Why is it So petty?

I have been admiring my Leo for years as a business partner. Never argued always had funny things to say. Always laughed with each other. I was always there when help was needed. We would say the same things all of the time. We would constantly catch each other being into the same things. Then bam. After 4 years of ignoring each other’s passion for all of those years. We smacked Abs. It was amazing. Best either of us had ever had and so it went for weeks and weeks. 2 months later. I noticed the energy shift. She said she needed space and it came completely out of nowhere.

She would text me and invite me over anyways so O would come. There would be people there to do business and I over heard one of the guys there to do business saying he wanted to smash her and blah blah blah. Regular guy stuff. I said ok. It is what it is. She’s gorgeous. I’m gonna hear that a lot. OVER IT! Then all of a sudden she’s texting this dude through out the night (we’re vampires) and giving every sign that she likes this dude. So I’m just straight up witt it. “If you like this dude why are you still talking to me”. Gives me the runaround after saying she doesn’t like the guy like that blah blah. Things just escalate from there because I know she’s hiding something and I have never been wrong when I’ve had an intuition. Neva Eva Eva! So instead of telling me. She says “That’s my business”. So in anyone’s mind. That’s a yes. Or that’s a “the answer you don’t want”. I’m so many words. Now every time we meet. Every time we talk there some competition in the air and one upping and she talks to me like in her elementary class. Everything is sooooooooooo petty. Yet she still claims there has been nothing going on.

That’s when my life took a crazy turn. I had a lot going on in my business. Family drama that is gut wrenching. I was falling apart. She was nowhere to be found. Wouldn’t talk to me wouldn’t come visit. Knowing everything I was going through. Wouldn’t even give me the benefit of a doubt that I could even be worth the time it would take to console me. I just don’t get it. Every tarot reading has said we are soul mates and meant to change the world. So does hers apparently. I can feel her thinking about me even as I write this. I know she loves me. She actually loves me more than she’s ever loved anyone. There is not even any comparison. She’s even said that as well. But more than anything. I can feel thats this is how she feels.

So dear Leo’s what in the actual fizzznuck is going on with this chick? How can you say, know, and feel that you’re meant to be with some one yet ignore them and treat them with a god complex? I mean WTF IS THAT ABOUT? is this what I have to look forward to if we get back together? Cause I’m 100-% not cool with it.

Was there an ACTUAL relationship, other than "smacking abs"? No where in this did you mention a friendship or a committed relationship so... I'm summing this up as FWBs. Space can be requested even in that kind of arrangement 🤷 Sounds to me like she requested space because she maybe sensing you've become too attached and want more. But if the foundation hasn't been set, she's free to spread her wings, her legs, her heart etc. This is why communication needs to be made clear, from the beginning.

I truly enjoy watching a Leo dominate Taurus



It happens every single time

Romantic : a world of no*

Friendship : 👌

When she said it was “Her Business” about what she was doing with other guys, that should’ve been your first clue that she wasn’t that interested and you should’ve dropped her and quit the fwb situation right then, if you were catching feelings.

Instead, the way it reads, it seems like you kept needing her for situations you were going through. Reaching out and stuff like that. When she didn’t really care about you like that.

She said she needed space, and it coincided with your family drama and all the sudden being needy and clingy. Not too good.

You guys sound like you are not seeing each other when there is a business arrangement now. Is this the case?

If so, seems like she’s over the arrangement and wants to get back to regular business.

Oh honey she’s a Leo. The more pathetic you come off to her, the more she’ll distance herself from you. There was nothing substantial and exclusive going on with you two to begin with, I don’t know how you’re deluding yourself. You need a major reality check. The issue is within you.