I run out of idea about how to communicate with an Aries guy.!!

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As for my story with an Aries man. From the first day we met, there was an indescribable physical attraction between him and me. Than when we get to talk, I found that we also have similar emotional dark sides too. I’m quite sure, I feels about that he really attracted to me. Even the bystander friends can felt that the way he looked at me was unusual. But he didn’t make an effort to get closer. Didn’t even ask for my number that day. Only I got was, sent a friend request to his social media profile. I just wanted a casual hookup with him or (a friends with benefits).

More than a week later, I told him exactly what I wanted with him. And he rejected my offer. I didn’t mind him about that.

I can understand up to that point, everyone will have different condition in their own life path.

But what I can’t understand at all is that right after rejecting me, he said,

"I don’t mind you as a friends."

And, I'm ok with that too. I even happy for that saying.

But I’m still the one who always have to say ‘hi’ to him when I saw him online. I’m the one who always started the conversations.

I decided to stay away from dating and relationships for nearly a decade just for fear of experiencing such dramas.

But I'm experiencing it now.

What does he want?

What does he want to happen?

Him and I have almost exact same taste in Music. It’s really rare.

I really want to be a real friend with him. But the way he interacting with me is making me feels like so unwanted.

It’s really hurt my feelings.

I just don’t know how to communicate with him anymore.

#The Twins
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Sounds like he has Mars in water sign or Venus.

Aries like to chase and unfortunately you turned into easy prey and they don’t like that. Especially if this ram has water in his chart or an earth Venus.

He will want to chase you down and take what he wants. He wants to lead, plain and simple.

You sound like you have fire in your chart and you got impatient and initiated. No worries, you can only be you.

Don’t initiate anymore, his rejection will only hurt your feelings and create more distance.

Go live your best life and when he resurfaces , let him take the lead.