Can you please give me an insight on this Taurus

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Cruella on Tuesday, November 16, 2021 and has 16 replies.

Understanding Taurus Traits in Relationships

Taurus individuals value stability and loyalty. They may appear distant if they feel insecure or overwhelmed. Communication is key as they often need reassurance but can also test boundaries. Recognizing their need for consistency helps improve connections and reduces misunderstandings.

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@Cruella
4 Years

Hello,

Can someone please give me a little insight on this guy?

Meet him every weekend for a month, then I had to leave. Contact was good in the beginning, he sent me a lot of snaps of his day, I havent been to good to reply since the havent been very personal, so I just assumed he has sent the same to many people. After a night where he sent me many snaps that I didnt reply too I feel like he is giving me the cold shoulder.

I sent him a snap the other day, and he replied in 2 minutes, he sent me a couple of more snaps that day,first one I replied to, not the other, and after that nothing.

We never talked about what we were doing before I left, so we havent given eacother any promises of what will happen when I come back, so I'm thinking maybe he has met somebody or something, or he is playing mind games with me, or just over me.

Is he prone to insecurity? One night I drunk called him and he said that I just called him because of this and this, like it is difficult for him to belive that I called him because I missed him, or he is trying to convince me that I dont like him hahaha...

Sun Taurus 26°03’11

Moon Aquarius 18°50’8

Mercury Taurus 7°55’11 st

Venus Aries 14°47’10

Mars Pisces 19°36’10

AC: Leo 6°34’

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

You don't reply to most of his "snaps" he sends you, but feel like HE is ignoring you....? How old are you? You seem old

enough to drink, but somehow unable to talk like an adult with someone you want to date?

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@Cruella
4 Years

I dont reply becuse the snaps arent anything special or personal, he is very active on social media, so he is probably sending theese to all on his list. And i dont know what to reply on the 5th snap of the day.

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by Cruella

I dont reply becuse the snaps arent anything special or personal, he is very active on social media, so he is probably sending theese to all on his list. And i dont know what to reply on the 5th snap of the day.

Better think of something. That’s how he’s communicating but you’re not responding 😀

But someone else who IS responding probably has his attention

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Cruella

I sent him one now, but he probably wont reply 😂

What are these "snaps"? Pictures, memes, quotes, trivia?

You clearly want something different, something more personal, so why don't you initiate it using other media?

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@Cruella
4 Years

Posted by Undine

Posted by Cruella

I sent him one now, but he probably wont reply 😂

What are these "snaps"? Pictures, memes, quotes, trivia?

You clearly want something different, something more personal, so why don't you initiate it using other media?

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Just pictures and videoes. Going back soon, so I'll see how he acts when I get back.

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Cruella

Posted by Undine

Posted by Cruella

I sent him one now, but he probably wont reply 😂

What are these "snaps"? Pictures, memes, quotes, trivia?

You clearly want something different, something more personal, so why don't you initiate it using other media?

Just pictures and videoes. Going back soon, so I'll see how he acts when I get back.

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How about a (video)call before that? He said you only do it when drunk, so he practically challenged you to do it again, but sober...

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@Cruella
4 Years

Posted by Undine

Posted by Cruella

Posted by Undine

Posted by Cruella

I sent him one now, but he probably wont reply 😂

What are these "snaps"? Pictures, memes, quotes, trivia?

You clearly want something different, something more personal, so why don't you initiate it using other media?

Just pictures and videoes. Going back soon, so I'll see how he acts when I get back.

How about a (video)call before that? He said you only do it when drunk, so he practically challenged you to do it again, but sober...

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He didnt say that I called him because I was drunk, but something else in the direction that I didnt do it because I like/miss him.

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Cruella

Posted by Undine

Posted by Cruella

Posted by Undine

Posted by Cruella

I sent him one now, but he probably wont reply 😂

What are these "snaps"? Pictures, memes, quotes, trivia?

You clearly want something different, something more personal, so why don't you initiate it using other media?

Just pictures and videoes. Going back soon, so I'll see how he acts when I get back.

How about a (video)call before that? He said you only do it when drunk, so he practically challenged you to do it again, but sober...

He didnt say that I called him because I was drunk, but something else in the direction that I didnt do it because I like/miss him.

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I must have misinterpreted what you said: "One night I drunk called him and he said that I just called him because of this" .

Anyway, he challenged you to admit that you missed him. Was either looking for reassurance that you care, or he already made up his mind that you don't. You missed an opportunity to get more clarity. Try it again, but sober.

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@Cruella
4 Years

Posted by DMV

Based off the confusion most of us in this thread with what you wrote and what you meant to say, you may be experiencing communication issues with others.

Haha I know, english is not my native language so its very diffucult to explain.

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@Cruella
4 Years

Posted by Undine

Posted by Cruella

Posted by Undine

Posted by Cruella

Posted by Undine

Posted by Cruella

I sent him one now, but he probably wont reply 😂

What are these "snaps"? Pictures, memes, quotes, trivia?

You clearly want something different, something more personal, so why don't you initiate it using other media?

Just pictures and videoes. Going back soon, so I'll see how he acts when I get back.

How about a (video)call before that? He said you only do it when drunk, so he practically challenged you to do it again, but sober...

He didnt say that I called him because I was drunk, but something else in the direction that I didnt do it because I like/miss him.

I must have misinterpreted what you said: "One night I drunk called him and he said that I just called him because of this" .

Anyway, he challenged you to admit that you missed him. Was either looking for reassurance that you care, or he already made up his mind that you don't. You missed an opportunity to get more clarity. Try it again, but sober.

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Yeah I will if I meet him when I get home. This distance isnt making it easy because we dont know eachother very well.

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@Truemara
5 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by DMV

Posted by Cruella

I dont reply becuse the snaps arent anything special or personal, he is very active on social media, so he is probably sending theese to all on his list. And i dont know what to reply on the 5th snap of the day.

Better think of something. That’s how he’s communicating but you’re not responding 😀

But someone else who IS responding probably has his attention

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Not really they like this torture game playing too lol

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@Seajatt
4 Years500+ Posts

Posted by Cruella

Hello,

Can someone please give me a little insight on this guy?

Meet him every weekend for a month, then I had to leave. Contact was good in the beginning, he sent me a lot of snaps of his day, I havent been to good to reply since the havent been very personal, so I just assumed he has sent the same to many people. After a night where he sent me many snaps that I didnt reply too I feel like he is giving me the cold shoulder.

I sent him a snap the other day, and he replied in 2 minutes, he sent me a couple of more snaps that day,first one I replied to, not the other, and after that nothing.

We never talked about what we were doing before I left, so we havent given eacother any promises of what will happen when I come back, so I'm thinking maybe he has met somebody or something, or he is playing mind games with me, or just over me.

Is he prone to insecurity? One night I drunk called him and he said that I just called him because of this and this, like it is difficult for him to belive that I called him because I missed him, or he is trying to convince me that I dont like him hahaha...

Sun Taurus 26°03’11

Moon Aquarius 18°50’8

Mercury Taurus 7°55’11 st

Venus Aries 14°47’10

Mars Pisces 19°36’10

AC: Leo 6°34’

This is all so vague, like the time it takes for someone to reply..I don't know how good of an indicator that is within this context. Maybe just try to have a straight-forward conversation. Express what you want and if he wants the same, great, and if not, well you can save yourself some time and grief.

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@Truemara
5 Years1,000+ Posts

Op the emoji whatever it is it’s his attempt to a conversation started. Like respond with how has your day Been ect. Taurus are can be shy n not so much conversationalist.

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@Cruella
4 Years

Posted by Truemara

Op the emoji whatever it is it’s his attempt to a conversation started. Like respond with how has your day Been ect. Taurus are can be shy n not so much conversationalist.

He has sent me a couple tonight, and I have replied 😊