Aqua guy acting like he hates me ? (Page 2)

Posted by Scartooth11
Sounds in a way you may have dodged a bullet.
N don't let me get to ya lisabethur.
Not sure if OP is needing closure...but no need to waste energy on someone who doesn't waste theirs on you. What everyone else says doesn't always matter if you are asking the same circle. But if you did find things you liked about him, at least you got experience with that.
Forgive me if I missed it, but was the original idea a fling, relationship or just let things go as it plays out?

Honestly the original thing was a FWB type of thing. Yes I do need closure. Without an honest explanation from him, I'm always going to be asking why this and why that. Yes I did find things I liked about him. I guess what other people say doesn't matter, but I feel like it has some significance if it's always negative.

Well, no sense trying to make sense of the negative. Take the positives and don't take it as a loss. At least you have a taste of the good from it... Just add that to your next ingredient until the cocktail tastes to your liking.
He def. had some explaining to do to just drop things like a dime.

in one of the threads "what signs Aqua is interested", somebody answered when he acts as if he hates you.

I don't know if that answer was sarcastic. But this is what happened between me and an Aqua boy. And I know him actually from real life. He contacted me months after he wanted to call me (but he didn't call me). And when he contacted me...

I asked myself what to do.
Cause they say Aquas should be caught by Cancers. And definitly not by Sags.
So I asked myself what to do.
And I told myself, "I'm too old for this sh1t".

I've already paid my dues to the venusian, feminine, submissive, self-hurting parts of my character. I have no bits of enthusiasm left for a man currently. Aqua, Scorp whatever. This may change but for now...

Posted by DwellingOnMove
in one of the threads "what signs Aqua is interested", somebody answered when he acts as if he hates you.

I don't know if that answer was sarcastic. But this is what happened between me and an Aqua boy. And I know him actually from real life. He contacted me months after he wanted to call me (but he didn't call me). And when he contacted me...

I asked myself what to do.
Cause they say Aquas should be caught by Cancers. And definitly not by Sags.
So I asked myself what to do.
And I told myself, "I'm too old for this sh1t".

I've already paid my dues to the venusian, feminine, submissive, self-hurting parts of my character. I have no bits of enthusiasm left for a man currently. Aqua, Scorp whatever. This may change but for now...

I don't understand the answer/poem lol

Posted by magma
I think it's a very safe bet that in no explanation/no closure/"enforced estrangement" situations, regardless of the Sun sign involved, you wouldn't like the truth if you knew it, at all. The other person of course knows this and is sparing themselves the faux pas. Attraction doesn't necessarily equal relationship, it more likely leads to sex, which really should go without saying. He got sex, that is probably all he wanted from you, and he may come back if he decides he wants more. You probably didn't do a single thing wrong except having expectations that mismatched his.

Well I wasn't asking for a relationship nor did I expect one. His actions are just uncalled for, and there is nothing that I did that could've caused it. Not sure why he would add me in the first place, I am the one that sent it, but I still think that deleting/blocking someone is the cause of something bigger.

I felt comfortable to add him because all I got were positive vibes. Had I not felt that way I wouldn't have bothered.

Sometimes you just have to make closure happen yourself. Dont expect anything from him..just move on and find a dude that is stable.

Posted by flowingwater
When an aqua is done with you, that's it, done.

Not even the storms can change his mind unless he wants too but from what I've seen... Aries are known to be annoying for Aquas at times.

And at what point was I annoying? Have you ready any of what I've written? lol

Posted by magma
"we are both attracted to each other"

"When I genuinely don't care about someone, or something I leave it alone because it doesn't phase me"

"For some strange reason I feel connected to him."

"I've hooked up and gotten over guys quickly, but this has been sticking with me ever since February"

All righty then, somehow I got the wrong impression, maybe he did too.

And what impression is that?

I feel like although I've been pretty clear in explaining the entire thing, people in this forum draw their own conclusions based on assumptions or preconceived notions and those aren't the opinions I want lol

Posted by lisabethur8
let's just say..... an aquarius man with a virgo moon—


hooooo boyyyyy!!! 😄 😄 you need some SMARTS on you to get this one.

That's what my man has. 🙂

Posted by ariesgirl5673

Posted by Scartooth11
Sounds in a way you may have dodged a bullet.
N don't let me get to ya lisabethur.
Not sure if OP is needing closure...but no need to waste energy on someone who doesn't waste theirs on you. What everyone else says doesn't always matter if you are asking the same circle. But if you did find things you liked about him, at least you got experience with that.
Forgive me if I missed it, but was the original idea a fling, relationship or just let things go as it plays out?

Honestly the original thing was a FWB type of thing. Yes I do need closure. Without an honest explanation from him, I'm always going to be asking why this and why that. Yes I did find things I liked about him. I guess what other people say doesn't matter, but I feel like it has some significance if it's always negative.

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FWB is a no strings relationship. Those types of arrangements have an expiration date, usually when one party finds someone they are willing to invest in. So, since it's no strings, I don't think they really owe you an explanation of why it's over. Getting closure is on you since you accepted the arrangement as presented.

Sorry if that sounds rude, but it is what it is.

Posted by truecap

Posted by ariesgirl5673

Posted by Scartooth11
Sounds in a way you may have dodged a bullet.
N don't let me get to ya lisabethur.
Not sure if OP is needing closure...but no need to waste energy on someone who doesn't waste theirs on you. What everyone else says doesn't always matter if you are asking the same circle. But if you did find things you liked about him, at least you got experience with that.
Forgive me if I missed it, but was the original idea a fling, relationship or just let things go as it plays out?

Honestly the original thing was a FWB type of thing. Yes I do need closure. Without an honest explanation from him, I'm always going to be asking why this and why that. Yes I did find things I liked about him. I guess what other people say doesn't matter, but I feel like it has some significance if it's always negative.

FWB is a no strings relationship. Those types of arrangements have an expiration date, usually when one party finds someone they are willing to invest in. So, since it's no strings, I don't think they really owe you an explanation of why it's over. Getting closure is on you since you accepted the arrangement as presented.

Sorry if that sounds rude, but it is what it is.

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Ok great thanks

Well I am here to tell you all that the Aqua guy has contacted me this week, asking me how I've been and everything.

So what do I make of that.

Clearly he hasn't moved on despite his actions.

I told him he was strange for behaving the way he has, and he threatened to block me again. he said "Don't make me block you again".

I still don't know why I was blocked in the first place. To my knowledge thinks were just FINE.

Just an update.

I am also aware that Mercury is in retrograde, so I am hoping that the truth will come to the light.