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The Pattern Bonds
What Do The Pattern App Bond Levels Mean?
The Pattern app bond levels describe how intense or challenging a connection feels, often showing up as instant closeness, emotional highs, or repeated conflict patterns. Many users notice some bonds feel exciting but unstable, while others feel calm but less intense. These labels are not fixed outcomes, they highlight the dynamic you are likely to experience. What matters is how the connection actually plays out over time.
Puzzle pisces,
What is this and how do I find mine out? I never heard of it before.
It’s an app. So you can download it to your phone. “The pattern” you can set up friends & their birth chart info and then run the bonds against yours. The app gives you your patterns and timing. It’s is pretty interesting & accurate for me.
Apparently it makes the people I like seem like enemies.
That sucks!!
my latest one is delicate but we seem to get along so well. It did take a long time to get together but hmmmm makes me wonder why delicate? Lol
@xo- ❤
Well seemed like it for a long time anyway...
Ive run it on a couple of ppl just for shits and giggles but I don't take it seriously.
I mean it's interesting the problem I have is they can't be very accurate when they have to give two outcomes in one description.
"They could be attracted to you or they could be repelled" is very general for me.
Ive run it on a couple of ppl just for shits and giggles but I don't take it seriously.
Yes well its just interesting to me, especially when it’s accurate.
I mean it's interesting the problem I have is they can't be very accurate when they have to give two outcomes in one description.
"They could be attracted to you or they could be repelled" is very general for me.
Yep not everything can be right, I just think it’s interesting to see. Not a tool to be used to decide what is true in real life. I was a bit surprised on my first 3 because it is right about the bond in general but there are some things that aren’t exactly accurate in the details. 4th one I don’t know enough yet.. I’m just curious if this was other people’s experience too.
I’ve been up an hour early for work running bonds 🤣 and I’ve concluded that it’s BS. I ran my sister with all of my exes and they had better bonds and my sister would never go for the types of guys I’ve dated. I wish it would display the synastry aspects it’s basing their patterns on
Yes it would be nice to see the synastry aspects they base it on. In real life I have a very strong bond with the complex one I listed. I think that’s about good & bad but it was really a good growing space for me too.
I have and they are interesting if nothing else. My BFF I recently reconnected with is Soulmate romantically though we never went there. Epic as friends. I have Lifechanging with my Gemini BFF, Virguy who comes up as Meaningful just like my Scorpio ex fiancé. Though I do get Meaningful often when I run romantic bonds, the life changing aspect isn’t always there, just those three so far.
I have and they are interesting if nothing else. My BFF I recently reconnected with is Soulmate romantically though we never went there. Epic as friends. I have Lifechanging with my Gemini BFF, Virguy who comes up as Meaningful just like my Scorpio ex fiancé. Though I do get Meaningful often when I run romantic bonds, the life changing aspect isn’t always there, just those three so far.
Oh wow I had to go back & look and rerun.. actually the Cap was Extraordinary not sure why I thought he was meaningful.. must have remembered wrong. So turns out.. the only ones I have life changing with are the Cap, and both husbands.. hmmm. And the Cap kept running away scared cuz he felt like that’s where we were headed. Fascinating. Oh first husband was extraordinary too. First time I’d run his.
And the current guy is delicate 😂😂
It seems to give a very standard synastry reading---trines good, squares bad, etc. If your synastry looks good on a basic astrology site calculator, it will look good on this one too.
Ya makes sense. Ok thanks.
Where in the app does it sum up your relationship with a person in one word? Just curious as I use the app but never saw that portion. I wanna know now too. Lol
There is a new feature called bonds. It’s a blue & white circle. If you click on it when you pull up the app it brings up your friends & you can run a friendship or romantic bond between two people. If you want to add a new person there is create custom friend there also. It labels the bond as one word plus gives a few categories.
I found it!! I never did this before. I see it gives you a different word if you choose friendship or romantic. I only have my ex and a Leo I liked as I was curious about our pattern together and I have my little brother as I was curious about his pattern in general.
Libra Ex: Romantic = Delicate
Friendship = Chill (there wasn't nothing chill about us) Lol
Leo dude: Romantic = Delicate
Friendship = Unique (we do have a unique friendship)
Leo brother: Friendship = Unique
I ran the Romantic one here too just to see if I got delicate again.. I did.. WTF is wrong with me? I gotta be the cause of the delicate :/
I think delicate means not such a good synastry match. For me, it seems to be working so far anyway! Lol
But the past ones were very strong bonds & probably much better synastry matches. So 🤷♀️ I was a little surprised both my ex husbands had the life changing aspect & were so good! 😂😂 But isn’t always the whole story..
I found it!! I never did this before. I see it gives you a different word if you choose friendship or romantic. I only have my ex and a Leo I liked as I was curious about our pattern together and I have my little brother as I was curious about his pattern in general.
Libra Ex: Romantic = Delicate
Friendship = Chill (there wasn't nothing chill about us) Lol
Leo dude: Romantic = Delicate
Friendship = Unique (we do have a unique friendship)
Leo brother: Friendship = Unique
I ran the Romantic one here too just to see if I got delicate again.. I did.. WTF is wrong with me? I gotta be the cause of the delicate :/
I think delicate means not such a good synastry match. For me, it seems to be working so far anyway! Lol
But the past ones were very strong bonds & probably much better synastry matches. So 🤷♀️ I was a little surprised both my ex husbands had the life changing aspect & were so good! 😂😂 But isn’t always the whole story..
I saw for your ex it has Soulmate. Do some of the bonds come up as soulmate?
If so, everyone add me up on The Pattern, I wanna find my Soulmate 😆
Can you even add people you know on there? I haven't seen a way to find people unless you share a pattern with someone and they comment?
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Yes you can add people. I have gotten friend requests from people.
My ex is the only one who came up soulmate!! Well we were together 20 years lol. First husband who I was only married to for 2 years came up extraordinary!! Nothing up too immature to be married though 😂😂😂
I’m @Puzzlepieces on there. I think you can invite a friend from your contacts like emails. Or if you see someone post something you can add them if you want.
I found it!! I never did this before. I see it gives you a different word if you choose friendship or romantic. I only have my ex and a Leo I liked as I was curious about our pattern together and I have my little brother as I was curious about his pattern in general.
Libra Ex: Romantic = Delicate
Friendship = Chill (there wasn't nothing chill about us) Lol
Leo dude: Romantic = Delicate
Friendship = Unique (we do have a unique friendship)
Leo brother: Friendship = Unique
I ran the Romantic one here too just to see if I got delicate again.. I did.. WTF is wrong with me? I gotta be the cause of the delicate :/
I think delicate means not such a good synastry match. For me, it seems to be working so far anyway! Lol
But the past ones were very strong bonds & probably much better synastry matches. So 🤷♀️ I was a little surprised both my ex husbands had the life changing aspect & were so good! 😂😂 But isn’t always the whole story..
I saw for your ex it has Soulmate. Do some of the bonds come up as soulmate?
If so, everyone add me up on The Pattern, I wanna find my Soulmate 😆
Can you even add people you know on there? I haven't seen a way to find people unless you share a pattern with someone and they comment?
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Oh I just found under friends you can search now. I don’t think it was there before. What’s your name there?
What's the point if it's now lock ?
Patterns & curiosity! 😂
Me and the Sag- complex
Me and the Leo- meaningful
Me and the aries- meaningful
I don't take much to heart about it but it's still interesting. Kinda pissed they went down the pay for everything now road...I get it but you can't even make custom profiles without having to pay more...you only get 3 now...dumb
Ya have to delete some to test out more 😂😂
I like this kind of shit 🤷♀️
Ya have to delete some to test out more 😂😂
I like this kind of shit 🤷♀️
Ain't no one got time for that lol
Ya have to delete some to test out more 😂😂
I like this kind of shit 🤷♀️
Ain't no one got time for that lol
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😂😂 I only cared about keeping the current one! Just like life!! 😉
Ya have to delete some to test out more 😂😂
I like this kind of shit 🤷♀️
Ain't no one got time for that lol
😂😂 I only cared about keeping the current one! Just like life!! 😉
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If I would've known that do that...I would've added the whole lot of them beforehand...now I'm like well, I guess I'll never know because I'm lazy 😆
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What do you think about these? Do they seem accurate for you?
I ran a few people who have been in my life, current & past. Just because I was curious.. I found it interesting.
My ex husband, the Aries who I was with for 20 years... Soulmate
The Cap - Meaningful
The Leo I’ve known forever - Complex
The Leo I’m dating now - Delicate
Hmmmm 🤔🤔🤔 lol