Sagg101
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11 Years
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Posted by seacloversHmm, in my past experience it may seem like this but they are really just weird creatures. It started off like this with my Aqua , the really don't realise they are doing this. Just go about your life and he'll be back. It takes a long time to build a real relationship with them. Took me three years and it was worth it !
Actually. I've come to the conclusion he only wanted to sleep with me. Nothing more... Been 4 days and he continues to ignore me. To test my theory that he didn't "get distracted and forgot" I sent him a text yesterday (1 of only 2 since Sunday) asking how his day was. Still hasn't read it. And says he's online.
I was super depressed. Then after speaking to two of my guy friends -one being an aqua himself, and I realized he did ask me to come inside after we hung out and I said no.
Makes sense as to why all communication has literally ceased.
And I was re reading a lot of our "playful" conversations. And it was him basically trying to see if I would sleep with him... I'm not heartbroken anymore.
I think about -if I did sleep with him, and then he ignored me... I would feel a million times worse. So at this point. He doesn't exist to me.
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A lot of Aquarius men are non conventional. They also need a LOT of space. I mean a lot, the minute hey feel smothered they retreat. You leave them alone and get on with your life and they come back. I would get super frustrated when my Aqua would disappear, but I'd never mention it. I'm a Scorpio Venus sag too so I'm super clingy. When he returned it was like nothing happened. Also, we never said we were exclusive so I didn't feel the need to pin him down.
Aquarius men has a hard time expressing feelings, it's like the minute they feel something for someone they retreat. It took me 3 years for us to express how we felt about each other, but we managed to keep in contact and build our relationship whilst he was travelling for 3 years !
We sag / Aqua spark is real believe me , be to Aloofness of the Aqua and the (sometimes) independence of the sag means that the focus of building.l a connection At the start is hard . You really have to stick in their . It's hard but worth it