@RollergirlOrc
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Do you hate parties where you know no one?
Depends on what kinda party. If it's a work party then absolutely yes. I hate small talk with a bunch of people I have no interest in talking to. But it could be fun if it's a public party where you could talk to whoever you want and leave whenever you want.
Are these parties parties or work parties ?
A party party with a hint of wine. I'd imagine work parties are easy because you just stand around, eat, roll your eyes etc.
Those are the best parties.
I can imagine you at a rave. Or maybe a book club.
No parties for me unless I'M hosting it. Anybody else hosting it whether or not I know them can forget it. It's not to be mean or disrespectful but I just typically am not a party person generally. And since my chiron is in Aries (the sign that rules the head) its not uncommon for me to suffer from splittin headaches when around too many people in a party sichation.
My Chiron is in Gemini too
I’ve crashed a ton of parties
I guess since I was drunk I didn’t really give a shit
Good! You made hat out of mask? 🎉 party 🎈 times!!! 🍹
I once visited Aachen, there was a nice medieval looking tower with an open door. There were no signs of a party going on. But being curious about how this building may look inside I went in there and upstairs to find some kind of university party going on. Someone put a beer in my hand and directed me to a buffet. I don’t understand really what happened, maybe they thought I belong there. It’s been fun though with good and loud music so no one understood anyone anyway.
No, I actually enjoy events where I don't know anyone. It's easy for me to make new friends.
I don't think I've ever been to one. Parties make me nervous in general.
Omg how are you practically the epitome of nearly everything opposite I expect an Aries to be? Like who broke you? I kid xD
Hate is a strong word. I'm picky about the vibe. Prefer in house stuff, dive bars, fairs with live bands. Don't care for chaotic environments. Did a job at a brewfest with a live band at my brothers work not to long ago. Was pretty cool.
The few times I have went where I don't know anyone, I go do me and someone always comes along. Hmm it's about getting into the flow of things.
Are these parties parties or work parties ?
A party party with a hint of wine. I'd imagine work parties are easy because you just stand around, eat, roll your eyes etc.
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Any party with a hint of wine will have me chatting up everyone lol
My Libra rising does first impressions well!
This is why my friend group is all fire and air signs. My vibe is to not have to make plans or maintain relationships with a ton of people. They do that. I just show up and laugh along as they entertain our asses. I'm fine with observing the drunkies but I will share my weed and make small talk.
One thing I learned early on is to travel separately tho. Cause when I want to leave I'm gonna leave.
This is why my friend group is all fire and air signs. My vibe is to not have to make plans or maintain relationships with a ton of people. They do that. I just show up and laugh along as they entertain our asses. I'm fine with observing the drunkies but I will share my weed and make small talk.
One thing I learned early on is to travel separately tho. Cause when I want to leave I'm gonna leave.
Sounds like me. Well not always fire or air, but definitely extroverted. Maybe it’s all that Cap..
I trust everyone at parties.
Mostly me?
I trust everyone at parties.
Mostly me?
I would love to party with you!
I have no idea why I chose this username. I looked at it the next day, and I was like, what does that even mean.
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LMAO
Don't care for loud chaotic crowded places lol
In the past I never did much alone. Working on that now.
I usually just do me and someone will come along.
House party/get-togethers, dive bars, or normal ones when they are mellow. Recently went to a outdoor brew fest in a small town to help my brother...nice vibe.
Don't care for loud chaotic crowded places lol
In the past I never did much alone. Working on that now.
I usually just do me and someone will come along.
House party/get-togethers, dive bars, or normal ones when they are mellow. Recently went to a outdoor brew fest in a small town to help my brother...nice vibe. Small towns with life in them.
Parties? No, thanks.
I can do it but it's so exhausting for me, like I have to spend the next day all in my room alone talking to no one.
i remember you saying you have venus in libra ? it's interesting 'cause the 3 venus in libras in my life (s/o, uncle, niece) all tell me they feel drained after socializing....lol
i think it's because venus in libra tries so hard to be considerate of others (minding their manners, looking for the right words to say, trying to read people's vibes, trying to read the energy in the room etc) so they get tired...lol
relaxing by themselves is so important for them...lol
i don't really go to parties but i sometimes go to business related gatherings for networking purposes. i don't really get nervous but i feel drained afterwards from pretending to be an extrovert for a few hours...lol
i'm an outgoing introvert if that even makes any sense ...😂 lol
pls universe send me a leo boyfriend
so i don't feel awkward asking servers if there's pork in anything i order
I don't think I've ever been to one. Parties make me nervous in general.
Yes, this 👆🏻. I’m nervous already about this weekend , like why did that event even come up 😁.
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Just drink or dance to oblivion. But srsly, I hope it's not too bad!
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Where you know absolutely no one there at all? What y'all think of them. I went to one last weekend and couldn't for the life of me think of what to say. That's a bit next level, final boss type socializing. Public speaking is a breeze compared because it in involves a level of narcissism that quite naturally happens in some individuals, therefore it is easy. Well anyway.
My chiron is on Gemini.