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Posted by leonaRaise this issue with him. The thing is, Virgo puts in a lot of effort to plan things and we are so fixed in our plans / schedule that any small change messes up the whole plan in our head and we are not comfortable. If you are going to plan things, suggest plan first and then discuss when he would be comfortable. Virgos keep weekdays for work and weekends for family and lover. Any change in the pattern is not guaranteed. Calling him during work hours is also not ideal except for chores, he won't be able to show his emotions while at work. But do call him every once in a while to say you miss him or love him, everyone loves that out of the blue.
@yazlan - I agree with blackmamba on the controllin part cause even if i try to plan hang outs and other things for him he either doesnt approve of them or say hes too busy to catch up .. he only does things on his own terms for eg he would only take me out if hes too tired of stayin home.. so we cant really control things in their lives.. but maybe when mine is mature enough he ll see things differently haha till then i can only hope
Posted by zoe gonzalesI think there is a slight difference. My first gf was a Virgo but I don't remember much since I was very young and stupid. They can be needy and confused sometimes but have strong will to go on. They are very caring and charming too.
i really enjoy reading this thread, leona, yazlan & blackmamba...as I'm also facing certain issues with my virgo girl, and I'm a leo girl. Heheh‚
Virgo guy and virgo girl have a slight little difference right?
Posted by leonaMine: 29 August, 1983
@yazlan - whats your date of birth... And what was hers?
Sun, Virgo
Moon, Taurus
Mercury, Virgo
Mars, Leo
Venus, Leo
Jupiter, Sagittarius
Saturn, Scorpio
Uranus, Sagittarius
Neptune, Sagittarius
Pluto, Libra
Ascendant, Scorpio
Hers: 19 August, 1987
Sun, Leo
Moon, Gemini
Mercury, Leo
Mars, Leo
Venus, Leo
Jupiter, Aries
Saturn, Sagittarius
Uranus, Sagittarius
Neptune, Capricorn
Pluto, Scorpio
Ascendant, Scorpio
@zoe - yeah i really wanned detailed information and no sarcasm lol and i guess yazlan has helped us a lot ... so thanks to him and i personally find virgo girls slightly different from virgo guys.. i know three virgo women.. one had a bad marriage with a libra guy for 8 yrs and it made her v strong.. shes not bitter and lost infact she is v positive after her split up and doesnt wanna get married again.. she says she cant leave her three daughters alone thinking that both their parents were selfish. Shes v hard workin and i totally respect her. The other just doesnt wanna talk about anythin she always hides her true emotions and v quiet. I hardly see her in parties cause shes v introvert so i cant tell much about her and then theres the third one the happiest of all married to a cap guy and full of life. Shes the carin sort..always calls my mom to find out if shes doin good and she has a virgo son who has bad temper issues and he doesnt live with them. So to ur quesyion i thinl leo girls and virgo girls get along fine but in this case they both have to initiate if its the virgo usually initiating all the time and not the leo since leo are equally caring but too moody or lazy to keep intouch then it can hurt virgo but they wont complain they ll only tell u later when they feel like. And virgo girls are good liseners too.
@yazlan - my gooodness u guys have almost the same chart.. too much fire on both the charts ..haha and i see august virgos are not as moody and detached as sept ones. You and my dad share the same date of birth and hes v critical but hardly detached. My guy is the opposite. :/
@leona Haha... and we were too passionate towards each other that other people in the room could feel the vibe. 😄 And you can't imagine what our private moments were like, not a dull second!
She was the only one who thought I'm a very easy, the rest think I'm too difficult. She felt that probably because I made a conscious effort to not complicate things with/for her. By nature, I'm very critical too (like your father) and I'm trying to control this habit of mine these days. I had anger issues during my teen and 20s and after Leo it resurfaced for a while but I think I'm more in control now. I think your father is never detached because parents normally offer unconditional love regardless of their sign.
She was the only one who thought I'm a very easy, the rest think I'm too difficult. She felt that probably because I made a conscious effort to not complicate things with/for her. By nature, I'm very critical too (like your father) and I'm trying to control this habit of mine these days. I had anger issues during my teen and 20s and after Leo it resurfaced for a while but I think I'm more in control now. I think your father is never detached because parents normally offer unconditional love regardless of their sign.
Posted by BlackMambaI need your advice on that Crab girl. Maybe I'll post a new thread.
overthinking, control issues, rumination, and emotions=Bad bad bad....
yazlan...yes, my virgal was so needy...like she want this, that, when she feels bored or feelin down she wants me to come over now (she didnt care about the time), bringing her to things she like (leo tend to very generous but somehow, my virgal like shes overstepping sometimes). All about her basically. Even our recent argument was also about she 'need' me to show how caring I am through how well interested I am in her topic about her workplace and shitte. I didnt response like what she 'need' me to respond so, theres her fire sparks. She's testing me actually without my aknowledge until she tells me, my claw comes out and slash her due to the feeling of betrayal. Until now I give her a huge 2 weeks or more 'space' for her...coz you know, I'm tired for always being the first person to approach & apologizes at her after a fight.
leona-wow, you're lovely for having three virgo close friends...its good the two of them have bringing some great examples to you about virgo. Lucky you ‰
Yes, me and her go along very well when we're in a happy friendly mode. We both moody too, but me as a leo try not to show it to her, compared to her moody which is cold treatment. I'm not lazy but, I was unable to meet her face to face everyday...so to kill the 'sadness' due to that one, I texted her, swapping photos, and surprise text her with lookin' forward to our next date, lol. Sometimes, I texted alot than her...and I start the conversation first eventho I was sleepy or busy I am on that moment. I didnt knew what other initiative she have done for me but, you know...virgo do little things to show their love so, my leo eyes just seeing the bigger picture like its just a few I can see from my virgo. Sometimes I feel sorry for her coz not appreciating her 'small' effort, but sometimes I'm sick of her too coz shes belittle my unconditional effort :')
Yes, me and her go along very well when we're in a happy friendly mode. We both moody too, but me as a leo try not to show it to her, compared to her moody which is cold treatment. I'm not lazy but, I was unable to meet her face to face everyday...so to kill the 'sadness' due to that one, I texted her, swapping photos, and surprise text her with lookin' forward to our next date, lol. Sometimes, I texted alot than her...and I start the conversation first eventho I was sleepy or busy I am on that moment. I didnt knew what other initiative she have done for me but, you know...virgo do little things to show their love so, my leo eyes just seeing the bigger picture like its just a few I can see from my virgo. Sometimes I feel sorry for her coz not appreciating her 'small' effort, but sometimes I'm sick of her too coz shes belittle my unconditional effort :')
@zoe - lol now here i can relate pretty much, the cold treatment u know but like i said even if they are not happy about it , they wont outright tell you they just wait for the perfect moment to complain you. also they can be over fussy at times, and they prefer solitude just like their fellow male virgos, its like just looking at them sometimes i can infer that its best to leave them alone than to indulge them in a conversation haha - the best way to put up with them is to tell them you really care about them but its your schedule that comes in the way, for eg when i dont text or initiate for too long ( mostly cause i m really busy or too lazy to check on them ) they wont initiate either until i have noticed their absence and made the first move, and then i ll explain it and they ll be all fine. Virgos just want to be told all the time that they are needed, respected and loved haha ! Well if you can do that often, shouldnt be a problem. And secondly my virgo guy is best friends with a leo guy! He tells me that his leo mate is the only lucky guy he can trust blindly, and he sometimes cancel our meetings just to attend his leo friend. But personally i m mostly surrounded by sags aries libras and scorpios and the best ones are scorpions and sags.. theres no dull moment with them ! whats ur experience with scorpions ?
@yazlan - You should probably date a leo again haha seems like you really get along good with them probably its cause of your chart, lots of leo influence, but my experience with my virgo however, was really impressive in the begining, we connected really quick in a very short span of time, I was a little worried since my dad has always been over critical not only in terms of behavior, moods, choices but infact about little things, like he would tell if the food isnt cooked well, the shirt isnt ironed well etc etc, you know he keeps pickin on small things and it kind of scared me initially and i knew it wouldnt be easy with my guy, but he came on too strong that i couldnt hold back either, Like It was instant ! but over the past few months his attitude has literally changed my perspective and approach towards virgos, now its more holistic than analytic. And you are right, as a daughter i never cared much about my dads silent phases, i was too busy with my life that i thought it was probably how he was supposed to be as a dad but the same silent treatment from my guy worries me and i keep looking for answers for his sudden change in behavior. Dad is more a talkative guy and when the two meet, hes the one poppin the questions all the time and my fiance only replies. Always quiet ! lol 😄
@yazlan - Virgo men are always good in private ! so i get that haha...
LOL @ M I A - Its pretty natural and humanistic - probably the case with all of us. I dont think i can hang in there for too long either. And then i m told i need to grow patience!
@yazlan - Was your leo girl impatient ?
@yazlan - Was your leo girl impatient ?
Posted by leonaWith me, no. Generally, I think she delayed things until the last moment. But no, not impatient.
LOL @ M I A - Its pretty natural and humanistic - probably the case with all of us. I dont think i can hang in there for too long either. And then i m told i need to grow patience!
@yazlan - Was your leo girl impatient ?
Posted by yazlanHmmmm.....August Virgo. I have an August Virgo in my life who I secretly REALLY like. We're just friends now, but used to have a romantic relationship. Just being honest....I'm scared to admit to him that I do have feelings because I'm not sure if he's putting out subtle hints or just being friendly. But our daily communication has brought the feelings back more than I'd like. I need to pull back to get it together, but want to do it subtly. I do like him as a person, and would rather keep him as a friend then lose him due to us trying to get involved again. Any suggestions?Posted by leonaMine: 29 August, 1983
@yazlan - whats your date of birth... And what was hers?
Sun, Virgo
Moon, Taurus
Mercury, Virgo
Mars, Leo
Venus, Leo
Jupiter, Sagittarius
Saturn, Scorpio
Uranus, Sagittarius
Neptune, Sagittarius
Pluto, Libra
Ascendant, Scorpio
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Posted by BlackMambaThis is exactly why I am cautious about going there again. SMH! I do not feel like trying to decipher actions/words. One time of going through that was enough.
Yazlan the Virgo texts and sometimes calls but he hasn't made an effort to see me. Today I told him I had the day off and he barely acknowledged it. Spare texts here and there. No meat.
Through his actions and move we haven't seen one another for a week and half
Posted by BlackMambaYes! I remember when we were dating, my emotions were so over the place just because of his hot/cold behaviour. SMH! Now that I'm thinking about it.....why would I be considering going back to that. After we were done, I told myself I would never put myself through that again. I'm pretty sure I'm still holding on to the fantasy of our perfect beginning, and that's where this is coming from. Jesus! Well writing that out helped me tremendously! Good talk 😄Posted by thisismylife2015going where?dating virgos?Posted by BlackMambaThis is exactly why I am cautious about going there again. SMH! I do not feel like trying to decipher actions/words. One time of going through that was enough.
Yazlan the Virgo texts and sometimes calls but he hasn't made an effort to see me. Today I told him I had the day off and he barely acknowledged it. Spare texts here and there. No meat.
Through his actions and move we haven't seen one another for a week and halfclick to expand
Posted by yazlanDamn...another Aug 29th Virgo...Posted by leonaMine: 29 August, 1983
@yazlan - whats your date of birth... And what was hers?
Sun, Virgo
Moon, Taurus
Mercury, Virgo
Mars, Leo
Venus, Leo
Jupiter, Sagittarius
Saturn, Scorpio
Uranus, Sagittarius
Neptune, Sagittarius
Pluto, Libra
Ascendant, Scorpio
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...not only does he have his Sun and Mercury sharing space with my Moon, but his Moon also shares space with my Sun/Venus...
...and a water AC to match my water angles, not to mention my Scorpio Stellium...
Anyway, good luck leona!
Posted by jupitersmagicThats a lot to have any cancer do
You should talk to him
Posted by BlackMambaLord have Mercy...you are so utterly ridiculous!Posted by dontgetmewrongNah he's mad because I'm not there for him when he thinks he needs me to help him with his studies... He's been pulling back because I've been overly dramatic with my needs...Posted by BlackMambaHe's your bf, why would he reject you.. more importantly why would you feel like he would..you're in a relationship. Tell him what your up to..Posted by dontgetmewrongYes I don't like rejectionPosted by BlackMambaHave you texted or call him?... does he have to always be thenome to initiate?
So today no texts or calls. Guess he's gone
But nah i remember when we had broken up and he strung me along for months and suddenly disappeared on me. I called him for a straight week.
Learned my lesson then.click to expand
Seriously, forget about the Virgo for now. Hell, forget about trying to have a serious relationship period, until you get yourself together.
Smh...you and Aquaboy (among others)...I swear...
...*sigh*...
For the 5387102981th time, you need to take a good long time working on you, before you can even consider taking on a serious partnership again.
You probably can't "hear" this over the sound of "social expectations" and the ticking of your "biological clock", but good luck anyway.
Well thats what i mentioned that my virgo would do anythin to see his mates specially that leo frend and he would cancel our meetings to see them often but in my case its usually when they are in tough times or the meetings are scheduled. I think now youre over thinkin i agree with @dontgetmewrong - you should openly address your issues and talk about them. And dont fear rejection cause even if he rejected which i doubt, it ll be his loss not yours..
@blackmamba - You should initiate to check his reaction... maybe hes tired of initiating all the time. Like some of my virgirls always tell me how they would appreciate if i had showed concern lol.. change your attitude a little bit and try to compensate and i can tell it ll work for u
And calling for a straight week ? Lol i have catered more... i have gone through weeks not hearin a word from him, calling and texting endlessly ..i hated to be sounded so needy and depressed. God if only ppl here talkin all cool were in my shoes they would know what it takes to be with an agressive virgo.. His dead phases and when he finally comes out of those dead phases he cant even reason enough for his disappearin act .. i wonder what they love about these phases... how can they live happily in solitude.. dont they ever miss their partners... and why do they have lots of expectaions from others ? Guess what if youre goin to sit like that waitin that your virgo will initiate again then forget cause i remember we had a fight and i was so hurt that i decided i wont initiate ever again.. i didnt contact him for a week bt instead of realizin he shocked me with his cold treatment.. and eventually after two weeks i had to send a text askin if its over.. if he ever cared etc etc and guess what.. i get a msg sayin " I dont wanna talk please dont disturb " lol it was too much to handle but then i learned my lesson and started dealin with things right away cause with a virgo u cant take the risk with your expectations. They dont understand ur emotions.. and one time my guy told me that he doesnt know why he does all that and then recently he admitted to his shortfomings and said i know i m v complicated and i hate that about me .. i simply call them confused souls.. they just love confusing others too lol
Posted by ImpulsvNot that I felt unworthy because she was stunning. I just feel pretty girls don't put up with you BS simply because they have other options.Posted by BlackMambaLol op said his partner was stunning!Posted by ImpulsvWho is stunning?Posted by BlackMambaWas it because u felt unworthy of that love given u said she is stunning?Posted by yazlan
My ex didn't leave. We are from different cultures and she was forced to marry another person from her culture. We grew fond of each other more by every passing year. I think Leo-Virgo combination works great. You just have to work on personal details. Keep doing what you are doing but you guys need to regularly discuss the issues that arise. Keep and open heart and you guys should not ego get in the way - that's I think can be the biggest issue in Leo-Virgo relationship.
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What was it about her that made you fall for her? also do Virgo men prefer younger women. I'm older then the Virgoclick to expand
Posted by thisismylife2015Virgos run out of emotional steam quickly. If you gradually try to raise the heat from the friendship to slightly more, I think he'll be interested. Virgos are more afraid of rejection than anyone else, so he won't make a sudden big move on you unless he's sure and that will take him months with him watching every word you utter, every smile you have passed and every minute you have invested in him. Just take it slow and you will be fine.Posted by yazlanHmmmm.....August Virgo. I have an August Virgo in my life who I secretly REALLY like. We're just friends now, but used to have a romantic relationship. Just being honest....I'm scared to admit to him that I do have feelings because I'm not sure if he's putting out subtle hints or just being friendly. But our daily communication has brought the feelings back more than I'd like. I need to pull back to get it together, but want to do it subtly. I do like him as a person, and would rather keep him as a friend then lose him due to us trying to get involved again. Any suggestions?Posted by leonaMine: 29 August, 1983
@yazlan - whats your date of birth... And what was hers?
Sun, Virgo
Moon, Taurus
Mercury, Virgo
Mars, Leo
Venus, Leo
Jupiter, Sagittarius
Saturn, Scorpio
Uranus, Sagittarius
Neptune, Sagittarius
Pluto, Libra
Ascendant, Scorpio
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@thisismylife2015 The rule of the thumb with Virgo is, if you had a good beginning with a Virgo and then it dropped off, then you have a chance (provided he's available and his circumstances permit).
Posted by yazlanOk. Thanks for responding!
@thisismylife2015 The rule of the thumb with Virgo is, if you had a good beginning with a Virgo and then it dropped off, then you have a chance (provided he's available and his circumstances permit).
Posted by BlackMambaHe has shut down. You have to wait now. Don't be critical or emotional with him during this time if you text / call him.
day two, haven't heard from him today either.
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