Pisces moons & ghosting

Pisces mooners, is it normal that you ghost people you had a thing with? Why?

Pisces don't ignore anyone lol

I can ghost. I dont do it though, but I will make an exit if needed.

Posted by rabidtalker

I can ghost. I dont do it though, but I will make an exit if needed.

👆🏼 This!

I tried to ghost an old gemini fwb and he was not letting me

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Posted by besarlalluvia

I tried to ghost an old gemini fwb and he was not letting me

lol

How does that work?

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A lot of facetime calls

Posted by hbbrnaqua

Pisces mooners, is it normal that you ghost people you had a thing with? Why?

I don't ghost, i just get tired of always initiating conversations and giving first steps.

I ghost when I'm not intrested...and I mean its not really ghosting...it's basicly I forgot you even existed cause you were so uninteresting to me. Or you texted me so much that I blocked you cause you were annoying.

I dunno. Different reasons.

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Posted by Wild_Flo

How do you know when a Pisces moon likes you?

Clingy af. 100 phone calls a day, buys you things, tells you outright.

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pretty much

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Posted by Wild_Flo

How do you know when a Pisces moon likes you?

Clingy af. 100 phone calls a day, buys you things, tells you outright.

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Lies it’s the exact opposite

When I like someone they won’t know

I avoid them like the plague. No talking no eye contact, nothing.

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Posted by Wild_Flo

How do you know when a Pisces moon likes you?

Clingy af. 100 phone calls a day, buys you things, tells you outright.

Lies it’s the exact opposite

When I like someone they won’t know

I avoid them like the plague. No talking no eye contact, nothing.

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Maybe clingy and I'll tell you upfront but I rarely buy things and wont call you 100 times a day. I'll text you all day as long as you're texting back tho. But if you're not reciprocating then I will stop initiating.

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Posted by besarlalluvia

I tried to ghost an old gemini fwb and he was not letting me

lol

How does that work?

A lot of facetime calls

Oh, sorry for the lol. That doesn't sound funny at all.

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Lol. I answered eventually. He basically wanted to brag about the new fwb(s) he found. I'm happy for him

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Posted by Wild_Flo

How do you know when a Pisces moon likes you?

Clingy af. 100 phone calls a day, buys you things, tells you outright.

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100? 😱

Suffocating

Looks like so far we have a unanimous agreement on "s/he will tell you"!

Haha this pisces mooner was affectionate af and sweet.. Then started ghosting me without any apparent reason. Of course I didn't text him anymore after that. Just thought it was unfair and trying to understand why since I feel like everybody that was nice to you deserves at least an explanation. And there were no issues before, we got along quite well.

I don't ghost, I leave

I ghost not because of some kind of power trip in others.

I ghost because either something feels lost in the connection (friends or romantic) and I’m either giving it time to come back or enough space to allow it to grow in a different direction.

I don’t go cold ghost tho....I communicate.

I’ve held back from quite a few people socially mainly because I felt that we were not a good match or there was a feeling that something was off.

What’s “a thing” to you, and do you think you both had a clear understanding of it?

A time-limited romance and I guess we didn't because it was kinda short and having a clear understanding of what's going on between you and someone requires time in my opinion.

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What’s “a thing” to you, and do you think you both had a clear understanding of it?

Posted by hbbrnaqua

A time-limited romance and I guess we didn't because it was kinda short and having a clear understanding of what's going on between you and someone requires time in my opinion.

Posted by Alittlebirdie

What’s “a thing” to you, and do you think you both had a clear understanding of it?

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Sounds to me like you just might need to have a convo or atleast make it known that you are curious to allow this time to see if it was only supposed to be for a limited time. He is probably protecting his feelings with the thought that they aren’t felt on your side. Aka: trying to run before he gets played, in his head.

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Posted by hbbrnaqua

A time-limited romance and I guess we didn't because it was kinda short and having a clear understanding of what's going on between you and someone requires time in my opinion.

Posted by Alittlebirdie

What’s “a thing” to you, and do you think you both had a clear understanding of it?

Sounds to me like you just might need to have a convo or atleast make it known that you are curious to allow this time to see if it was only supposed to be for a limited time. He is probably protecting his feelings with the thought that they aren’t felt on your side. Aka: trying to run before he gets played, in his head.

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Thanks for the insight!

I wish that would be the case but since I tried reaching out and got ghosted twice I just think he does not have feelings at all. I'm just sad he didn't communicate and trying to understand.

But there's not much you can do with ghosts, so I will just move on

If someone ghosts they are prioritizing themselves over someone else's feelings, showing no true empathy for the other person. My empathy for others is higher than any desire I might have to swim away, even in my younger years. Ghosting is cruel, disrespectful, and immature. It also reveals that someone simply cannot have an adult conversation and is red flag to having a relationship with that person. You gotta be able to talk about butter in a relationship.

Posted by Piscis_Hominis

If someone ghosts they are prioritizing themselves over someone else's feelings, showing no true empathy for the other person. My empathy for others is higher than any desire I might have to swim away, even in my younger years. Ghosting is cruel, disrespectful, and immature. It also reveals that someone simply cannot have an adult conversation and is red flag to having a relationship with that person. You gotta be able to talk about butter in a relationship.

at some point u have to prioritise your own feelings, or you will keep being walked over

talking only works so many times, until u realise you're the only one changing

Posted by besarlalluvia

Posted by Piscis_Hominis

If someone ghosts they are prioritizing themselves over someone else's feelings, showing no true empathy for the other person. My empathy for others is higher than any desire I might have to swim away, even in my younger years. Ghosting is cruel, disrespectful, and immature. It also reveals that someone simply cannot have an adult conversation and is red flag to having a relationship with that person. You gotta be able to talk about butter in a relationship.

at some point u have to prioritise your own feelings, or you will keep being walked over

talking only works so many times, until u realise you're the only one changing

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There are times when ghosting is OK.

For example:

- if you are leaving an abusive relationship

- if you are being harassed by the person

- if the other person did not respect or doesn't respect your boundaries

- if the other person has anger issues, and perhaps you tried breaking it off before

I'm talking about when the person deserves to know why. If under normal circumstances someone cannot have an adult conversation to let the other person know what the situation is, then that's just wrong. If a man or woman cannot have that conversation then he/she is not ready for an adult relationship. Adult relationships require adult communication and mutual respect, even if the conversation is to end the relationship.

I dont ignore, I dont ghost. I slip away when I feel there is no respect from the other side. Sometimes, they come back, and many times they have not. So ghosting is not my problem! 🙂