Is this behaviour normal?

I met a lot of weird guys but this capricorn guy takes the prize. So we met online and he texted me everyday, we flirted a lot with each other, i didn't take him seriously because i thought he is playing with me. Then last week he said he wanted to meet and he came near where I live. It went well, he was very nice, affectionate, kissed me and said he wanted to see me again.. Then he texted me he arrived home and goodnight and the next day he texted me good morning and to wish me a good day and continued texting as we normally do. It was Friday so i was going to spend the weekend at my friend's house (female) so in the evening i sent him a picture with her so that he would see i wasn't lying..

After that, silence! he didn't send a reply, so the next day in the afternoon i texted to see what's up. He replied quickly.. Said he was having coffee with a friend and asked me what I'm doing. I said i was with my friend. And silence again... Until now! Still he didn't initiate the conversation. I thought I won't text again. I read that capricorn men tend to disappear sometimes and come back.

This was very strange for me. If he didn't like me, i thought he wouldn't have texted me after meeting and the next morning... Sorry for the long post. Just wanted to know someone's experience, if this is normal behaviour. Thanks, 😊😊😊

I don't know, but he said to me before that he must have competition. And I said No, I'm normal... I don't have his chart.. I don't know him so well to be honest..

Yes, it is normal behaviour! Polite, in fact.

What did you want him to have done differently? Blow up your phone when you told him you were busy?

This is typical male behavior in dating. Well, I see this a lot no matter what sign he is. I personally have been seeing a cap for about a year now and he does that all the time. Like disengaged behaviorism...lets just say I am not the same hopeful person I was when I first met him. My advice since you're early in this....don't waste your time move on to someone that gives you energy that lasts. That half ass energy sucks.

Posted by Undine

Yes, it is normal behaviour! Polite, in fact.

What did you want him to have done differently? Blow up your phone when you told him you were busy?

I thought that he might not have texted because he thought that I was busy. But it wasn't my intention. In fact the next day I texted him.. Hmmm I don't want to text again. I thought i will leave him be. I think it's worse to chase him. 😕

Posted by Mochakitty4

This is typical male behavior in dating. Well, I see this a lot no matter what sign he is. I personally have been seeing a cap for about a year now and he does that all the time. Like disengaged behaviorism...lets just say I am not the same hopeful person I was when I first met him. My advice since you're early in this....don't waste your time move on to someone that gives you energy that lasts. That half ass energy sucks.

You mean he disappears for some days and comes back?

I also dated guys that disappeared but this was really weird.. He was fine then he changed suddenly on the same day 😅

Do you let him reach out to you? Chasing him is worse i think .

You said you were with your friend. So he didn't text you and annoy you while your enjoying your time with them. I don't think that's weird at all.

Maybe you should initiate the next meeting/date. Don't let it be one-sided. Show the guy you are interested.

Posted by Mochakitty4

This is typical male behavior in dating. Well, I see this a lot no matter what sign he is. I personally have been seeing a cap for about a year now and he does that all the time. Like disengaged behaviorism...lets just say I am not the same hopeful person I was when I first met him. My advice since you're early in this....don't waste your time move on to someone that gives you energy that lasts. That half ass energy sucks.

You must be a Leo or having a strong Leo placement, that is why your head is so high in the sky and you're giving such stupid advices to the OP.

She clearly mentioned she was with her friend, the guy probably wanted to make plans with her for the weekend but got disappointed and decided not to disturb her and sound desperate. What's bad in that? It's decent behaviour to me.

I can bet you would be saying "he's desperate, Leave him." if he forced the OP to cancel plans with her friends.

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Posted by Mochakitty4

This is typical male behavior in dating. Well, I see this a lot no matter what sign he is. I personally have been seeing a cap for about a year now and he does that all the time. Like disengaged behaviorism...lets just say I am not the same hopeful person I was when I first met him. My advice since you're early in this....don't waste your time move on to someone that gives you energy that lasts. That half ass energy sucks.

You must be a Leo or having a strong Leo placement, that is why your head is so high in the sky and you're giving such stupid advices to the OP.

She clearly mentioned she was with her friend, the guy probably wanted to make plans with her for the weekend but got disappointed and decided not to disturb her and sound desperate. What's bad in that? It's decent behaviour to me.

I can bet you would be saying "he's desperate, Leave him." if he forced the OP to cancel plans with her friends.

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lol youre wrong not a leoooo dayuum what did they do to you? now go take your argument and sass to the peanut gallery! I could care less about your silly observation :p

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Posted by Undine

Yes, it is normal behaviour! Polite, in fact.

What did you want him to have done differently? Blow up your phone when you told him you were busy?

I thought that he might not have texted because he thought that I was busy. But it wasn't my intention. In fact the next day I texted him.. Hmmm I don't want to text again. I thought i will leave him be. I think it's worse to chase him. 😕

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yeah just leave him be for now

Posted by Mochakitty4

This is typical male behavior in dating. Well, I see this a lot no matter what sign he is. I personally have been seeing a cap for about a year now and he does that all the time. Like disengaged behaviorism...lets just say I am not the same hopeful person I was when I first met him. My advice since you're early in this....don't waste your time move on to someone that gives you energy that lasts. That half ass energy sucks.

Is this like a capricorn thing?

I've been with a capricorn for more than a year now and at first I was pretty meh but I was engaged enough somewhat but he'd always sulk about how I didn't seem invested enough

But when I did get so much more invested, he started to act like dismissive whenever he's upset

These people... I'm wondering if it's a power thing

    I see life as a movie. If you stop the movie, you must resume where we left off. If you skip parts, it shows me your inconsistent, meaning you don't care or you simply cannot balance your life. Both red flags for prosperous future in general, whether personal or being a couple.

    Both of you shared a moment. You shared a moment with another. You can choose to share both moments with the other or choose not too. Both come with consequences. It's your job to figure out which works best for your goal at hand.