Any other Virgos annoyed by Gemini?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Virgoisme on Friday, December 23, 2016 and has 10 replies.

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@Virgoisme
9 Years

What's the deal with Virgos and Geminis? Are they compatible as friends? Most of the people I find challenging or get annoyed with turn out to be Geminis. The flakiness, dual personality, flirty nature, and manipulative aspects of my Gemini friends drive me up the wall. Do any other Virgos feel this way, and is this typical?

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@Virgobaby
9 Years

All geminis seem to have that annoying trait, that grates Virgos and I'm sure other signs. I wouldn't want them more than friends, I get turned off once I find out a guys a Gemini,

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@gemini64
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Virgobaby
All geminis seem to have that annoying trait, that grates Virgos and I'm sure other signs. I wouldn't want them more than friends, I get turned off once I find out a guys a Gemini,

That's how we feel about virgo's. You are the most passive aggressive sign on the planet. Geminis will be up front and sincere and open up. Virgo's OTOH, will play minds games and then go hide when they become insecure.

Then the next day, it's as if nothing has happened and we gems are left thinking, WTH? Virgo's are the living definition of Enigma.

For two signs who are attached to mercury, virgo's suck at true communication. I'd rather have someone tell me they hated me for whatever reason than go run and hide like a 5 year old scared of the dark.

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@Virgorean
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Being in a relationship with a Gemini I found to be I was the more flirty and chatty one. He had issues on communicating his feelings, but his actions said it all. I have a feeling he has Taurus placements though. Now we are really good friends and he is more chatty than ever. Not sure if the relationship would have flourished if we remained together since we were together for only a year.

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@Sunsetvirgo
10 Years5,000+ Posts

The problem is that virgos can take matters more serious than gems. Whereas Gems can be mad one second and the just forget about the next. Like what @gemini64 said.

My good friend last year was a gem. The only problem I had was that she was inconsistent. I couldn't trust her to be there for me when I needed. I learned to deal with it and accept it as part of her nature and in return she tried to be a little more considerate of my need to have some sort of stability.

The communication between both signs are very different, but not at the same time. When it comes down to it though, I'll bluntly tell her exactly how pissed I am that she never showed up. Call it cold or whatever, but I'm sure gems can handle it.

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@Sunsetvirgo
10 Years5,000+ Posts

Geminis really don't care though LMFAOO

I've had two very close friends. And when I tell you they don't care, they really don't care.

Which can be good... And suck as s also.