Onimusha01
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Gemini man and the one who got away!
Posted by BlueStar
He’s psycho, not persistent.
I'm about to think that, even tho he is not causing me any harm. like why he acts like he scare to lose me when he literally did the impossible to make me walk away from him.
I think he probably thought I would never be over him. and now he cant deal w reality
Posted by Onimusha01 he drives to my house unannounced.
This is the point where I move, change my name, go off grid.
Like fuuuuuuuuuuuuck no.
That's so psycho path serial killer starter kit shit. Please get yourself a Fitbit so that when someone walking their dog finds your remains the police can determine time of death and location.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Onimusha01 he drives to my house unannounced.
This is the point where I move, change my name, go off grid.
Like fuuuuuuuuuuuuck no.
That's so psycho path serial killer starter kit shit. Please get yourself a Fitbit so that when someone walking their dog finds you remains the police can determine time of death and location.click to expand
I don't think is that bad, I'm really not worry. And even tho he told me that I don't believe him. Cuz he always calls me when he is around to try and meet up with me. We used to live in the same neighborhood until his current gf found a new place further, maybe in the failed try to get him away from me. He did drove to my house once that I told him I was home with a male friend and he wanted to come and see who was it or if it was true. and I told him to go back to his house cuz firstable I did not invited him or asked him to come to my house. he got upset and left. the next day he told me he was drunk.
He said that one time that he comes to my house to see if im there, I dont believe him bc I live in a Building on a 4th floor and for him to come in someone needs to open the main door for him. And for that to happen someone has to either enter or come out the building. So, I think he was just bsing.
Posted by MaraiPosted by Onimusha01
He said that one time that he comes to my house to see if im there, I dont believe him bc I live in a Building on a 4th floor and for him to come in someone needs to open the main door for him. And for that to happen someone has to either enter or come out the building. So, I think he was just bsing.
Then change your number and tell no one 😂click to expand
it doesn't bother me, just bothers me that I don't get what he wants or trying to get tho. like he hot and stuff and fks awesome, but that's it. Like im on a different page now.! its actually kind of funny he thought he could replace me and he realized he cant. lmao! He actually very different at the one he was when we were together... Im a strong minded opinionated woman. And I guess he felt threaten. Most of his Gf's let him do whatever he wants. I don't ! relationships got rules. ! and he doesn't want any so he settled for less.
Posted by Onimusha01Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Onimusha01 he drives to my house unannounced.
This is the point where I move, change my name, go off grid.
Like fuuuuuuuuuuuuck no.
That's so psycho path serial killer starter kit shit. Please get yourself a Fitbit so that when someone walking their dog finds you remains the police can determine time of death and location.
I don't think is that bad, I'm really not worry. And even tho he told me that I don't believe him. Cuz he always calls me when he is around to try and meet up with me. We used to live in the same neighborhood until his current gf found a new place further, maybe in the failed try to get him away from me. He did drove to my house once that I told him I was home with a male friend and he wanted to come and see who was it or if it was true. and I told him to go back to his house cuz firstable I did not invited him or asked him to come to my house. he got upset and left. the next day he told me he was drunk.click to expand
Posted by MadTwins80
He only wants you because he can't have you... don't flatter yourself too much about being the one who got away. He wouldn't have fucked up so badly first time round if he really thought you were ever "the one". Obviously I don't know the whole story but he has some kind of anxious attachment problem to go to all those lengths to get your attention. He is triggered by the chase and the fact that you're avoiding or unavailable , whatever, but if you let him back in he'll prob just go back to how he was before
Also, he's a Gemini and what sounds like a pretty dark-sided one at that. He's showing you one side of him but don't assume the time he is not harassing you he thinks twice about you. We can change faces within a second and jump around from one person to another with zero warning. Emotions flit in and flit out and they don't mean shit most of the time
Not saying this to be harsh but don't fall for that bs is all I'm saying. It's just talk imo
your;re absolutely right, I dont feel flattered I feel pissed off bc he clearly knows I wont intimate with him, so idk what he's after.
i know he can be sweet now and an ass later...
Posted by Onimusha01
So I had a 3 years very intense relationship with a Gemini man who treated me badly together with the fact that he jokes a lot and I used to take his jokes like literally personal.
We finally broke up bc of his constant cheating, flirting and talking w other girls. I was mad in love w him so I suffered a lot cuz i could not understand why he treated me like he hated me.
Long story short, since he wanted me off his life so i started to remove myself and now Im totally over him, but he has never leave me alone, yeah! you guys will say is bc I allow him and yada, yada yada, but thats not the case. I had cursed him out, block all his numbers, had a boyfriend, asked him to leave me alone, threaten him to tell his gf.
He had follow me to ask me to be friends, when I block him he calls me from other numbers, he sends his friends to tell me to answer him. he drives to my house unannounced. he calls me when drunk, he tell all his gf's about me. He had had butter with previous gf. bc they think he with me.
This been going on for over 5 years. No intimacy since I decided to finally walk away. ! I ended up still talking to him bc is less stress than if I don't. he calls me / text me on a regular basis (mind you he does this regardless if he has a gf) I do not talk about his relationship, but I keep telling him if he is calling me obviously he is not happy w the people he been choosing to be with. And he keeps comparing them with me, like they don't do what i do. (yikes)
oh btw. We do get along very well now as he tries to keep the communication open now that Idgaf if he is around or not. so he tries not to get me upset . He kinda think something at some point is going to happen sexually... and Im like if it didnt happen before is not going to happen now... and before that I need a ring on my finger to then consider it... ( i know he is afraid of strong commitments so this is my line)
My point here is, what is all this about? are you guys always so persistent?
I have extensive experience with light and dark Geminis and I will just tell you he's a dark Gemini who will obsess over the woman who stood up for herself and ended his garbage. There was a Gemini woman who behaved the same way. She told all her new boyfriends that her ex was a friend of the family and like her brother, but on the back end was always sending him naked pictures and trying to be the other woman. This is the worse side of a Gemini but they can't really help themselves because I think the emotional rollercoaster he had with you bonded him in some way. I love Geminis BTW, but you should know by now that we all have a dark side that's equivalent to out light side...
Posted by GemCurioThe1Posted by Onimusha01
So I had a 3 years very intense relationship with a Gemini man who treated me badly together with the fact that he jokes a lot and I used to take his jokes like literally personal.
We finally broke up bc of his constant cheating, flirting and talking w other girls. I was mad in love w him so I suffered a lot cuz i could not understand why he treated me like he hated me.
Long story short, since he wanted me off his life so i started to remove myself and now Im totally over him, but he has never leave me alone, yeah! you guys will say is bc I allow him and yada, yada yada, but thats not the case. I had cursed him out, block all his numbers, had a boyfriend, asked him to leave me alone, threaten him to tell his gf.
He had follow me to ask me to be friends, when I block him he calls me from other numbers, he sends his friends to tell me to answer him. he drives to my house unannounced. he calls me when drunk, he tell all his gf's about me. He had had butter with previous gf. bc they think he with me.
This been going on for over 5 years. No intimacy since I decided to finally walk away. ! I ended up still talking to him bc is less stress than if I don't. he calls me / text me on a regular basis (mind you he does this regardless if he has a gf) I do not talk about his relationship, but I keep telling him if he is calling me obviously he is not happy w the people he been choosing to be with. And he keeps comparing them with me, like they don't do what i do. (yikes)
oh btw. We do get along very well now as he tries to keep the communication open now that Idgaf if he is around or not. so he tries not to get me upset . He kinda think something at some point is going to happen sexually... and Im like if it didnt happen before is not going to happen now... and before that I need a ring on my finger to then consider it... ( i know he is afraid of strong commitments so this is my line)
My point here is, what is all this about? are you guys always so persistent?
I have extensive experience with light and dark Geminis and I will just tell you he's a dark Gemini who will obsess over the woman who stood up for herself and ended his garbage. There was a Gemini woman who behaved the same way. She told all her new boyfriends that her ex was a friend of the family and like her brother, but on the back end was always sending him naked pictures and trying to be the other woman. This is the worse side of a Gemini but they can't really help themselves because I think the emotional rollercoaster he had with you bonded him in some way. I love Geminis BTW, but you should know by now that we all have a dark side that's equivalent to out light side...click to expand
Omg! Yeah, he tell all his girlfriends about me, last one told him to block me cuz I wasn’t over him and I told him why he didn’t tell her it was all the way around lol. I know he does and he knows I know him well, I told him one day the reason why our relationship was a mess was bc I knew all the crap he was doing behind my back and this person he shows to be to his new girlfriends is just a facade.
And he agrees. Now that I know who he really is and what he does , he knows I’m not down for his Bs. so he tries not to get me upset, w his previous relationship he use to let his gf take his phone and she use to text me , I had plain telling her the truth about him, but he always manage to make women to believe him, the recent one I told him if she ever text me Imma sent her a screenshot of all the missed calls I get from him and all the communication we have. One time I discovered he was telling his friends I was the one who didn’t leave him alone, I showed them my phone .
Honestly as a friend he is better than a boyfriend, now he wants to do everything we didn’t do when we were together haha. I’m like ... too late bruh!
Posted by MadTwins80
He only wants you because he can't have you... don't flatter yourself too much about being the one who got away. He wouldn't have fucked up so badly first time round if he really thought you were ever "the one". Obviously I don't know the whole story but he has some kind of anxious attachment problem to go to all those lengths to get your attention. He is triggered by the chase and the fact that you're avoiding or unavailable , whatever, but if you let him back in he'll prob just go back to how he was before
Also, he's a Gemini and what sounds like a pretty dark-sided one at that. He's showing you one side of him but don't assume the time he is not harassing you he thinks twice about you. We can change faces within a second and jump around from one person to another with zero warning. Emotions flit in and flit out and they don't mean shit most of the time
Not saying this to be harsh but don't fall for that bs is all I'm saying. It's just talk imo
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We finally broke up bc of his constant cheating, flirting and talking w other girls. I was mad in love w him so I suffered a lot cuz i could not understand why he treated me like he hated me.
Long story short, since he wanted me off his life so i started to remove myself and now Im totally over him, but he has never leave me alone, yeah! you guys will say is bc I allow him and yada, yada yada, but thats not the case. I had cursed him out, block all his numbers, had a boyfriend, asked him to leave me alone, threaten him to tell his gf.
He had follow me to ask me to be friends, when I block him he calls me from other numbers, he sends his friends to tell me to answer him. he drives to my house unannounced. he calls me when drunk, he tell all his gf's about me. He had had butter with previous gf. bc they think he with me.
This been going on for over 5 years. No intimacy since I decided to finally walk away. ! I ended up still talking to him bc is less stress than if I don't. he calls me / text me on a regular basis (mind you he does this regardless if he has a gf) I do not talk about his relationship, but I keep telling him if he is calling me obviously he is not happy w the people he been choosing to be with. And he keeps comparing them with me, like they don't do what i do. (yikes)
oh btw. We do get along very well now as he tries to keep the communication open now that Idgaf if he is around or not. so he tries not to get me upset . He kinda think something at some point is going to happen sexually... and Im like if it didnt happen before is not going to happen now... and before that I need a ring on my finger to then consider it... ( i know he is afraid of strong commitments so this is my line)
My point here is, what is all this about? are you guys always so persistent?