Posted by bittercupcakeThe dots she had.Posted by CaramelizedCoffeehow come I cant see your post— 😭
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Posted by justagirlYup I've heard this. They take their time, that's what frustrates my friend. His Aquarius has been very independent and moving slowly. I told him to be patient, from what I've seen from her she likes him. I just met this Aquarius girl so I have no idea on how to go and court her lol.
Okay a non emotional response...sort of lol
Let her open up in her time... don't try to force your views and way of how it is or should be on her. That will make her run or clam up.
Actually listen to her, even when she's having an emo moment, those will set her spinning btw, Aquas do not handle emotions very well, even mature ones. She doesn't need to be "fixed" she isn't broken. She wants a partner to listen and walk the roads of life with.
Respect her and heaven forbid don't try to change her. Hopefully that is also reversed and she respcts you and isn't trying to change you.
When you dispear, it hurts. Even if you tell her that you are doing it, it still hurts. Try not to cut her out when you need to do this, communicate.
All I can really add ATM.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeWell I've tried Scorpios obviously, and they aren't working out. And honestly I don't like the fact that they are very controlling and manipulating. I like to be in charge and respected. Prefer not to call them out on their bs, get in arguments, which is what I'm seeing a pattern with them.
you know its not going to work out long term, so why even bother
what's your moons?
Posted by -Flo-I've never lashed out at a woman. Because I watched my Dad growing up doing that to Mom, sister, and me growing up. He was very verbally abusive. Made a promise I would never do that to anyone. In fact I hate arguments and prefer to stay away from them if I can help it. I sometimes feel I'm too honest so think I have an edge there. But you're right, if I get upset I do tend to hide in my shell. So I'll have to work on that.
Having that Pisces moon and Venus is what draws you to her and will help y'all stay together but she still an aqua..
So with that being said cancer man, remember you are not the only one with emotions. So try not to always make it about yourself. Regardless of her water placements, you will still be dealing with a woman of logic. The moment she senses emotional manipulation of your part because things didn't go your way, she will detach and go cold. Like Justagirl said, try to hear her out when she becomes overwhelmed with emotions because unlike you she probably has trouble maneuvering them. The sweeter you are, the more she will open up, try to be supportive and honest. Stand your ground, don't run into your shell immediately when she's giving mixed signals in the beginning.. be consistent because she will drive you a little crazy. Be yourself and don't always emotionally lash out when you're hurt.. just talk to her about it. Keep it real.
What I say about my Pisces.. he's been awesome so far. Open honest shows me his emotional side consistent super sweet loving.. and he doesn't play mind games. Best way to lose an aqua? Mind games. We'll know immediately and shut you out than act like we never talked in first place.
Posted by bittercupcakeHa I would love a Scorpio, but either I keep running into ones that are not evolved or mature or I just don't mesh well with them. Everything starts out great with them, and then later when they start "testing" me is when things start to go wrong. It's like they want me to call them out on their bs and I don't want to, it's unnecessary. I don't like feeling negative emotions because I'm always afraid I'll blowup like my Dad growing up. But haven't come close ever. I really wanted the last one I was with and got heartbroken again. So I'm staying away from Scorpios for awhile. Funny thing is, I seem to attract them, Capricorns and Libras easily.
Well according to cancan26 thread.... your ideal match would be a Scorpio
Posted by -Flo-Thank you so much for sharing that. I feel I'll have to work on that, I'm afraid coming off clingy so I usually wait for the other person. But I do like to be honest and not hide anything.Posted by Cancer2448Open communication is key.Posted by -Flo-I've never lashed out at a woman. Because I watched my Dad growing up doing that to Mom, sister, and me growing up. He was very verbally abusive. Made a promise I would never do that to anyone. In fact I hate arguments and prefer to stay away from them if I can help it. I sometimes feel I'm too honest so think I have an edge there. But you're right, if I get upset I do tend to hide in my shell. So I'll have to work on that.
Having that Pisces moon and Venus is what draws you to her and will help y'all stay together but she still an aqua..
So with that being said cancer man, remember you are not the only one with emotions. So try not to always make it about yourself. Regardless of her water placements, you will still be dealing with a woman of logic. The moment she senses emotional manipulation of your part because things didn't go your way, she will detach and go cold. Like Justagirl said, try to hear her out when she becomes overwhelmed with emotions because unlike you she probably has trouble maneuvering them. The sweeter you are, the more she will open up, try to be supportive and honest. Stand your ground, don't run into your shell immediately when she's giving mixed signals in the beginning.. be consistent because she will drive you a little crazy. Be yourself and don't always emotionally lash out when you're hurt.. just talk to her about it. Keep it real.
What I say about my Pisces.. he's been awesome so far. Open honest shows me his emotional side consistent super sweet loving.. and he doesn't play mind games. Best way to lose an aqua? Mind games. We'll know immediately and shut you out than act like we never talked in first place.
The bad traits about Pisces Venus, we live in a fantasy world of what true love is suppose to look like so when the relationship starts to fall apart we get side tracked from our lover. Try to keep her grounded. Be honest and explain there will bad times including with the good but that you want to work it out with her, you just need her to also be emotionally honest with you.
When Pisces would shut down, I'd shut down with him but when he would come forward and just talk to me about what was bothering him, I would also be nurturing lovey and caring towards him. My emotions grew and blossomed.click to expand
Posted by -Flo-Are you kidding me? Wow that's everything I want in a gal! Your Pisces is a very lucky guy!Posted by Cancer2448This is between me and you but I'm a clingy aqua. Both the Pisces I'm with now and my Scorpio ex have said it, it's important to me that we're close to one another. I love being around my SO a lot once I trust him but honestly I blame that on Pisces placement lolPosted by -Flo-Thank you so much for sharing that. I feel I'll have to work on that, I'm afraid coming off clingy so I usually wait for the other person. But I do like to be honest and not hide anything.Posted by Cancer2448Open communication is key.Posted by -Flo-I've never lashed out at a woman. Because I watched my Dad growing up doing that to Mom, sister, and me growing up. He was very verbally abusive. Made a promise I would never do that to anyone. In fact I hate arguments and prefer to stay away from them if I can help it. I sometimes feel I'm too honest so think I have an edge there. But you're right, if I get upset I do tend to hide in my shell. So I'll have to work on that.
Having that Pisces moon and Venus is what draws you to her and will help y'all stay together but she still an aqua..
So with that being said cancer man, remember you are not the only one with emotions. So try not to always make it about yourself. Regardless of her water placements, you will still be dealing with a woman of logic. The moment she senses emotional manipulation of your part because things didn't go your way, she will detach and go cold. Like Justagirl said, try to hear her out when she becomes overwhelmed with emotions because unlike you she probably has trouble maneuvering them. The sweeter you are, the more she will open up, try to be supportive and honest. Stand your ground, don't run into your shell immediately when she's giving mixed signals in the beginning.. be consistent because she will drive you a little crazy. Be yourself and don't always emotionally lash out when you're hurt.. just talk to her about it. Keep it real.
What I say about my Pisces.. he's been awesome so far. Open honest shows me his emotional side consistent super sweet loving.. and he doesn't play mind games. Best way to lose an aqua? Mind games. We'll know immediately and shut you out than act like we never talked in first place.
The bad traits about Pisces Venus, we live in a fantasy world of what true love is suppose to look like so when the relationship starts to fall apart we get side tracked from our lover. Try to keep her grounded. Be honest and explain there will bad times including with the good but that you want to work it out with her, you just need her to also be emotionally honest with you.
When Pisces would shut down, I'd shut down with him but when he would come forward and just talk to me about what was bothering him, I would also be nurturing lovey and caring towards him. My emotions grew and blossomed.
What I'm really like;
I get super lovey dovey, affectionate, wanting to always have sex, pouring gifts on him, start asking him many questions about his day or him, get excited when he comes around, do little things to make him happy, I'll remember special dates that he told me about, will dive into his fav hobbies and learn more, I'll even lurk your surroundings and secretly stalk you a bit. Basically I get crazy when in love.click to expand
Posted by bittercupcakeI am aqua sun gemini moon :/
hmmm.... i personally dont think i can be with a cancer man... too soft and moody... i got enough problems with my #gemini moon
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