would virgo man bother to respond

Posted by runleoo
But I know he has been trying to talk to other women on the site. And asked them out for a cup of coffee.

Posted by PEITHO
If it were me yes I would if you think he's talking to other women. I don't know how to say this without sounding bad but I usually always have male friends or a friend. Now that doesn't mean I'm cheating or messing around with the guy I just never stop completely talking to other men altogether because you never know what might happen.

Posted by runleoo
So..I keep my door open?

I'm Leo

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Posted by Romz
Do you know that he is talking to other women on the dating site because you posed as another woman and spoke to him? Otherwise how would you know.


Tricky tricky. You guys met online. I don't see how you think automatically that means he should have the utmost loyalty for you. Neither of you are dating or involved in one anothers lives. Seems like a silly waste of energy. I think the true problem is that you are upset you are not getting what you want.

Posted by SingASong41
How serious are you two? Committed or getting to know each other?

When I get involved with someone, I don't immediately cut off all contact from men. I just forget about them if I'm really into the person I'm with, but if they contact me I don't always ignore them. I'd seriously cut them off in a heartbeat if it bothered my SO or if they began to show a real interest in me that threatened my relationship.


In this case, he is the one making an effort to contact them. He's asking them out... That isn't right, if he's with you. Especially if he's lying about it when the evidence is there. What is a big red flag is how the moment you two get in a fight, he does it again. He's either talking to other women or he's incredibly insecure and is just using them to boost his ego. I'm thinking it's more the latter than anything having to do with you. Is that someone you want? In fact, do you want someone who makes you feel like this?

Posted by Gemini74
I met my virgo man on a dating site about 5 months ago. We talked on the phone and text for 2 weeks before he asked me out. After about 2 weeks later of dating he wanted to discuss us being exclusive and said he took down his profile. I said "hell yes". I totally trust him and he's very loyal to me. He was one of the few on dating sites that didn't ask for boob pics. I never see his pics in emails from the dating site that "we are a good match" so I know his profile is down. Plus I always check on that.

If it was me I would totally be moving on. I don't play that crap and don't share my man with other women.

Good luck!!!!

Posted by PEITHO

I agree but how can you tell if a person really likes you or if they are just using you to boost their ego?

That's a good question... because i was thinking that he really likes me, but he's using the site to boost his ego ,which really confused me...