How to Breakup with a Taurus Man

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Trying to find an amicable way of ending my relationship with a Taurus man. The relationship is not progressing and I don’t want to continue to waste me time. I love him but it’s not working.

His sister lives with me, and he is always coming over whenever he is in town. Everyone is telling me to be patient; so I feel as if I don’t have any support in my decision. Which according to everyone my decision premature and nonsensical and it makes me feel crazy and that I am the one with problem.

I confronted him about the issues I have with him in hopes that he would change and it hasn’t. The issue I have is his obsession with his ex (still), his constant need for attention, his laziness, and he is a fucking bore. And most importantly this relationship is not going anywhere.

I am also trying hard to get his sister on her feet so she can leave to completely cut ties but it’s challenging and may take time.

I made an attempt a few months ago to break things off and he completely ignored it and carried on like I didn’t say anything.

I just want him to go without any fuss and to really understand that I do not want to continue.

What effective techniques can I use? He ignores messages and will end phone conversations if he senses they involve discussing the end of the relationship.
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Posted by Erinelda

If you are taking care of his sister, dumping him will be hard because you have a use.

Why did you let that happen? lol.

Screw support. Unless they are the ones that have to sleep with them, they don't get a vote.

If you want to be sneaky (lol), you can tell him you went to the doctor and he said you only have a few eggs left so you need to have kids right now and you won't have kids out of wedlock. Then send him pictures of wedding dresses and expensive rings.


Trust me I kick myself everyday for getting myself involved. But I like her, she is not the problem her brother is.

He wants kids but doesn’t want to get married. So he would jump on board for the kids but avoid marriage all together
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Posted by sweetpea2977

He sounds like a POS. You don't NEED his consent to break up w him. START living your life as a single woman. STOP letting him come over. TELL him that you have a new love interest and he's no longer an active part of your life. F---- that! This is YOUR LIFE and he sounds like he's in denial. Not your problem any more.


You’re absolutely right! This is the attitude I have been trying to emulate... but it’s hard to put up the front when he is always around. In a weird way I feel like I am cheating when I go out with friends and meet someone.

I will try harder at this.
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Posted by Redbull

Its better to Be sure about what you want to do. Dont expect any "games" to go the way you may think they will. Just looking at Taurus forum lately so many questions. Hey sometimes, ok hey its over. People seem surprised that Tauruses move on and mean it. Going back and fourth and games?...A Taurus may decide its not worth it and thats it on that. You gotta throw out how other signs do things. The Bull? once a decision is met to move on heels dig in now time to go foward in the decided direction...that begins to describe it. I guess its a whole different thing. There's the option of having peace and not like other options arent out there. I cant speak for this particular guy but I think generally a lot of the questions, I think I can see the described Tauruse's perspective.


I appreciate this comment. But I really wish he dug his heels in when he “ended” his past relationship, or dug his heels in when he said he would give me space and leave me alone.

I think the problem with Taurus’ is the quiet demeanour. Without speaking it leaves a lot of guess work on the other person side. It’s hard to figure out what is going on with a Taurus’ emotions and mental space when they don’t speak.

It takes a lot of patience to deal with that communication style .... I guess that is why there are so many questions.
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Posted by Bumblebebe

Good luck, Taurus males are very hard to reason with when it comes to ending things. I tried to end things with a Taurus male and I was never really successful. I had to relocate and I still wonder if hes will pop up. Ive also run away from a scoprio male too but im not sure how a like they are.

What if maybe doing no contact until his sister moves out?


That’s the thing! Very hard to reason with... that’s why I was wondering if anyone knew any effective tactics that work to get through to them.

I am sorry to hear that you had to go through such lengths... that’s scary. I have a Scorpio and an Aries like that... the Aries randomly pops up in my neighbourhood from time to time.

I try to keep contact to a minimum.... the one day I blocked him was the day his sister ended up in emergency from a bad fall. I felt awful.