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Posted by nanobot
Haven't you made this thread on our board 10 times already about how inferior you feel geminis are to virgos. Yes, we have generally agreed that it's a bad match
Let me ask you this instead, because it's getting boring, what are the threads actually stemming from? What makes you think about this so often?

Posted by nanobot
I have been on the site about 5 years and I've only ever known of 2 Gemini women ever who have posted about virgo men and they both had virgo moons. I myself have went on only 1 date with a virgo man and it was a disaster. So there's no need to sweat, we are not typically going after virgo men out in the wild.

Posted by nanobotPosted by 777Posted by nanobot
I have been on the site about 5 years and I've only ever known of 2 Gemini women ever who have posted about virgo men and they both had virgo moons. I myself have went on only 1 date with a virgo man and it was a disaster. So there's no need to sweat, we are not typically going after virgo men out in the wild.
I know. I'm just wondering where the disconnect lies from both sides of the spectrum
I don't know, just in my own opinion, I feel like virgos can be very exhausting and not enjoyable to communicate with sometimes. Geminis are about connecting with people, having fun, and sharing thoughts and ideas. I find virgos to be fragile, often times have a very low self esteem, and I think they have the biggest ego in the zodiac, next to scorpio and leo. So a lot of the conversations come off "oppressive", in a way that they need to be right, and don't care about anything else. That's not a fun or nice way to communicate ideas. I also think that these guys are highly emotional and the least stable earth sign by far, which is displayed in their neuroticism and obsessive tendencies. People say virgos are robotic, but I know them as the one sign that is prone to crying and having mental break downs, even publicly. This could be my cap moon speaking
They also have that whole captain save-a-hoe complex and tendency to turn people into projects which can be good or bad I guess, according to your needs.click to expand

Posted by Araujo97
I find geminis much superior, virgo is a cheap version of mercury

Posted by nanobotPosted by 777Posted by nanobotPosted by 777Posted by nanobot
I have been on the site about 5 years and I've only ever known of 2 Gemini women ever who have posted about virgo men and they both had virgo moons. I myself have went on only 1 date with a virgo man and it was a disaster. So there's no need to sweat, we are not typically going after virgo men out in the wild.
I know. I'm just wondering where the disconnect lies from both sides of the spectrum
I don't know, just in my own opinion, I feel like virgos can be very exhausting and not enjoyable to communicate with sometimes. Geminis are about connecting with people, having fun, and sharing thoughts and ideas. I find virgos to be fragile, often times have a very low self esteem, and I think they have the biggest ego in the zodiac, next to scorpio and leo. So a lot of the conversations come off "oppressive", in a way that they need to be right, and don't care about anything else. That's not a fun or nice way to communicate ideas. I also think that these guys are highly emotional and the least stable earth sign by far, which is displayed in their neuroticism and obsessive tendencies. People say virgos are robotic, but I know them as the one sign that is prone to crying and having mental break downs, even publicly. This could be my cap moon speaking
They also have that whole captain save-a-hoe complex and tendency to turn people into projects which can be good or bad I guess, according to your needs.
I could see myself trying to work on people by helping them rise to a greater state of being. But saving hoes? That's a no no
It feels like they are limited to only seeing the idea of reality through constraints that have been created.
Can you explain what you mean by this, and "surface level thinking", and give an example of your experience with thatclick to expand


Posted by saggurl88
Geminis feeling run very deep when they are in love. There's nothing like it. But they need emotions back. Maybe the Virgo hasn't opened up to them in a relationship? Once both do, it should be good. You guys can out whine each other š

Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88
Geminis feeling run very deep when they are in love. There's nothing like it. But they need emotions back. Maybe the Virgo hasn't opened up to them in a relationship? Once both do, it should be good. You guys can out whine each other š
I have no clue what ur saying. Can you be more descriptive & compare the two?click to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88
Geminis feeling run very deep when they are in love. There's nothing like it. But they need emotions back. Maybe the Virgo hasn't opened up to them in a relationship? Once both do, it should be good. You guys can out whine each other š
I have no clue what ur saying. Can you be more descriptive & compare the two?
From my experience- Virgos are usually super cautious and almost scary. They over analyze and think about the worst case scenario in situations and think that is the solution and how it will play out.
Geminis are the opposite- fearless have tons of guts in situations, goes full force and will drag a Virgo into some fun and make them not so rigid. Yes a Gemini can go a little too far sometimes, but it usually just ends in a great night anyways.
It an escape for both. Gemini can corrupt Virgos a little into loosening them up and Virgos can teach Gemini some stability. Virgos are sensitive to words and get heir feelings hurt, Geminis are not and can brush almost anything off, not matter what you say because they are so optimistic.
But both signs seem super needy in love. I think this is what may not be good. I guess it would just depend on if you compromised and tuned in to taking care of each others needs. And both need space, but Gemini will actively bug a Virgo to get whatever answers they need while both people are taking space. I don't know if Virgos like that sort of thing.click to expand

Posted by nanobotPosted by 777Posted by nanobotPosted by 777Posted by nanobotPosted by 777Posted by nanobot
I have been on the site about 5 years and I've only ever known of 2 Gemini women ever who have posted about virgo men and they both had virgo moons. I myself have went on only 1 date with a virgo man and it was a disaster. So there's no need to sweat, we are not typically going after virgo men out in the wild.
I know. I'm just wondering where the disconnect lies from both sides of the spectrum
I don't know, just in my own opinion, I feel like virgos can be very exhausting and not enjoyable to communicate with sometimes. Geminis are about connecting with people, having fun, and sharing thoughts and ideas. I find virgos to be fragile, often times have a very low self esteem, and I think they have the biggest ego in the zodiac, next to scorpio and leo. So a lot of the conversations come off "oppressive", in a way that they need to be right, and don't care about anything else. That's not a fun or nice way to communicate ideas. I also think that these guys are highly emotional and the least stable earth sign by far, which is displayed in their neuroticism and obsessive tendencies. People say virgos are robotic, but I know them as the one sign that is prone to crying and having mental break downs, even publicly. This could be my cap moon speaking
They also have that whole captain save-a-hoe complex and tendency to turn people into projects which can be good or bad I guess, according to your needs.
I could see myself trying to work on people by helping them rise to a greater state of being. But saving hoes? That's a no no
It feels like they are limited to only seeing the idea of reality through constraints that have been created.
Can you explain what you mean by this, and "surface level thinking", and give an example of your experience with that
Like if they are watching a situation play out on television they are wrapped up in the controversy of artificial subject. They have an opinion that chooses a side without in depth thought about past, present & future. It seems they can only conceptualize the here & now.
I don't know, I don't think that applies to me at all. It's difficult to say, even in that context thoughclick to expand

Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88
Geminis feeling run very deep when they are in love. There's nothing like it. But they need emotions back. Maybe the Virgo hasn't opened up to them in a relationship? Once both do, it should be good. You guys can out whine each other š
I have no clue what ur saying. Can you be more descriptive & compare the two?
From my experience- Virgos are usually super cautious and almost scary. They over analyze and think about the worst case scenario in situations and think that is the solution and how it will play out.
Geminis are the opposite- fearless have tons of guts in situations, goes full force and will drag a Virgo into some fun and make them not so rigid. Yes a Gemini can go a little too far sometimes, but it usually just ends in a great night anyways.
It an escape for both. Gemini can corrupt Virgos a little into loosening them up and Virgos can teach Gemini some stability. Virgos are sensitive to words and get heir feelings hurt, Geminis are not and can brush almost anything off, not matter what you say because they are so optimistic.
But both signs seem super needy in love. I think this is what may not be good. I guess it would just depend on if you compromised and tuned in to taking care of each others needs. And both need space, but Gemini will actively bug a Virgo to get whatever answers they need while both people are taking space. I don't know if Virgos like that sort of thing.
Brave in what regards? I dont consider jumping into situations without proper consideration brave. Putting others & ur well being on the line for others based on principlal, in my opinion, is brave . I'm not really into the whole love thing. & I'm definitely not just going to jump out there without properly deducing a situationclick to expand

Posted by nanobotPosted by 777Posted by nanobotPosted by 777Posted by nanobotPosted by 777Posted by nanobotPosted by 777Posted by nanobot
I have been on the site about 5 years and I've only ever known of 2 Gemini women ever who have posted about virgo men and they both had virgo moons. I myself have went on only 1 date with a virgo man and it was a disaster. So there's no need to sweat, we are not typically going after virgo men out in the wild.
I know. I'm just wondering where the disconnect lies from both sides of the spectrum
I don't know, just in my own opinion, I feel like virgos can be very exhausting and not enjoyable to communicate with sometimes. Geminis are about connecting with people, having fun, and sharing thoughts and ideas. I find virgos to be fragile, often times have a very low self esteem, and I think they have the biggest ego in the zodiac, next to scorpio and leo. So a lot of the conversations come off "oppressive", in a way that they need to be right, and don't care about anything else. That's not a fun or nice way to communicate ideas. I also think that these guys are highly emotional and the least stable earth sign by far, which is displayed in their neuroticism and obsessive tendencies. People say virgos are robotic, but I know them as the one sign that is prone to crying and having mental break downs, even publicly. This could be my cap moon speaking
They also have that whole captain save-a-hoe complex and tendency to turn people into projects which can be good or bad I guess, according to your needs.
I could see myself trying to work on people by helping them rise to a greater state of being. But saving hoes? That's a no no
It feels like they are limited to only seeing the idea of reality through constraints that have been created.
Can you explain what you mean by this, and "surface level thinking", and give an example of your experience with that
Like if they are watching a situation play out on television they are wrapped up in the controversy of artificial subject. They have an opinion that chooses a side without in depth thought about past, present & future. It seems they can only conceptualize the here & now.
I don't know, I don't think that applies to me at all. It's difficult to say, even in that context though
Cap moon problems
Cap moon/earth dom/Saturn dom saves me
But also high key destroys me āclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88
Geminis feeling run very deep when they are in love. There's nothing like it. But they need emotions back. Maybe the Virgo hasn't opened up to them in a relationship? Once both do, it should be good. You guys can out whine each other š
I have no clue what ur saying. Can you be more descriptive & compare the two?
From my experience- Virgos are usually super cautious and almost scary. They over analyze and think about the worst case scenario in situations and think that is the solution and how it will play out.
Geminis are the opposite- fearless have tons of guts in situations, goes full force and will drag a Virgo into some fun and make them not so rigid. Yes a Gemini can go a little too far sometimes, but it usually just ends in a great night anyways.
It an escape for both. Gemini can corrupt Virgos a little into loosening them up and Virgos can teach Gemini some stability. Virgos are sensitive to words and get heir feelings hurt, Geminis are not and can brush almost anything off, not matter what you say because they are so optimistic.
But both signs seem super needy in love. I think this is what may not be good. I guess it would just depend on if you compromised and tuned in to taking care of each others needs. And both need space, but Gemini will actively bug a Virgo to get whatever answers they need while both people are taking space. I don't know if Virgos like that sort of thing.
Brave in what regards? I dont consider jumping into situations without proper consideration brave. Putting others & ur well being on the line for others based on principlal, in my opinion, is brave . I'm not really into the whole love thing. & I'm definitely not just going to jump out there without properly deducing a situation
You have to have trust in your partner
And Geminiās donāt like negativity all the time either. They need a fun outlet and freedom or else they get flighty.
You Virgos are pretty flight too for an earth sign.click to expand

Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88
Geminis feeling run very deep when they are in love. There's nothing like it. But they need emotions back. Maybe the Virgo hasn't opened up to them in a relationship? Once both do, it should be good. You guys can out whine each other š
I have no clue what ur saying. Can you be more descriptive & compare the two?
From my experience- Virgos are usually super cautious and almost scary. They over analyze and think about the worst case scenario in situations and think that is the solution and how it will play out.
Geminis are the opposite- fearless have tons of guts in situations, goes full force and will drag a Virgo into some fun and make them not so rigid. Yes a Gemini can go a little too far sometimes, but it usually just ends in a great night anyways.
It an escape for both. Gemini can corrupt Virgos a little into loosening them up and Virgos can teach Gemini some stability. Virgos are sensitive to words and get heir feelings hurt, Geminis are not and can brush almost anything off, not matter what you say because they are so optimistic.
But both signs seem super needy in love. I think this is what may not be good. I guess it would just depend on if you compromised and tuned in to taking care of each others needs. And both need space, but Gemini will actively bug a Virgo to get whatever answers they need while both people are taking space. I don't know if Virgos like that sort of thing.
Brave in what regards? I dont consider jumping into situations without proper consideration brave. Putting others & ur well being on the line for others based on principlal, in my opinion, is brave . I'm not really into the whole love thing. & I'm definitely not just going to jump out there without properly deducing a situation
You have to have trust in your partner
And Geminiās donāt like negativity all the time either. They need a fun outlet and freedom or else they get flighty.
You Virgos are pretty flight too for an earth sign.
I feel u, but falling in love with strangers isn't my priority right now. The foundation that I've already built is of utmost importance. Other things come secondary at the moment.
It would help me understand more if you removed romantiscm from the topic. I need mental comparison of thoughts. Emotions are a feeling that are harder to explainclick to expand

Posted by nanobot
I have gotten along with virgos in the work place. I've liked my virgo coworkers, but I have also witnessed some nasty fights at a previous job between virgo vs scorpio, and that's where that ego comes in. 7 fckn hours later and they both still trying to get the last word. STFU ! I don't like that shit personally, I find it embarrassing and it should not go on that long and in front of others because it's just unprofessional. The ego/getting last word is more important than being professional at work. Go kill each other in an isolated office somewhere so we don't have to hear the bitching and nagging anymore. I don't know how those 2 signs don't kill each other, knowing what I've seenā They end up together often romantically.
I have a virgo coworker now and she is super sweet, she is NOT LAZY (huge for me!), and we are both on the same wavelength once we get the communication right, even more than my aqua coworkers

Posted by nanobotPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by nanobot
I have gotten along with virgos in the work place. I've liked my virgo coworkers, but I have also witnessed some nasty fights at a previous job between virgo vs scorpio, and that's where that ego comes in. 7 fckn hours later and they both still trying to get the last word. STFU ! I don't like that shit personally, I find it embarrassing and it should not go on that long and in front of others because it's just unprofessional. The ego/getting last word is more important than being professional at work. Go kill each other in an isolated office somewhere so we don't have to hear the bitching and nagging anymore. I don't know how those 2 signs don't kill each other, knowing what I've seenā They end up together often romantically.
I have a virgo coworker now and she is super sweet, she is NOT LAZY (huge for me!), and we are both on the same wavelength once we get the communication right, even more than my aqua coworkers
it's passionate asf if nothing else.
my best friend at work is a scorpio male and i get into very passionate hate tirades with him (one-sided coz i'm the only one insulting him and he just lets me). there was a period where i avoided him when we'd usually eat out after work together (nothing romantic coz we are so not each other's types). it's just that he irritates me coz he talks sooo much. i only talk that much online, not in real life bro.
then there's my scorpio sun/gem moon ex who i fight a lot with coz he is always attempting to cheat on me.
Do you ever experience harmony or for the most part are you always engaged in some sort of situation that feels tense/offensive/push back? I feel that way about scorpio moon men. They really want to get under my skin with their shit, and once they do, it festers, then I'm rabies-positive and am out for their blood šššclick to expand

Posted by 777Posted by nanobot
I have been on the site about 5 years and I've only ever known of 2 Gemini women ever who have posted about virgo men and they both had virgo moons. I myself have went on only 1 date with a virgo man and it was a disaster. So there's no need to sweat, we are not typically going after virgo men out in the wild.
I know. I'm just wondering where the disconnect lies from both sides of the spectrumclick to expand
Posted by 777
When it comes to 2 signs being from the same planet, are they the worst match?
I personally feel Gemini thoughts & feelings dont run deep enough. Like everything they do & think is surface level. It feels like they are limited to only seeing the idea of reality through constraints that have been created.
Posted by nousernamePosted by 777
When it comes to 2 signs being from the same planet, are they the worst match?
I personally feel Gemini thoughts & feelings dont run deep enough. Like everything they do & think is surface level. It feels like they are limited to only seeing the idea of reality through constraints that have been created.
I met many virgos and I dated 2 for a short while. One tried to date me but we are just friends. Itās a huge no for me. I have a hard time tolerating them.click to expand



Posted by nanobot
I have been on the site about 5 years and I've only ever known of 2 Gemini women ever who have posted about virgo men and they both had virgo moons. I myself have went on only 1 date with a virgo man and it was a disaster. So there's no need to sweat, we are not typically going after virgo men out in the wild.

Posted by alexscaries
In really simple terms:
Virgos are too critical and Gemini sees at as nitpicking and what could be seen as stifling their freedom.
Then with Geminis they can annoy Virgo by being too emotional or what they see as being irrational.
I know someone in this relationship and I do think it works if both are given their space.

Posted by alexscariesPosted by LittleStar
Geminis are the opposite of brave. They just like doing things with the people they love.
They are adventurous and I think it is brave to travel, change jobs and explore different things. A lot of people don't.click to expand

Posted by alexscariesPosted by GemitatiPosted by alexscariesPosted by LittleStar
Geminis are the opposite of brave. They just like doing things with the people they love.
They are adventurous and I think it is brave to travel, change jobs and explore different things. A lot of people don't.
You just have that soft ass spot for Gems arenāt you?
Aquas as well and Virgos.click to expand

Posted by alexscariesPosted by GemitatiPosted by alexscariesPosted by GemitatiPosted by alexscariesPosted by LittleStar
Geminis are the opposite of brave. They just like doing things with the people they love.
They are adventurous and I think it is brave to travel, change jobs and explore different things. A lot of people don't.
You just have that soft ass spot for Gems arenāt you?
Aquas as well and Virgos.
You really donāt know what you want do you? š¤š
I just want a bit of everything.click to expand


Posted by ELIGAB
But then again I have air and fire placements


Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by ELIGAB
But then again I have air and fire placements
Same. The May Geminiās can get this at any time.
Weird though all the Geminiās that have liked me are June Gems. And all have Taurus moons šclick to expand

Posted by SagMale
I was not attracted to this Gemini, but I met her Virgo friend who was hooottttttttt. Then I saw the Gemini again and was attracted to her more than the Virgo.
Itās a pattern. Vibing with Virgos makes me more attracted to Geminiās, whereas just vibing with Geminiās isnāt as good.
This might not be the best thread for this, but it seemed valuable.

Posted by ELIGABPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by ELIGAB
But then again I have air and fire placements
Same. The May Geminiās can get this at any time.
Weird though all the Geminiās that have liked me are June Gems. And all have Taurus moons š
Gosh
Gem sun/ taurus moon sounds so freaking hott
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That taurus moon will make him all sensual and freaky.. lol. ššclick to expand
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I personally feel Gemini thoughts & feelings dont run deep enough. Like everything they do & think is surface level. It feels like they are limited to only seeing the idea of reality through constraints that have been created.