to be much missing to this "story".click to expand
Posted by duchesslibroYea he's being set up and thanks CC I had not gotten caught up about the cheating! Dam that sucks.Posted by SensitiveBluesAlso JAG, the married Scorpiho is Wife's bestie. Smells fishy.Posted by justagirlread other thread, she admitted to cheating with 3 other men. The scorpio was prior to meeting Aqua wife. went on a few dates only, nothing more
I will damit I have only gotten about half way through this but lunch is about over and wanted to ask a few things.
Your wife didn't technically cheat though I thought from this thread..
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/do-aqua-girls-cheat-when-in-love-5984618/
She tried to continue her friendship with an ex, which was what you did with the scorpio, no? Double standards much?
Yea she withheld information about maintaining contact while dating- but dating is just that dating. Had you two discussed it being exclusive? You even said in your prior thread it wasn't sexual between her and the ex... Did more information reveal itself?
This scorpi chick- kick her to the curb and tell her you are married and love your wife- you are being set up .
Tell your wife- if you are pissed and kicked her out over not sharing her past wtf kind of double standard are you playing to not tell her about the scorp friend?
There seems to be much missing to this "story".click to expand
Bang her
Life sucks, I just want the routine I had back, it was simple it was no drama, now everybody is either gossiping or trying to call and find out details. I really hate things being so public.
My wife so called friend has not contacted me, which is good.
her husband finally responded with "oh really " but I know he got the text earlier because he must have called her because she text me upset.
Picking the kids up, and cook dinner (KFC) and watch a movie (ON-DEMAND)
My wife so called friend has not contacted me, which is good.
her husband finally responded with "oh really " but I know he got the text earlier because he must have called her because she text me upset.
Picking the kids up, and cook dinner (KFC) and watch a movie (ON-DEMAND)
But day by day.
I agreed to drop the kids off with her Friday afternoon after school. The whole weekend some alone time to consider my decision I need to make, because I want to forgive her, but I got get over the visions of her having sex with another man.
I agreed to drop the kids off with her Friday afternoon after school. The whole weekend some alone time to consider my decision I need to make, because I want to forgive her, but I got get over the visions of her having sex with another man.
Posted by SensitiveBlues3!!!!!!Posted by iVirgoit wasn't one man but 3.
But day by day.
I agreed to drop the kids off with her Friday afternoon after school. The whole weekend some alone time to consider my decision I need to make, because I want to forgive her, but I got get over the visions of her having sex with another man.click to expand
3 guys 10 years ago when we were fresh, she has her personal issues with being used abused and played by men.
I neglected her a lot in the begining and disappeared some times for days and weeks just having my privacy, hanging with friends, and she was very attached and emotional , (guess that's her Venus in Pisces and Mars in Pisces) made her so clingy and lovey dovey which I liked . But it ws New relationship to m and i missed my private life, when I was enjoining my time I never cheated, that's when she messed around supposedly when she felt I neglected her and disappeared. I learned she was a romantic at heart, so I stopped with disappearing, and when I didn't hang with her I made it priority to call at least once.
I neglected her a lot in the begining and disappeared some times for days and weeks just having my privacy, hanging with friends, and she was very attached and emotional , (guess that's her Venus in Pisces and Mars in Pisces) made her so clingy and lovey dovey which I liked . But it ws New relationship to m and i missed my private life, when I was enjoining my time I never cheated, that's when she messed around supposedly when she felt I neglected her and disappeared. I learned she was a romantic at heart, so I stopped with disappearing, and when I didn't hang with her I made it priority to call at least once.
3 guys yep but it was all in the first 6months of our relationship only...
3 guys were
Ex boyfriend
(who she still liked but was not who she vision a future with)
FWB
(who was crazy about her and gave her attention)
Classmate
( in her college class one time when I we had argument and I disappeared for 2 weeks)
3 guys were
Ex boyfriend
(who she still liked but was not who she vision a future with)
FWB
(who was crazy about her and gave her attention)
Classmate
( in her college class one time when I we had argument and I disappeared for 2 weeks)
Posted by FinbuffNoted
I'm only here to socialize and help people if I can - with opinion. Many of you take this way too seriously. A multimillionaire, I already have the validation and self assurance that I certainly am not looking for here.
Posted by xXxAliciaXxXShut upPosted by iVirgoIs your Venus in Gemini? Because if so, I totally feel you on that one! I'm a natural born flirt and don't even realize when I'm doing it half the time lol
@greentea
I try not to flirt but sometimes I do it with out even thinking, but 100% of the time it's me joking or not even knowing its happeningclick to expand
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What's wrong with my Libra Venus?
What's wrong with my Libra Venus?
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Why did your wife cheat on you? What was her reason?