Gemini man - what can you tell me about em?

My entire romantic history has only been with earth sign men. I'm a Gemini sun+moon+mars, aries venus, taurus mercury. On Feb 1, I went out with my friends and 1 of my friends brought this gemini man along, her friend. We laughed, ate, and honestly had a good time. My friend texted me the next day "I asked [gemini man] what he thought about you. He said he thinks you are beautiful, nerdy and cute. I think you 2 would make a cute couple"

The gemini man has aqua moon, taurus mercury, gemini venus, virgo mars. I am interested and would like to get to know him. But I have NEVER been romantically involved with a Gemini man, and esp an aqua moon. I have no idea what to expect. I'm used to the stability, consistency and possessiveness of earth sign men. What are gemini men like?

All 4 of us are meeting up again for dinner on feb 16, so I am gonna see him again. I'd like a heads up on gemini men 🙂

Save yourself the drama

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The aqua moon with Gemini Venus is worrisome

I love Gemini + Gemini

The biggest issue that I had in both the relationships I was in (5 ish years a piece) is that they don’t want to grow up. By the time they decide to, it’s too late. They are great though overall, I really like Gemini men.

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The aqua moon with Gemini Venus is worrisome

Whats up with aqua moon? Is it that bad? I have never dealt with aqua moon before

I’ll post an update after seeing him on feb 16 lord knows i dont have any lessons in me left. Please help a girl out 🥹🥹

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Posted by DMV
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The aqua moon with Gemini Venus is worrisome

Whats up with aqua moon? Is it that bad? I have never dealt with aqua moon before

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They’re very detached.

He’s detached in his emotional responses (fixed moon) and his relationships (mutable Venus)

You’re going to have to keep it extremely light because any sense of drama coming from you (not him) will be a ghosting situation

Venus in Gemini also loves variety. Friends and lovers

Posted by MonaLisa26
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@Galoppig

It was up recently. She is describing moronic Gem in her opening post. I am voting she is right! No substance, BS and shameless too…

Read. A lot of info.

I read through that one, i think that Gemini man only wanted her as a fwb. That situation wasn’t a zodiac sign issue as much as a non-committal, Fboy issue.

Call me a prude but I’ll never sleep with a man unless Im in a committed relationship with him. Theres nothing wrong with $ ex prior to committing, this is just my personal boundary.

Im happy Galoppig left the Gem man alone and found herself a new love 🙂

You like what you like. He might toy with how you feel though, IF you develop anything more than superficial feelings. Or he could genuinely be curious or flattered as to why you like him. Never a dull moment either way.

Posted by DragonSag
Seriously what's up with people judging someone based on your biased opinion on specific sign? Who are you to judge every single men in that sign? Have you met ALL of them? Even if you meet dozens it still might not be because they are that bad as you think, it could also be you are not right for each other🤷🏼‍♀️ @Gem03 don't listen to this bs, give yourself a chance to explore what you have interest in. This is exactly the same kind of shit mutual Sag friend used to tell my Gem friend about her Gem bf when they started dating, and guess what - he is as amazing husband as one can be now, they are happily married over a decade and have beautiful kids together, travel the world together and enjoy all kinds of fun activities together. That's how "bad" Gemini men can be! Once you give them benefit of a doubt and actually get to meet them. I swear they say same shit about us Sags and Gems all the time, and even people in these sings trash same sign different sex but it's just a load of bs. Look around at older people you know and their signs and I'm sure you'll find some great people who are "supposed" to be awful based on their sun, moon, venus or whatever bs someone says. It's never about parts of someone's chart, everything in chart makes a person the way they are and there could be conflicting placements/aspects when obviously not both can apply to the person, but by getting to know them you can only find out which one applies to them. So simply don't judge a book by the cover.

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Seriously what's up with people judging someone based on your biased opinion on specific sign? Who are you to judge every single men in that sign? Have you met ALL of them? Even if you meet dozens it still might not be because they are that bad as you think, it could also be you are not right for each other🤷🏼‍♀️ @Gem03 don't listen to this bs, give yourself a chance to explore what you have interest in. This is exactly the same kind of shit mutual Sag friend used to tell my Gem friend about her Gem bf when they started dating, and guess what - he is as amazing husband as one can be now, they are happily married over a decade and have beautiful kids together, travel the world together and enjoy all kinds of fun activities together. That's how "bad" Gemini men can be! Once you give them benefit of a doubt and actually get to meet them. I swear they say same shit about us Sags and Gems all the time, and even people in these sings trash same sign different sex but it's just a load of bs. Look around at older people you know and their signs and I'm sure you'll find some great people who are "supposed" to be awful based on their sun, moon, venus or whatever bs someone says. It's never about parts of someone's chart, everything in chart makes a person the way they are and there could be conflicting placements/aspects when obviously not both can apply to the person, but by getting to know them you can only find out which one applies to them. So simply don't judge a book by the cover.

After ALL THESE YEARS when dxp judging people by their signs you came out like you just signed up and shitting yourself? Strange AF!
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Yeah I might be all these years here but people asking these questions aren't. So it's only fair not to drag them into same shit. And it's not only dxp, it's everywhere where people talk about astrology. It was mostly inspired by some instagram post. Rating people by sign and gender. And then ofc in comments people continue to trash one another based on their own bias ofc. On is hurt by Socrp so all Scorp must suck. One is hurt by Gem so all Gems are garbage. One is hurt by Virgo so all Virgo men are trash etc...

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People are sharing their experiences.

We don’t know the individual so we have to base our opinion on what we know. You can’t invalidate our experience because we don’t know every single person. We know what we know

And most of us know that Gemini Men ain’t shyt

Also if every time we gave an opinion we had to add a disclaimer to it, it would be exhausting. Some, not all, many, several. It would never end.

If the shoe doesn’t fit, don’t wear it

frankly any man will be better than the virgo sun+moon man i dealt with 🙂

Also he expressed interest in me FIRST by telling 1 of my closest girl friends "She's so beautiful, cute and nerdy". I'm simply being open-minded about this and wanna get to know him more (slowly, very slowly).

The only issue is I have no idea what to expect, I'm only experienced with earth sign men and things i have heard about gemini men are usually not-so-great. I'm hoping his mercury taurus+ mars virgo+ aqua moon balance him out

I'll keep yall posted hehe 😉

Update: so it was just me and him on feb 16, we got to know each other a bit more and he was a perfect gentleman. We have been consistently texting each other since then. Him and I both have mercury taurus, think relatively similar and are into same things (anime, kdramas etc). He literally said "you bringing out the weird in me and we have barely just met".

He told our mutual friend that he thinks im sweet and funny, wants to take things slow. He told me about his dating past and i shared mine as well.

Hard pass on Gemini men. I have one as a friend. They have a lot of great qualities. Kind, charming, honest, hard working and usually attractive but if you happen to get the other side of them, run n for the hills.

Okay update: this gem is literally one of the most respectful, kind man I have ever met. He is gentleman and always takes good care of me. I'm so happy to have found him. We text all day every day, see each other 1-2 times a week.