Which is colder? (Page 2)

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Posted by serenidad
so i guess it was like his sense of duty towards a routine combined with his long attention span (cuz you can’t continue writing cards to someone for many years with a short attention span) so i dunno . he’s always had an unusually long attention span even at camp when we were doing jigsaw puzzles and stuff
now, as a husband and a father, he’s the type of dude who puts his family first. he’s always talking about doing this and that activity with his family. 😌

caps fulfill their material obligations but have zero contribution to both emotional and spiritual aspects.

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yeah, on the surface, these might not be the most emotional/sentimental dudes out there but only on the surface. they’re human after all. so, basic human needs like safety, security, love and belonging all matter to them just as much as they matter to us, i’m sure 🙂

how emotionally available a man will be is gonna depend on a lot of factors besides just his zodiac sign. but saturn is paternal energy so capricorn males actually have potential to be great father figures to the people around them if they wanna be and choose to be, that is.

but in order for someone to fully show up for someone else, they would first need to feel secure within themselves. maybe your ex didn’t feel secure enough within himself so he couldn’t show up fully for you.

my camp friend was an old soul at 13. he just sorta had this like calm, unruffled, “been there, done that” energy, and maturity about him. he hugged me on the very last day of camp 😂 that was the most affectionate i’ve seen him throughout the summer 😅 but he was always there for me in practical ways like helping me figure out how something worked, coming with me to places he thought would be dangerous if i went alone 😂

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Posted by serenidad
so i guess it was like his sense of duty towards a routine combined with his long attention span (cuz you can’t continue writing cards to someone for many years with a short attention span) so i dunno . he’s always had an unusually long attention span even at camp when we were doing jigsaw puzzles and stuff
now, as a husband and a father, he’s the type of dude who puts his family first. he’s always talking about doing this and that activity with his family. 😌

I agree with you in regards to "family first" I enjoy reading what you post. The Capricorn I know is down to earth. He is very caring, it might not appear on his face but his actions say it all and I'm okay with it. We talk about our spiritual experiences all the time. He is very open with me. I have seen him cry at a funeral, and I could not help but give him a big hug. It did not make him uncomfortable at all. He is very traditional and a great friend.

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yeah, capricorn males are solution-oriented so they’d rather show you than tell you. they only seem to show vulnerability if they trust someone so your friend probably feels safe enough with you 🙂

my cap dad listens to sappy, nostalgic, sentimental songs in the car 😂 he gets misty-eyed watching movies like “the green mile”, “grave of the fireflies” lol

i’ve also noticed that capricorn energy has a very hard time relating with people who don’t share similar goals in life as them.

they tend to fall out with people when they realize they no longer share the same visions, goals, or when they feel like someone is no longer going in the same direction as them.

i feel like they just have a hard time relating to people who are not like them.

they seem to only respect people who are similar to them. they’re not really flexible about accepting people who are vastly different from them in personality, goals, the ways they conduct their lives etc

saturn is rigid and rigid means inflexible at times.

inflexible about accepting things that are different from what they think is normal.

for example, my dad sometimes looks uncomfortable around people who aren’t similar to him in temperament, disposition etc. he’s cordial and composed but i can tell he’s uncomfortable.

just an observation. has anyone else noticed this about capricorns or is it just me? :/

Posted by virgoOPPP
cap men or aquarius men?

They're both cold af, no lies.

cap men are hell frozen over

aquas are aloof sensitive drama queens

Posted by virghost
cap men are hell frozen over

aquas are aloof sensitive drama queens

i wonder if aqua dudes are aloof or they just don’t care about trivial stuff lol

they tend to be focused on bigger pictures and the human race as a whole / universe as a whole/ state of the world.

i have moon and mars in 11th house and if their brains are anything like mine, they probably just don’t care about trivial stuff 😂

i do notice that they do get pretty touchy, sensitive about their opinions and beliefs though 😂 (aqua dudes). but they usually shrug everything off and go back to being chill like nothing happened 😂 lol

Can they both be cold in different ways. It depends on what you're looking for in terms of "warmth". The Cap loyalty is incomparable really, only on par with Scorpio loyalty. But you might not even want that. But I don't really associate with Aqua men. They're both on the cold side with Aqua being more cool and logical than straight up "no, I will not go to your funeral even if you died horribly" kinda cold. 🤷‍♂️

Cap man with Aqua Venus

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Posted by virghost
cap men are hell frozen over

aquas are aloof sensitive drama queens

i wonder if aqua dudes are aloof or they just don’t care about trivial stuff lol
they tend to be focused on bigger pictures and the human race as a whole / universe as a whole/ state of the world.

i have moon and mars in 11th house and if their brains are anything like mine, they probably just don’t care about trivial stuff 😂

i do notice that they do get pretty touchy, sensitive about their opinions and beliefs though 😂 (aqua dudes). but they usually shrug everything off and go back to being chill like nothing happened 😂 lol

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lol my brother is like that, very opinionated but reasonable but also I’ve met some who are drama queens

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Posted by virghost
cap men are hell frozen over
aquas are aloof sensitive drama queens

i wonder if aqua dudes are aloof or they just don’t care about trivial stuff lol

they tend to be focused on bigger pictures and the human race as a whole / universe as a whole/ state of the world.

i have moon and mars in 11th house and if their brains are anything like mine, they probably just don’t care about trivial stuff 😂

i do notice that they do get pretty touchy, sensitive about their opinions and beliefs though 😂 (aqua dudes). but they usually shrug everything off and go back to being chill like nothing happened 😂 lol

Yeah we really don't focus on what's in front of us. And if we do focus on stuff it's usually weird or interesting to us.

We are cold without really thinking about it, kinda boring in a way. Sometimes we don't even focus on ourselves.

Caps actually care about themselves and it's a earth feminine sign so it needs earthly things to feel fulfilled.

I have lots of Capricorn coworkers whom I get along with cause we like to get stuff done. But they're very sensitive and I'm always pissing them off or offending them cause I have no boundaries and very little discipline.

Imo to sum it up: it takes a lot of work to be a Capricorn

It takes a lot of detachment to be an Aquarius.

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“Yeah we really don't focus on what's in front of us. And if we do focus on stuff it's usually weird or interesting to us.”

lol yeah, i always had this feeling that you guys are here but your minds are somewhere else in the future 😂 or focused on something way bigger than what’s just in front of you. aqua guys seem to always be looking at things with a sort of bird’s eye view. i kinda feel like that’s why they’re able to stay calm (“aloof” as ppl might say but it’s really just calmness that comes from having this bird’s eye view) and that’s why they don’t panic or fret about things all that much 😂 cuz of that bird’s eye view and being able to see things from a higher, wider perspective. and yes, weird/interesting topics seem to catch their attention a lot. mundane, trivial things don’t really catch their attention. aquas often tend to have hobbies that they put a lot of effort and time and passion into as well. they usually become so good at those hobbies that it surprises those around them lol aquas can also have laser like focus if they’re interested in something and they study all angles of it and become masters at it. they have a genius streak which i envy and admire cuz i simply don’t have it 😂 i actually like asking aquas for advice for this very reason. they tend to give interesting answers. and show me things i haven’t considered or thought of before. new ways of looking at stuff.



“We are cold without really thinking about it, kinda boring in a way. Sometimes we don't even focus on ourselves.”



yeah , i never felt like you guys are cold or self-focused. quite the opposite.

i see aquas being really cooperative with others, checking up on people around them, making sure they’re good etc (even though they may have their own ideas and philosophies inside their heads, they’ll still try to be cooperative cuz they care about people getting along, i think peace is still important to aquas even though ppl like to call you the “rebels” of the zodiac lol etc)

yes, capricorns tend to be more self-focused than aquas.

aquas definitely have unique strengths that are different from capricorns or any other signs.

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Posted by virghost
cap men are hell frozen over

aquas are aloof sensitive drama queens

i wonder if aqua dudes are aloof or they just don’t care about trivial stuff lol

they tend to be focused on bigger pictures and the human race as a whole / universe as a whole/ state of the world.



i have moon and mars in 11th house and if their brains are anything like mine, they probably just don’t care about trivial stuff 😂



i do notice that they do get pretty touchy, sensitive about their opinions and beliefs though 😂 (aqua dudes). but they usually shrug everything off and go back to being chill like nothing happened 😂 lol

lol my brother is like that, very opinionated but reasonable but also I’ve met some who are drama queens

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yeah i actually knew one that was a bit of a drama queen too lol. i think when aquas are still in that unevolved, insecure stage of caring too much what other people think, they tend to be drama queens. when they develop confidence and objectivity, they tend to mellow out and become wiser, being a source of inspiration for others.

The only way I can boil this down is assuming the cap or Aquarius have been betrayed. At that point the Cap is truly more cold. People talk shit on Aqua and call them stagnant air, but the second that shit becomes released they are simply disappearing, and will actually feel happy. A Capricorn however will plot your demise worse then a Scorpio. They won't stop even when they won either. They will hold that shit over you forever. You might be able to apologize, and maybe they will stop trying to destroy your life, but even then they will never trust you, or hold you as value in any way. Unless it profits them in some way. Also you will never win against a vengeful Capricorn. There is no angle you take take to beat them, and no route you can run away without getting trampled.

Bottom line, don't fuck with Capricorn. You can fuck around with Aquarius. They might fight fuck, but will simply disappear when given the chance. With Capricorn you will literally wake up from a coma, and the first thing you will see is the Capricorn ready to bash your face in again.