@stillstillwater
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empty love
It could go two ways
It’s either you or your with the wrong soul
rocky history ...
Past days I'm so deeply sad... from the distance that i've created for myself. Part of me just wants it all to blow up and be over... then another part wants to be gentle and nurture things... give it time and let it grow.
And regardless, I'll be the one to sacrifice my peace.
Love, lovin' you could make Jesus cry
Love ain't easy when it ain't my way
Have you ever felt you loved someone but still felt empty and cold inside... may be due to lack of trust or comfort?
How did you overcome it?
Not exactly but...I love him to the point of self destruction...
Even he is fucking fire:..I am hotter than him 300% !
Just today I said I am not satisfied sexually and he was hurt. And I felt like an ass...because I love him to death. I love him. And we will make it work.
It’s a long story. All matters that we love each other.
Have you ever felt you loved someone but still felt empty and cold inside... may be due to lack of trust or comfort?
How did you overcome it?
Not exactly but...I love him to the point of self destruction...
Even he is fucking fire:..I am hotter than him 300% !
Just today I said I am not satisfied sexually and he was hurt. And I felt like an ass...because I love him to death. I love him. And we will make it work.
It’s a long story. All matters that we love each other.
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Well the self-destruction is something you have within you. I believe you had those feelings with the Scorpio too, no?
Also i think most men would be hurt by "not sexually satisfied" because to them it's a reflection of their performance and manhood.
Have you ever felt you loved someone but still felt empty and cold inside... may be due to lack of trust or comfort?
How did you overcome it?
Not exactly but...I love him to the point of self destruction...
Even he is fucking fire:..I am hotter than him 300% !
Just today I said I am not satisfied sexually and he was hurt. And I felt like an ass...because I love him to death. I love him. And we will make it work.
It’s a long story. All matters that we love each other.
Well the self-destruction is something you have within you. I believe you had those feelings with the Scorpio too, no?
Also i think most men would be hurt by "not sexually satisfied" because to them it's a reflection of their performance and manhood.
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Oh yeah! Scorpio was my self destruction and than later thought me how to live and enjoy suffering within...he is my everything forever.
I am as blunt and stupid telling Aries about being not sexually satisfied meaning for me sex isn’t penetration...it’s being held in his arms and this is what his Aqua ass isn’t good with:..
We are fine. It’s complicated...
if i feel empty or uneasy then its a gut feeling telling me that this person is not the one for me
I feel empty when I can’t give love. I like having someone to love and dote on.
I feel empty when I can’t give love. I like having someone to love and dote on.
dote on
like cook for
I'm here for you
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Yes. I cook good. I’ll get you fat. 😋
Have you ever felt you loved someone but still felt empty and cold inside... may be due to lack of trust or comfort?
How did you overcome it?
By moving on to someone else. Try it, it works.
Yeap.. there's no overcoming it.. you just leave.
Real love doesn't allow you to feel cold and empty inside.
I feel the same as Impulsive, you're either tied to the wrong soul, or you have some soul searching of your own to do..
That's pretty deep and definitely taking this to heart.
Let me think about this.......
Yeap.. there's no overcoming it.. you just leave.
Real love doesn't allow you to feel cold and empty inside.
I feel the same as Impulsive, you're either tied to the wrong soul, or you have some soul searching of your own to do..
That's pretty deep and definitely taking this to heart.
Let me think about this.......
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Just take into consideration all of the things you have together that are making you feel warm AND those that making you cold and empty...
Sometimes it’s just our own shit we blowing out of proportions and nursing them for no apparent reason. Sometimes partner has no idea what’s going on and they can’t change it.
Can you put a finger on what’s not enough?
Is it cold and empty or just easy to fix if you’ve talked it over?
I am finding every time I am throwing tantrum his eyes like...wtf are you talking about? And sometimes looking at his lost face giving me such guilt so I wish I had never said or done what I had...
It’s really too deep of a question. Hope it’ll bring some more responses that will help. 🙌
Past days I'm so deeply sad... from the distance that i've created for myself. Part of me just wants it all to blow up and be over... then another part wants to be gentle and nurture things... give it time and let it grow.
That's your trauma talking. Your bad emotional habbits and patterns. It feels like it's not right, but it actually is. You are learning something new in life and about happyness and yourself.
I believe Love is about feeling relaxed. My rule is if I feel relaxed than I am in love and can love. If I'm not I can't and am not in love
For me, that’s about protection and tends to be about unhealthy love. Healthy love you grow together and encourage, support each other. I don’t feel cold in that scenario.
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Have you ever felt you loved someone but still felt empty and cold inside... may be due to lack of trust or comfort?
How did you overcome it?