A cycle of intense sex / break ups for 3 years On/off relationship with my ex Gemini ♊️

Hello .. all I want here is your help

I’ve been in relationships with this Gemini person for almost 3 years

we are so intense together

Especially our fights

Our first break up was his decision anyway after few months he contacted me and I finished at his home having sex and we continue that way without having a relationship / and eventually we got back together

But we had another fight we broke up

It was going on and off like this since

We miss each other

We meet we have sex .

And to be honest he’s the best sex I ever had

I always feel myself at home with him.

Anyway Decembe he told that he want us to live together .

We still not living together and not having a realionship because always something happening.

We fight we break up then we miss each other we meet again we have sex and it’s the same cycle going on and on

And I don’t know what to do

I really love how he makes me feel

And I love him but I don’t know why our relationship is very complicated like this ?

He was born 16 June 1989

And I was born 14 January 1986

Please can someone help me without judging

All I need is to know why ?!

You're a Capricorn aren't you? Why on earth would a gemini want to be in a relationship with a Capricorn. But you know something? If I were you I'd run. Gemini men are the worst. Perpetual children. Unfaithful, if they can commit at all. He's younger than you, however you're both over 30 and this kind of thing is still going on? No. He really needs to grow up but I doubt he ever will. And you... go become an accountant or something. Both of you need to grow up.

Best of luck.

Posted by Rania_1498

Hello .. all I want here is your help

I’ve been in relationships with this Gemini person for almost 3 years

we are so intense together

Especially our fights

Our first break up was his decision anyway after few months he contacted me and I finished at his home having sex and we continue that way without having a relationship / and eventually we got back together

But we had another fight we broke up

It was going on and off like this since

We miss each other

We meet we have sex .

And to be honest he’s the best sex I ever had

I always feel myself at home with him.

Anyway Decembe he told that he want us to live together .

We still not living together and not having a realionship because always something happening.

We fight we break up then we miss each other we meet again we have sex and it’s the same cycle going on and on

And I don’t know what to do

I really love how he makes me feel

And I love him but I don’t know why our relationship is very complicated like this ?

He was born 16 June 1989

And I was born 14 January 1986

Please can someone help me without judging

All I need is to know why ?!

He is a Gemini Sun, Mercury and Jupiter, Scorpio moon and Pluto, Venus in Cancer, Mars in Leo, Capricorn Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune.

I have the same Sun, moon, Mercury, and Venus as him. You need to hold your boundaries if you want a real stable long term relationship. I wonder if he is feeling stifled and bored at times and feels he needs a break. Do you guys have a deep emotional connection? I mean communication are you stimulating his mind on a deeper level?

What do you fight about that leads to these breaks/break ups?

Posted by LadyNeptune

What do you fight about that leads to these breaks/break ups?

I wondered that, as well. She is a Cap sun, Pisces moon with a ton more Cap placements. That's why I asked about their connection. I think she has Scorpio mars, as well.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

What do you fight about that leads to these breaks/break ups?

I wondered that, as well. She is a Cap sun, Pisces moon with a ton more Cap placements. That's why I asked about their connection. I think she has Scorpio mars, as well.

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I guess we’ll never know 🥸

Hi everyone thank you for replying 🙂

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Posted by Rania_1498

Hello .. all I want here is your help

I’ve been in relationships with this Gemini person for almost 3 years

we are so intense together

Especially our fights

Our first break up was his decision anyway after few months he contacted me and I finished at his home having sex and we continue that way without having a relationship / and eventually we got back together

But we had another fight we broke up

It was going on and off like this since

We miss each other

We meet we have sex .

And to be honest he’s the best sex I ever had

I always feel myself at home with him.

Anyway Decembe he told that he want us to live together .

We still not living together and not having a realionship because always something happening.

We fight we break up then we miss each other we meet again we have sex and it’s the same cycle going on and on

And I don’t know what to do

I really love how he makes me feel

And I love him but I don’t know why our relationship is very complicated like this ?

He was born 16 June 1989

And I was born 14 January 1986

Please can someone help me without judging

All I need is to know why ?!

He is a Gemini Sun, Mercury and Jupiter, Scorpio moon and Pluto, Venus in Cancer, Mars in Leo, Capricorn Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune.

I have the same Sun, moon, Mercury, and Venus as him. You need to hold your boundaries if you want a real stable long term relationship. I wonder if he is feeling stifled and bored at times and feels he needs a break. Do you guys have a deep emotional connection? I mean communication are you stimulating his mind on a deeper level?

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Yes we have a deep emotional connection

And yes mentally he simulates my mind

That’s one of the reasons I fall in love with him.

Our first meeting was in a special spiritual event that I was organizing.

When we met we hugged without knowing each other’s name .

The connection was very strong.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

What do you fight about that leads to these breaks/break ups?

I wondered that, as well. She is a Cap sun, Pisces moon with a ton more Cap placements. That's why I asked about their connection. I think she has Scorpio mars, as well.

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Our first fight that led to the first break up was because I got busy with work and I didn’t call him the whole day then issues started

& other event happened during new year & my birthday when he invited his friends over .

He didn’t like how his friends asked me about my work I guess I don’t know but the next day

We had a really big fight because of that.

Last one and in between the same challenges

& Sometimes i need space and I want to be alone for at least a day.I never disappeared or ghosted him never 👎.

So when I call him back after a long day of work he’s aggressive answers and the way he try to put me down

Makes me quite , wanting me to engage and communicate & can’t find the words to justify even when I try he hates it ( justifying or giving reasons makes him sick he said )

Always questioning my love for him.

Yelling to ask me not to call him again.

Using bad words for sure. He always does

So it has to stop ✋ 🛑 &

He’s done with me because he hates when I don’t care about our relationship.

Especially when we are around people I don’t know why.

I really don’t do anything in purpuse to makes him that angry ..

Also Most of his work is at home

Sometimes he has to travel somewhere and he wants me to travel with him while he’s working & wait for him until he finish . I’ve done that really tried to stay with him & wait

It was 6 months of everyday just eating

Watching movies and having sex.

I couldn’t do that

I have my job & things to take care of .

So this is one of the pbs we use to have .

He wants my attention ⚠️ 100% of the times .

There are other communications challenges between us.

In bed or at home we are in harmony.

When we are at home together not fighting I feel safe with him .

He take good care of us

After we make love he always cook 👨‍🍳

He’s smart & creative

Our challenges start when we go out on a groupe

Or go to visit his family or my family

Or when am working

He doesn’t like when am not giving him My attention.

Posted by LadyNeptune

What do you fight about that leads to these breaks/break ups?

You think maybe we need to grow up

Both

Yea I think the same

We are dating again since one month

And we both now trying to make it work.

He told that he want to be with me & he’s sure.

I told him that we need to do a couple therapy

And for the first time he said yes

Let’s see 🙂

Posted by LadyNeptune

What do you fight about that leads to these breaks/break ups?

You think maybe we need to grow up

Both

Yea I think the same

We are dating again since one month

And we both now trying to make it work.

He told that he want to be with me & he’s sure.

I told him that we need to do a couple therapy

And for the first time he said yes

Let’s see 🙂

Posted by 81gems

You're a Capricorn aren't you? Why on earth would a gemini want to be in a relationship with a Capricorn. But you know something? If I were you I'd run. Gemini men are the worst. Perpetual children. Unfaithful, if they can commit at all. He's younger than you, however you're both over 30 and this kind of thing is still going on? No. He really needs to grow up but I doubt he ever will. And you... go become an accountant or something. Both of you need to grow up.

Best of luck.

My rising sign is Gemini ♊️ 🙂

Posted by alexscaries

"It was 6 months of everyday just eating

Watching movies and having sex."

Sounds like bliss.

Yes we talked about that

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Posted by GammaArietis

A Gemini is the best sex you’ve ever had?

🤔

TBF he's a scorpio moon.

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Yes 😅