I have an aqua friend who recently deleted me off Facebook. It wouldn't be a big deal if he also hadn't stopped talking to me in person when i see him. I've been thinking about asking him about it, but I'm not really sure what to say or even what i might have done? The time i saw him right before all thus happened he acted like everything was fine. (I did see his best friend at a show a couple if days before i talked to him and his best friend let me know that my crush was no secret to Friend, so...)
Any idea what it could be/advice on what to say to him? I'm under the impression he's mad, so what can i avoid saying that will make him even moreso?
Maybe he doesn't like you in the same way and knowing you have a crush on him makes him feel uncomfortable?
Or maybe he deleted you by accident? I've done that before.
Or maybe he deleted his entire facebook? I have thought friends deleted me before, but found out they deleted the whole shebang.
I wouldn't think it was anything you did particularly. Lots of times when people rebuff us, we automatically think we've done or said something wrong, which is rarely the case. I wouldn't let it affect you or put much worry into it.
The fact he stopped talking to you in person is what makes me think it was the first reason I listed.
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Any idea what it could be/advice on what to say to him? I'm under the impression he's mad, so what can i avoid saying that will make him even moreso?