@Chupka
9 Years
This capricorn....
But 3 years? Lol
Yes, he is actually blocked right now. He always found a way to reach out. Part of me wants to reach out to clear the air between us. But part of me tells me hes just going to ignore everything about the emotions.
It is awful.
Toronto
Where u from?
Why do you ask?
Toronto
Where u from?
Why the username chupka?
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I can not get over him. It has been 3 years when we met, and I fell for him. It did not work out (long story). I still cry for him. There is not a second I dont think about him. Has he tried to reach out? Yes. But I'm not about to drop my feelings to him KNOWING he has another woman.
I literally think I have gone mad lol. I have never felt like this for a man.....and I'm doing what I can to shake him off (self talk, therapy, energy work, keeping busy) but I can't 😭😭😭. Has anybody gone through this experience before?
Certainly. Not as long as you as far as a cap, but with other signs.
Untill one day you just somehow slowly learn and realize and know within, that the guy is not as great, as you thought, and the feelings to want to have any type of specific relationship with him is just gone. Poof. Let time do it's work. When you hold on to people like this, it is solely because there is something you have to learn from it. Always. Sometimes it just takes a loooooobg time to figure out exactly what. Sorry you feel this way.
But 3 years? Lol
Yes, he is actually blocked right now. He always found a way to reach out. Part of me wants to reach out to clear the air between us. But part of me tells me hes just going to ignore everything about the emotions.
It is awful.
4 years girl. I had several talks or tried to to clear the air and say my piece and find peace. It never worked.
What worked was when I finally was being honest about how some of his behaviour made me feel, then he got angry/annoyed or whatever and texted me, that we were not gonna be in touch anymore and deleted me from Facebook (no insta and Snapchat then). It hurt!... For a few days and then all I felt and have felt ever since was relief. Such a relief to not have to deal with my emotions for him more, constantly trying to decide if he was trustworthy, if he was interested or not, if he was being genuine or not, constantly trying to figure things out. He did me a huge favour. I have never ever wanted him back in my life and just wish hin well.
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It just is. Why do you ask?
Toronto
Where u from?
Why the username chupka?
A am asking what it means?
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Ugh, these messages made me tear up. Thanks guys, I know when I met him, I just ended a 10 year relationship, and lost everything plus my soul. Lol he saw me vulnerable, and stumped on my head. I am better than that, but man, it is taking me a while to get it.
Love made me very stupid hahaha
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I can not get over him. It has been 3 years when we met, and I fell for him. It did not work out (long story). I still cry for him. There is not a second I dont think about him. Has he tried to reach out? Yes. But I'm not about to drop my feelings to him KNOWING he has another woman.
I literally think I have gone mad lol. I have never felt like this for a man.....and I'm doing what I can to shake him off (self talk, therapy, energy work, keeping busy) but I can't 😭😭😭. Has anybody gone through this experience before?