@Rainwater69
6 Years
Is this considered rape - Gemini man (Page 2)
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Everyone should definitely be cautious about giving opinions about a situation that involves sexual assault.
For all we know this lady could be a nutter.
Victim shaming is NOT ok, regardless of the mental state or health of the victim.
If this is how it went down ....i'd smash his knee caps.
.....and knee him in the balls
I haven't read every message, but you could consent to having sex and in the middle of it decide you don't want to continue and say "stop" or "no" or pull away or try to depart the action. Just because you were in bed and agreed to the notion of sex, you asked him to get a condom, which is part of the sexual act, and consent.
You weren't comfortable and he forced himself on you. It's as simple as that. Sexual assault.
I could never go through with sex if the woman wasn't into it, I just couldn't. Body language and facial expression are part of consent. If someone is in fear of his/her safety and/or is simply traumatized and doesn't know what to do, that is sexual assault.
If someone is forcing (unless it's an agreed role play or along those lines) then it is sexual assault. It's not even about sex at that point -- it's about power, control, and selfishness.
I’m sorry this happened to you! I wonder what gets into these men! I remember asking my offender when he first pushed me “ Is it that treetrunking serious?!”. It’s so damaging to the victim and sex is really not that hard to come by now is it!? I can’t wrap my mind around it. I sometimes ponder what it might be like if I seen him in public.Would I be confident and give him a death stare and make him uncomfortable or would I collapse inside myself and be re-traumatized. I didn’t know but kudos to you for giving him hell! He deserves it!
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You don’t have to worry about the safety of the guy he’s OK trust me. And I already said I wasn’t gonna do shit.
Oh and please elaborate on which one of my comments made the impression that I could possibly be crazy or a danger to others?