Taurus man, is it over? (Page 2)

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This thread has turned bizarre to me. He is a person. A whole ass person with goals and dreams. Goals and dreams he is pursuing. Goals and dreams he has had a loooong time before Op and he met. He switched from his own company.. see he owns it. Starting a business is easy,, keeping one going is not.. Most people cannot run a successful business when they try. This man makes decisions and stcks to them. Sets goals and sets out to accomplish them.

Are you guys that fucking lonely that the only thing that gives you fulfillment is a relationship? No goals you'll sacrifice yourself for? You'll set all your hopes and dreams you've had on the back burner for a connection you've had for a month? That is PEAK catlady shit. Especially when 50% of relationships end within the first 3 years... like most businesses. Or do you not have any hopes and dreams of your own and need someone else to give you a sense of purpose?

He's a prison guard... where is this money everyone keeps mentioning? Who gets wealthy as a prison guard? The only reason someone decides to leave THEIR OWN BUSINESS to be a prison guard is if it somehow fits their overall goal.. his is helping troubled youth.. that makes logical fucking sense.

How codependent are you people?

Yeah, I think this bull has a heart of gold. He is dedicating himself to the greater good.

OP… you see that right? You see he is a good man?

It is a sacrifice for him too. I don’t believe he is full of shit when he says he wished he had more time with you. It’s just that he has a strong calling for a bigger mission, and he’s got to get that done.

Even if you two end up friends, I think he will always admire you for supporting him through tough times.

That jealousy isn’t narcissism… it’s that he wishes he had the time to spend with you too. Right now he is working his ass off, and you are pleasure to him. You are the sweetness in his life.

I jus think there are different perspectives and I believe all should be seen and considered.

I 100% agree he is an amazing man. And I liked @NotMadHatter comment because I agree with everything he sd. My bull is a GOOD, hardworking man. I supported him through his interview process, cheering him on. I knew he'd get the position. Was with him through his first day and subsequent jump start into it. What he's doing is not easy at all. He faces a lot of stress at work. I did my best to just hold space and hopefully be a soft place for him at the end of the day or week.

I did say it before I fully support him in his goal, I admire his drive and I always want him to go after it. I told him time and time again how proud I was of him and that all I wanted was for him to win. I had/have no doubt he'll succeed. That's why I was patient and never asked of him or his time and allowed him to set the pace because I knew, understood and respected that he has was going through a huge transition and was focusing on his work and trying to establish his new routine. I never got upset if he had to cancel plans which only happened twice, because I got it. We never once fought. We always communicated really well in fact we were always laughing and teasing even if we were having a deeper serious convo. Being open & honest in a calm manner was always "us". I am very capable of being logical and being very empathetic none of that was an issue on either side. I too am a very busy single mom, like I sd, work full-time and doing a 2yr diploma so I get it. I know how hard it can be to find that balance for everything. That's the other reason I find quality time more important than quantity. When you're working hard to attain goals sometimes theres not much time but what time there is should be well invested.

I wasn't even looking to or wanting to date when we reconnected. I was focused on my work, daughter and studies, but with him, there was just something, different ( I know cliché) but its true.

I guess at the end of the day, I was just feeling a little stuck, shocked by the abrupt end and confused. I'm giving him his space because that's what he sd he needs and I fully respect that. There's just that voice in the back of my head wondering if he will reach out or if I try to push him from my mind.

Even though we didn't know each other long, we had extremely deep conversations, talked daily and he had become my best friend. I miss my friend and just wonder if he's ok. But I'm respecting his wishes and will allow him to reach out if he chooses to do so.

And I 100% agree with your statement on the jealousy part. He in no way sd it in a way that was narcissistic. I agree with you, it came from a place of seeing how close my friend and I are and wanting us to be like that because he misses how we were so close before he started this job. I told him only time spent together would do that but that what he & I would have would be so much more because my friend is just my friend and could never connect with me as deeply as my bull could. I was the sweetness anyhow. We haven't talked since. You get it though I feel. But I digress.

Don't you think if he loved you he could find 5 minutes a day to get in touch with you?

Exactly. If he can "love" from afar, so can she! 😆

🤣😂… OMG you’re a cancer moon too right?!?? You guys are hilariously similar!

Are we? LMAO

I would never baby sit and reach out every 2-3 weeks in hopes to catch his eye. lol

Craziness!

In hopes of catching his eye?!?? What an ODD thought 🤔

Babysit?

Lol… the whole interpretation seems skewed. And intentions are completely OFF - I don’t even know where to start with that 🤣😂

I don’t understand the logic of checking in with someone who is telling you that he won’t have any time for you and that he can’t commit to anything.

Maybe that’s why I think this way. lol

If she’s fine with being friends then it doesn’t matter.

You see how a little neglect can cause someone doubt and make them want to chase? Smh

I always call their bluffs and tell them dueces ✌️

🤣🤣

Hmmm🤔🤔🤔… so, you see this bull as strategizing?

You might have a point, earth signs ARE thinkers🤷🏻‍♀️.

What I said had less to do with logic and more to do with empathizing with the Bull. I’ve been in his shoes before and when I’m there, I DO like hearing from my loved ones once in a while. It keeps me sane. So I just wrote 2-3 weeks because when you are super busy a few weeks feels like two days. Time FLIES!

If I hear from them too much I feel more pressure on top of what I already have and that usually backfires.

I don’t see this bull as calculating and playing games… but that could very well just be my blind spot…who knows, I hope not.

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Your Gemini placements are broken 😞

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Posted by NotMadHatter

This thread has turned bizarre to me. He is a person. A whole ass person with goals and dreams. Goals and dreams he is pursuing. Goals and dreams he has had a loooong time before Op and he met. He switched from his own company.. see he owns it. Starting a business is easy,, keeping one going is not.. Most people cannot run a successful business when they try. This man makes decisions and stcks to them. Sets goals and sets out to accomplish them.

Are you guys that fucking lonely that the only thing that gives you fulfillment is a relationship? No goals you'll sacrifice yourself for? You'll set all your hopes and dreams you've had on the back burner for a connection you've had for a month? That is PEAK catlady shit. Especially when 50% of relationships end within the first 3 years... like most businesses. Or do you not have any hopes and dreams of your own and need someone else to give you a sense of purpose?

He's a prison guard... where is this money everyone keeps mentioning? Who gets wealthy as a prison guard? The only reason someone decides to leave THEIR OWN BUSINESS to be a prison guard is if it somehow fits their overall goal.. his is helping troubled youth.. that makes logical fucking sense.

How codependent are you people?

Yeah, I think this bull has a heart of gold. He is dedicating himself to the greater good.

OP… you see that right? You see he is a good man?

It is a sacrifice for him too. I don’t believe he is full of shit when he says he wished he had more time with you. It’s just that he has a strong calling for a bigger mission, and he’s got to get that done.

Even if you two end up friends, I think he will always admire you for supporting him through tough times.

That jealousy isn’t narcissism… it’s that he wishes he had the time to spend with you too. Right now he is working his ass off, and you are pleasure to him. You are the sweetness in his life.

I jus think there are different perspectives and I believe all should be seen and considered.

I 100% agree he is an amazing man. And I liked @NotMadHatter comment because I agree with everything he sd. My bull is a GOOD, hardworking man. I supported him through his interview process, cheering him on. I knew he'd get the position. Was with him through his first day and subsequent jump start into it. What he's doing is not easy at all. He faces a lot of stress at work. I did my best to just hold space and hopefully be a soft place for him at the end of the day or week.

I did say it before I fully support him in his goal, I admire his drive and I always want him to go after it. I told him time and time again how proud I was of him and that all I wanted was for him to win. I had/have no doubt he'll succeed. That's why I was patient and never asked of him or his time and allowed him to set the pace because I knew, understood and respected that he has was going through a huge transition and was focusing on his work and trying to establish his new routine. I never got upset if he had to cancel plans which only happened twice, because I got it. We never once fought. We always communicated really well in fact we were always laughing and teasing even if we were having a deeper serious convo. Being open & honest in a calm manner was always "us". I am very capable of being logical and being very empathetic none of that was an issue on either side. I too am a very busy single mom, like I sd, work full-time and doing a 2yr diploma so I get it. I know how hard it can be to find that balance for everything. That's the other reason I find quality time more important than quantity. When you're working hard to attain goals sometimes theres not much time but what time there is should be well invested.

I wasn't even looking to or wanting to date when we reconnected. I was focused on my work, daughter and studies, but with him, there was just something, different ( I know cliché) but its true.

I guess at the end of the day, I was just feeling a little stuck, shocked by the abrupt end and confused. I'm giving him his space because that's what he sd he needs and I fully respect that. There's just that voice in the back of my head wondering if he will reach out or if I try to push him from my mind.

Even though we didn't know each other long, we had extremely deep conversations, talked daily and he had become my best friend. I miss my friend and just wonder if he's ok. But I'm respecting his wishes and will allow him to reach out if he chooses to do so.

And I 100% agree with your statement on the jealousy part. He in no way sd it in a way that was narcissistic. I agree with you, it came from a place of seeing how close my friend and I are and wanting us to be like that because he misses how we were so close before he started this job. I told him only time spent together would do that but that what he & I would have would be so much more because my friend is just my friend and could never connect with me as deeply as my bull could. I was the sweetness anyhow. We haven't talked since. You get it though I feel. But I digress.

Don't you think if he loved you he could find 5 minutes a day to get in touch with you?

Exactly. If he can "love" from afar, so can she! 😆

🤣😂… OMG you’re a cancer moon too right?!?? You guys are hilariously similar!

Are we? LMAO

I would never baby sit and reach out every 2-3 weeks in hopes to catch his eye. lol

Craziness!

In hopes of catching his eye?!?? What an ODD thought 🤔

Babysit?

Lol… the whole interpretation seems skewed. And intentions are completely OFF - I don’t even know where to start with that 🤣😂

I don’t understand the logic of checking in with someone who is telling you that he won’t have any time for you and that he can’t commit to anything.

Maybe that’s why I think this way. lol

If she’s fine with being friends then it doesn’t matter.

You see how a little neglect can cause someone doubt and make them want to chase? Smh

I always call their bluffs and tell them dueces ✌️

🤣🤣

Hmmm🤔🤔🤔… so, you see this bull as strategizing?

You might have a point, earth signs ARE thinkers🤷🏻‍♀️.

What I said had less to do with logic and more to do with empathizing with the Bull. I’ve been in his shoes before and when I’m there, I DO like hearing from my loved ones once in a while. It keeps me sane. So I just wrote 2-3 weeks because when you are super busy a few weeks feels like two days. Time FLIES!

If I hear from them too much I feel more pressure on top of what I already have and that usually backfires.

I don’t see this bull as calculating and playing games… but that could very well just be my blind spot…who knows, I hope not.

Hope it's ok, I sent you a DM rather than respond on here😊 The convos seems to snowball a little sometimes and I can't keep up😳 LOL!

Yes of course, no worries ☺️👍🏼

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