Sun square Pluto synastry

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DriBaby
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8 YearsCapricorn

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I've been dealing with a Scorpio man who I share a Sun square Pluto aspect with and it's going downhill. Him being Pluto, is controlling the situation by being cold and withdrawing towards me but then when I try to move on, he comes back. Every time I try to vent about how I'm feeling or discuss my emotions, he becomes dismissive or aggravated. Why is Pluto so horrible? This connection is extremely draining. How do you get out of this connection. Give me some details on your experience with this aspect and how to move on without looking back.
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@SassyKiwi
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I have natal Sun sq Pluto as well as with most people near my age/generation. It isn’t the aspect, it’s just him being immature and trash. Know your self worth and don’t tolerate that shit. Cut him out and get a better guy, if he comes crying back again, make yourself clear that you don’t play petty push/pull games period. If you do decide to continue to put up with it then you must think you deserve it.
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DriBaby
@DriBaby
8 YearsCapricorn

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Posted by SassyKiwi

I have natal Sun sq Pluto as well as with most people near my age/generation. It isn’t the aspect, it’s just him being immature and trash. Know your self worth and don’t tolerate that shit. Cut him out and get a better guy, if he comes crying back again, make yourself clear that you don’t play petty push/pull games period. If you do decide to continue to put up with it then you must think you deserve it.


I agree. I'm not perfect and made the mistake of staying with him too long because I love and care for him but I must cut it off for good. Thanks