"I love you."

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My Cap Dom ass hears this and goes:

- "You love the IDEA of me"

- " It's not SERIOUS love"

-" The fack is wrong with you? You don't know me aside from my personality!?!"

...so I MAY have someone constantly saying this to me and I know they're infatuated with me and want my D.

While a few others I shared this situation with would have been off put and scared off, at first I just thought they were just being extra trying to get laid.

Yet now I'm concerned for their heart since they seem naive and horny to me more than anything.
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Posted by BellabebeLike a fool, I’m waiting for that Capricorn to give me a 2nd chance and actually im old school I don’t go “dating” giving him more time I guess? I’m headed on vacation soon when I get back my mom says I’ll be a different person possibly then I’ll get him or get him out of my system it’s been a miserable existence not having him and not wanting anyone but him but this isn’t about me. Haahaa


#ScorpioProblems #FixedSignWoes

Hopefully you can get your a DandyGoat to cuddle!
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"Yet now I'm concerned for their heart since they seem naive and horny to me more than anything."



Chemically speaking, one cannot "feel" love and lust at the same time, since different hormonal surges are responsible for the brain "in love" or "in lust".

Maybe "I love you" repeated too many times translates into "Keep your dick in your pants and try to be more romantic, ffs!"
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Posted by Erin

I'd like to counter with:

How well can you really know anyone?

What is "serious love"? Does every relationship have to end with you dying in bed together at 90?

Who ARE you beside your personality? Your "soul"? pfft. That's just another side of your personality.

If they love you and you don't love them back then you should probably tell them instead of assuming it's just game and fucking them anyway. It could end very badly for you lol. Not a lot of women take kindly to that, especially the crazier ones.

Yeah, I'm not a fan of games like that.

I told them I wanted to know them better as person and as for their thirst, I want to say the online element makes them more bold with their thirst in my DMs.
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Posted by BellabebeI’d hate to not have true happiness I mean I can survive I’ve been doing that 34 plus years for the time we were together it was so nice! I never felt happier he was like a best friend and lover all wrapped up in one I think maybe his jealousy got the best of him because I had this Aries orbiter now I recognize I was stupid and should have told him clearly both parties but the Aries was like a brother to me and I never saw the drama until Capricorn left stage left and refused to see me


Ouch. Human interactions like relationships are messy. Must have been like living in a circle of hell for you for awhile as that stuff "settled", huh?
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Posted by Undine

"Yet now I'm concerned for their heart since they seem naive and horny to me more than anything."



Chemically speaking, one cannot "feel" love and lust at the same time, since different hormonal surges are responsible for the brain "in love" or "in lust".

Maybe "I love you" repeated too many times translates into "Keep your dick in your pants and try to be more romantic, ffs!"


We haven't had sex.
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I've been on the receiving end of that from a cap before

Where they flung "I love yous" until panties dropped?

Oh god no

Rather telling him I loved him and then he became all weird and constipated:

"Well.......I'm glad" LOL
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Emotional Constipation is a common thing for Capricorns. It's rough out here for us in these feels.

When you can't say I love you back, anything else makes us sound like assholes. Usually.
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My Cap Dom ass hears this and goes:

- "You love the IDEA of me"

- " It's not SERIOUS love"

-" The fack is wrong with you? You don't know me aside from my personality!?!"

I’m exactly the same way! When others have said it, I’ve smiled politely... and taken none serious, because I assume they say it lightly.

It takes YEARS for me to question myself... like “hmm... maybe he does love me”.

It’s almost a bit arrogant... thinking I’m the only one that knows the true meaning of LOVE and the seriousness of the matter. Or maybe it’s just a stubbornness of making sure I don’t ever feel like I fully belong to anyone🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️
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I believe it's good to ask if you see love as more as a "feeling" or "action"? Do choose to love someone or does love come and go like a mood? I rarely take things at face value and see love needing to be earned in some way. So when I don't have do anything to prove myself, I'm shook.
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So you mean to say that the cap who told me he loved me the first time we had sex didn’t really mean it?

Lol jk

how old was the Cap?

26

...was he drunk or did you simply own the bedroom that good you got him to say all sorts of things?
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We were both a little tipsy and I don’t remember if it was anything extraordinary but he must have enjoyed it enough to say it during the act 😄
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Posted by MrsElleCappysnatch

The best I love you from my Cap was recently......

He was on his way to an event with his son. I texted him to ask him to let me know when he arrived safely (it was several states away) so I wouldn't worry and it didnt matter what time.

His response....

"Okay. I love you too"

I had to scroll up a bit because I swear I didnt say I love you first, because we don't overuse it to death.

Sure enough, I didnt say it at all.

I melted into a puddle of awwwwwwwwweeree ❤❤🤣😂❤❤


He said that because that is how Caps show love and you were doing the same so he felt you were showing love and he replied in return.
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Posted by tiziani

" Deepa* grew up in western India, and when she was 19, she fell in love for the first time—with her college teacher. That Deepa's love for an older woman went unrequited wasn't very surprising. More unusual was that unlike most crushes, Deepa felt no sexual desire. At all. In fact, the idea of her teacher's body made Deepa cringe. And yet she loved her: her mind, her ideas, the reassuring beep of occasionally returned text messages.

It's not like Deepa never felt any desire, though. There were other women she frequently masturbated to: basketball teammates fervently kissing; Finnish ice hockey players warming one another on cold nights; women masturbating at home, bodies bathed in late-afternoon sunlight. Most of them had slightly masculine figures. Several were athletes. And all of them lived on Literotica.com—considered by some to be the internet's largest repository of erotica.

When people first began to use the term asexuality in the mid-20th century, it was widely seen as a complete lack of sexual desire. But as more people began to claim the identity for themselves in the late 90s, its definitions broadened to include a whole breadth of experiences.

"I feel sexual arousal, but I have not felt sexual attraction for anyone to date," said Deepa, now 23. "I am more inclined to have romantic attractions toward women, but I see attraction in terms of ideas, intellect, and emotional attachment. 'Body' is something I cannot think of." "


Holy moisturize, Tiz you're still around!?

Well I guess your harem refuses to let you go~

Anyway, while I can see how Asexuality could be seen as a viewing of this mindset, me personally that isn't the case.

As for others, could be a possibility. Though to really get into this post, I'd have to split sexual desire, emotional and intellectual depth and intimacy building into separate parts and then explain how they each differ and have overlap.

Unless someone else feels like dying on that hill.
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Posted by tizianihey man. No harem here, does such a thing even exist nowadays on DXP? Personally I am on the divine and holy path now lol

And no worries, I just wanted to post the counter-point that may be midly panic-inducing for people who are more visceral. To tell you the truth, the article depressed me a little. I mean I can relate to a lot of it - being more turned on by the idea of sex than the act itself - but that doesn't mean you just stop there, label yourself and say "well that's me done for a lifetime." My 2 cents.

Divine & Holy Path?

Vedic Version, Christian Version or New Age Spiritual Version?

Fair point Mr. Libra. Isn't it said Air-Signs have that trend of liking the *IDEA* of sex more than the actual act itself? I believe the more Fiery and Watery types would be the "visceral" ones due to how emotionally detached and dry that post sounded about a topic that is seen as something that should be filled with passion and feeling.

My earth placements give the perspective of separating the actions from the thoughts and feelings. They can be in different places to me and make sense, while others would find the idea appalling or sociopathic. Honestly not everyone is built to show and feel love in reckless abandon where they're helpless to all the feelings and loin a blazing romance so sought after and idealized these days. It's great to experience but it's not practical or rational in the least.