Moon square Pluto in synastry

What is your experience with this aspect? I have it with this guy I'm the Moon person my Moon is also in his 8th house. And I can never completely get him out of my head. Even though I talk to other men I still can't completely stop thinking about him. And when I see him I feel like I'm in a trance it's really deep. We've hooked up once and that was two years ago. And I've talked to other men but I still talk to this one from time to time. After we hooked up he said we shouldn't see each other again. But then he came back asking to see me again. I haven't hooked up with him again though. But I did see him a couple of weeks ago. Sometimes I'll see him where he works. A while ago he and I agreed to be friends with benefits.

He's the red on the outside.

Probably his forever side stepping Murder Mars. Cancer Mars takes forever.

What his reasoning for not seeing you again, but coming back and why did you agree to being a fwb if you haven't stopped thinking about him for years?

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What is your experience with this aspect? I have it with this guy I'm the Moon person my Moon is also in his 8th house. And I can never completely get him out of my head. Even though I talk to other men I still can't completely stop thinking about him. And when I see him I feel like I'm in a trance it's really deep. We've hooked up once and that was two years ago. And I've talked to other men but I still talk to this one from time to time. After we hooked up he said we shouldn't see each other again. But then he came back asking to see me again. I haven't hooked up with him again though. But I did see him a couple of weeks ago. Sometimes I'll see him where he works. A while ago he and I agreed to be friends with benefits.

He's the red on the outside.

You guys have Uranus opposition Sun. It’s not a traditional relationship at all and it is very unconventional.

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Exciting and challenging ⚡️

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What is your experience with this aspect? I have it with this guy I'm the Moon person my Moon is also in his 8th house. And I can never completely get him out of my head. Even though I talk to other men I still can't completely stop thinking about him. And when I see him I feel like I'm in a trance it's really deep. We've hooked up once and that was two years ago. And I've talked to other men but I still talk to this one from time to time. After we hooked up he said we shouldn't see each other again. But then he came back asking to see me again. I haven't hooked up with him again though. But I did see him a couple of weeks ago. Sometimes I'll see him where he works. A while ago he and I agreed to be friends with benefits.

He's the red on the outside.

You guys have Uranus opposition Sun. It’s not a traditional relationship at all and it is very unconventional.

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We aren't in a relationship we are only friends but I know the friendship is unconventional.

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What is your experience with this aspect? I have it with this guy I'm the Moon person my Moon is also in his 8th house. And I can never completely get him out of my head. Even though I talk to other men I still can't completely stop thinking about him. And when I see him I feel like I'm in a trance it's really deep. We've hooked up once and that was two years ago. And I've talked to other men but I still talk to this one from time to time. After we hooked up he said we shouldn't see each other again. But then he came back asking to see me again. I haven't hooked up with him again though. But I did see him a couple of weeks ago. Sometimes I'll see him where he works. A while ago he and I agreed to be friends with benefits.

He's the red on the outside.

You guys have Uranus opposition Sun. It’s not a traditional relationship at all and it is very unconventional.

👍

Exciting and challenging ⚡️

Yes, she also has Venus squared Uranus… marriage is not in the picture. Also has Uranus and Saturn trine Sun going the other way. I would take a Uranian relationship like this any day. 👍

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Who said anything about marriage? Lol I also have Venus square Uranus in my own chart. I tend to have this aspect in synastry with most people I'm involved with. But there are some people who do marry with Uranus aspects in synastry.

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Probably his forever side stepping Murder Mars. Cancer Mars takes forever.

What his reasoning for not seeing you again, but coming back and why did you agree to being a fwb if you haven't stopped thinking about him for years?

He's someone I met years ago where he works for a long time, I would just talk to him whenever I'd see him. He would ask my parents about me when I wasn't around. One day I found him on Facebook and I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits and he said yes.

He said the reason why he said he didn't want to see me again was because he didn't want to cheat.

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What is your experience with this aspect? I have it with this guy I'm the Moon person my Moon is also in his 8th house. And I can never completely get him out of my head. Even though I talk to other men I still can't completely stop thinking about him. And when I see him I feel like I'm in a trance it's really deep. We've hooked up once and that was two years ago. And I've talked to other men but I still talk to this one from time to time. After we hooked up he said we shouldn't see each other again. But then he came back asking to see me again. I haven't hooked up with him again though. But I did see him a couple of weeks ago. Sometimes I'll see him where he works. A while ago he and I agreed to be friends with benefits.

He's the red on the outside.

You guys have Uranus opposition Sun. It’s not a traditional relationship at all and it is very unconventional.

👍

Exciting and challenging ⚡️

Yes, she also has Venus squared Uranus… marriage is not in the picture. Also has Uranus and Saturn trine Sun going the other way. I would take a Uranian relationship like this any day. 👍

Who said anything about marriage? Lol I also have Venus square Uranus in my own chart. I tend to have this aspect in synastry with most people I'm involved with. But there are some people who do marry with Uranus aspects in synastry.

What sign are you? Taurus? How old are you?

Is this just a friend? Why concerned about marriage if it just a friend?

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I'm not concerned about marriage I was responding to the other comment.

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What is your experience with this aspect? I have it with this guy I'm the Moon person my Moon is also in his 8th house. And I can never completely get him out of my head. Even though I talk to other men I still can't completely stop thinking about him. And when I see him I feel like I'm in a trance it's really deep. We've hooked up once and that was two years ago. And I've talked to other men but I still talk to this one from time to time. After we hooked up he said we shouldn't see each other again. But then he came back asking to see me again. I haven't hooked up with him again though. But I did see him a couple of weeks ago. Sometimes I'll see him where he works. A while ago he and I agreed to be friends with benefits.

He's the red on the outside.

You guys have Uranus opposition Sun. It’s not a traditional relationship at all and it is very unconventional.

👍

Exciting and challenging ⚡️

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It's definitely exciting.

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I have this aspect with the Pisces that I was obsessed with. We currently aren’t speaking 😒🙄 lol

He is Pluto and I’m the moon person, I think it’s a 6 degree orb so not too tight of an orb but I still feel it. There is a lot of manipulation from his end, he likes to try to piss me off to get a reaction out of me. The dynamics of it drain me to be honest, but I’m in my early 40s and just at the stage where I’m over the childish power struggles.

Thankfully we have not hooked up physically because I imagine it would be much more intense. I think about him all the time but not always in a good way anymore. Lol lately he irks my nerves and I just want to be done with it all.

My Pluto is opposite his Venus as well though, but I still feel that he is the more plutonic one in our situation.

Did you ever meet up with him? Weren’t you due to meet a couple of weeks ago?

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I have this aspect with the Pisces that I was obsessed with. We currently aren’t speaking 😒🙄 lol

He is Pluto and I’m the moon person, I think it’s a 6 degree orb so not too tight of an orb but I still feel it. There is a lot of manipulation from his end, he likes to try to piss me off to get a reaction out of me. The dynamics of it drain me to be honest, but I’m in my early 40s and just at the stage where I’m over the childish power struggles.

Thankfully we have not hooked up physically because I imagine it would be much more intense. I think about him all the time but not always in a good way anymore. Lol lately he irks my nerves and I just want to be done with it all.

My Pluto is opposite his Venus as well though, but I still feel that he is the more plutonic one in our situation.

Did you ever meet up with him? Weren’t you due to meet a couple of weeks ago?

No, today was my last day at the current job, I am taking two weeks off of work between jobs. He was supposed to come during this period but we have not spoke. And I’m no longer overextending myself or putting in all the effort like I was doing before. 🤷‍♀️ It went from being a balanced situation to very imbalanced and he stopped reciprocating so I stopped trying. Fucking fish always swim away and I’m not one to chase after the slippery little fuckers 😒😂

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Lucky escape girl!

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Probably his forever side stepping Murder Mars. Cancer Mars takes forever.

What his reasoning for not seeing you again, but coming back and why did you agree to being a fwb if you haven't stopped thinking about him for years?

He's someone I met years ago where he works for a long time, I would just talk to him whenever I'd see him. He would ask my parents about me when I wasn't around. One day I found him on Facebook and I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits and he said yes.

He said the reason why he said he didn't want to see me again was because he didn't want to cheat.

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I see. I have nothing else to add since you are asking about him, but don't want to have a relationship.

Are you just trying to stop thinking about him a lot?

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Probably his forever side stepping Murder Mars. Cancer Mars takes forever.

What his reasoning for not seeing you again, but coming back and why did you agree to being a fwb if you haven't stopped thinking about him for years?

He's someone I met years ago where he works for a long time, I would just talk to him whenever I'd see him. He would ask my parents about me when I wasn't around. One day I found him on Facebook and I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits and he said yes.

He said the reason why he said he didn't want to see me again was because he didn't want to cheat.

I see. I have nothing else to add since you are asking about him, but don't want to have a relationship.

Are you just trying to stop thinking about him a lot?

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Gemini men aren't the loyal type and Venus in Gemini men are cheaters. My dad is one so I know how they can be first hand. Which is why I don't want to be in a relationship with him.

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I have this aspect with the Pisces that I was obsessed with. We currently aren’t speaking 😒🙄 lol

He is Pluto and I’m the moon person, I think it’s a 6 degree orb so not too tight of an orb but I still feel it. There is a lot of manipulation from his end, he likes to try to piss me off to get a reaction out of me. The dynamics of it drain me to be honest, but I’m in my early 40s and just at the stage where I’m over the childish power struggles.

Thankfully we have not hooked up physically because I imagine it would be much more intense. I think about him all the time but not always in a good way anymore. Lol lately he irks my nerves and I just want to be done with it all.

My Pluto is opposite his Venus as well though, but I still feel that he is the more plutonic one in our situation.

Did you ever meet up with him? Weren’t you due to meet a couple of weeks ago?

No, today was my last day at the current job, I am taking two weeks off of work between jobs. He was supposed to come during this period but we have not spoke. And I’m no longer overextending myself or putting in all the effort like I was doing before. 🤷‍♀️ It went from being a balanced situation to very imbalanced and he stopped reciprocating so I stopped trying. Fucking fish always swim away and I’m not one to chase after the slippery little fuckers 😒😂

Lucky escape girl!

Yeah I can only imagine how much more attached I would have been if we had met. It’s a powerful connection that’s felt even from far away so it probably would have turned my whole world inside out 🥴 and I don’t need that type of emotional excitement right now lol

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It is definitely intense when I see him at the store I just stand there staring at him. Like my brain just shuts down because the energy is so intense. So I'll just be standing there staring or either smiling I don't know why it's like that.

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I have this aspect with the Pisces that I was obsessed with. We currently aren’t speaking 😒🙄 lol

He is Pluto and I’m the moon person, I think it’s a 6 degree orb so not too tight of an orb but I still feel it. There is a lot of manipulation from his end, he likes to try to piss me off to get a reaction out of me. The dynamics of it drain me to be honest, but I’m in my early 40s and just at the stage where I’m over the childish power struggles.

Thankfully we have not hooked up physically because I imagine it would be much more intense. I think about him all the time but not always in a good way anymore. Lol lately he irks my nerves and I just want to be done with it all.

My Pluto is opposite his Venus as well though, but I still feel that he is the more plutonic one in our situation.

Did you ever meet up with him? Weren’t you due to meet a couple of weeks ago?

No, today was my last day at the current job, I am taking two weeks off of work between jobs. He was supposed to come during this period but we have not spoke. And I’m no longer overextending myself or putting in all the effort like I was doing before. 🤷‍♀️ It went from being a balanced situation to very imbalanced and he stopped reciprocating so I stopped trying. Fucking fish always swim away and I’m not one to chase after the slippery little fuckers 😒😂

Lucky escape girl!

Yeah I can only imagine how much more attached I would have been if we had met. It’s a powerful connection that’s felt even from far away so it probably would have turned my whole world inside out 🥴 and I don’t need that type of emotional excitement right now lol

It is definitely intense when I see him at the store I just stand there staring at him. Like my brain just shuts down because the energy is so intense. So I'll just be standing there staring or either smiling I don't know why it's like that.

That damn Pluto effect. Lol 😅 it’s on a subconscious level so it won’t make sense to us. Do you have any other Pluto aspects between the two of you, or just that one?

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His Pluto makes an opposition to my Sun and my Pluto makes a trine to his Mars and Mercury.

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I have this aspect with the Pisces that I was obsessed with. We currently aren’t speaking 😒🙄 lol

He is Pluto and I’m the moon person, I think it’s a 6 degree orb so not too tight of an orb but I still feel it. There is a lot of manipulation from his end, he likes to try to piss me off to get a reaction out of me. The dynamics of it drain me to be honest, but I’m in my early 40s and just at the stage where I’m over the childish power struggles.

Thankfully we have not hooked up physically because I imagine it would be much more intense. I think about him all the time but not always in a good way anymore. Lol lately he irks my nerves and I just want to be done with it all.

My Pluto is opposite his Venus as well though, but I still feel that he is the more plutonic one in our situation.

Did you ever meet up with him? Weren’t you due to meet a couple of weeks ago?

No, today was my last day at the current job, I am taking two weeks off of work between jobs. He was supposed to come during this period but we have not spoke. And I’m no longer overextending myself or putting in all the effort like I was doing before. 🤷‍♀️ It went from being a balanced situation to very imbalanced and he stopped reciprocating so I stopped trying. Fucking fish always swim away and I’m not one to chase after the slippery little fuckers 😒😂

Lucky escape girl!

Yeah I can only imagine how much more attached I would have been if we had met. It’s a powerful connection that’s felt even from far away so it probably would have turned my whole world inside out 🥴 and I don’t need that type of emotional excitement right now lol

It is definitely intense when I see him at the store I just stand there staring at him. Like my brain just shuts down because the energy is so intense. So I'll just be standing there staring or either smiling I don't know why it's like that.

That damn Pluto effect. Lol 😅 it’s on a subconscious level so it won’t make sense to us. Do you have any other Pluto aspects between the two of you, or just that one?

His Pluto makes an opposition to my Sun and my Pluto makes a trine to his Mars and Mercury.

I feel your pain girl lol those Pluto aspects cause one hell of a magnetism

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Yes, I wonder if the Pluto person feels something too though. Your guy might come back wanting to see you though I think this is a common theme with this aspect.

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Probably his forever side stepping Murder Mars. Cancer Mars takes forever.

What his reasoning for not seeing you again, but coming back and why did you agree to being a fwb if you haven't stopped thinking about him for years?

He's someone I met years ago where he works for a long time, I would just talk to him whenever I'd see him. He would ask my parents about me when I wasn't around. One day I found him on Facebook and I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits and he said yes.

He said the reason why he said he didn't want to see me again was because he didn't want to cheat.

I see. I have nothing else to add since you are asking about him, but don't want to have a relationship.

Are you just trying to stop thinking about him a lot?

Gemini men aren't the loyal type and Venus in Gemini men are cheaters. My dad is one so I know how they can be first hand. Which is why I don't want to be in a relationship with him.

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I was with a Gemini Sun/ Gemini Venus for 20 years and he never cheated. He could care less about trying to cheat.

Some men don’t care about cheating.

Some do.

But judging your friend based on his placements is silly, if you don’t know the type of guy he actually is. Just cause your father was unhappy and cheated.