UncertainWeasel
@UncertainWeasel
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Posted by LadyNeptune
I think he's a plant by your ex to keep tabs.
If he was interested in pursuing you romantically why would he buy a plane ticket for you to fly to your ex and reconcile?
In fact he might actually BE your ex catfishing and sending you some other dudes photos to 'prove' he's someone else. Get you attached emotionally so you can't move on and date someone else.
If you haven't spoken face to face I'd say it's highly likely this dude is your ex man catfishing.

I'd be shocked if you're the only one he's stringing along for kicks. He strikes me as thirsty for validation from no matter the source.Posted by twinkletoesPosted by LadyNeptune
I think he's a plant by your ex to keep tabs.
If he was interested in pursuing you romantically why would he buy a plane ticket for you to fly to your ex and reconcile?
In fact he might actually BE your ex catfishing and sending you some other dudes photos to 'prove' he's someone else. Get you attached emotionally so you can't move on and date someone else.
If you haven't spoken face to face I'd say it's highly likely this dude is your ex man catfishing.
you sound like a crazy cat ladyclick to expand
More like a retarded sexually frustrated feminist. And in her case, we know all that to be true.

Posted by twinkletoesPosted by LadyNeptune
I think he's a plant by your ex to keep tabs.
If he was interested in pursuing you romantically why would he buy a plane ticket for you to fly to your ex and reconcile?
In fact he might actually BE your ex catfishing and sending you some other dudes photos to 'prove' he's someone else. Get you attached emotionally so you can't move on and date someone else.
If you haven't spoken face to face I'd say it's highly likely this dude is your ex man catfishing.
you sound like a crazy cat ladyclick to expand


Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by twinkletoesPosted by LadyNeptune
I think he's a plant by your ex to keep tabs.
If he was interested in pursuing you romantically why would he buy a plane ticket for you to fly to your ex and reconcile?
In fact he might actually BE your ex catfishing and sending you some other dudes photos to 'prove' he's someone else. Get you attached emotionally so you can't move on and date someone else.
If you haven't spoken face to face I'd say it's highly likely this dude is your ex man catfishing.
you sound like a crazy cat lady
I’m a dog person, thank you.click to expand

Posted by UncertainWeasel
HI there
I'm new, so please be kind.
I'm a Cancer woman. Of course I bloody am. Moon in pisces, ascendant Libra.
And for the past few months I have been talking to this Taurus man. Of course.
We have common friends. We talk at times. For the past 9 months we've been occasionally talking. I gues you'd say we are internet friends? He was there for me when I broke up with my boyfriend. And ever since then... it seems liek he's been trying to get closer to me, at teh speed of the stoned snail.
Started with sending me pictures of himself- very handsome man. This kind of confused me because what man sends pics of hismelf to a woman he'd never met? Not liek dick pics, pics of himself in various locales.
And if I comment on the pic? No answer.
Aside from being friendly and helpful he never gave me any sign he'd be interested in me.
And today he decided to send me a song. I'm confuised.
.
He is a vague aquaintance of my ex. When we broke up he gifted me plane tickets to go see my ex and try to work it out but... corona.
He's sent me a book and lent me a bit of money to make up the deposit I needed for a house I'm buying ( had an em.emmergency and had to dig into the funds I had set aside for it and ran short. I asked him and he sent it to me- in cash via DHL). I will pay him back asap.
I don't know if he's being friendly or interested.
I mean seriously, a Taurus willing to lend money? That's weird, right?
I don't know what to do with this. Any advice?

Posted by twinkletoesPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by twinkletoesPosted by LadyNeptune
I think he's a plant by your ex to keep tabs.
If he was interested in pursuing you romantically why would he buy a plane ticket for you to fly to your ex and reconcile?
In fact he might actually BE your ex catfishing and sending you some other dudes photos to 'prove' he's someone else. Get you attached emotionally so you can't move on and date someone else.
If you haven't spoken face to face I'd say it's highly likely this dude is your ex man catfishing.
you sound like a crazy cat lady
I’m a dog person, thank you.
That's nice. you still sound like a crazy cat lady.
I don't think I would personally send money to a love interest to fly that person to see an ex for reconcile, but I would want to make sure that chapter is closed before making any kind of emotional investment, for sure. maybe i'm just naive, but I think it would take a pretty sadistic person to do something like that. or a pretty desperate loser.click to expand


Posted by FactCheckPosted by HypnotoadPosted by FactCheck
He's not pursuing you. That's how taurus men play the field. They friendzone themselves so they're around when you break up with your boyfriend. Then you start pursuing them especially since you're a cardinal cancer. You dont see it coming. He probably does this with over half the girls he comes across because it's a numbers game. When a taurus knows what he wants, he's direct af and hovers.
lends considerable sums of money to half the girls he comes across?
Hard to say. If he has aries moon then yes, definitely. Any other moon then it's still possible. He probably just called his bank after and said he didnt make that payment so the bank gave him his money back. ~thinking like a Taurus~click to expand
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I'm new, so please be kind.
I'm a Cancer woman. Of course I bloody am. Moon in pisces, ascendant Libra.
And for the past few months I have been talking to this Taurus man. Of course.
We have common friends. We talk at times. For the past 9 months we've been occasionally talking. I gues you'd say we are internet friends? He was there for me when I broke up with my boyfriend. And ever since then... it seems liek he's been trying to get closer to me, at teh speed of the stoned snail.
Started with sending me pictures of himself- very handsome man. This kind of confused me because what man sends pics of hismelf to a woman he'd never met? Not liek dick pics, pics of himself in various locales.
And if I comment on the pic? No answer.
Aside from being friendly and helpful he never gave me any sign he'd be interested in me.
And today he decided to send me a song. I'm confuised.
.
He is a vague aquaintance of my ex. When we broke up he gifted me plane tickets to go see my ex and try to work it out but... corona.
He's sent me a book and lent me a bit of money to make up the deposit I needed for a house I'm buying ( had an em.emmergency and had to dig into the funds I had set aside for it and ran short. I asked him and he sent it to me- in cash via DHL). I will pay him back asap.
I don't know if he's being friendly or interested.
I mean seriously, a Taurus willing to lend money? That's weird, right?
I don't know what to do with this. Any advice?