When is astrology is wrong

Posted by Aquarelle

Good question. I'm a little sceptic of my Capricorn mars. It's a cardinal mars and it pushes. On one hand it gives me drive, ambition and perseverance to ground things and see projects through to the end. It's a great placement for work. In my personal life I have to tone it down sometimes because I tend to take too much initiative and want things done my way, almost forgetting that other people also have a say in the matter. It would be nice to be more able to go with the flow and let others take the lead too.

It can be a burden sometimes and people can feel like I overrule them, which is never my intention but it happens before I even notice. Then I get called out for it or people just respond in a grumpy way and then I'm like "Oh no, I did it again...." I'm just a bad follower and feel more comfortable taking charge.

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Overall I just have too much Cap. It makes me stable, hardworking, and caring. However I’d like to be a little more willing to take chances & open. 😂

So I have worked on that, and made progress.

There’s an aspect I have, although I forget exactly the one that says I wouldn’t settle down because I’m too independent & different than the norm. But has to be related to my Moon or Saturn ( both Aquarius). So while it’s true I’m independent, I have always settled down. Okay fine in my earlier years. Married twice, once when I shouldn’t have & once a 20 year relationship. It’s not really about not settling down, but being with someone who accepts you for who you are and gives you room to breathe. So perhaps aspects can be misleading?

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Overall I just have too much Cap. It makes me stable, hardworking, and caring. However I’d like to be a little more willing to take chances & open. 😂

So I have worked on that, and made progress.

There’s an aspect I have, although I forget exactly the one that says I wouldn’t settle down because I’m too independent & different than the norm. But has to be related to my Moon or Saturn ( both Aquarius). So while it’s true I’m independent, I have always settled down. Okay fine in my earlier years. Married twice, once when I shouldn’t have & once a 20 year relationship. It’s not really about not settling down, but being with someone who accepts you for who you are and gives you room to breathe. So perhaps aspects can be misleading?

Same. I am also cap dominant and have been told I come off as intimidating, cold, and uncaring. Constantly got told that I would fall in low for the 'right one' and it was like, nope thats not my personality. It takes literal years for me to let people in and even then I want an escape route in site.

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Overall I just have too much Cap. It makes me stable, hardworking, and caring. However I’d like to be a little more willing to take chances & open. 😂

So I have worked on that, and made progress.

There’s an aspect I have, although I forget exactly the one that says I wouldn’t settle down because I’m too independent & different than the norm. But has to be related to my Moon or Saturn ( both Aquarius). So while it’s true I’m independent, I have always settled down. Okay fine in my earlier years. Married twice, once when I shouldn’t have & once a 20 year relationship. It’s not really about not settling down, but being with someone who accepts you for who you are and gives you room to breathe. So perhaps aspects can be misleading?

Same. I am also cap dominant and have been told I come off as intimidating, cold, and uncaring. Constantly got told that I would fall in low for the 'right one' and it was like, nope thats not my personality. It takes literal years for me to let people in and even then I want an escape route in site.

Maybe the escape thing is partially your Pisces? I don’t get that way until someone is trying to control me 😂 it does take me awhile to completely trust especially after I was married to the Pisces & I didn’t do do good on the decision making then.. live & learn!! Ah relationships are complicated 🤪

Also aren’t you cap moon? I’d think that would make it worse. But then aqua moon does kinda the same thing in the trust arena.

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Posted by saggurl88

All my water placements with my fire placements are annoying. I care on the inside only and show indifference and DGAF on the outside.

It gives me a headache when people tell me they didn't think I cared anyways. I've heard it way too much.

You seem like a caring/respectful person. I have same issue where ive learned to show that i care but its inconsistent. I believe results are stronger than words.

Back on topic: Astrology is not fundamentally wrong imo. Its certain astrologers warp the meanings. Astrology is about self discovery (not prediction or witchy stuff)i dont believe its as complex as people make it out to be. If you stick to the fundamentals and keep an open mind you can see its fairly accurate.

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Overall I just have too much Cap. It makes me stable, hardworking, and caring. However I’d like to be a little more willing to take chances & open. 😂

So I have worked on that, and made progress.

There’s an aspect I have, although I forget exactly the one that says I wouldn’t settle down because I’m too independent & different than the norm. But has to be related to my Moon or Saturn ( both Aquarius). So while it’s true I’m independent, I have always settled down. Okay fine in my earlier years. Married twice, once when I shouldn’t have & once a 20 year relationship. It’s not really about not settling down, but being with someone who accepts you for who you are and gives you room to breathe. So perhaps aspects can be misleading?

Same. I am also cap dominant and have been told I come off as intimidating, cold, and uncaring. Constantly got told that I would fall in low for the 'right one' and it was like, nope thats not my personality. It takes literal years for me to let people in and even then I want an escape route in site.

Maybe the escape thing is partially your Pisces? I don’t get that way until someone is trying to control me 😂 it does take me awhile to completely trust especially after I was married to the Pisces & I didn’t do do good on the decision making then.. live & learn!! Ah relationships are complicated 🤪

Also aren’t you cap moon? I’d think that would make it worse. But then aqua moon does kinda the same thing in the trust arena.

I'm Aries moon. But the escape thing I would credit to my upbringing and having front row seats to my parents controlling ass marriage (him controlling her) and eventual fallout and divorce. Financial independence is so so SOOOOO very important to me and knowing that a relationship is a bonus, not essential for my survival.

Part of the reason I think my current relationship works so well is that we both value our individuality and careers and give each other support but space.

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Overall I just have too much Cap. It makes me stable, hardworking, and caring. However I’d like to be a little more willing to take chances & open. 😂

So I have worked on that, and made progress.

There’s an aspect I have, although I forget exactly the one that says I wouldn’t settle down because I’m too independent & different than the norm. But has to be related to my Moon or Saturn ( both Aquarius). So while it’s true I’m independent, I have always settled down. Okay fine in my earlier years. Married twice, once when I shouldn’t have & once a 20 year relationship. It’s not really about not settling down, but being with someone who accepts you for who you are and gives you room to breathe. So perhaps aspects can be misleading?

Same. I am also cap dominant and have been told I come off as intimidating, cold, and uncaring. Constantly got told that I would fall in low for the 'right one' and it was like, nope thats not my personality. It takes literal years for me to let people in and even then I want an escape route in site.

Maybe the escape thing is partially your Pisces? I don’t get that way until someone is trying to control me 😂 it does take me awhile to completely trust especially after I was married to the Pisces & I didn’t do do good on the decision making then.. live & learn!! Ah relationships are complicated 🤪

Also aren’t you cap moon? I’d think that would make it worse. But then aqua moon does kinda the same thing in the trust arena.

I'm Aries moon. But the escape thing I would credit to my upbringing and having front row seats to my parents controlling ass marriage (him controlling her) and eventual fallout and divorce. Financial independence is so so SOOOOO very important to me and knowing that a relationship is a bonus, not essential for my survival.

Part of the reason I think my current relationship works so well is that we both value our individuality and careers and give each other support but space.

Ahhh ok, makes sense. I was similar due to watching how my mother struggled after divorce with my dad. This is why I have always worked, and picked a career with financial stability. Your relationship sounds similar to me & the Aries. Until he no longer was able to do so. 😢

Do you have Saturn in Capricorn? I find out this placment has a lot of father x mother issues.

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Overall I just have too much Cap. It makes me stable, hardworking, and caring. However I’d like to be a little more willing to take chances & open. 😂

So I have worked on that, and made progress.

There’s an aspect I have, although I forget exactly the one that says I wouldn’t settle down because I’m too independent & different than the norm. But has to be related to my Moon or Saturn ( both Aquarius). So while it’s true I’m independent, I have always settled down. Okay fine in my earlier years. Married twice, once when I shouldn’t have & once a 20 year relationship. It’s not really about not settling down, but being with someone who accepts you for who you are and gives you room to breathe. So perhaps aspects can be misleading?

Same. I am also cap dominant and have been told I come off as intimidating, cold, and uncaring. Constantly got told that I would fall in low for the 'right one' and it was like, nope thats not my personality. It takes literal years for me to let people in and even then I want an escape route in site.

Maybe the escape thing is partially your Pisces? I don’t get that way until someone is trying to control me 😂 it does take me awhile to completely trust especially after I was married to the Pisces & I didn’t do do good on the decision making then.. live & learn!! Ah relationships are complicated 🤪

Also aren’t you cap moon? I’d think that would make it worse. But then aqua moon does kinda the same thing in the trust arena.

I'm Aries moon. But the escape thing I would credit to my upbringing and having front row seats to my parents controlling ass marriage (him controlling her) and eventual fallout and divorce. Financial independence is so so SOOOOO very important to me and knowing that a relationship is a bonus, not essential for my survival.

Part of the reason I think my current relationship works so well is that we both value our individuality and careers and give each other support but space.

Ahhh ok, makes sense. I was similar due to watching how my mother struggled after divorce with my dad. This is why I have always worked, and picked a career with financial stability. Your relationship sounds similar to me & the Aries. Until he no longer was able to do so. 😢

Do you have Saturn in Capricorn? I find out this placment has a lot of father x mother issues.

I do

I know, because I believe I saw we are same age 🙂

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Overall I just have too much Cap. It makes me stable, hardworking, and caring. However I’d like to be a little more willing to take chances & open. 😂

So I have worked on that, and made progress.

There’s an aspect I have, although I forget exactly the one that says I wouldn’t settle down because I’m too independent & different than the norm. But has to be related to my Moon or Saturn ( both Aquarius). So while it’s true I’m independent, I have always settled down. Okay fine in my earlier years. Married twice, once when I shouldn’t have & once a 20 year relationship. It’s not really about not settling down, but being with someone who accepts you for who you are and gives you room to breathe. So perhaps aspects can be misleading?

Same. I am also cap dominant and have been told I come off as intimidating, cold, and uncaring. Constantly got told that I would fall in low for the 'right one' and it was like, nope thats not my personality. It takes literal years for me to let people in and even then I want an escape route in site.

Maybe the escape thing is partially your Pisces? I don’t get that way until someone is trying to control me 😂 it does take me awhile to completely trust especially after I was married to the Pisces & I didn’t do do good on the decision making then.. live & learn!! Ah relationships are complicated 🤪

Also aren’t you cap moon? I’d think that would make it worse. But then aqua moon does kinda the same thing in the trust arena.

I'm Aries moon. But the escape thing I would credit to my upbringing and having front row seats to my parents controlling ass marriage (him controlling her) and eventual fallout and divorce. Financial independence is so so SOOOOO very important to me and knowing that a relationship is a bonus, not essential for my survival.

Part of the reason I think my current relationship works so well is that we both value our individuality and careers and give each other support but space.

Ahhh ok, makes sense. I was similar due to watching how my mother struggled after divorce with my dad. This is why I have always worked, and picked a career with financial stability. Your relationship sounds similar to me & the Aries. Until he no longer was able to do so. 😢

Do you have Saturn in Capricorn? I find out this placment has a lot of father x mother issues.

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Posted by saggurl88

All my water placements with my fire placements are annoying. I care on the inside only and show indifference and DGAF on the outside.

It gives me a headache when people tell me they didn't think I cared anyways. I've heard it way too much.

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There actually isn't anything I find false or wrong for me personally. There might be certain sites or astrologers that stretch a bit or say obvious stuff about placements, but there are also people who are 100% spot on imo. I guess the only thing I find wrong would be horoscopes and relationship info based off of a sun sign. Imo it gives astrology a bad name. People think it's all fake because basic astrology like that is, and because of that they never have the opportunity or even curiosity to see the deeper stuff like birth charts, aspects, or houses.

Imo astrology is more like a library of collected information astrologers have observed, studied, and passed down to describe a persons personality. Things like the zodiac signs, planets, and seasons are merely place makers, or a language if you will astrologers use to keep organized and on the same page. It's not some magical prediction the newspaper tries to sell people, which most people don't understand.

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Overall I just have too much Cap. It makes me stable, hardworking, and caring. However I’d like to be a little more willing to take chances & open. 😂

So I have worked on that, and made progress.

There’s an aspect I have, although I forget exactly the one that says I wouldn’t settle down because I’m too independent & different than the norm. But has to be related to my Moon or Saturn ( both Aquarius). So while it’s true I’m independent, I have always settled down. Okay fine in my earlier years. Married twice, once when I shouldn’t have & once a 20 year relationship. It’s not really about not settling down, but being with someone who accepts you for who you are and gives you room to breathe. So perhaps aspects can be misleading?

Same. I am also cap dominant and have been told I come off as intimidating, cold, and uncaring. Constantly got told that I would fall in low for the 'right one' and it was like, nope thats not my personality. It takes literal years for me to let people in and even then I want an escape route in site.

Maybe the escape thing is partially your Pisces? I don’t get that way until someone is trying to control me 😂 it does take me awhile to completely trust especially after I was married to the Pisces & I didn’t do do good on the decision making then.. live & learn!! Ah relationships are complicated 🤪

Also aren’t you cap moon? I’d think that would make it worse. But then aqua moon does kinda the same thing in the trust arena.

I'm Aries moon. But the escape thing I would credit to my upbringing and having front row seats to my parents controlling ass marriage (him controlling her) and eventual fallout and divorce. Financial independence is so so SOOOOO very important to me and knowing that a relationship is a bonus, not essential for my survival.

Part of the reason I think my current relationship works so well is that we both value our individuality and careers and give each other support but space.

Ahhh ok, makes sense. I was similar due to watching how my mother struggled after divorce with my dad. This is why I have always worked, and picked a career with financial stability. Your relationship sounds similar to me & the Aries. Until he no longer was able to do so. 😢

Do you have Saturn in Capricorn? I find out this placment has a lot of father x mother issues.

I do

I know, because I believe I saw we are same age 🙂

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Overall I just have too much Cap. It makes me stable, hardworking, and caring. However I’d like to be a little more willing to take chances & open. 😂

So I have worked on that, and made progress.

There’s an aspect I have, although I forget exactly the one that says I wouldn’t settle down because I’m too independent & different than the norm. But has to be related to my Moon or Saturn ( both Aquarius). So while it’s true I’m independent, I have always settled down. Okay fine in my earlier years. Married twice, once when I shouldn’t have & once a 20 year relationship. It’s not really about not settling down, but being with someone who accepts you for who you are and gives you room to breathe. So perhaps aspects can be misleading?

Same. I am also cap dominant and have been told I come off as intimidating, cold, and uncaring. Constantly got told that I would fall in low for the 'right one' and it was like, nope thats not my personality. It takes literal years for me to let people in and even then I want an escape route in site.

Maybe the escape thing is partially your Pisces? I don’t get that way until someone is trying to control me 😂 it does take me awhile to completely trust especially after I was married to the Pisces & I didn’t do do good on the decision making then.. live & learn!! Ah relationships are complicated 🤪

Also aren’t you cap moon? I’d think that would make it worse. But then aqua moon does kinda the same thing in the trust arena.

I'm Aries moon. But the escape thing I would credit to my upbringing and having front row seats to my parents controlling ass marriage (him controlling her) and eventual fallout and divorce. Financial independence is so so SOOOOO very important to me and knowing that a relationship is a bonus, not essential for my survival.

Part of the reason I think my current relationship works so well is that we both value our individuality and careers and give each other support but space.

Ahhh ok, makes sense. I was similar due to watching how my mother struggled after divorce with my dad. This is why I have always worked, and picked a career with financial stability. Your relationship sounds similar to me & the Aries. Until he no longer was able to do so. 😢

Do you have Saturn in Capricorn? I find out this placment has a lot of father x mother issues.

No, it’s Aquarius

So you grow up without father?

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Overall I just have too much Cap. It makes me stable, hardworking, and caring. However I’d like to be a little more willing to take chances & open. 😂

So I have worked on that, and made progress.

There’s an aspect I have, although I forget exactly the one that says I wouldn’t settle down because I’m too independent & different than the norm. But has to be related to my Moon or Saturn ( both Aquarius). So while it’s true I’m independent, I have always settled down. Okay fine in my earlier years. Married twice, once when I shouldn’t have & once a 20 year relationship. It’s not really about not settling down, but being with someone who accepts you for who you are and gives you room to breathe. So perhaps aspects can be misleading?

Same. I am also cap dominant and have been told I come off as intimidating, cold, and uncaring. Constantly got told that I would fall in low for the 'right one' and it was like, nope thats not my personality. It takes literal years for me to let people in and even then I want an escape route in site.

Maybe the escape thing is partially your Pisces? I don’t get that way until someone is trying to control me 😂 it does take me awhile to completely trust especially after I was married to the Pisces & I didn’t do do good on the decision making then.. live & learn!! Ah relationships are complicated 🤪

Also aren’t you cap moon? I’d think that would make it worse. But then aqua moon does kinda the same thing in the trust arena.

I'm Aries moon. But the escape thing I would credit to my upbringing and having front row seats to my parents controlling ass marriage (him controlling her) and eventual fallout and divorce. Financial independence is so so SOOOOO very important to me and knowing that a relationship is a bonus, not essential for my survival.

Part of the reason I think my current relationship works so well is that we both value our individuality and careers and give each other support but space.

Ahhh ok, makes sense. I was similar due to watching how my mother struggled after divorce with my dad. This is why I have always worked, and picked a career with financial stability. Your relationship sounds similar to me & the Aries. Until he no longer was able to do so. 😢

Do you have Saturn in Capricorn? I find out this placment has a lot of father x mother issues.

No, it’s Aquarius

So you grow up without father?

I saw him every other weekend once my parents got divorced. I was 9. He was pretty messed up with the divorce so not so emotionally available, but we saw him regularly, took us to do outdoors things. Bigger problem was my stepdad who my mom married when I was 12.

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Overall I just have too much Cap. It makes me stable, hardworking, and caring. However I’d like to be a little more willing to take chances & open. 😂

So I have worked on that, and made progress.

There’s an aspect I have, although I forget exactly the one that says I wouldn’t settle down because I’m too independent & different than the norm. But has to be related to my Moon or Saturn ( both Aquarius). So while it’s true I’m independent, I have always settled down. Okay fine in my earlier years. Married twice, once when I shouldn’t have & once a 20 year relationship. It’s not really about not settling down, but being with someone who accepts you for who you are and gives you room to breathe. So perhaps aspects can be misleading?

Same. I am also cap dominant and have been told I come off as intimidating, cold, and uncaring. Constantly got told that I would fall in low for the 'right one' and it was like, nope thats not my personality. It takes literal years for me to let people in and even then I want an escape route in site.

Maybe the escape thing is partially your Pisces? I don’t get that way until someone is trying to control me 😂 it does take me awhile to completely trust especially after I was married to the Pisces & I didn’t do do good on the decision making then.. live & learn!! Ah relationships are complicated 🤪

Also aren’t you cap moon? I’d think that would make it worse. But then aqua moon does kinda the same thing in the trust arena.

I'm Aries moon. But the escape thing I would credit to my upbringing and having front row seats to my parents controlling ass marriage (him controlling her) and eventual fallout and divorce. Financial independence is so so SOOOOO very important to me and knowing that a relationship is a bonus, not essential for my survival.

Part of the reason I think my current relationship works so well is that we both value our individuality and careers and give each other support but space.

Ahhh ok, makes sense. I was similar due to watching how my mother struggled after divorce with my dad. This is why I have always worked, and picked a career with financial stability. Your relationship sounds similar to me & the Aries. Until he no longer was able to do so. 😢

Do you have Saturn in Capricorn? I find out this placment has a lot of father x mother issues.

No, it’s Aquarius

So you grow up without father?

I saw him every other weekend once my parents got divorced. I was 9. He was pretty messed up with the divorce so not so emotionally available, but we saw him regularly, took us to do outdoors things. Bigger problem was my stepdad who my mom married when I was 12.

Im in the midst of a custody battle myself. No order in place yet but the manipulation tactics and blowups at random moments I face is draining. Extremely draining. Said that because if you cool with it, elaborate on ya stepdad

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Overall I just have too much Cap. It makes me stable, hardworking, and caring. However I’d like to be a little more willing to take chances & open. 😂

So I have worked on that, and made progress.

There’s an aspect I have, although I forget exactly the one that says I wouldn’t settle down because I’m too independent & different than the norm. But has to be related to my Moon or Saturn ( both Aquarius). So while it’s true I’m independent, I have always settled down. Okay fine in my earlier years. Married twice, once when I shouldn’t have & once a 20 year relationship. It’s not really about not settling down, but being with someone who accepts you for who you are and gives you room to breathe. So perhaps aspects can be misleading?

Same. I am also cap dominant and have been told I come off as intimidating, cold, and uncaring. Constantly got told that I would fall in low for the 'right one' and it was like, nope thats not my personality. It takes literal years for me to let people in and even then I want an escape route in site.

Maybe the escape thing is partially your Pisces? I don’t get that way until someone is trying to control me 😂 it does take me awhile to completely trust especially after I was married to the Pisces & I didn’t do do good on the decision making then.. live & learn!! Ah relationships are complicated 🤪

Also aren’t you cap moon? I’d think that would make it worse. But then aqua moon does kinda the same thing in the trust arena.

I'm Aries moon. But the escape thing I would credit to my upbringing and having front row seats to my parents controlling ass marriage (him controlling her) and eventual fallout and divorce. Financial independence is so so SOOOOO very important to me and knowing that a relationship is a bonus, not essential for my survival.

Part of the reason I think my current relationship works so well is that we both value our individuality and careers and give each other support but space.

Ahhh ok, makes sense. I was similar due to watching how my mother struggled after divorce with my dad. This is why I have always worked, and picked a career with financial stability. Your relationship sounds similar to me & the Aries. Until he no longer was able to do so. 😢

Do you have Saturn in Capricorn? I find out this placment has a lot of father x mother issues.

No, it’s Aquarius

So you grow up without father?

I saw him every other weekend once my parents got divorced. I was 9. He was pretty messed up with the divorce so not so emotionally available, but we saw him regularly, took us to do outdoors things. Bigger problem was my stepdad who my mom married when I was 12.

Im in the midst of a custody battle myself. No order in place yet but the manipulation tactics and blowups at random moments I face is draining. Extremely draining. Said that because if you cool with it, elaborate on ya stepdad

It’s cool if it helps someone else. Everything was about my stepdad, and my brother and I didn’t matter. Or what we thought or felt, or perhaps maybe we were having trouble with the new marriage.. instead I was labeled a bad kid because I tried to defend myself, stand up for myself and my brother. Verbal/emotional abuse in telling how unworthy you were, and disrespectful and you never do anything right. No one bothered to pay attention to us. We had no choices period. Not even doing sports or activities we might like. He’s a Leo. My mother didn’t pay attention. She was remarried, the marriage was what was important.

So I had anger issues do to this & when that wasn’t ok, I learned to shut down.. well-being aqua moon, that’s how I learned the protection thing. I was 13. I basically had that pattern until I was 45 and went to therapy, and learned a different way.

Soooo this explains why after my divorce I did not find a relationship to the point of living with or marriage. I was protecting my children so the same did not happen to them. It definitely affected my relationship with the Cap. But he had his issues too. Kids are adults now so it may be different at some point.

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Overall I just have too much Cap. It makes me stable, hardworking, and caring. However I’d like to be a little more willing to take chances & open. 😂

So I have worked on that, and made progress.

There’s an aspect I have, although I forget exactly the one that says I wouldn’t settle down because I’m too independent & different than the norm. But has to be related to my Moon or Saturn ( both Aquarius). So while it’s true I’m independent, I have always settled down. Okay fine in my earlier years. Married twice, once when I shouldn’t have & once a 20 year relationship. It’s not really about not settling down, but being with someone who accepts you for who you are and gives you room to breathe. So perhaps aspects can be misleading?

Same. I am also cap dominant and have been told I come off as intimidating, cold, and uncaring. Constantly got told that I would fall in low for the 'right one' and it was like, nope thats not my personality. It takes literal years for me to let people in and even then I want an escape route in site.

Maybe the escape thing is partially your Pisces? I don’t get that way until someone is trying to control me 😂 it does take me awhile to completely trust especially after I was married to the Pisces & I didn’t do do good on the decision making then.. live & learn!! Ah relationships are complicated 🤪

Also aren’t you cap moon? I’d think that would make it worse. But then aqua moon does kinda the same thing in the trust arena.

I'm Aries moon. But the escape thing I would credit to my upbringing and having front row seats to my parents controlling ass marriage (him controlling her) and eventual fallout and divorce. Financial independence is so so SOOOOO very important to me and knowing that a relationship is a bonus, not essential for my survival.

Part of the reason I think my current relationship works so well is that we both value our individuality and careers and give each other support but space.

Ahhh ok, makes sense. I was similar due to watching how my mother struggled after divorce with my dad. This is why I have always worked, and picked a career with financial stability. Your relationship sounds similar to me & the Aries. Until he no longer was able to do so. 😢

Do you have Saturn in Capricorn? I find out this placment has a lot of father x mother issues.

No, it’s Aquarius

So you grow up without father?

I saw him every other weekend once my parents got divorced. I was 9. He was pretty messed up with the divorce so not so emotionally available, but we saw him regularly, took us to do outdoors things. Bigger problem was my stepdad who my mom married when I was 12.

Im in the midst of a custody battle myself. No order in place yet but the manipulation tactics and blowups at random moments I face is draining. Extremely draining. Said that because if you cool with it, elaborate on ya stepdad

It’s cool if it helps someone else. Everything was about my stepdad, and my brother and I didn’t matter. Or what we thought or felt, or perhaps maybe we were having trouble with the new marriage.. instead I was labeled a bad kid because I tried to defend myself, stand up for myself and my brother. Verbal/emotional abuse in telling how unworthy you were, and disrespectful and you never do anything right. No one bothered to pay attention to us. We had no choices period. Not even doing sports or activities we might like. He’s a Leo. My mother didn’t pay attention. She was remarried, the marriage was what was important.

So I had anger issues do to this & when that wasn’t ok, I learned to shut down.. well-being aqua moon, that’s how I learned the protection thing. I was 13. I basically had that pattern until I was 45 and went to therapy, and learned a different way.

Soooo this explains why after my divorce I did not find a relationship to the point of living with or marriage. I was protecting my children so the same did not happen to them. It definitely affected my relationship with the Cap. But he had his issues too. Kids are adults now so it may be different at some point.

Man.....if you knew how much or how strong this post was. I cant find the words just yet but hey, thats very tought to overcome. Emotional and verbal abuse is extremely traumatizing. Its subtle but its felt and what we dont know is that we are targeted. It happens at specific moments and the abuser is always watching and waiting for a chance to unleash. This is why Im fighting this fight the long mf way cuz Ill be damned....Ill be damned. Youre a strong woman💪Sucks you had to go thru that but sometimes what WE go thru is to help another. And theres no more remdeming feeling the seeing someone climb out the same hole you had to climb out of but extending hand you might not have had

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All my water placements with my fire placements are annoying. I care on the inside only and show indifference and DGAF on the outside.

It gives me a headache when people tell me they didn't think I cared anyways. I've heard it way too much.

My Cappy is like this. He's got half water half fire placments. He looks like he doesn't care but inside he's sweet and caring.

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Being Libra sun does not make me indecisive, and the description that I'm a people pleaser and afraid of confrontation. Maybe it's my Uranus in the first because I can be very impulsive.

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Being Libra sun does not make me indecisive, and the description that I'm a people pleaser and afraid of confrontation. Maybe it's my Uranus in the first because I can be very impulsive.

Trust me Im a libra sun, Libra rising with a libra mars I understand lol Its hard for me to stand down.

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Posted by WarAngel

I haven't seen any glaring problems with what I understand yet. I pretty much have what I need at my disposal now.

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Posted by Libra4rmTX

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Being Libra sun does not make me indecisive, and the description that I'm a people pleaser and afraid of confrontation. Maybe it's my Uranus in the first because I can be very impulsive.

Trust me Im a libra sun, Libra rising with a libra mars I understand lol Its hard for me to stand down.

If im relenting to people pleasing it's because your on your way out the door and I'm probably in the process of cutting you out of my life

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Being Libra sun does not make me indecisive, and the description that I'm a people pleaser and afraid of confrontation. Maybe it's my Uranus in the first because I can be very impulsive.

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For me, Libra is one of the most misunderstood signs in astrology.

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Being Libra sun does not make me indecisive, and the description that I'm a people pleaser and afraid of confrontation. Maybe it's my Uranus in the first because I can be very impulsive.

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Being Libra sun does not make me indecisive, and the description that I'm a people pleaser and afraid of confrontation. Maybe it's my Uranus in the first because I can be very impulsive.

Trust me Im a libra sun, Libra rising with a libra mars I understand lol Its hard for me to stand down.

If im relenting to people pleasing it's because your on your way out the door and I'm probably in the process of cutting you out of my life

For my loved ones, ppl I truly care for and that are loyal I will never say no. BUT I can stay if Im wrong about a person, which I sometimes am, I feel taken for granted and I pull back. Now once I pull back leave me alone lol because I have no problem being honest. And my mercury conj. Pluto along with a 3rd hosue saturn amd uranus makes purposeful communication a specialty.

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