I'm a Scorpio woman and had a cancer boyfriend. we broke up 3 weeks ago. It was the best relationship and the easiest I had as I felt how loves me so much. We'd been together for 1 year and 4 months and we lived together for over a year. he introduced me to his family and friends that I even met the father in law of his sister and we always in his dad's house every weekend. it was great living together with our dog. I felt like we are a family. He's super sweet, like sending me flowers at my work. always kiss me goodbye before going to work and kiss me when I arrive home from work. at the beginning of our relationship, he wanted to have a kid and start of a family, which he knows i really love to have someday but during our 6th months, I had a delayed period and he almost lost his job. we got scared and since then he doesn't want a kid. he has a very toxic life style . drinking and partying on the weekend and he loves when I'm being around anywhere he is. He's only 31 and I'm 32. so I understand his constant partying and enjoying life. but I felt exhausted especially that I only have 1 day off. That's when I started nagging him because he always forced me to go out with him even I have work the next day. The nagging becomes bad and we fight like almost every weekend, and also when I started taking bc pills regularly my mood swing becomes worst that he get irritated on it. until 1 day after I arrived from traveling to my home country. I felt that he wasn't excited to see me, I quickly get emotional and challenged him for a breakup. to my shock he accepted it. It was the worst night of my life. He said he wanted space and he wants me to move on. the break up was very hard for him too. He tried to get back to me after 3 days, but I blocked him in WhatsApp and didn't answer his call, and because of that he thought that I was with another man then he becomes rude to me since then. then after a week, it came to my realization that I'm alone and started to chase him. he already drinking a lot and meeting people and doesn't want to stay home. every time I go to him he pushes me away, but whenever I do not contact him he just texts me and asks for sex. since I love him so much, I always agree with him to have sex. In my heart, he's just confused about what he wants, but sometimes it looks like he doesn't care for me and i need to move on. He always threatens to block me but he never does. Can we still fix the relationship? can we still get back together? what should I do to fix this and to convince him to give our relationship a second chance?
