Aqua girl still stuck on my man?

Ok guys I need a little insight. I'll make this short. When I first started seeing my BF, he was also seeing another girl (unbeknownst to me) she's an Aqua, he's cancer, I'm Leo.

Their relationship was casual, they didn't go on dates or anything, she drove in from another state (an hour away) and they had sex, she usually left the next morning.

Her commitment to driving to him made me think she wanted something more serious than he wanted to offer her.(all speculation)

He made it exclusive with me and he stopped seeing her, she got into another relationship shortly thereafter to a "long time friend" and got engaged literally within 4 months. (They are now married) it was really whirlwind for them. (I know this from a mutual associate)

Anyways, she'd still been liking and commenting on my BF's pics. Ok, now I know some ppl don't think that's a big deal BUT I'm a Leo & when I'm done I'm done.

Doesn't have to be hard feelings, but when I move past it it's over for me. I don't like or comment on anyone's pictures that I had a relationship with or that I had a casual sexual relationship with.

Part of me feels like when women do that with men they used to sleep with, they are trying to get their attention in some way, shape or form. It's pointless. You're married and he's in a relationship.



I'm not all too familiar with Aquarius behavior, but what do y'all think?

Posted by tiziani
The way I see it just leave her be.

Can't expect her to live by your values and inviting strangers over the internet to pry into her behaviour (let alone her marriage - why is that even being posted here?) or put her down isn't going to make your relationship any stronger or weaker. You're all three grown adults, if I were in your shoes I'd sort it out amongst yourselves if there is anything to sort out.

Nothing to sort and I'm not bothering her. I'm not reaching out or asking her. I just want a little insight as to how they think. I'm curious. But no, I cant expect her to live by my values.

I brought up her marriage as backstory, to shAre that she has in fact moved on. I think that's relevant. Some aquas may have insight like "when we move on we aren't thinking of the last person" or "I'm an aqua and even after getting married I was still longing for my last bf"

So it's relevant, I didn't shAre any private details of her marriage. In fact, a marriage is on public record. Not a private matter whatsoever. Lol

Posted by Arielle83
Cancer doesn't let go of people so he probably thinks it as nothing more than that.

Nothing more than..what?

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Posted by JBG
Ok guys I need a little insight. I'll make this short. When I first started seeing my BF, he was also seeing another girl (unbeknownst to me) she's an Aqua, he's cancer, I'm Leo.

Their relationship was casual, they didn't go on dates or anything, she drove in from another state (an hour away) and they had sex, she usually left the next morning.

Her commitment to driving to him made me think she wanted something more serious than he wanted to offer her.(all speculation)

He made it exclusive with me and he stopped seeing her, she got into another relationship shortly thereafter to a "long time friend" and got engaged literally within 4 months. (They are now married) it was really whirlwind for them. (I know this from a mutual associate)

Anyways, she'd still been liking and commenting on my BF's pics. Ok, now I know some ppl don't think that's a big deal BUT I'm a Leo & when I'm done I'm done.

Doesn't have to be hard feelings, but when I move past it it's over for me. I don't like or comment on anyone's pictures that I had a relationship with or that I had a casual sexual relationship with.

Part of me feels like when women do that with men they used to sleep with, they are trying to get their attention in some way, shape or form. It's pointless. You're married and he's in a relationship.



I'm not all too familiar with Aquarius behavior, but what do y'all think?

Maybe she doesn't view ''liking & commenting'' on exes' social media as you do, maybe to her it's harmless and she's being friendly.

What does your bf do & think of all this?

That's what matters.

Ill have to side with Leo this time. I agree with her - commenting and posting on past flames' profiles is because you want to get their attention. Besides, she's married, she should post only on her husband's FB profile from now.

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Soooo because someone gets married they stop being friends with people? LOL

For me, yes I have stayed in touch with ex's if we parted on good terms, and you even said it was causal, so I am assuming a fuck buddy? You are also assuming it was more serious but it may not have been. She's just being friendly or saying, hey no hard feelings, she's moved on- she is married to someone else. None of us can answer if she still thinks of him or not, only she can.

TBH OP, you sound lke the one with the issue about this, you can't expect others to live by your standards or what you would or wouldnt do. You might be creating an issue where there is none.

She could also be doing it our of spite, because she knows it bothers you, still if that is the case, what are you going to do? You sound prety controlling tbh.

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Posted by Arielle83
Cancer doesn't let go of people so he probably thinks it as nothing more than that.

Nothing more than..what?

They did know each other

This seems to be more about your ego and you wanting all the attention on you

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I have a huge ego, & I rightfully should want my mans attention on me and not a woman he used to sleep with. But that's not what this is about, it's not my ego keeping me from commenting on my ex's page, it's the fact that I've moved on, so has he. There's no need for us to communicate, even through social media.

When I was single, if I posted under a guys pic, it was usually to get their attention, especially if I used I sleep with that person.

I'm probably slightly controlling.

Controlling, big ego, sounds like a Leo to me.

LOL at those of you saying the Aqua is up to something, jesus fucking christ, Aquas typcally remain friends with everyone including ex's.



Again Op, if you make this an issue it will most likely bite you in your ass. Just check that ego and stop trying to control man.

Posted by aquarius_man
Besides, she's married, she should post only on her husband's FB profile from now.

Disagree completely. Get real.

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Everyone can be insecure. Depends on his placements.

That aqua isn't innocent. She married cause she got hurt. She's still in a time warp

I would make sure my babe deleted and blocked

Id do it myself for him. In secret lol

If a crab men doesn't understand insecure jealous possessive

Than he's not a crab

To answer your question, his moon is in Aquarius. Mine is in Aquarius as well. His Venus is in cancer.

To clarify, I don't have an issue big enough to bring to his attention. I wanted more insight on the Aquarius sun signs mindset.

Also, I'm not the least bit worried that he is still into her. He had a choice and he chose me.

These comments are not directed at you specifically, I more so read everybody's comments and I'm kind of responding in one.

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Everyone can be insecure. Depends on his placements.

That aqua isn't innocent. She married cause she got hurt. She's still in a time warp

I would make sure my babe deleted and blocked

Id do it myself for him. In secret lol

If a crab men doesn't understand insecure jealous possessive

Than he's not a crab

I think it's funny that you said that, I made him block her the third time I saw her comment on his picture. Lol

I'm just kind of looking for a little insight, I've always been curious as to how people think and what the method behind the madness is. It's really innocent, I think people are making it seem like I'm out to get her, and I'm not. I just want to know what her possible motivations could be.

Because for me specifically, I don't comment on people's stuff once I've moved on I'm over it and you should be too.

Now, if I have have not yet moved on I can see myself posting a few emojis underneath your photos to grab your attention. My moon is in Aquarius, so could it be that maybe she's doing the same thing? That's all I'm asking.

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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Everyone can be insecure. Depends on his placements.

That aqua isn't innocent. She married cause she got hurt. She's still in a time warp

I would make sure my babe deleted and blocked

Id do it myself for him. In secret lol

If a crab men doesn't understand insecure jealous possessive

Than he's not a crab

To clarify, I don't have an issue big enough to bring to his attention. I wanted more insight on the Aquarius sun signs mindset.

like i said, aquas tend to be pretty obsessive if they really like someone, the girls more so. won t take NO for an answer. also, i think by liking your pix she is just rattling your cage

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Even though she's married?

Posted by NymphGoddess
OMG aquarius man has noo idea what hes talking about. Only person is Arielle! Aquarius man has no idea what rhe fuck bes talking about. Hes a definete weird ass aquarius pinning and playing games with his ex aries. Evwryother aquarius would have walked away but his dumb ass is still there.

OP

You are getting things mixed up because you have an aquarius moon. That still doesnt mean youre going to think like one. Just because you cut ties with ofher exes doesnt mean that she would too. I know leos who are still friends with exes and their families and one of them is a cancer moon! Soesnt mean that they want a relationship.

You are also assuming that HE didnt want her. When it could have been that things were just casual, or SHE didnt want him. Im going to go on a limb and say it was her the one that didnt, because she married her longtime friend within 4 months. That means she was in love with him but was waiting for things to progress with her now husband. Despite what you heard from mutual acquaintances, marriage isnt all sunshine and roses.

Anyway, Aquarius gal sounds liek shes being friendly. Ive always tried to be friends with my exes deapite them hurting me or things going sour. But i only remain friends if i dont have feelings for thaf person and ive moved on. Which i have done, because i have mo hard feelings.

Agreed about Aqua dude and yes Arielle is speaking along the same lines as I have stated and I AM an Aqua female and i think you are as well, lol

Aqua men are wayyyy different than us females.

TBH this entire thing is about the Leo and her issues with her own insecurities.

Posted by aquarius_man
@NymphGoddess - oh, please.

Besides, it's either a Nymph, or a Goddess? Because the two are mutually exclusive. Just a thought.

I know things about my sign, don't you think? Jog on, now

and you are very aware that the men are VERY different than the women.

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Posted by aquarius_man
@NymphGoddess - oh, please.

Besides, it's either a Nymph, or a Goddess? Because the two are mutually exclusive. Just a thought.

I know things about my sign, don't you think? Jog on, now

and you are very aware that the men are VERY different than the women.

i said that somewhere in this thread. and told u my story. anyways, i wont insist. have it ur way, am just understanding why leo lady would like react like she is.

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lol it's not about having it my way.

From what I see the Leo is insecure and doesn't understand that others will not do things how she expects and shes trying to control stuff.

She even said she had him block the Aqua so i don't understand the purpose of this thread after reading that statement from her. It should be a non issues if the Aqua is blocked, she can't even comment or post on his shit anymore.

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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Everyone can be insecure. Depends on his placements.

That aqua isn't innocent. She married cause she got hurt. She's still in a time warp

I would make sure my babe deleted and blocked

Id do it myself for him. In secret lol

If a crab men doesn't understand insecure jealous possessive

Than he's not a crab

I think it's funny that you said that, I made him block her the third time I saw her comment on his picture. Lol

I'm just kind of looking for a little insight, I've always been curious as to how people think and what the method behind the madness is. It's really innocent, I think people are making it seem like I'm out to get her, and I'm not. I just want to know what her possible motivations could be.

Because for me specifically, I don't comment on people's stuff once I've moved on I'm over it and you should be too.

Now, if I have have not yet moved on I can see myself posting a few emojis underneath your photos to grab your attention. My moon is in Aquarius, so could it be that maybe she's doing the same thing? That's all I'm asking.

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Yes she stated it here.

Posted by JBG
Ok guys I need a little insight. I'll make this short. When I first started seeing my BF, he was also seeing another girl (unbeknownst to me) she's an Aqua, he's cancer, I'm Leo.

Their relationship was casual, they didn't go on dates or anything, she drove in from another state (an hour away) and they had sex, she usually left the next morning.

Her commitment to driving to him made me think she wanted something more serious than he wanted to offer her.(all speculation)

He made it exclusive with me and he stopped seeing her, she got into another relationship shortly thereafter to a "long time friend" and got engaged literally within 4 months. (They are now married) it was really whirlwind for them. (I know this from a mutual associate)

Anyways, she'd still been liking and commenting on my BF's pics. Ok, now I know some ppl don't think that's a big deal BUT I'm a Leo & when I'm done I'm done.

Doesn't have to be hard feelings, but when I move past it it's over for me. I don't like or comment on anyone's pictures that I had a relationship with or that I had a casual sexual relationship with.

Part of me feels like when women do that with men they used to sleep with, they are trying to get their attention in some way, shape or form. It's pointless. You're married and he's in a relationship.



I'm not all too familiar with Aquarius behavior, but what do y'all think?

You knownit all and you are right and don't listen to anyone. You said it!

Posted by NymphGoddess
OMG aquarius man has noo idea what hes talking about. Only person is Arielle! Aquarius man has no idea what rhe fuck bes talking about. Hes a definete weird ass aquarius pinning and playing games with his ex aries. Evwryother aquarius would have walked away but his dumb ass is still there.

OP

You are getting things mixed up because you have an aquarius moon. That still doesnt mean youre going to think like one. Just because you cut ties with ofher exes doesnt mean that she would too. I know leos who are still friends with exes and their families and one of them is a cancer moon! Soesnt mean that they want a relationship.

You are also assuming that HE didnt want her. When it could have been that things were just casual, or SHE didnt want him. Im going to go on a limb and say it was her the one that didnt, because she married her longtime friend within 4 months. That means she was in love with him but was waiting for things to progress with her now husband. Despite what you heard from mutual acquaintances, marriage isnt all sunshine and roses.

Anyway, Aquarius gal sounds liek shes being friendly. Ive always tried to be friends with my exes deapite them hurting me or things going sour. But i only remain friends if i dont have feelings for thaf person and ive moved on. Which i have done, because i have mo hard feelings.

There's so much more to the story, that's how I know. But that wasn't relevant so I didn't mention.

I'm asking about the commenting specifically, thanks

Posted by aquarius_man
I do have a female Aquarius friend who gets really obsessed with a guy when she's into him. She also stalks other people's facebook pages....obsessively.

Guilty lol

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Posted by NymphGoddess
OMG aquarius man has noo idea what hes talking about. Only person is Arielle! Aquarius man has no idea what rhe fuck bes talking about. Hes a definete weird ass aquarius pinning and playing games with his ex aries. Evwryother aquarius would have walked away but his dumb ass is still there.

OP

You are getting things mixed up because you have an aquarius moon. That still doesnt mean youre going to think like one. Just because you cut ties with ofher exes doesnt mean that she would too. I know leos who are still friends with exes and their families and one of them is a cancer moon! Soesnt mean that they want a relationship.

You are also assuming that HE didnt want her. When it could have been that things were just casual, or SHE didnt want him. Im going to go on a limb and say it was her the one that didnt, because she married her longtime friend within 4 months. That means she was in love with him but was waiting for things to progress with her now husband. Despite what you heard from mutual acquaintances, marriage isnt all sunshine and roses.

Anyway, Aquarius gal sounds liek shes being friendly. Ive always tried to be friends with my exes deapite them hurting me or things going sour. But i only remain friends if i dont have feelings for thaf person and ive moved on. Which i have done, because i have mo hard feelings.

Agreed about Aqua dude and yes Arielle is speaking along the same lines as I have stated and I AM an Aqua female and i think you are as well, lol

Aqua men are wayyyy different than us females.

TBH this entire thing is about the Leo and her issues with her own insecurities.

I only skimmed the oages, too much nonsense and bad advice. But if you said the same, then you must know. Sounds like OP is VERY insecure. I domt know how much males are different because all the aquarius i know are too proud, almost like Leos. They never show when their hurting or show feelings piblicly.

OP needs to accept the driendship or dump the guy.

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There is no friendship to accept. My question was about her possible motivations for commenting SPECIFICALLY.

Nothing more. I know ppl wonder why I care, idk, I'm just curious. That's all.

I'm always curious as to why ppl do what they do.

My guess is that friendly isn't the answer, BUT I could be wrong.

There is NO friendship, they were cool, they had sex.

The story goes so much deeper than what's on here. If he wanted something more serious with her, that's where he'd be. He's not there.

& driving an hour to another state to be with someone doesn't sound like you want something casual, IMO. Too much effort. Also, why'd he never go to her if he was so hung up?

The answer is, he was single dating two women and taking easy pussy ass it came. If you want to drive an hour or more to come give me some, fine, but I'm not driving that far to get it. Shows his committed to the situation right there

That's how you know it wasn't serious on his end.

Plus, we've had conversations about the situation specifically since we've been in a relationship.

At this point, I'm specifically wondering why shes still commenting on his photos. Nothing more or nothing less.

Whether or not he still wants to be with her was not the question.

Before we were "together" and he was seeing her (he didn't know I knew he was seeing her specifically, we had a mutual associate who spilled the beans) he said "my friend was at my house this weekend, I hope she doesn't think this is going anywhere, Bc it's not"

At the time, he and I were just "hanging out" we were not serious. But it did hurt me to know he was seeing other people because I wasn't.

The fact that he didn't know that I knew exactly who he was speaking of, but he made that comment, lets me know that he did not think of her in any serious way.

He probably thought that he was letting me know I had no real competition.

Now, it would be different if I had asked him about the girl and then he made that comment. But he had no idea I knew exactly who he was talking about at that time.

He blindly told me everything I needed to know.

Maybe a few weeks after that we were exclusive.

I don't think I was clear in my communication. He and I got in a relationship FIRST, she got in a relationship a few months after he and I did, and then she was engaged four months after that NOT married in four months.

Now she's married.

Posted by aquarius_man
and do you know whom mary kay letourneau married? she married the man she went to prison for having sex with - vili fualaau; and you can guess his sign. yep, exactly, cancer

Why did she go to prison for having sex with him?

I had a lot of chemistry with a younger cancer, about 9 yrs apart. We saw each other for about 2 yrs (4yrs ago) until he got a gf. He would still text me, lately found out he blocked me on social media (I would barely see his stuff) I'm pretty sure was his gf, or maybe he was stalking me and she found out

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Posted by aquarius_man
and do you know whom mary kay letourneau married? she married the man she went to prison for having sex with - vili fualaau; and you can guess his sign. yep, exactly, cancer

Why did she go to prison for having sex with him?

I had a lot of chemistry with a younger cancer, about 9 yrs apart. We saw each other for about 2 yrs (4yrs ago) until he got a gf. He would still text me, lately found out he blocked me on social media (I would barely see his stuff) I'm pretty sure was his gf, or maybe he was stalking me and she found out

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She was his teacher and he was a minor.

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Posted by aquarius_man
and do you know whom mary kay letourneau married? she married the man she went to prison for having sex with - vili fualaau; and you can guess his sign. yep, exactly, cancer

Why did she go to prison for having sex with him?

I had a lot of chemistry with a younger cancer, about 9 yrs apart. We saw each other for about 2 yrs (4yrs ago) until he got a gf. He would still text me, lately found out he blocked me on social media (I would barely see his stuff) I'm pretty sure was his gf, or maybe he was stalking me and she found out

She was his teacher and he was a minor.

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I'm wondering if this generally happens with Aqua - cancer? or why...

I'd totally marry him if he was older ?

Posted by JBG
Ok guys I need a little insight. I'll make this short. When I first started seeing my BF, he was also seeing another girl (unbeknownst to me) she's an Aqua, he's cancer, I'm Leo.

Their relationship was casual, they didn't go on dates or anything, she drove in from another state (an hour away) and they had sex, she usually left the next morning.

Her commitment to driving to him made me think she wanted something more serious than he wanted to offer her.(all speculation)

He made it exclusive with me and he stopped seeing her, she got into another relationship shortly thereafter to a "long time friend" and got engaged literally within 4 months. (They are now married) it was really whirlwind for them. (I know this from a mutual associate)

Anyways, she'd still been liking and commenting on my BF's pics. Ok, now I know some ppl don't think that's a big deal BUT I'm a Leo & when I'm done I'm done.

Doesn't have to be hard feelings, but when I move past it it's over for me. I don't like or comment on anyone's pictures that I had a relationship with or that I had a casual sexual relationship with.

Part of me feels like when women do that with men they used to sleep with, they are trying to get their attention in some way, shape or form. It's pointless. You're married and he's in a relationship.



I'm not all too familiar with Aquarius behavior, but what do y'all think?

Honestly, I don't think she cares about your man or you. Maybe they got along well as friends, sex was good, good relationship but that's all.

the fact that an aqua would drive long distance may not be because of love, possibly just sex and fun. Also we don't like seeing guys in our circle so an hour away sounds good.

I still have some of my ex fwb's on fb and I'd like their pics, and their pics with their new girlfriends.

if she cared, she wouldn'thave him on social media at all or anywhere she would see him with you, and won't like the pics.

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Posted by JBG
Ok guys I need a little insight. I'll make this short. When I first started seeing my BF, he was also seeing another girl (unbeknownst to me) she's an Aqua, he's cancer, I'm Leo.

Their relationship was casual, they didn't go on dates or anything, she drove in from another state (an hour away) and they had sex, she usually left the next morning.

Her commitment to driving to him made me think she wanted something more serious than he wanted to offer her.(all speculation)

He made it exclusive with me and he stopped seeing her, she got into another relationship shortly thereafter to a "long time friend" and got engaged literally within 4 months. (They are now married) it was really whirlwind for them. (I know this from a mutual associate)

Anyways, she'd still been liking and commenting on my BF's pics. Ok, now I know some ppl don't think that's a big deal BUT I'm a Leo & when I'm done I'm done.

Doesn't have to be hard feelings, but when I move past it it's over for me. I don't like or comment on anyone's pictures that I had a relationship with or that I had a casual sexual relationship with.

Part of me feels like when women do that with men they used to sleep with, they are trying to get their attention in some way, shape or form. It's pointless. You're married and he's in a relationship.



I'm not all too familiar with Aquarius behavior, but what do y'all think?

Honestly, I don't think she cares about your man or you. Maybe they got along well as friends, sex was good, good relationship but that's all.

the fact that an aqua would drive long distance may not be because of love, possibly just sex and fun. Also we don't like seeing guys in our circle so an hour away sounds good.

I still have some of my ex fwb's on fb and I'd like their pics, and their pics with their new girlfriends.

if she cared, she wouldn'thave him on social media at all or anywhere she would see him with you, and won't like the pics.

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Posted by Capmercury87
Im with you OP.

I'm an Aquarius and I can't stand it when my exes comment or try to get a hold of me, or when my bfs exes constantly like his stuff. (Which hasn't happened in a while, they are mostly all psychopaths)

Its not jealousy its that I know why they are doing it, there is left over feelings and they need closure, I've seen people get married and still have their heart belong to another person which is stupid and naive.

The only reason I would like or comment on an exes pictures ECT is if I want their attention or miss him.

How does your cancer feel about all this?

I feel the same as you. I asked him if they were still friendly and let him know I was not comfortable with him Having a friendship with someone he so recently slept with, especially at the same time he was seeing me. If it was ancient history, id be less rattled.

He said they were not friends, he didn't communicate with her whatsoever and he doesn't not engage with her via social media. He said he's not sure why she was still trying to interact with him seeing as how she is now married with a newborn.

I believe him, so the only other conclusion I can come up with, was that maybe he didn't give her closure and she was still thinking about the whys and what ifs. Not to say she's obsessed, but knowing how a lot of men are (from experiencing this personally) he probably never gave an explanation as to what happened with them. He probably slowly stopped taking her calls and stopped calling her, the next thing she knows he's with another girl exclusively.

So IMO it's not uncommon to think about these things when you never got closure. Bc I doubt he gave her any.

It doesn't matter, I just like to know what motivates people to do what they do.

Posted by aquarius_man
but hey leo lady never underestimate the sexual chemistry between cancer and aquarius

my male best friend is cancer (very sensitive couldn,t end his relationship over 2 years even he was soooo unhappy but she has suffered too much) and i had a long crush on a cancer years ago - but i pulled off because he was in a relationship and wanted to break up his relationship. that was too much for me as i felt responsible for this step - he should have done this before and not use "us" as reason .

I am currently experience a wonderful but complicated thing with a cancer guy and the all over chemistry was perfect from the very beginning (i have just posted something about this in the cancer forum).

in your opinion: is this chemistry only on sexual basis?

and what makes you think or know that?

thanks 🙂

aqua girl

I'm an Aquarius girl . And the weird thing is I was seeing a cancer man. And he is now with a Leo girl. Anyways to answer your question. If she's acting normal with your cancer man in terms or liking or commenting on his pictures. She is clearly over him. U have nothing to worry about . If she was still angry she wouldn't talk to him or communicate with him in any way. Hope this helps ?

Posted by Krz
If she is married, she is more than done with your guy. She is just being friendly. That is all. You are exaggerating the situation in your mind, because you are being possessive of your guy. On another note, it was up to her to have a relationship with him. Trust me. If an Aquarius wants a guy, they get the guy one way or another. Especially a cancer guy. Cancer falls for an Aquarius 99% of the time. But she chose to keep it sex based. It was just a physical affair for her. Trust me, we can separate feelings from sex. An Aquarius woman can keep up with multiple guys at a time without falling for any of them. But once they marry they are done.

You are freaking delusional. There is absolutley no way you can draw this conclusion from the info given.

Saying this is essentially saying no matter what, an aqua girl ALWAYS gets the guy she wants. It works out that way for NO ONE 100% of the time.

Sometimes the chemistry just isn't there PERIOD.

Posted by Krz
If she is married, she is more than done with your guy. She is just being friendly. That is all. You are exaggerating the situation in your mind, because you are being possessive of your guy. On another note, it was up to her to have a relationship with him. Trust me. If an Aquarius wants a guy, they get the guy one way or another. Especially a cancer guy. Cancer falls for an Aquarius 99% of the time. But she chose to keep it sex based. It was just a physical affair for her. Trust me, we can separate feelings from sex. An Aquarius woman can keep up with multiple guys at a time without falling for any of them. But once they marry they are done.

I know you're team aqua but you're really off of the deep end. Every woman of every sign has been passed up for someone else Bc the chemistry wasn't there or it wasn't what the man wanted long term. Including myself.

Confidence is a must but girl you're cocky and crazy.

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Posted by Krz
If she is married, she is more than done with your guy. She is just being friendly. That is all. You are exaggerating the situation in your mind, because you are being possessive of your guy. On another note, it was up to her to have a relationship with him. Trust me. If an Aquarius wants a guy, they get the guy one way or another. Especially a cancer guy. Cancer falls for an Aquarius 99% of the time. But she chose to keep it sex based. It was just a physical affair for her. Trust me, we can separate feelings from sex. An Aquarius woman can keep up with multiple guys at a time without falling for any of them. But once they marry they are done.

I know you're team aqua but you're really off of the deep end. Every woman of every sign has been passed up for someone else Bc the chemistry wasn't there or it wasn't what the man wanted long term. Including myself.

Confidence is a must but girl you're cocky and crazy.

Why so mad!? Dont let your jealousy make yousee things that arent there. I know Leos tend to blow things way out of proportion whem it could be further from the truth.

And as dar as what Keazy said, its true. All the aquarius i know of always get the guy because its isually they who do mot wish too. Its a case of 8.9 out of 10 times. Me' 9.9 out of 10

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Both of you are delusional. He never took this girl out of his house.

I've also read text threads of her asking what happened between them & that she missed him. Doesn't sound like a woman who didn't want the guy, bottom like, she wasn't the one.

But that wasn't the question I asked you.

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I've also read text threads of her asking what happened between them & that she missed him. Doesn't sound like a woman who didn't want the guy, bottom like, she wasn't the one.

But that wasn't the question I asked you.

serious question,

isn't she blocked? why this thread then?

I get it, you want to know the why, you have had several aqua females answer that question yet you are arguing with everyone that has given you what you don't want to hear.

Do you want us to tell you" yes, she is after your man, she has unrequited love and can't stop thinking about him?"

sorry but that isn't what I see from what you have shared.

Relationships are a two way street. If it was truly an issue for your partner to speak with this woman, then he would end that relationship and cease contact. I believe the issue lies with you and your insecurity with this man. Not with this woman, who seems as though she has moved on.

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Posted by JBG
I've also read text threads of her asking what happened between them & that she missed him. Doesn't sound like a woman who didn't want the guy, bottom like, she wasn't the one.

But that wasn't the question I asked you.

You said "I'm not all too familiar with Aquarius behavior, but what do y'all think?" Based on the info you provided, that is exactly what I answered. What does a married Aquarius woman think of their exes? Nothing but friendship. Absolutely nothing.

But you are not looking for an answer here. You aren't trying to learn how Aqua thinks. You already made up your mind. You believe she is after your guy. Nothing is going to change your mind. So you are just looking for confirmation. You want us to tell you that she is a low life easy girl who goes after guys. You want us to insult her, belittle her, just so you can feel good about yourself. It is much easier to insult someone else instead of questioning your own motives and your boy friend. Why is he still in contact with her on social media? Why don't you ask him? It is not the girl who you don't trust, it is your guy. He is the one you should be questioning. But it is easier to insult the other woman, right?

You are looking for that petty confirmation on the wrong page. You should post it Cancer man's page and ask other people like you who are struggling with cancer man. Aquarius give objective advise.

You started a relationship with a guy who was sleeping with another woman. Right from the start, it makes you look desperate. I would never ever do that. Never. And you still sound desperate with your whining about the other girl. She moved on. She got married.

Look. You love this guy and you are being possessive. Your emotions are blinding your judgement. Ask your guy what he really thinks about the situation. Do it. Be honest with him. Cancers love that. Aquarius doesn't get stuck in the past. Cancer does. Did you know that there is no such thing as "just sleeping together" for a cancer? They care about the woman even if it is for one night. Any cancer man will confirm it for you in cancer page.

So go ahead and fix it with your guy. This situation is about you and your bf, not about that other girl. Or just accept that some people stay in touch with their exes.

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You telling me that it was he who wanted her and not the other way around is essentially answering a question I didn't ask you.

If you'd said "I think she's just being friendly nothing more" I wouldn't have disagreed Bc idk, that's why I'm here.

I didn't know what would be said, so I didn't expect certain answers. I'm aggravated by your grand delusions of these women always getting what they want and when.

IMO a woman who's "willing to go the distance" and wait it out for a man is the same amount of desperate you called me.