Aqua girl here just asked my aqua man to be my boyfriend

Aaarrgghh freaking out waiting on a reply after all his wishwashyness and being Fwb and to not to serious relationship Hun breaking it off I thought enough is enough, I've spent ages asking forums what to think and im not feeling any better about it all so I just layed all my cards on the table how I felt etc, thought what have I got to lose we can be friends through time even if I get rejected but here's hoping he says yes! I know he's gonna spend ages thinking about it but you never know!

I even surprise my self at my impulsiveness being an aqua certainly is interesting lol

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I don't know about you but impulsivity should be my middle name. I can be so impulsive when my actions don't pass through my logic filter that even I surprise myself.

You did what you had too. You went against your mind and followed your heart... that is a sign of evolution.

Don't doubt yourself. Aquarians aren't ones to dwell in the past and therefore like to move to the future.

You did good on professing your feelings and letting them be known. I just did the same last week.

Didn't get the answer I hoped for...but that's life.

Good luck!

Yep I feel empowered I made the first move I know he's read it and will give him time to answer I did say that he can think about it in the message, will give him a week to respond then just put it down to rejection, what will be will be.

Impulsivity definitely is a great trait I've mulled over it all day and just thought why the hell not, life's for taking chances and I'm glad my confidence is back.

Thanks for your comment 🙂

Little update well he got back to me and just wants to remain friends we're gonna keep some distant between us and meet up at the end of the month but still keep in contact. It wasn't what I would of liked but happy with the outcome anyways really do miss the friendship but the sexual attraction has to die down first.

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Little update well he got back to me and just wants to remain friends we're gonna keep some distant between us and meet up at the end of the month but still keep in contact. It wasn't what I would of liked but happy with the outcome anyways really do miss the friendship but the sexual attraction has to die down first.

You said he was an Aquarian right? Well sometimes we tend to be on overwhelmed with emotions so if I were you I wouldn't take it to heart. Just focus on youeself, keeping distance, and be happy. Trust me hell be thinking about it and pondering on it for the next few weeks. If it's something he wants hell come around.

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Sorry for the late reply crawled in my cave for a bit emotions I don't deal with well lol Yeah he's aquarian also only 3 days difference lol, yeah I'm doing loads of things for myself set goals for this year and made plans to complete them all on the second day of this year it's going to be a good year for me personally. Love life's just going to have to go on the back burner. I don't think he will come around he's stated many times before he doesn't want a relationship, he was very respectful in his messages even said I get better looking as I'm getting older lol I'm just glad our friendship won't be effected.

He was very happy that I've got my personal life goals sorted and happy for me, it's going to be a hard month holding back on the flirty talk with him because I know the attraction is still there.

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Little update well he got back to me and just wants to remain friends we're gonna keep some distant between us and meet up at the end of the month but still keep in contact. It wasn't what I would of liked but happy with the outcome anyways really do miss the friendship but the sexual attraction has to die down first.

You said he was an Aquarian right? Well sometimes we tend to be on overwhelmed with emotions so if I were you I wouldn't take it to heart. Just focus on youeself, keeping distance, and be happy. Trust me hell be thinking about it and pondering on it for the next few weeks. If it's something he wants hell come around.

Sorry for the late reply crawled in my cave for a bit emotions I don't deal with well lol Yeah he's aquarian also only 3 days difference lol, yeah I'm doing loads of things for myself set goals for this year and made plans to complete them all on the second day of this year it's going to be a good year for me personally. Love life's just going to have to go on the back burner. I don't think he will come around he's stated many times before he doesn't want a relationship, he was very respectful in his messages even said I get better looking as I'm getting older lol I'm just glad our friendship won't be effected.

He was very happy that I've got my personal life goals sorted and happy for me, it's going to be a hard month holding back on the flirty talk with him because I know the attraction is still there.

You need to cut contact. I know it's not the answer you seek but you have to. Until you forget about him completely. Otherwise your going to keep hoping for him to change his mind. And you'll never truly move on...only adding to the pain. Once your over him then you can come back and be friends.

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Don't worry I'm not one to dwell on guys for long he's a great friend and well I would be happy to have him just as a friend, we both agreed last night we need distance between us physically because the attraction is so strong, I know I can make it platonic through time we've not spoken today and I'm great at the distance thing aquas rule that way lol. Worst part is I've now got another aqua chasing me it's like I can't get rid of them! lol I've got loads of plans next few months and working on myself also. Life's not all bad at all 🙂 thanks for worrying that I would hold on I'm a big girl I don't think he will change his mind I respect that he is a dear friend at the end of the day.