Am I wasting my time with Aqua man?

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I've been dealing with my aqua guy for over 6 years now I am Gemini we would always go back and forth with each other.. last year we gotten closer and he started to open up to me "sorta" we always have casual sex till he said he actually started to like me from another perspective other than sex.. he had ask me also if I grew to love him throughout the years which I have. Since he knows how I feel he still aloof he always comes back disappears which it's ok I let him be but sometimes he leaves me confused he's good at pulling me in and pulling right back.. when we together it's great but when we aren't it's hard to keep him around.. he said he likes me but than his actions just speak other wise. Since we know each other for so long why he keeps acting this way? He had told me he loves me but it's hard to tell if means it or not? I can't never believe when he serious.. how do I know if he genuine or he just wasting me time?
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I've been dealing with my aqua guy for over 6 years now I am Gemini we would always go back and forth with each other.. last year we gotten closer and he started to open up to me "sorta" we always have casual sex till he said he actually started to like me from another perspective other than sex.. he had ask me also if I grew to love him throughout the years which I have. Since he knows how I feel he still aloof he always comes back disappears which it's ok I let him be but sometimes he leaves me confused he's good at pulling me in and pulling right back.. when we together it's great but when we aren't it's hard to keep him around.. he said he likes me but than his actions just speak other wise. Since we know each other for so long why he keeps acting this way? He had told me he loves me but it's hard to tell if means it or not? I can't never believe when he serious.. how do I know if he genuine or he just wasting me time?
What are his placements? What are yours?
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Posted by evxo
I've been dealing with my aqua guy for over 6 years now I am Gemini we would always go back and forth with each other.. last year we gotten closer and he started to open up to me "sorta" we always have casual sex till he said he actually started to like me from another perspective other than sex.. he had ask me also if I grew to love him throughout the years which I have. Since he knows how I feel he still aloof he always comes back disappears which it's ok I let him be but sometimes he leaves me confused he's good at pulling me in and pulling right back.. when we together it's great but when we aren't it's hard to keep him around.. he said he likes me but than his actions just speak other wise. Since we know each other for so long why he keeps acting this way? He had told me he loves me but it's hard to tell if means it or not? I can't never believe when he serious.. how do I know if he genuine or he just wasting me time?
My Aqua guy is born on Feb 6 as well. But mines is 39 years old.
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Posted by evxo
Heyy bday twin lol ?♊️♊️ Any tips on getting an Aqua man to settle or what?! Mines got me torn n confused ??‍♀️
Heyyy!! Yeah I feel for you. I've been thru a lot with my guy. Now, I know this is probably hard for a Gemini woman but, my best advice to you is to just let him know how you feel and then just live your life as a single woman. Treat him like your best friend, and not as a boyfriend. Mines always seems to respond better to that. No pressure, no nagging. Let him take the lead, and if he doesn't realize what he has in you, don't be afraid to walk away from him.
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Thanks for the advice girl ., I never mind treating him like a friend he just confuses me with all the mix signals (very unnecessary) .. but I guess keep living life
it can be a bit tricky for a taurus to treat one like a friend ...when one is having an intimate time with lol..

i tried this...and the the other day my aqua man told me to behave as i had to drive a guy friend home...the other night...

seriously asking me to behave? and saying we r exclusive?



hows that for confusion?

lol... now he has disappeared the whole weekend really like i don't even exist..

i don't think i will be waiting. if i hear nothing or he hasn't done anything for me for valentines day..

i am out.... i don't think i have the patient to wait for an aqua guy to make that final commitment...

are they truly worth it ?? :p
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Posted by evxo
Thanks for the advice girl ., I never mind treating him like a friend he just confuses me with all the mix signals (very unnecessary) .. but I guess keep living life
it can be a bit tricky for a taurus to treat one like a friend ...when one is having an intimate time with lol..

i tried this...and the the other day my aqua man told me to behave as i had to drive a guy friend home...the other night...

seriously asking me to behave? and saying we r exclusive?



hows that for confusion?

lol... now he has disappeared the whole weekend really like i don't even exist..

i don't think i will be waiting. if i hear nothing or he hasn't done anything for me for valentines day..

i am out.... i don't think i have the patient to wait for an aqua guy to make that final commitment...

are they truly worth it ?? :p
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i meant to say saying we are not exclusive... !! *** so bloody confusing
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evxo
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I think if you let him have it his way they get use to that ? I done deal with mines for 6 years and now he wants to "feel" something for me? Than acts like its ok .. there's no need for the confusion.. I am Gemini so I am all about getting to the chase.. aqua slow phase irks me but I guess all you need is patience to deal with them which I barely have?. Maybe it's worth sticking around but I doubt I'll.. I need someone who knows what they want and I wish he just do it and stop the bs. I love the one of one treatments but he goes and disappears for weeks idk how to even handle it anymore