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Saturn house: what you fear most?
Interesting.
I've Saturn in the 11th. I've thought about how people get murdered by friends they've known for years out of the blue without provocation or with.. but thankfully I don't feel it's something I should fear considering Saturn in the 11th also limits social circles. I've got a small one at that. I also do spend a good deal of money on friends when there's money to be spent.
I guess it could be a fear but not something I take too seriously. I'd be more concerned with myself not someone else 😂 though I'd never act on those sort of thoughts. Just kinda goes with the placements I have.
reminds me of that amanda knox case.
that's what i mean. it can't be helped that you're afraid and get anxiety over these things. every time i think of what can be the most hurtful to me personally, it's being deserted for illness. nothing makes me more powerless than to feel useless coz somehow my body's... indisposed.
Saturn 1st house -aqua.
Fear of doing the wrong things, not being accepted, fear of screwing up. Fear of giving someone a hug when they didn’t want it. So much that I tried to be what I was suppose to be, not who I am.
Now I’m not like that anymore. It was hard work. I am me. Just me. More open. More emotional. Facing your fears is the best thing you can do in life 😁 for fears are horribly limiting.
Lizards..the curly tailed mfers
Saturn 1st house -aqua.
Fear of doing the wrong things, not being accepted, fear of screwing up. Fear of giving someone a hug when they didn’t want it. So much that I tried to be what I was suppose to be, not who I am.
Now I’m not like that anymore. It was hard work. I am me. Just me. More open. More emotional. Facing your fears is the best thing you can do in life 😁 for fears are horribly limiting.
limitations/boundaries.
what we want to control so bad.
i think that my saturn/merc retro is stopping me from making a drastic decision (something i've been obsessing about for weeks now). there's something that i want to do that seems as if my health/fate doesn't want me to go through. but i don't have enough faith to stop myself from doing it. these house issues may be something we stubbornly insist on facing alone.
Scorp Saturn in the 11th conjunct pluto.
Fear of basically throwing the "rule book" out the window and trying to control every aspect of my life. The more I tried the worse shit would happen. Now I just try and go with the flow of things...if I didnt, Pluto would eventually do it for me 🤷.
Basically doing anything that is conventional is a no no for this placement...you can try all you want but it ain't gonna happen and I'm more than ok with that lol.
Interesting.
I've Saturn in the 11th. I've thought about how people get murdered by friends they've known for years out of the blue without provocation or with.. but thankfully I don't feel it's something I should fear considering Saturn in the 11th also limits social circles. I've got a small one at that. I also do spend a good deal of money on friends when there's money to be spent.
I guess it could be a fear but not something I take too seriously. I'd be more concerned with myself not someone else 😂 though I'd never act on those sort of thoughts. Just kinda goes with the placements I have.
reminds me of that amanda knox case.
that's what i mean. it can't be helped that you're afraid and get anxiety over these things. every time i think of what can be the most hurtful to me personally, it's being deserted for illness. nothing makes me more powerless than to feel useless coz somehow my body's... indisposed.
Do you have anything else in the 6th house or is it just your Saturn? Is it an every day worry for you? I do feel like Saturn in the 11th makes me cautious of large groups of people in general. I think about what can easily go wrong in a social setting at all times.
It's a shame I share the same name as her but kind of funny just because you could have thought of anyone.
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just that i think. maybe i'm wary of other people at work too. i'm not the kind to actively try to make friends at work. i go in, get shit done and go home. friends should be had in more 'relaxed' settings i believe. right now i'm going through a tough time with my health and i'm not sure what the future holds for me. but i've never been more scared for my health than i've been this past few weeks. most of what i've worked for in my life's going into this and that's when i started to see it---- this is fate. this is the planet that clues me in to what would make me miserable. this is what i fear and it is happening. and saturn makes you feel alone. alienates people you love from you. and i suspect that where it's housed is the clue to how they'll abandon you.
Interesting
Saturn in 4th Capricorn
The only thing i worry about is my dad and his health and carrying his legacy
@virgooppp youre gonna enter into your saturn return phase soon. Around mid 26 years
rite of passage i know. but this is not what i expected. i'm scared shitless to be honest. my birthday is coming up soon but i fear with some news that can alter my life. and it's all about my Saturn 6H. i've never felt more adult, more miserable and more alone. this is partly my fault for not being completely honest with loved ones but most people around me have not been supportive at all so i'm forced to go it alone. i can barely accept things for myself so how can i explain it to someone else? but i've never felt my life so attached to any other house. this must be fate. my own body against me.
thank god i'm delusionally optimistic.
Scorpio Saturn in the 5th: intimacy and love.
Oh joy.
Scorpio Saturn in the 5th: intimacy and love.
Oh joy.
children too i believe.
I have Saturn in Gemini, in the 10th. I suppose I fear not communicating well... I suppose.
the way you come across maybe
Scorpio Saturn in the 5th: intimacy and love.
Oh joy.
children too i believe.
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Ah yes. Let's not forget them.
Scorp Saturn in the 11th conjunct pluto.
Fear of basically throwing the "rule book" out the window and trying to control every aspect of my life. The more I tried the worse shit would happen. Now I just try and go with the flow of things...if I didnt, Pluto would eventually do it for me 🤷.
Basically doing anything that is conventional is a no no for this placement...you can try all you want but it ain't gonna happen and I'm more than ok with that lol.
do you limit your social circle?
do you get in trouble socially?
Scorp Saturn in the 11th conjunct pluto.
Fear of basically throwing the "rule book" out the window and trying to control every aspect of my life. The more I tried the worse shit would happen. Now I just try and go with the flow of things...if I didnt, Pluto would eventually do it for me 🤷.
Basically doing anything that is conventional is a no no for this placement...you can try all you want but it ain't gonna happen and I'm more than ok with that lol.
do you limit your social circle?
do you get in trouble socially?
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Yes
Trouble as in?
Scorp Saturn in the 11th conjunct pluto.
Fear of basically throwing the "rule book" out the window and trying to control every aspect of my life. The more I tried the worse shit would happen. Now I just try and go with the flow of things...if I didnt, Pluto would eventually do it for me 🤷.
Basically doing anything that is conventional is a no no for this placement...you can try all you want but it ain't gonna happen and I'm more than ok with that lol.
do you limit your social circle?
do you get in trouble socially?
Yes
Trouble as in?
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like the first responder with the Saturn 11H being worried about friends
my 6H made me extremely focused on my body for example
Scorp Saturn in the 11th conjunct pluto.
Fear of basically throwing the "rule book" out the window and trying to control every aspect of my life. The more I tried the worse shit would happen. Now I just try and go with the flow of things...if I didnt, Pluto would eventually do it for me 🤷.
Basically doing anything that is conventional is a no no for this placement...you can try all you want but it ain't gonna happen and I'm more than ok with that lol.
do you limit your social circle?
do you get in trouble socially?
Yes
Trouble as in?
like the first responder with the Saturn 11H being worried about friends
my 6H made me extremely focused on my body for example
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Losing them ...yes but apparently this placement is not meant to stick to the same circle of people and they will eventually be cut out of our life in some way.
Which is fairly accurate for me.
Scorpio Saturn in the 5th: intimacy and love.
Oh joy.
children too i believe.
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I dated two 5th house Saturns. Both were party poopers. One didn’t have children and the other struggled with being a dad.
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the planet that makes us look at things only from our own perspective instead of others. and this is just my personal opinion but i think this is where we spend most of our money on, sometimes unintentionally coz we have no choice (spending on this is FATE haha but yes i'm serious). was trying to get into somebody's MIND coz it's hard for me to understand how they FEEL so i started digging for a way to LEARN and thought: a man is at his most honest when he's frightened, when there's nowhere else to hide, his eyes darting to what he values most. a clue to his treasure is a clue to his fear and how to hurt him.
e.g.
george washington had a morbid fear of being buried alive (his Saturn in the 12th house of confinement/imprisonment)
napoleon bonaparte, 'the lion' though not a man of impressive stature feared cats (his Saturn in the 10th of career/how people see him/public persona in the world stage) and: "I am sometimes a fox and sometimes a lion. The whole secret of government lies in knowing when to be the one or the other." (fear of himself?)
my own Saturn 6H = fear most for my health and yes most of my money spent there too.
what is yours?