Mystical pisces
@Klh1203
8 YearsPisces
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His Aqua moon is very selfish
I think you should find someone else your more compatible with.
Posted by DMV
I think you should find someone else your more compatible with.
I’m thinking that too I just needed confirmation
Posted by _mudra
Tbh, you are a hell of a lot of water for an aqua moon lol. Aqua moons can be emotional, lovey and comitted but it takes a bit and if it's forced and nagged... hmm.. good luck with that
The best thing you can do for yourself is tell him something along the lines of "it seems like there is some confusion on your end and that is ok. I'm going to take some space because I don't want to get any closer to someone who isn't sure of what they want" nothing else needs to be said. Keep it short and to the point. It's not working for you.
^^^ and that doesn't work if you give in right away at his next text. Give it some time for him to think about and get on with your life. If that means you find someone else... psh. Then whatever. If he doesn't come back around... then you have your answer.
Yeah I thought it would work because he’s a cancer sun, but I’m too water for him like he’s sensitive but he will never show it. I’ve actually thought about saying something similar on the lines of what you said there so that’s just confirmed it for me.
Posted by Arielle83
You’re acting a doormat, because you want him to pick you.
It seems desperate.
Who cares about the label.
It changes nothing, but will make you act more vulnerable and possessive.
Then he’ll ask where that casual chick went.
Then he’ll ghost.
Like why you waiting for nothing?
Yep you’re very right
Posted by Klh1203Posted by DMV
I think you should find someone else your more compatible with.
I’m thinking that too I just needed confirmationclick to expand
I mean if you cant be emotionally vulnerable what is the point.
Scorpio moon NEEDS to go deep.
Listen to your gut. Realize that you're only missing out a real soul encompassing love.
Posted by DMVPosted by Klh1203Posted by DMV
I think you should find someone else your more compatible with.
I’m thinking that too I just needed confirmation
I mean if you cant be emotionally vulnerable what is the point.
Scorpio moon NEEDS to go deep.
Listen to your gut. Realize that you're only missing out a real soul encompassing love.click to expand
That’s the thing I’m so spiritual, I get that from my pisces sun and my Scorpio moon. I’m always spiritually on a higher level but with this man I’m conflicted. I think the fact that the psychic I went to told me he has been hurt by his ex and still has feelings for her threw me off - I can’t stand sht like that because my ex husband used to cheat on me with other women so now I’m automatically defensive because of it. My heart tells me he cares a lot about me and genuinely likes me and is enjoying my company and we’re still getting to know each other but I’m scared that because I feel so deeply about him if it doesn’t work out I would have invested time just to get hurt
Posted by HearttofTopazz
Scorpio moon married to an aqua moon.
We are middle school sweethearts and it took over a decade together before we even decided to get married.
They can def be annoying & will clam up if pushed too far, but so can our Scorpio moon. Nothing good can/will happen if both of these moons don’t communicate.
It works best if you try to find an even exchange of effort/energy.. that you’re both comfortable with. Both of these moons need their space.
Set a baseline, and step away when you’re not comfortable. He needs to do the same.
4 months is really no time at all. Focus on a friendship first, then the rest will fall into place. Save the exclusivity talk for later.
I’m very impatient. Thank you for sharing your experience and I’m happy that you have found that balance and was able to make it work♥️
Scorpio moon doesn’t work so well for me. One guy I dated thought I was judging him all the time when I wasn’t. Everything became some big emotional thing, and I did a lot of 🙄🙄🙄 Tbh I had a big wall up because I was protecting myself from the next emotional thing. I’m very laid back.. I don’t get why that’s a bad thing. Should be easier to get along with us.
Moon compatibility is probably more important than the sun sign compatibility as the moon sign is the emotions and how to make the person feel happy. Your Scorpio moon is too possessive, controlling and emotional and his aqua moon is cool/cold, independent. Another problem is that both your moons although different elements are both fixed eg. stubborn it will be like banging your heads on a brick wall to see “eye to eye” and to add to that you sun sign is the “slippery fish” and he is the “crabby crab”.
Also scorpions moons are emotional and like to go deep with an air sign moon, he will never be able to fulfill this need. A lot of willing communication is needed here. Water and air is not a good mix; a bit like “oil and water “ really.
Pisces are very clingy. Try not to cling and network, circulate meet more people and eventually you will find someone more compatible for you.
Also scorpions moons are emotional and like to go deep with an air sign moon, he will never be able to fulfill this need. A lot of willing communication is needed here. Water and air is not a good mix; a bit like “oil and water “ really.
Pisces are very clingy. Try not to cling and network, circulate meet more people and eventually you will find someone more compatible for you.
Posted by Klh1203
I absolutely love him, and adore him but shall I wait and see if this goes somewhere? Or shall I just nip it in the bud now.
It depends..
Are you willing to give up impromptu trips to Paris for the weekend?
Posted by _DazedPosted by Klh1203
I absolutely love him, and adore him but shall I wait and see if this goes somewhere? Or shall I just nip it in the bud now.
It depends..
Are you willing to give up impromptu trips to Paris for the weekend?click to expand
I need more than that.
Posted by Klh1203Posted by _DazedPosted by Klh1203
I absolutely love him, and adore him but shall I wait and see if this goes somewhere? Or shall I just nip it in the bud now.
It depends..
Are you willing to give up impromptu trips to Paris for the weekend?
I need more than that.click to expand
Obviously it's not.
It's been MONTHS with this guy and you've yet to vocalize this "need" to him.
Is he a mind reader? Has his tarot/psychic reading business been hurt by the corona virus lockdown?
Posted by _DazedPosted by Klh1203Posted by _DazedPosted by Klh1203
I absolutely love him, and adore him but shall I wait and see if this goes somewhere? Or shall I just nip it in the bud now.
It depends..
Are you willing to give up impromptu trips to Paris for the weekend?
I need more than that.
Obviously it's not.
It's been MONTHS with this guy and you've yet to vocalize this "need" to him.
Is he a mind reader? Has his tarot/psychic reading business been hurt by the corona virus lockdown?click to expand
Yes he is a mind reader.
Aqua moon does not blend well with Scorpio moon one bit. I was talking to this Gem sun, Scorpio moon dude and while we did have sun sign compatibility in our favour, he scared the crap out of me within three days of talking to him. He was already possessive and controlling. This doesn’t work well for Aqua moon. We’re still friends but never will I look at him the same.
I have quite a few Scorpio moon male and female friends. They are very protective, territorial and caring of me as friends and I love it. Super nurturing and hospitable too but I can’t help wonder what they’d be like with their partners. If they are that territorial and protective with their friends, then they would be way more for a lover. In friendship, it works even though it can be suffocating at times, but it won’t get off the ground romantically.
I have quite a few Scorpio moon male and female friends. They are very protective, territorial and caring of me as friends and I love it. Super nurturing and hospitable too but I can’t help wonder what they’d be like with their partners. If they are that territorial and protective with their friends, then they would be way more for a lover. In friendship, it works even though it can be suffocating at times, but it won’t get off the ground romantically.
Posted by Klh1203Posted by DMVPosted by Klh1203Posted by DMV
I think you should find someone else your more compatible with.
I’m thinking that too I just needed confirmation
I mean if you cant be emotionally vulnerable what is the point.
Scorpio moon NEEDS to go deep.
Listen to your gut. Realize that you're only missing out a real soul encompassing love.
That’s the thing I’m so spiritual, I get that from my pisces sun and my Scorpio moon. I’m always spiritually on a higher level but with this man I’m conflicted. I think the fact that the psychic I went to told me he has been hurt by his ex and still has feelings for her threw me off - I can’t stand sht like that because my ex husband used to cheat on me with other women so now I’m automatically defensive because of it. My heart tells me he cares a lot about me and genuinely likes me and is enjoying my company and we’re still getting to know each other but I’m scared that because I feel so deeply about him if it doesn’t work out I would have invested time just to get hurtclick to expand
Your spending time with someone you want to be with and love. In what world is that a waste of time?
A honest question. Past trama for the both of you set aside, what is it you truly want from him you are not already getting?
Moon square moon 🌝 🥴
Posted by MyStarsShine
Moon square moon 🌝 🥴
Even his Leo mercury and my Pisces mercury 😭 but everything else matches.
Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by Klh1203Posted by DMVPosted by Klh1203Posted by DMV
I think you should find someone else your more compatible with.
I’m thinking that too I just needed confirmation
I mean if you cant be emotionally vulnerable what is the point.
Scorpio moon NEEDS to go deep.
Listen to your gut. Realize that you're only missing out a real soul encompassing love.
That’s the thing I’m so spiritual, I get that from my pisces sun and my Scorpio moon. I’m always spiritually on a higher level but with this man I’m conflicted. I think the fact that the psychic I went to told me he has been hurt by his ex and still has feelings for her threw me off - I can’t stand sht like that because my ex husband used to cheat on me with other women so now I’m automatically defensive because of it. My heart tells me he cares a lot about me and genuinely likes me and is enjoying my company and we’re still getting to know each other but I’m scared that because I feel so deeply about him if it doesn’t work out I would have invested time just to get hurt
Your spending time with someone you want to be with and love. In what world is that a waste of time?
A honest question. Past trama for the both of you set aside, what is it you truly want from him you are not already getting?click to expand
You’re right it isn’t exactly going to be a waste of time but I’m turning 30 in 3 years and I have a desire to be married so really any relationship I get in to now I want it to be a potential marriage.
I want him to be more open, I would like him to put more effort in. He makes effort but it’s not often, he’s just very cold. Then when I distance myself that’s when he will open up as a way to not lose me. Other than that if I’m not around him and we’re speaking it’s like we’re just friends. When I’m around him though I feel the affection and warmth and it’s different.
Posted by aquarius09
Aqua moon does not blend well with Scorpio moon one bit. I was talking to this Gem sun, Scorpio moon dude and while we did have sun sign compatibility in our favour, he scared the crap out of me within three days of talking to him. He was already possessive and controlling. This doesn’t work well for Aqua moon. We’re still friends but never will I look at him the same.
I have quite a few Scorpio moon male and female friends. They are very protective, territorial and caring of me as friends and I love it. Super nurturing and hospitable too but I can’t help wonder what they’d be like with their partners. If they are that territorial and protective with their friends, then they would be way more for a lover. In friendship, it works even though it can be suffocating at times, but it won’t get off the ground romantically.
Yeah I get that. He does sometimes feel overwhelmed by me when I have my moments but I don’t have them all the time. I’m actually not an affectionate person he’s more affectionate than me like I would not kiss him or hug him it’s him that tells me to do it lol..
My problem is I want to feel the love not the coldness. But not all the time because for me I like a balance of it not too much but not too little (maybe comes from my Libra rising). I’m sensitive and deep but I do not show it I can’t really explain what I mean.. like it comes out at times but I’m scared of showing emotion due to past trauma so that’s the only reason why he still has me around because yes I do have my moments but it’s not often lol also he’s a cancer so even though it’s too much for him he doesn’t mind the sensitivity to an extent.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by Klh1203Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by Klh1203Posted by DMVPosted by Klh1203Posted by DMV
I think you should find someone else your more compatible with.
I’m thinking that too I just needed confirmation
I mean if you cant be emotionally vulnerable what is the point.
Scorpio moon NEEDS to go deep.
Listen to your gut. Realize that you're only missing out a real soul encompassing love.
That’s the thing I’m so spiritual, I get that from my pisces sun and my Scorpio moon. I’m always spiritually on a higher level but with this man I’m conflicted. I think the fact that the psychic I went to told me he has been hurt by his ex and still has feelings for her threw me off - I can’t stand sht like that because my ex husband used to cheat on me with other women so now I’m automatically defensive because of it. My heart tells me he cares a lot about me and genuinely likes me and is enjoying my company and we’re still getting to know each other but I’m scared that because I feel so deeply about him if it doesn’t work out I would have invested time just to get hurt
Your spending time with someone you want to be with and love. In what world is that a waste of time?
A honest question. Past trama for the both of you set aside, what is it you truly want from him you are not already getting?
You’re right it isn’t exactly going to be a waste of time but I’m turning 30 in 3 years and I have a desire to be married so really any relationship I get in to now I want it to be a potential marriage.
I want him to be more open, I would like him to put more effort in. He makes effort but it’s not often, he’s just very cold. Then when I distance myself that’s when he will open up as a way to not lose me. Other than that if I’m not around him and we’re speaking it’s like we’re just friends. When I’m around him though I feel the affection and warmth and it’s different.
If you’re going to fall into the expectation of being married by 30, then you’re already lowering your standard.click to expand
You’re so negative, every time you comment on someone’s post it’s always so negative. God bless you. Lol.
I've known 1 scorpio moon for almost 10yrs
Another 5yrs
Aqua moon will fall for scorpio soon and you'll feel it alright
LOL
Another 5yrs
Aqua moon will fall for scorpio soon and you'll feel it alright
LOL
Posted by ELIGAB
I've known 1 scorpio moon for almost 10yrs
Another 5yrs
Aqua moon will fall for scorpio soon and you'll feel it alright
LOL
I’m already feeling it slightly like constantly every minute he wants to be around me but then he’ll realise what he’s doing and shut down lmao it’s confusing
Posted by Klh1203Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by Klh1203Posted by DMVPosted by Klh1203Posted by DMV
I think you should find someone else your more compatible with.
I’m thinking that too I just needed confirmation
I mean if you cant be emotionally vulnerable what is the point.
Scorpio moon NEEDS to go deep.
Listen to your gut. Realize that you're only missing out a real soul encompassing love.
That’s the thing I’m so spiritual, I get that from my pisces sun and my Scorpio moon. I’m always spiritually on a higher level but with this man I’m conflicted. I think the fact that the psychic I went to told me he has been hurt by his ex and still has feelings for her threw me off - I can’t stand sht like that because my ex husband used to cheat on me with other women so now I’m automatically defensive because of it. My heart tells me he cares a lot about me and genuinely likes me and is enjoying my company and we’re still getting to know each other but I’m scared that because I feel so deeply about him if it doesn’t work out I would have invested time just to get hurt
Your spending time with someone you want to be with and love. In what world is that a waste of time?
A honest question. Past trama for the both of you set aside, what is it you truly want from him you are not already getting?
You’re right it isn’t exactly going to be a waste of time but I’m turning 30 in 3 years and I have a desire to be married so really any relationship I get in to now I want it to be a potential marriage.
I want him to be more open, I would like him to put more effort in. He makes effort but it’s not often, he’s just very cold. Then when I distance myself that’s when he will open up as a way to not lose me. Other than that if I’m not around him and we’re speaking it’s like we’re just friends. When I’m around him though I feel the affection and warmth and it’s different.click to expand
based on what you said my gut tells me he still has doubts long term. He is in no hurry. I prefer the friendship route first myself.
The other possibility is he isn't actually aware of what is is doing/not doing to a extent. I say this because I personally did not see what a healthy relationship looks like from relationships around me. Just not what to do lol. I would definitely point out exactly what you just said to him in a non challenging manner. Especially the difference in emotional connection around others. Use a non judgemental mindset. Look to understand rather then judging or taking it personally. Discuss your individual perspectives. I fully accept the chance I'm wrong and he is just fundamentally different emotionally. My brother is a aqua moon. I do see his squishy side though. Squares are a learning experience. That is the challenge of them.
Whatever happens after that happens. 27? Your still young :-)
Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by Klh1203Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by Klh1203Posted by DMVPosted by Klh1203Posted by DMV
I think you should find someone else your more compatible with.
I’m thinking that too I just needed confirmation
I mean if you cant be emotionally vulnerable what is the point.
Scorpio moon NEEDS to go deep.
Listen to your gut. Realize that you're only missing out a real soul encompassing love.
That’s the thing I’m so spiritual, I get that from my pisces sun and my Scorpio moon. I’m always spiritually on a higher level but with this man I’m conflicted. I think the fact that the psychic I went to told me he has been hurt by his ex and still has feelings for her threw me off - I can’t stand sht like that because my ex husband used to cheat on me with other women so now I’m automatically defensive because of it. My heart tells me he cares a lot about me and genuinely likes me and is enjoying my company and we’re still getting to know each other but I’m scared that because I feel so deeply about him if it doesn’t work out I would have invested time just to get hurt
Your spending time with someone you want to be with and love. In what world is that a waste of time?
A honest question. Past trama for the both of you set aside, what is it you truly want from him you are not already getting?
You’re right it isn’t exactly going to be a waste of time but I’m turning 30 in 3 years and I have a desire to be married so really any relationship I get in to now I want it to be a potential marriage.
I want him to be more open, I would like him to put more effort in. He makes effort but it’s not often, he’s just very cold. Then when I distance myself that’s when he will open up as a way to not lose me. Other than that if I’m not around him and we’re speaking it’s like we’re just friends. When I’m around him though I feel the affection and warmth and it’s different.
based on what you said my gut tells me he still has doubts long term. He is in no hurry. I prefer the friendship route first myself.
The other possibility is he isn't actually aware of what is is doing/not doing to a extent. I say this because I personally did not see what a healthy relationship looks like from relationships around me. Just not what to do lol. I would definitely point out exactly what you just said to him in a non challenging manner. Especially the difference in emotional connection around others. Use a non judgemental mindset. Look to understand rather then judging or taking it personally. Discuss your individual perspectives. I fully accept the chance I'm wrong and he is just fundamentally different emotionally. My brother is a aqua moon. I do see his squishy side though. Squares are a learning experience. That is the challenge of them.
Whatever happens after that happens. 27? Your still young :-)click to expand
Thank you for your advice so it’s a quick update .... today he has been very open with me he’s basically insinuated that we are in a relationship but without saying the word... so ok that’s one thing and then he mentioned how we should move in together one day which was very very very very shocking like I was so surprised he said that. Obviously he doesn’t mean like now but it was something he’s thought about. I’m very shocked like this actually came out of his mouth ?? Yet I’m not his girlfriend —? He won’t actually come out with that word it’s like he avoids using that word.
Ok today he’s not only just told me he wants us to live together but now he’s telling me how he feels about me .. this is weird but I’m happy nevertheless at least now I know where I stand lol
Actions, Pisces. Actions.
Posted by Klh1203Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by Klh1203Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by Klh1203Posted by DMVPosted by Klh1203Posted by DMV
I think you should find someone else your more compatible with.
I’m thinking that too I just needed confirmation
I mean if you cant be emotionally vulnerable what is the point.
Scorpio moon NEEDS to go deep.
Listen to your gut. Realize that you're only missing out a real soul encompassing love.
That’s the thing I’m so spiritual, I get that from my pisces sun and my Scorpio moon. I’m always spiritually on a higher level but with this man I’m conflicted. I think the fact that the psychic I went to told me he has been hurt by his ex and still has feelings for her threw me off - I can’t stand sht like that because my ex husband used to cheat on me with other women so now I’m automatically defensive because of it. My heart tells me he cares a lot about me and genuinely likes me and is enjoying my company and we’re still getting to know each other but I’m scared that because I feel so deeply about him if it doesn’t work out I would have invested time just to get hurt
Your spending time with someone you want to be with and love. In what world is that a waste of time?
A honest question. Past trama for the both of you set aside, what is it you truly want from him you are not already getting?
You’re right it isn’t exactly going to be a waste of time but I’m turning 30 in 3 years and I have a desire to be married so really any relationship I get in to now I want it to be a potential marriage.
I want him to be more open, I would like him to put more effort in. He makes effort but it’s not often, he’s just very cold. Then when I distance myself that’s when he will open up as a way to not lose me. Other than that if I’m not around him and we’re speaking it’s like we’re just friends. When I’m around him though I feel the affection and warmth and it’s different.
based on what you said my gut tells me he still has doubts long term. He is in no hurry. I prefer the friendship route first myself.
The other possibility is he isn't actually aware of what is is doing/not doing to a extent. I say this because I personally did not see what a healthy relationship looks like from relationships around me. Just not what to do lol. I would definitely point out exactly what you just said to him in a non challenging manner. Especially the difference in emotional connection around others. Use a non judgemental mindset. Look to understand rather then judging or taking it personally. Discuss your individual perspectives. I fully accept the chance I'm wrong and he is just fundamentally different emotionally. My brother is a aqua moon. I do see his squishy side though. Squares are a learning experience. That is the challenge of them.
Whatever happens after that happens. 27? Your still young :-)
Thank you for your advice so it’s a quick update .... today he has been very open with me he’s basically insinuated that we are in a relationship but without saying the word... so ok that’s one thing and then he mentioned how we should move in together one day which was very very very very shocking like I was so surprised he said that. Obviously he doesn’t mean like now but it was something he’s thought about. I’m very shocked like this actually came out of his mouth ?? Yet I’m not his girlfriend —? He won’t actually come out with that word it’s like he avoids using that word.click to expand
Open acknowledgment and demonstration means a lot to you doesn't it? Have that conversation I mentioned before in the spirit of how I suggested.
The acknowledgment and demonstration...there is your way and his way. I recommend exploring that too. Mention it during the first but communicate to save it for a later date.I say this so he doesn't feel like your trying to change or control him. Just understand and learn him the person you care about. Don't bite off more then you can chew lol. One thing at a time.
Is it really that unusual for people to be excited to explore/understand each other in this way? I wonder if I'm a oddity or just weird.
Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by Klh1203Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by Klh1203Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by Klh1203Posted by DMVPosted by Klh1203Posted by DMV
I think you should find someone else your more compatible with.
I’m thinking that too I just needed confirmation
I mean if you cant be emotionally vulnerable what is the point.
Scorpio moon NEEDS to go deep.
Listen to your gut. Realize that you're only missing out a real soul encompassing love.
That’s the thing I’m so spiritual, I get that from my pisces sun and my Scorpio moon. I’m always spiritually on a higher level but with this man I’m conflicted. I think the fact that the psychic I went to told me he has been hurt by his ex and still has feelings for her threw me off - I can’t stand sht like that because my ex husband used to cheat on me with other women so now I’m automatically defensive because of it. My heart tells me he cares a lot about me and genuinely likes me and is enjoying my company and we’re still getting to know each other but I’m scared that because I feel so deeply about him if it doesn’t work out I would have invested time just to get hurt
Your spending time with someone you want to be with and love. In what world is that a waste of time?
A honest question. Past trama for the both of you set aside, what is it you truly want from him you are not already getting?
You’re right it isn’t exactly going to be a waste of time but I’m turning 30 in 3 years and I have a desire to be married so really any relationship I get in to now I want it to be a potential marriage.
I want him to be more open, I would like him to put more effort in. He makes effort but it’s not often, he’s just very cold. Then when I distance myself that’s when he will open up as a way to not lose me. Other than that if I’m not around him and we’re speaking it’s like we’re just friends. When I’m around him though I feel the affection and warmth and it’s different.
based on what you said my gut tells me he still has doubts long term. He is in no hurry. I prefer the friendship route first myself.
The other possibility is he isn't actually aware of what is is doing/not doing to a extent. I say this because I personally did not see what a healthy relationship looks like from relationships around me. Just not what to do lol. I would definitely point out exactly what you just said to him in a non challenging manner. Especially the difference in emotional connection around others. Use a non judgemental mindset. Look to understand rather then judging or taking it personally. Discuss your individual perspectives. I fully accept the chance I'm wrong and he is just fundamentally different emotionally. My brother is a aqua moon. I do see his squishy side though. Squares are a learning experience. That is the challenge of them.
Whatever happens after that happens. 27? Your still young :-)
Thank you for your advice so it’s a quick update .... today he has been very open with me he’s basically insinuated that we are in a relationship but without saying the word... so ok that’s one thing and then he mentioned how we should move in together one day which was very very very very shocking like I was so surprised he said that. Obviously he doesn’t mean like now but it was something he’s thought about. I’m very shocked like this actually came out of his mouth ?? Yet I’m not his girlfriend —? He won’t actually come out with that word it’s like he avoids using that word.
Open acknowledgment and demonstration means a lot to you doesn't it? Have that conversation I mentioned before in the spirit of how I suggested.
The acknowledgment and demonstration...there is your way and his way. I recommend exploring that too. Mention it during the first but communicate to save it for a later date.I say this so he doesn't feel like your trying to change or control him. Just understand and learn him the person you care about. Don't bite off more then you can chew lol. One thing at a time.
Is it really that unusual for people to be excited to explore/understand each other in this way? I wonder if I'm a oddity or just weird.click to expand
Sure thing I will do. No I think you’re very right. I am not good with relationships I was married before but that’s because we was forced in to it as young adults (early 20’s) I’ve never actually had a proper adult relationship before so I think for me this is just a huge learning curve. I’ve spoken to him and told him that from now on let’s learn to communicate and he’s opened up to me about things I thought he would never notice such as he gets the vibe that I’m anxiously trying not to do too much and I act like I don’t care about a lot of things when he knows I do. So we’re finally getting somewhere. I’m grateful for your advice it’s such a mature way of doing things, something that I need to learn to be more of lol
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I think you should find someone else your more compatible with.
I’m thinking that too I just needed confirmation
I mean if you cant be emotionally vulnerable what is the point.
Scorpio moon NEEDS to go deep.
Listen to your gut. Realize that you're only missing out a real soul encompassing love.
That’s the thing I’m so spiritual, I get that from my pisces sun and my Scorpio moon. I’m always spiritually on a higher level but with this man I’m conflicted. I think the fact that the psychic I went to told me he has been hurt by his ex and still has feelings for her threw me off - I can’t stand sht like that because my ex husband used to cheat on me with other women so now I’m automatically defensive because of it. My heart tells me he cares a lot about me and genuinely likes me and is enjoying my company and we’re still getting to know each other but I’m scared that because I feel so deeply about him if it doesn’t work out I would have invested time just to get hurt
Your spending time with someone you want to be with and love. In what world is that a waste of time?
A honest question. Past trama for the both of you set aside, what is it you truly want from him you are not already getting?
You’re right it isn’t exactly going to be a waste of time but I’m turning 30 in 3 years and I have a desire to be married so really any relationship I get in to now I want it to be a potential marriage.
I want him to be more open, I would like him to put more effort in. He makes effort but it’s not often, he’s just very cold. Then when I distance myself that’s when he will open up as a way to not lose me. Other than that if I’m not around him and we’re speaking it’s like we’re just friends. When I’m around him though I feel the affection and warmth and it’s different.
based on what you said my gut tells me he still has doubts long term. He is in no hurry. I prefer the friendship route first myself.
The other possibility is he isn't actually aware of what is is doing/not doing to a extent. I say this because I personally did not see what a healthy relationship looks like from relationships around me. Just not what to do lol. I would definitely point out exactly what you just said to him in a non challenging manner. Especially the difference in emotional connection around others. Use a non judgemental mindset. Look to understand rather then judging or taking it personally. Discuss your individual perspectives. I fully accept the chance I'm wrong and he is just fundamentally different emotionally. My brother is a aqua moon. I do see his squishy side though. Squares are a learning experience. That is the challenge of them.
Whatever happens after that happens. 27? Your still young :-)
Thank you for your advice so it’s a quick update .... today he has been very open with me he’s basically insinuated that we are in a relationship but without saying the word... so ok that’s one thing and then he mentioned how we should move in together one day which was very very very very shocking like I was so surprised he said that. Obviously he doesn’t mean like now but it was something he’s thought about. I’m very shocked like this actually came out of his mouth ?? Yet I’m not his girlfriend —? He won’t actually come out with that word it’s like he avoids using that word.
Open acknowledgment and demonstration means a lot to you doesn't it? Have that conversation I mentioned before in the spirit of how I suggested.
The acknowledgment and demonstration...there is your way and his way. I recommend exploring that too. Mention it during the first but communicate to save it for a later date.I say this so he doesn't feel like your trying to change or control him. Just understand and learn him the person you care about. Don't bite off more then you can chew lol. One thing at a time.
Is it really that unusual for people to be excited to explore/understand each other in this way? I wonder if I'm a oddity or just weird.
Sure thing I will do. No I think you’re very right. I am not good with relationships I was married before but that’s because we was forced in to it as young adults (early 20’s) I’ve never actually had a proper adult relationship before so I think for me this is just a huge learning curve. I’ve spoken to him and told him that from now on let’s learn to communicate and he’s opened up to me about things I thought he would never notice such as he gets the vibe that I’m anxiously trying not to do too much and I act like I don’t care about a lot of things when he knows I do. So we’re finally getting somewhere. I’m grateful for your advice it’s such a mature way of doing things, something that I need to learn to be more of lolclick to expand
Happy to hear it is working for you. I wish you luck and enjoyment on your journey.
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I think you should find someone else your more compatible with.
I’m thinking that too I just needed confirmation
I mean if you cant be emotionally vulnerable what is the point.
Scorpio moon NEEDS to go deep.
Listen to your gut. Realize that you're only missing out a real soul encompassing love.
That’s the thing I’m so spiritual, I get that from my pisces sun and my Scorpio moon. I’m always spiritually on a higher level but with this man I’m conflicted. I think the fact that the psychic I went to told me he has been hurt by his ex and still has feelings for her threw me off - I can’t stand sht like that because my ex husband used to cheat on me with other women so now I’m automatically defensive because of it. My heart tells me he cares a lot about me and genuinely likes me and is enjoying my company and we’re still getting to know each other but I’m scared that because I feel so deeply about him if it doesn’t work out I would have invested time just to get hurt
Your spending time with someone you want to be with and love. In what world is that a waste of time?
A honest question. Past trama for the both of you set aside, what is it you truly want from him you are not already getting?
You’re right it isn’t exactly going to be a waste of time but I’m turning 30 in 3 years and I have a desire to be married so really any relationship I get in to now I want it to be a potential marriage.
I want him to be more open, I would like him to put more effort in. He makes effort but it’s not often, he’s just very cold. Then when I distance myself that’s when he will open up as a way to not lose me. Other than that if I’m not around him and we’re speaking it’s like we’re just friends. When I’m around him though I feel the affection and warmth and it’s different.
based on what you said my gut tells me he still has doubts long term. He is in no hurry. I prefer the friendship route first myself.
The other possibility is he isn't actually aware of what is is doing/not doing to a extent. I say this because I personally did not see what a healthy relationship looks like from relationships around me. Just not what to do lol. I would definitely point out exactly what you just said to him in a non challenging manner. Especially the difference in emotional connection around others. Use a non judgemental mindset. Look to understand rather then judging or taking it personally. Discuss your individual perspectives. I fully accept the chance I'm wrong and he is just fundamentally different emotionally. My brother is a aqua moon. I do see his squishy side though. Squares are a learning experience. That is the challenge of them.
Whatever happens after that happens. 27? Your still young :-)
Thank you for your advice so it’s a quick update .... today he has been very open with me he’s basically insinuated that we are in a relationship but without saying the word... so ok that’s one thing and then he mentioned how we should move in together one day which was very very very very shocking like I was so surprised he said that. Obviously he doesn’t mean like now but it was something he’s thought about. I’m very shocked like this actually came out of his mouth ?? Yet I’m not his girlfriend —? He won’t actually come out with that word it’s like he avoids using that word.
Open acknowledgment and demonstration means a lot to you doesn't it? Have that conversation I mentioned before in the spirit of how I suggested.
The acknowledgment and demonstration...there is your way and his way. I recommend exploring that too. Mention it during the first but communicate to save it for a later date.I say this so he doesn't feel like your trying to change or control him. Just understand and learn him the person you care about. Don't bite off more then you can chew lol. One thing at a time.
Is it really that unusual for people to be excited to explore/understand each other in this way? I wonder if I'm a oddity or just weird.
Sure thing I will do. No I think you’re very right. I am not good with relationships I was married before but that’s because we was forced in to it as young adults (early 20’s) I’ve never actually had a proper adult relationship before so I think for me this is just a huge learning curve. I’ve spoken to him and told him that from now on let’s learn to communicate and he’s opened up to me about things I thought he would never notice such as he gets the vibe that I’m anxiously trying not to do too much and I act like I don’t care about a lot of things when he knows I do. So we’re finally getting somewhere. I’m grateful for your advice it’s such a mature way of doing things, something that I need to learn to be more of lol
Happy to hear it is working for you. I wish you luck and enjoyment on your journey.click to expand
Thank you! Let’s hope♥️
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Scorpio moon married to an aqua moon.
We are middle school sweethearts and it took over a decade together before we even decided to get married.
They can def be annoying & will clam up if pushed too far, but so can our Scorpio moon. Nothing good can/will happen if both of these moons don’t communicate.
It works best if you try to find an even exchange of effort/energy.. that you’re both comfortable with. Both of these moons need their space.
Set a baseline, and step away when you’re not comfortable. He needs to do the same.
4 months is really no time at all. Focus on a friendship first, then the rest will fall into place. Save the exclusivity talk for later.
That is incredible. The only other scorp/aqua moon pairing I know of also dated in high school, both got married, had kids, divorces etc and both ended up, like nearly 30 years later, cheating their significant others w/ one another, re-connected and are now both better people.click to expand
I hear of so many Scorpio moon/ Aqua moon connections. I hear of relationships rekindling after years sometimes too.
"His aqua moon is very selfish"
Depends on the perspective really. You feel he's selfish cause he isn't moving at your speed. We could say the same about your moon being selfish for not moving at his speed.
Its a compatibility issue here, not an issue of selfishness.
Depends on the perspective really. You feel he's selfish cause he isn't moving at your speed. We could say the same about your moon being selfish for not moving at his speed.
Its a compatibility issue here, not an issue of selfishness.
It’s only been 4 months, that’s not long at all! You’re in a such a hurry to be married by 30 it would give me anxiety
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Scorpio moon married to an aqua moon.
We are middle school sweethearts and it took over a decade together before we even decided to get married.
They can def be annoying & will clam up if pushed too far, but so can our Scorpio moon. Nothing good can/will happen if both of these moons don’t communicate.
It works best if you try to find an even exchange of effort/energy.. that you’re both comfortable with. Both of these moons need their space.
Set a baseline, and step away when you’re not comfortable. He needs to do the same.
4 months is really no time at all. Focus on a friendship first, then the rest will fall into place. Save the exclusivity talk for later.
That is incredible. The only other scorp/aqua moon pairing I know of also dated in high school, both got married, had kids, divorces etc and both ended up, like nearly 30 years later, cheating their significant others w/ one another, re-connected and are now both better people.
I hear of so many Scorpio moon/ Aqua moon connections. I hear of relationships rekindling after years sometimes too.
I can only hope I've got some satellite out there that I've forgotten about who's smokin hot now and dreaming of meclick to expand
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