Stages of love

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When you falling in love - the scary thing is to lose the person you in love, right?

Then he is assuring you he is not going anywhere. Still who knows? He might change his mind right?

Time goes by and relationship is even and fun and we learning about each other. Traveling, working, studying, playing music. Whatever people do.

Arguments becoming rare.

Things happening and you actually believing he isn’t going anywhere. He loves you and it’s the period when it seems like nothing new is going to happen. Well…except that trip across country in RV that we want to have summer 2023.

I am afraid to think about future long term.

I am graduating from school (again) and will be looking for a new job…

Ok. I am bored. My mind wants actions.

What do you do for fun except traveling?

Seems we had done a lot and we both like quiet and loud and all sorts of stuff but I can’t think of anything I would like to do anymore.

It’s random thoughts. I am visiting mom at my house and being annoyed and it’s raining and rain always affecting my mood.

Anything you do that is out of ordinary for fun?
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i know how you feel lol having a gemini dominated (moon/mars) chart, i feel restless a lot and can’t be cooped up in the house for too long lol I work from home but I have this intense urge to go outdoors at least once a day and will probably feel low on energy if I don’t lol 😂 i get my energy from movement.

if you and your partner are somewhat of a foodie, you could try going to restaurants, cafes, bars that you haven’t been to before. try food from many different countries.

i was searching online and recently discovered a cool planetarium 🪐 near our location so i’m going there tomorrow with s/o. he’s a good sport so he pretty much says yes to any activity lol 😆

They got these comfy ass sofas where you can lie down and gaze at the stars ✨ ✨

it’s kind of childish but I thought it might be fun and something different , “out of ordinary” like you said. lol 😂

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Posted by serenidad

i know how you feel lol having a gemini dominated (moon/mars) chart, i feel restless a lot and can’t be cooped up in the house for too long lol I work from home but I have this intense urge to go outdoors at least once a day and will probably feel low on energy if I don’t lol 😂 i get my energy from movement.

if you and your partner are somewhat of a foodie, you could try going to restaurants, cafes, bars that you haven’t been to before. try food from many different countries.

i was searching online and recently discovered a cool planetarium 🪐 near our location so i’m going there tomorrow with s/o. he’s a good sport so he pretty much says yes to any activity lol 😆

They got these comfy ass sofas where you can lie down and gaze at the stars ✨ ✨

it’s kind of childish but I thought it might be fun and something different , “out of ordinary” like you said. lol 😂

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I love this! Thanks will google in my area.👍
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All relationships lose novelty at some point. You have to find a way to keep things spicy, GM.

You said it yourself; work, hobby, travel, friends, hiking, whatever. Just find something to do before your mind finds trouble where there isn’t any. Even if you have to learn how to crochet 😗

I also believe in some absence or a break from each other. It sounds like you two have been spending a lot of time together for the past two years. There needs to be a balance. I would go crazy if I didn’t have some space in a relationship. When you come back, things will feel more fresh and more hot hopefully 🔥
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Posted by serenidad

i know how you feel lol having a gemini dominated (moon/mars) chart, i feel restless a lot and can’t be cooped up in the house for too long lol I work from home but I have this intense urge to go outdoors at least once a day and will probably feel low on energy if I don’t lol 😂 i get my energy from movement.

if you and your partner are somewhat of a foodie, you could try going to restaurants, cafes, bars that you haven’t been to before. try food from many different countries.

i was searching online and recently discovered a cool planetarium 🪐 near our location so i’m going there tomorrow with s/o. he’s a good sport so he pretty much says yes to any activity lol 😆

They got these comfy ass sofas where you can lie down and gaze at the stars ✨ ✨

it’s kind of childish but I thought it might be fun and something different , “out of ordinary” like you said. lol 😂

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I wanna have a date with you! 🥰
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Posted by borednbeautiful

All relationships lose novelty at some point. You have to find a way to keep things spicy, GM.

You said it yourself; work, hobby, travel, friends, hiking, whatever. Just find something to do before your mind finds trouble where there isn’t any. Even if you have to learn how to crochet 😗

I also believe in some absence or a break from each other. It sounds like you two have been spending a lot of time together for the past two years. There needs to be a balance. I would go crazy if I didn’t have some space in a relationship. When you come back, things will feel more fresh and more hot hopefully 🔥


I am at moms but I am ready to go back because I want to and I texted ‘I need a hug’ and he texted ‘me too. Sunday’ and I know he will be here by 10am…lmao

As stupid as it sound - I think he had spoiled me with this ‘I am sure he is what he is and I don’t have to wonder if he is doing something ‘illegal’’

Maybe men need to keep us on our toes wondering ‘is he fucking somebody while I am away’? 😂😂😂

I have shallow thoughts like it IS easier when they are easy on the eyes because if he was ‘fatty baldie’ I would probably be gone by now. 🤦‍♀️😂🤕

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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i found the place by chance when i was googling something else i don't even remember lol 😂there's apparently a space-themed cafe inside the planetarium that serves space-inspired foods like these "galaxy donuts" and "cloud soft serve ice cream"

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Seems like everybody is serving galaxy donuts" and "cloud soft serve ice cream" but nothing special about places!

Where is it? Japan?
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This is why you gotta spice up your man's life with some of your crazy. 😇

He is pretty much spicy enough. Now he wants to have some peace and quiet…AND drive RV to Arizona to the Boothill Cemetery. See? He is pretty abnormal himself so…”galaxy donuts" and "cloud soft serve ice cream" will do for now IF I can find them
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Yeah, those look amazing indeed. 😍