Why don’t I get along with water signs? (Page 2)

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Posted by JayTheFantastic

Posted by RollergirlOrc

How many water signs have you tried to be friends with? 2 or 3 or more than that? My thinking is only a couple is too few to determine if you do or don't get along with them.

A bunch and it doesn’t work out due to their passive aggressive behaviors and sensitivity to small things

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Hmph. Are you really going to try to convince others that you have a Scorp Moon (and I am guessing a Fish Merc) and are not passive aggressive and sensitive to "small" things as well?

I'm guessing you don't believe the things that upset you are "small" though.

A large part of the issue that people have with water signs is they don't like it when their behaviour is reflected back to them (aka mirrored), as they fail to see their won behaviour in the mirror. Water signs do it so naturally and automatically that it is often seen as "moody water sign behaviour" oppose to a reflection of what is happening in the relationship. Sometimes it is simply water sign moodiness, don't get me wrong and sometimes it is truly a reflection of the other person's piss poor behaviour. Sometimes it's a blend of the two. Unfortunately, it is communicated passively. Feminine sign and all that jazz. So it's not gonna change any time soon.

If you care to work through things with water signs, start reflecting on what you may be doing to contribute to the dynamic, in addition to calling them out on their own behaviour. It does take two hands to clap after all.

If not, then just continue as you were...

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Posted by peachy06

A perfect exemple. Here's Kylie Jenner making a scene because she's jealous of her sister Kendall becoming a model and not her. Meanwhile Kendall as a perfect Scorpio sun, is totally unbothered.

The difference between Scorpio sun and Scorpio moon. 🙄

Interesting I always thought that was her Leo sun being dramatic leos get jealous when they’re not in the spotlight

Everyone has basic feelings and the signs are the way they are expressed. Leos will cause drama at any cost cause that is their nature, its all about point of view. I can sense Scorpio suns hidden energies but they dont fit into my Aquarius philosophies so i respect and let them be, same with the other fixed signs.

Scorpios really hate Aquas I notice. It’s weird like what did we do to yall?

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I don’t !

I love Eddie Izzard 😀

I love originality and eccentricity 👍

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Posted by alexscaries

With Scorpio suns I've said it before I think we are nervous around each other, not sure if we can see trauma we are trying to hide.

As a scorpio moon I've not really known many. I think it is confusing for other people as I can go from clingy to detached. If I'm angry it's mainly down to other people's incompetence and if someone is deliberately provoking me by being manipulative.

As I've said before scorp moon is a mixed bag and I would rather have it than other water moons.

I think out of the three its prob most compatible with male energy

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Posted by peachy06

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Posted by peachy06

A perfect exemple. Here's Kylie Jenner making a scene because she's jealous of her sister Kendall becoming a model and not her. Meanwhile Kendall as a perfect Scorpio sun, is totally unbothered.

The difference between Scorpio sun and Scorpio moon. 🙄

Interesting I always thought that was her Leo sun being dramatic leos get jealous when they’re not in the spotlight

But the way she's losing her shit over it ? 100% Scorpio moon.

The worst thing someone can do is to attack a Leo’s pride / ego Kylie most likely thought she was the most famous Jenner but when Kendall was chosen over her it hurt her pride and she lashed out but if you listen to the recording you can tell it wasn’t gonna go too far let’s be honest if Kylie let the scorpio moon out on full blast it would’ve gotten really bad I mean worse than kim and kourtney bad

Sure, let's blame it all on Leo sun, as if her evil moon wasn't the problem... 🙄🙄

Don't underestimate Kendall with her Scorpio sun Aries moon ass

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Hmph.

So which is it? On one hand you stated Scorp Moons were like Ram Moons, all over the d*mn place. Yet, now Kendall is the epitome of calm because she has a Scorp Sun despite having a Ram Moon? Either their moons (both of them) make them a hot mess or it doesn't. Personally I think more influences all of that and I agree Scorp Sun tend to be more measured when dealing with conflict. However, when the Scorp Moon is placed with the right Sun, I have observed equal measured control. As I've stated, it's influenced by a lot more than simply Moon alone.

Maybe Kendall is just unbothered because she has become use to her sister antics and like most Scorps we can easily tune out "noise". Especially when the motives driving their reaction is transparent. I am the same with people when I'm simply not in the mood to entertain their bullsh*t. I am sure when Kendall is ready to get fired up, she does. She's probably just smart enough to not let it get captured on camera. Scorp image after all.

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Posted by peachy06

A perfect exemple. Here's Kylie Jenner making a scene because she's jealous of her sister Kendall becoming a model and not her. Meanwhile Kendall as a perfect Scorpio sun, is totally unbothered.

The difference between Scorpio sun and Scorpio moon. 🙄

Interesting I always thought that was her Leo sun being dramatic leos get jealous when they’re not in the spotlight

But the way she's losing her shit over it ? 100% Scorpio moon.

The worst thing someone can do is to attack a Leo’s pride / ego Kylie most likely thought she was the most famous Jenner but when Kendall was chosen over her it hurt her pride and she lashed out but if you listen to the recording you can tell it wasn’t gonna go too far let’s be honest if Kylie let the scorpio moon out on full blast it would’ve gotten really bad I mean worse than kim and kourtney bad

Sure, let's blame it all on Leo sun, as if her evil moon wasn't the problem... 🙄🙄

Don't underestimate Kendall with her Scorpio sun Aries moon ass

Hmph.

So which is it? On one hand you stated Scorp Moons were like Ram Moons, all over the d*mn place. Yet, now Kendall is the epitome of calm because she has a Scorp Sun despite having a Ram Moon? Either their moons (both of them) make them a hot mess or it doesn't. Personally I think more influences all of that and I agree Scorp Sun tend to be more measured when dealing with conflict. However, when the Scorp Moon is placed with the right Sun, I have observed equal measured control. As I've stated, it's influenced by a lot more than simply Moon alone.

Maybe Kendall is just unbothered because she has become use to her sister antics and like most Scorps we can easily tune out "noise". Especially when the motives driving their reaction is transparent. I am the same with people when I'm simply not in the mood to entertain their bullsh*t. I am sure when Kendall is ready to get fired up, she does. She's probably just smart enough to not let it get captured on camera. Scorp image after all.

It's like I said : Scorpio moon = lack of self-control, Scorpio sun = in control. Especially because Scorpio sun is more aware of their emotions than the moon. BUT with an Aries moon you never know what to expect, and yes as you said the Sun can influence the moon. I can imagine someone with a double cardinal being completely different from someone with a fixed + cardinal.

Now, I can't speak for her since I'm not her, maybe she's used to her shit who knows ? I have no problem keeping a resting bitch face and pretend as if you don't exist, and let you made a clown of yourself. If you look properly though, you can read her eyes (Kendall), and she's totally judging her. I know that stare, it's all over her face. Your last sentence is on point, pride first.

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Lol, yes I recognize that look too. I think we all get it as Scorps. Translation: "Jesus you look/sound so foolish right now...". The more they act up, the more amusing it is (and mild intrigue for me anyway) because they are continuing to escalate and you're not lifting a finger. Like how does one lose so much control when the other person isn't doing one thing to get them going?

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Or water signs are actually not that easy to get along with as everyone says and can be just as cautious or even more so than others. Friendly is one thing but trying to get thru to their core to actually know them is difficult lmaoooo

I know, it could NEVER be that right😐

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The only best water sign is pisces that I can recall. The other two....nay I don't know about them.

Honestly I can't believe y'all still fuedin and fussin about not getting along with certain signs yada yada yah. How about this. Can you get along with yourselves? Cus that's the best way to go about it.

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does´nt the 11th house deal with friendships/communities?

and what about uranus, known for sudden, unexpected turns and twists of events?

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Posted by PhoenixRising

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Posted by RollergirlOrc

How many water signs have you tried to be friends with? 2 or 3 or more than that? My thinking is only a couple is too few to determine if you do or don't get along with them.

A bunch and it doesn’t work out due to their passive aggressive behaviors and sensitivity to small things

Hmph. Are you really going to try to convince others that you have a Scorp Moon (and I am guessing a Fish Merc) and are not passive aggressive and sensitive to "small" things as well?

I'm guessing you don't believe the things that upset you are "small" though.

A large part of the issue that people have with water signs is they don't like it when their behaviour is reflected back to them (aka mirrored), as they fail to see their won behaviour in the mirror. Water signs do it so naturally and automatically that it is often seen as "moody water sign behaviour" oppose to a reflection of what is happening in the relationship. Sometimes it is simply water sign moodiness, don't get me wrong and sometimes it is truly a reflection of the other person's piss poor behaviour. Sometimes it's a blend of the two. Unfortunately, it is communicated passively. Feminine sign and all that jazz. So it's not gonna change any time soon.

If you care to work through things with water signs, start reflecting on what you may be doing to contribute to the dynamic, in addition to calling them out on their own behaviour. It does take two hands to clap after all.

If not, then just continue as you were...

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Not passive aggressive at all if something is bothering me I let people know I think my sun sign is strong I gave up on these people honestly they say a guys venus shows the woman he wants so ima just focus on fire signs I no longer deal with water sign women. fire and water doesn’t mix

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Posted by peachy06

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Even the way water signs flirt is passive aggressive they have to tell a friend to tell you they like you like sheesh why don’t you say it yourself

Lol! Who the hell are you meeting?

I've always approached a man directly if interested.

Damn, you're bold. 😶

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This is how I met my current partner. I caught him staring so I approached him and struck up a conversation. The rest is history. I prefer directness and he appeared to be tongued tied staring all night.

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Posted by PhoenixRising

I don't know any Scorp woman that has asked someone else to speak on their behalf. If we like you, that is between you and Scorp in question.

Oh you’re a Scorpio no wonder lol y’all ruled by Mars y’all different this woman wasn’t a Scorpio i only know one scorpio woman and she was too bossy