SO??_I am a Pisces married to a Virgo??_which needless to say, has been quite the adventure??_almost 10 years ago I had a very intense relationship with an Aquarius??_we cared deeply for each other, but unfortunately I was in a relationship??_before you judge, I was 18??_clearly not in the frame of mind I am today??_call it irony or fate??_my best friend ended up marrying the Aquarius??s best friend this past weekend??_and we were both in the bridal party??_we hadn't seen each other since our relationship ended 10 years ago??_he had basically given me an ultimatum and I chose comfort over him??_seeing him this past weekend brought back a surge of emotions which I felt on his end as well??_I guess out of sight out of mind??_but seeing him was nice??_I was careful to not disrespect my husband, who was at the wedding as well??_but I did find myself wondering what could have been??_as him and I said goodbye after the weekend ended he hugged me and told me he loved me (not in a friendship luv ya, kind of way??_)??_it threw me off and I responded with the luv ya, in a friendship kind of way, and I can tell it hurt him??_but I was caught off guard??_and frankly, I wish I would have just not said anything in return??_now I am back home and all I can do is think about him??_I refuse to contact him, even though we are friends on facebook, but I guess my post is more insight on what he must be thinking??_what made him tell me he loved me? Will he contact me? I am so torn with thoughts and emotions??_
A Clandestine Affair...
I totally see what you are saying, and trust me...I would never disrespect my husband...just more than anything curious about his statement...could he really still be in love after all of these years...but point well taken

Angel-have you ever "felt" or knew that the Aqua was in some way a soulmate? Look up and study soul mate relationships, and then read about Twin Flames.
My Aqua ex and I had our bittersweet goodbye (I was floored to read you had one too!) and he told me he loved me. I haven't heard him say that for over 2 years now.
At the end of the day it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all 🙂
My Aqua ex and I had our bittersweet goodbye (I was floored to read you had one too!) and he told me he loved me. I haven't heard him say that for over 2 years now.
At the end of the day it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all 🙂
It's so true...I was more surprised than anything because I hurt him badly...to hear him still be able to express that for someone who is now married and present in front of him with her husband...was humbling...10 years later...after such a roller coaster relationship...made me realize that we had something so strong and special...but it is dangerous territory...and I have to steer clear of it...but it was an amazing feeling to hear it nonetheles...a part of me wishes we could just speak about everything and have real closure...that I love you opened things up more than it closed it...ugh
I am going to look it up now NikkiMse1978...

Let it go and let it fade away.

I had a very intense relationship with an Aquarius??_we cared deeply for each other, but unfortunately I was in a relationship??_before you judge, I was 18??_clearly not in the frame of mind I am today...
yeah, you REALLY have changed in 10 years. instead of being in a relationship and cheating, your married and thinking about cheating. growth is a good thing 😛
idjit!
yeah, you REALLY have changed in 10 years. instead of being in a relationship and cheating, your married and thinking about cheating. growth is a good thing 😛
idjit!
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