All the Advice on Aquarius women please ~

I am dating an Aquarius woman and she is awesome, I really like her, everything just feels so natural between us, she is adorably shy and I really like her shyness but I just need advice on initiating physical contact we have just recently gone on our 4th date and I have had already the urge to hold her hand/ give her a kiss on the cheek but I'm just scared to scare her since she is so shy, so Aquarius women do you like it when someone takes charge with physical contact or would you rather that be a lot later in your relationship with someone?

Here is her chart:

Sun Aquarius
Moon Aries
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Pisces
Mars Cancer
Jupiter Libra
Saturn Aquarius
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
True Node Sagittarius


My chart:

Sun Aries
Moon Aries
Mercury Pisces
Venus Taurus
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Scorpio
Saturn Pisces
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
True Node Scorpio

You should wait for any real physical contact. Trust me this is not about the wait game also. Listen carefully:

What you can do: hold hands, kiss on the cheek briefly( not long) and cuddle only. Give her time to figure out if she really wants to do anything more than that. She will appreciate that and not feel smothered or forced. If you really like/care about her and want to stick around longer treat her good, don't smother her, give her space. She will need time to see what you are about to really get attached to you In the event that things happen to fast (realistically) and things go further she will dump you even faster after she has realized she doesn't really like you regretting that she gave an idiot like you the chance to even get next to her beautiful self 🙂

what not to do: IF you see she is uncomfortable holding hands, kissing, you will be able to sense it...STOP immediately and do not do it again until she makes the first move or express to you that this is what she wants.

I have dated an Aries for about 3 months and like you said everything was good. He messed up when he wanted to be around me all the time. (not saying this is what you are doing but just giving you a heads up tip)

On my 3rd date with my Scorpio he went straight for my lips while I was in the middle of talking...then asked if later on he could have a kiss lol..I was like wtf, sure!!! but i still liked him...don't ever do this though because everyone doesn't get away doing that easily 🙂

I would say try....sense how she feels...then either stop or continue.

Be her friend first. Most aquas prefer the friendship stuff first in determing who to open up to.

Posted by aquariuslove14
You should wait for any real physical contact. Trust me this is not about the wait game also. Listen carefully:

What you can do: hold hands, kiss on the cheek briefly( not long) and cuddle only. Give her time to figure out if she really wants to do anything more than that. She will appreciate that and not feel smothered or forced. If you really like/care about her and want to stick around longer treat her good, don't smother her, give her space. She will need time to see what you are about to really get attached to you In the event that things happen to fast (realistically) and things go further she will dump you even faster after she has realized she doesn't really like you regretting that she gave an idiot like you the chance to even get next to her beautiful self 🙂

what not to do: IF you see she is uncomfortable holding hands, kissing, you will be able to sense it...STOP immediately and do not do it again until she makes the first move or express to you that this is what she wants.

I have dated an Aries for about 3 months and like you said everything was good. He messed up when he wanted to be around me all the time. (not saying this is what you are doing but just giving you a heads up tip)

On my 3rd date with my Scorpio he went straight for my lips while I was in the middle of talking...then asked if later on he could have a kiss lol..I was like wtf, sure!!! but i still liked him...don't ever do this though because everyone doesn't get away doing that easily 🙂

I would say try....sense how she feels...then either stop or continue.

Thank you that is wonderful advice =)

Posted by aquariuslove14
You should wait for any real physical contact. Trust me this is not about the wait game also. Listen carefully:

What you can do: hold hands, kiss on the cheek briefly( not long) and cuddle only. Give her time to figure out if she really wants to do anything more than that. She will appreciate that and not feel smothered or forced. If you really like/care about her and want to stick around longer treat her good, don't smother her, give her space. She will need time to see what you are about to really get attached to you In the event that things happen to fast (realistically) and things go further she will dump you even faster after she has realized she doesn't really like you regretting that she gave an idiot like you the chance to even get next to her beautiful self 🙂

what not to do: IF you see she is uncomfortable holding hands, kissing, you will be able to sense it...STOP immediately and do not do it again until she makes the first move or express to you that this is what she wants.

I have dated an Aries for about 3 months and like you said everything was good. He messed up when he wanted to be around me all the time. (not saying this is what you are doing but just giving you a heads up tip)

On my 3rd date with my Scorpio he went straight for my lips while I was in the middle of talking...then asked if later on he could have a kiss lol..I was like wtf, sure!!! but i still liked him...don't ever do this though because everyone doesn't get away doing that easily 🙂

I would say try....sense how she feels...then either stop or continue.

Also I'm not like most Aries in the space department I would say that I need more space than most due to my Pisces placements.

Posted by IAmMystified
Be her friend first. Most aquas prefer the friendship stuff first in determing who to open up to.

thanks for putting "most" ...lol

maybe it's too generous to put most.

but with me, nope. If you're in friend zone, you're staying there.

my ex husband and ex's, and my husband NEVER went there with me. Straight in with commitment. After the initial....Oh my god...Hot damn. He makes me feel.... rawr. Oh yeahh (secretly of course, because it's so unladylike to be all mmm mmm baby!!!)

No problem..Keep us posted 🙂

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Posted by IAmMystified
Be her friend first. Most aquas prefer the friendship stuff first in determing who to open up to.

thanks for putting "most" ...lol

maybe it's too generous to put most.

but with me, nope. If you're in friend zone, you're staying there.

my ex husband and ex's, and my husband NEVER went there with me. Straight in with commitment. After the initial....Oh my god...Hot damn. He makes me feel.... rawr. Oh yeahh (secretly of course, because it's so unladylike to be all mmm mmm baby!!!)

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ya it depends on the aquarius... cause Im completely opposite of this, I wouldnt ever get involved with someone until I knew them, and had been friends with them first. hehe 🙂

Yes, I agree with everyone saying be friends first. Aquarius is the house of friendships! And we do not love easily. Be open minded for sure. The fastest way to get on an Aquarians shit list is to be prejudice in some way. Talk about things that have depth to them. Give her compliments and explain why you like this or that about her. It'll be more authentic than "uh...nice shirt", ya know? Aquarians have more depth than a lot of people give us credit for! Oh, and be accommodating. Good luck 🙂

Posted by VannaBomb
Yes, I agree with everyone saying be friends first. Aquarius is the house of friendships! And we do not love easily. Be open minded for sure. The fastest way to get on an Aquarians shit list is to be prejudice in some way. Talk about things that have depth to them. Give her compliments and explain why you like this or that about her. It'll be more authentic than "uh...nice shirt", ya know? Aquarians have more depth than a lot of people give us credit for! Oh, and be accommodating. Good luck 🙂

Also good advice thank you =)

Don't focus on the physical, she is probably sensing that is what is expected and is uncomfortable with it -- because it's EXPECTED in your eyes. Does that make any sense? Do the opposite of what you think would normally happen with any other girl.

I know...

Weird.

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Don't focus on the physical, she is probably sensing that is what is expected and is uncomfortable with it -- because it's EXPECTED in your eyes. Does that make any sense? Do the opposite of what you think would normally happen with any other girl.

I know...

Weird.

exactly good point

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Don't focus on the physical, she is probably sensing that is what is expected and is uncomfortable with it -- because it's EXPECTED in your eyes. Does that make any sense? Do the opposite of what you think would normally happen with any other girl.

I know...

Weird.

Actually it's not weird that is a really good point thank you =)

Posted by FieryAries9108

Posted by aquapiscescusp
Don't focus on the physical, she is probably sensing that is what is expected and is uncomfortable with it -- because it's EXPECTED in your eyes. Does that make any sense? Do the opposite of what you think would normally happen with any other girl.

I know...

Weird.

Actually it's not weird that is a really good point thank you =)

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Not a problem 🙂