...He called me my love.....after i ended things....

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long story short....

I decided to not continue our relation....at this point in time...

during our goodbyes, he said he will always be there for me 24/7..and that i am always going to be his lover/ friend ...and for the first time he called me my love....

its been over a week and he still calls me baby...babe...which i insisted for him not to...

he still does it.....

the thing is,

what does * my love * even mean to him ...

and when an aqua try to end a relation with someone, is it truly over for them...because they are so grey...i just dont get them sometimes...

i try so hard to b black and white and try to just BE FRIENDS...

but he's not getting it or something... 😢 or refuse to get it or accept my decision....?



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in the beginning of our relation..

he used to call me baby, n i brought it up ..he says people say baby all the time, do girls not call each other babes?...he said he does sometimes call other girls babe too..like friends and all. and he said

if it was like * my love * then thats a whole other story....

and now he did it..what does it mean 😢

he says he has feelings....though he never said he LOVES me or anything..



he knows i love him though..
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
if i tell him not to do something he will do it more, he says i love him more because of it.

so words are just words for AQUA then?

see i take this stuff seriously

and i dont know how much of it he takes seriously LOL

would be good to get insights from AQUA
I was with an Aqua for 8 yrs that sweet talked me.....all words, no action
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yeah ok ! i keep telling him that too



😢 i am also trying to move forward.

i think words are cheap with them....OK get it now

thank you
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edit * when a relationship is ending with someone * on great terms * is it truly over for them?

i feel like, he's still in that grey spot calling me baby and babes n not listening to me lol


Aquas prefer to leave relationships on good terms. It's not because they want to date you later. It's because if they genuinely care for you, they're still gonna care for you after the boundaries between you change. He may just be using endearing words to let you know that. He needs to respect your boundaries, though. If you said no pet names, he needs to stop with pet names. Might be good to get yourself away from him for a while.
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yeah this is true, great advice thank you ! i am trying hard to detach from him and just tryin to talk to him as friends....

hopefully eventually he will GET it...

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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
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if i tell him not to do something he will do it more, he says i love him more because of it.

so words are just words for AQUA then?

see i take this stuff seriously

and i dont know how much of it he takes seriously LOL

would be good to get insights from AQUA
I was with an Aqua for 8 yrs that sweet talked me.....all words, no action
yeah ok ! i keep telling him that too



😢 i am also trying to move forward.

i think words are cheap with them....OK get it now

thank you
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No problem girl

I would question the being there for you 24/7...... It's a huge promise to make

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I am trying for decades to make my husband stop calling me childish baby names and every time I get ballistic - he says I never said so...

And he is a Cap!

So it's apparently not a sign thing but just men who don't LISTEN!
What's wrong with pet names, huny-buny-gemibuny?
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haha its ok if you are dating one another

and not ok if you just said farewell goodbye

just strange man

LOL i thought my aqua moon and venus in gem was confusing

hes a whole other story
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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
if i tell him not to do something he will do it more, he says i love him more because of it.

so words are just words for AQUA then?

see i take this stuff seriously

and i dont know how much of it he takes seriously LOL

would be good to get insights from AQUA
I was with an Aqua for 8 yrs that sweet talked me.....all words, no action
yeah ok ! i keep telling him that too



😢 i am also trying to move forward.

i think words are cheap with them....OK get it now

thank you
No problem girl

I would question the being there for you 24/7...... It's a huge promise to make

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tell me about it !!

it took me by surprise too

only time will tell, wouldn't it

🙂
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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
if i tell him not to do something he will do it more, he says i love him more because of it.

so words are just words for AQUA then?

see i take this stuff seriously

and i dont know how much of it he takes seriously LOL

would be good to get insights from AQUA
I was with an Aqua for 8 yrs that sweet talked me.....all words, no action
yeah ok ! i keep telling him that too



😢 i am also trying to move forward.

i think words are cheap with them....OK get it now

thank you
No problem girl

I would question the being there for you 24/7...... It's a huge promise to make




tell me about it !!

it took me by surprise too

only time will tell, wouldn't it

🙂

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Indeed

Words, words, words

I've heard thousands of them that didn't come true

🙂

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Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
if i tell him not to do something he will do it more, he says i love him more because of it.

so words are just words for AQUA then?

see i take this stuff seriously

and i dont know how much of it he takes seriously LOL

would be good to get insights from AQUA
I was with an Aqua for 8 yrs that sweet talked me.....all words, no action
yeah ok ! i keep telling him that too



😢 i am also trying to move forward.

i think words are cheap with them....OK get it now

thank you
No problem girl

I would question the being there for you 24/7...... It's a huge promise to make




tell me about it !!

it took me by surprise too

only time will tell, wouldn't it

🙂


Indeed

Words, words, words

I've heard thousands of them that didn't come true

🙂

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so sadddddddd

T_T
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edit * when a relationship is ending with someone * on great terms * is it truly over for them?

i feel like, he's still in that grey spot calling me baby and babes n not listening to me lol


Aquas prefer to leave relationships on good terms. It's not because they want to date you later. It's because if they genuinely care for you, they're still gonna care for you after the boundaries between you change. He may just be using endearing words to let you know that. He needs to respect your boundaries, though. If you said no pet names, he needs to stop with pet names. Might be good to get yourself away from him for a while.

yeah this is true, great advice thank you ! i am trying hard to detach from him and just tryin to talk to him as friends....

hopefully eventually he will GET it...


You may need to tell him directly again or remove yourself from the situation. You don't have to be his friend just because he wants you to. If you both want that, though, there's nothing wrong with it. It's just really hard to establish the appropriate boundaries after you've been with someone and you're trying to switch that to friends.

If it makes you feel any better, at least you know he really cared for you.
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i know..thank you...i know he does care..esp in person coz he's pretty much all pisces

moon, venus and mars in pisces LOL

but yes,

i should prob stop the friendship for a while

oerhaps its still a shock to him
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I am trying for decades to make my husband stop calling me childish baby names and every time I get ballistic - he says I never said so...

And he is a Cap!

So it's apparently not a sign thing but just men who don't LISTEN!
What's wrong with pet names, huny-buny-gemibuny?
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Want to squize balls or neck...whatever is in my hands at that time!!!

I can't imagine Scorpio says 'sweet pea' unless he wants to see my eyes twice in size! Lol

'My love' is what's my turn on.

I had actually made thread once about non sweet/stupid love names and got nothing!!!

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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by saweetz1988
if i tell him not to do something he will do it more, he says i love him more because of it.

so words are just words for AQUA then?

see i take this stuff seriously

and i dont know how much of it he takes seriously LOL

would be good to get insights from AQUA
I was with an Aqua for 8 yrs that sweet talked me.....all words, no action
yeah ok ! i keep telling him that too



😢 i am also trying to move forward.

i think words are cheap with them....OK get it now

thank you
No problem girl

I would question the being there for you 24/7...... It's a huge promise to make




tell me about it !!

it took me by surprise too

only time will tell, wouldn't it

🙂


Indeed

Words, words, words

I've heard thousands of them that didn't come true

🙂


so sadddddddd

T_T
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Just learn to detach from them ...
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I am trying for decades to make my husband stop calling me childish baby names and every time I get ballistic - he says I never said so...

And he is a Cap!

So it's apparently not a sign thing but just men who don't LISTEN!
What's wrong with pet names, huny-buny-gemibuny?
Want to squize balls or neck...whatever is in my hands at that time!!!

I can't imagine Scorpio says 'sweet pea' unless he wants to see my eyes twice in size! Lol

'My love' is what's my turn on.

I had actually made thread once about non sweet/stupid love names and got nothing!!!

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I got a nipple story for ya if yer are interested. It involves one ice cube.
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Posted by Gemitati
I am trying for decades to make my husband stop calling me childish baby names and every time I get ballistic - he says I never said so...

And he is a Cap!

So it's apparently not a sign thing but just men who don't LISTEN!
What's wrong with pet names, huny-buny-gemibuny?
Want to squize balls or neck...whatever is in my hands at that time!!!

I can't imagine Scorpio says 'sweet pea' unless he wants to see my eyes twice in size! Lol

'My love' is what's my turn on.

I had actually made thread once about non sweet/stupid love names and got nothing!!!


I got a nipple story for ya if yer are interested. It involves one ice cube.
click to expand

Pm always ready!
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Posted by Gemitati
I am trying for decades to make my husband stop calling me childish baby names and every time I get ballistic - he says I never said so...

And he is a Cap!

So it's apparently not a sign thing but just men who don't LISTEN!
What's wrong with pet names, huny-buny-gemibuny?
Want to squize balls or neck...whatever is in my hands at that time!!!

I can't imagine Scorpio says 'sweet pea' unless he wants to see my eyes twice in size! Lol

'My love' is what's my turn on.

I had actually made thread once about non sweet/stupid love names and got nothing!!!


I got a nipple story for ya if yer are interested. It involves one ice cube.
Pm always ready!
click to expand

reooowwwwww hunny bunny easter bunny
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Posted by Gemitati
I am trying for decades to make my husband stop calling me childish baby names and every time I get ballistic - he says I never said so...

And he is a Cap!

So it's apparently not a sign thing but just men who don't LISTEN!
What's wrong with pet names, huny-buny-gemibuny?
Want to squize balls or neck...whatever is in my hands at that time!!!

I can't imagine Scorpio says 'sweet pea' unless he wants to see my eyes twice in size! Lol

'My love' is what's my turn on.

I had actually made thread once about non sweet/stupid love names and got nothing!!!


I got a nipple story for ya if yer are interested. It involves one ice cube.
Pm always ready!
reooowwwwww hunny bunny easter bunny
click to expand

I am naked! Give it to me!

But if you say 'bunny' - your part is DONE!

Go ahead
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Posted by Gemitati
I am trying for decades to make my husband stop calling me childish baby names and every time I get ballistic - he says I never said so...

And he is a Cap!

So it's apparently not a sign thing but just men who don't LISTEN!
What's wrong with pet names, huny-buny-gemibuny?
Want to squize balls or neck...whatever is in my hands at that time!!!

I can't imagine Scorpio says 'sweet pea' unless he wants to see my eyes twice in size! Lol

'My love' is what's my turn on.

I had actually made thread once about non sweet/stupid love names and got nothing!!!


I got a nipple story for ya if yer are interested. It involves one ice cube.
Pm always ready!
reooowwwwww hunny bunny easter bunny
click to expand

I am naked! Give it to me!

But if you say 'bunny' - your part is DONE!

Go ahead