Aqua Sun, Pisces Moon, Cap Venus in love?

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So, a few days ago I had a first date with Aqua I've been talking to for a five months.

He's Aqua Sun, Pisces Moon, Cap Mercury, Cap Venus and Scorpio Mars.

In public he was rather calm, though talkative and funny, but I could tell he was shy.

When we were watching movie though, he was super cuddly, teasing and we had great chemistry.

I just want to ask (esp. Aquas with similar placements), how are you behaving, when crushing/in love?
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I only know that sun venus combo and he behaved very similar to what you are describing. Talking care of you and doing things for you is a big thing of how they show it too.
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I imagine the water placements in yours will make him warmer and sweeter.

I think he has really nice placements 😄 Enjoy it!
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I only know that sun venus combo and he behaved very similar to what you are describing. Talking care of you and doing things for you is a big thing of how they show it too.


Thank you for input click to expand
I imagine the water placements in yours will make him warmer and sweeter.
I think he has really nice placements 😄 Enjoy it! click to expand
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I've never met anyone with similar placements, usually I was into Taurus moon/venus, Geminis, or water venuses and Scorpio moons. His combination makes him super sweet ^.^
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I only know that sun venus combo and he behaved very similar to what you are describing. Talking care of you and doing things for you is a big thing of how they show it too.


Thank you for input click to expand


I imagine the water placements in yours will make him warmer and sweeter.
I think he has really nice placements 😄 Enjoy it! click to expand

I've never met anyone with similar placements, usually I was into Taurus moon/venus, Geminis, or water venuses and Scorpio moons. His combination makes him super sweet ^.^ click to expand
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I have always found aquarius men to be super sweet and loving. And if they have water placements even more 😄

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So, a few days ago I had a first date with Aqua I've been talking to for a five months.
He's Aqua Sun, Pisces Moon, Cap Mercury, Cap Venus and Scorpio Mars.
In public he was rather calm, though talkative and funny, but I could tell he was shy.
When we were watching movie though, he was super cuddly, teasing and we had great chemistry.
I just want to ask (esp. Aquas with similar placements), how are you behaving, when crushing/in love?
those are nice placements on a man. i like that he has water too.

aqua and capricorn are harsh in reality ...but when they have water, it makes them sweeter and more sensitive.

it sounds wonderful what u two have... the cuddling and being together.

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I only know that sun venus combo and he behaved very similar to what you are describing. Talking care of you and doing things for you is a big thing of how they show it too.


Thank you for input click to expand


I imagine the water placements in yours will make him warmer and sweeter.
I think he has really nice placements 😄 Enjoy it! click to expand



I've never met anyone with similar placements, usually I was into Taurus moon/venus, Geminis, or water venuses and Scorpio moons. His combination makes him super sweet ^.^ click to expand
I have always found aquarius men to be super sweet and loving. And if they have water placements even more 😄

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I only know that sun venus combo and he behaved very similar to what you are describing. Talking care of you and doing things for you is a big thing of how they show it too.


Thank you for input click to expand


I imagine the water placements in yours will make him warmer and sweeter.
I think he has really nice placements 😄 Enjoy it! click to expand



I've never met anyone with similar placements, usually I was into Taurus moon/venus, Geminis, or water venuses and Scorpio moons. His combination makes him super sweet ^.^ click to expand


I have always found aquarius men to be super sweet and loving. And if they have water placements even more 😄

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You proved me right 😍😘
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I only know that sun venus combo and he behaved very similar to what you are describing. Talking care of you and doing things for you is a big thing of how they show it too.


Thank you for input click to expand


I imagine the water placements in yours will make him warmer and sweeter.
I think he has really nice placements 😄 Enjoy it! click to expand



I've never met anyone with similar placements, usually I was into Taurus moon/venus, Geminis, or water venuses and Scorpio moons. His combination makes him super sweet ^.^ click to expand


I have always found aquarius men to be super sweet and loving. And if they have water placements even more 😄

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You proved me right 😍😘 click to expand
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You're always right. It's scary 😍😘
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I only know that sun venus combo and he behaved very similar to what you are describing. Talking care of you and doing things for you is a big thing of how they show it too.


Thank you for input click to expand


I imagine the water placements in yours will make him warmer and sweeter.
I think he has really nice placements 😄 Enjoy it! click to expand



I've never met anyone with similar placements, usually I was into Taurus moon/venus, Geminis, or water venuses and Scorpio moons. His combination makes him super sweet ^.^ click to expand


I have always found aquarius men to be super sweet and loving. And if they have water placements even more 😄

click to expand



😍😘 click to expand


You proved me right 😍😘 click to expand

You're always right. It's scary 😍😘 click to expand
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😄 I hope it is not too scary 😜😘
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I almost have the same placement as him,im a scorp moon and my mars is in taurus.you will be pleased how he will show you that he likes you if you show him and make sure he knows that you like him 100% he wont hesitate to go full romance but if there is doubt in his mind even just a little you will see how reserved and constricted he is,he will go with the pros and cons of having a relationship with you,oh and he will be so awkward with you if he likes you even if hes funny he wont be able to show it as being a venus in cap we want to show how mature and a big catch we are to the person of our affection
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I almost have the same placement as him,im a scorp moon and my mars is in taurus.you will be pleased how he will show you that he likes you if you show him and make sure he knows that you like him 100% he wont hesitate to go full romance but if there is doubt in his mind even just a little you will see how reserved and constricted he is,he will go with the pros and cons of having a relationship with you,oh and he will be so awkward with you if he likes you even if hes funny he wont be able to show it as being a venus in cap we want to show how mature and a big catch we are to the person of our affection
Yeah, he was a little awkward and was bragging too - oh, my place is in such a great area, we have so much in common (that's actually true) etc. He already has shown a little of his funny side, I guess that's good 😉

I'm probably more awkward than him, Cap Sun, Scorp Rising & Moon xD
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So, a few days ago I had a first date with Aqua I've been talking to for a five months.
He's Aqua Sun, Pisces Moon, Cap Mercury, Cap Venus and Scorpio Mars.
In public he was rather calm, though talkative and funny, but I could tell he was shy.
When we were watching movie though, he was super cuddly, teasing and we had great chemistry.
I just want to ask (esp. Aquas with similar placements), how are you behaving, when crushing/in love?
Probably never crushing. Sounds odd but this is coming from more of that lovey dovey placement. I think talking for 5 months prior is a pretty telling sign already that you've managed to keep his attention. There has to be SOME aspect of you that he really adores. Maybe it's just our way of showing affection but touching is a good sign. I remember going on a date without knowing much prior and didn't even leave that with a hug because I just didn't know her that well. Also might just be me but I'm much more reserved in public settings than I am in more intimate settings.

Perhaps it's also our way of gauging, like how you respond to touch and the interaction and nuances when we speak or joke and how you take it. *shrugs* I suppose we're super perceptive in those details.

What I can say is I'm willing to put in a lot of effort in those early stages so probably expect a lot more of the same. What he's probably looking for is something similar, some sort of affirmation that what he's feeling and experiencing is the same as yours.

Though same could probably be said in a general sense for aquas. Not only from personal experience but also a lot of people talking about Aquas on here. I just don't really view it as a crush or love it's more like we behave a certain way because we are interested in what you're about so we bring that part out of you to observe it.
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So, a few days ago I had a first date with Aqua I've been talking to for a five months.
He's Aqua Sun, Pisces Moon, Cap Mercury, Cap Venus and Scorpio Mars.
In public he was rather calm, though talkative and funny, but I could tell he was shy.
When we were watching movie though, he was super cuddly, teasing and we had great chemistry.
I just want to ask (esp. Aquas with similar placements), how are you behaving, when crushing/in love?



Probably never crushing. Sounds odd but this is coming from more of that lovey dovey placement. I think talking for 5 months prior is a pretty telling sign already that you've managed to keep his attention. There has to be SOME aspect of you that he really adores. Maybe it's just our way of showing affection but touching is a good sign. I remember going on a date without knowing much prior and didn't even leave that with a hug because I just didn't know her that well. Also might just be me but I'm much more reserved in public settings than I am in more intimate settings.

Perhaps it's also our way of gauging, like how you respond to touch and the interaction and nuances when we speak or joke and how you take it. *shrugs* I suppose we're super perceptive in those details.

What I can say is I'm willing to put in a lot of effort in those early stages so probably expect a lot more of the same. What he's probably looking for is something similar, some sort of affirmation that what he's feeling and experiencing is the same as yours.

Though same could probably be said in a general sense for aquas. Not only from personal experience but also a lot of people talking about Aquas on here. I just don't really view it as a crush or love it's more like we behave a certain way because we are interested in what you're about so we bring that part out of you to observe it. click to expandclick to expand
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So, a few days ago I had a first date with Aqua I've been talking to for a five months.
He's Aqua Sun, Pisces Moon, Cap Mercury, Cap Venus and Scorpio Mars.
In public he was rather calm, though talkative and funny, but I could tell he was shy.
When we were watching movie though, he was super cuddly, teasing and we had great chemistry.
I just want to ask (esp. Aquas with similar placements), how are you behaving, when crushing/in love?

Probably never crushing. Sounds odd but this is coming from more of that lovey dovey placement. I think talking for 5 months prior is a pretty telling sign already that you've managed to keep his attention. There has to be SOME aspect of you that he really adores. Maybe it's just our way of showing affection but touching is a good sign. I remember going on a date without knowing much prior and didn't even leave that with a hug because I just didn't know her that well. Also might just be me but I'm much more reserved in public settings than I am in more intimate settings.

Perhaps it's also our way of gauging, like how you respond to touch and the interaction and nuances when we speak or joke and how you take it. *shrugs* I suppose we're super perceptive in those details.

What I can say is I'm willing to put in a lot of effort in those early stages so probably expect a lot more of the same. What he's probably looking for is something similar, some sort of affirmation that what he's feeling and experiencing is the same as yours.

I just don't really view it as a crush or love it's more like we behave a certain way because we are interested in what you're about so we bring that part out of you to observe it. click to expand
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“I just don't really view it as a crush or love it's more like we behave a certain way because we are interested in what you're about so we bring that part out of you to observe it”



I find this very intriguing. Can you explain it a bit more?
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So, a few days ago I had a first date with Aqua I've been talking to for a five months.
He's Aqua Sun, Pisces Moon, Cap Mercury, Cap Venus and Scorpio Mars.
In public he was rather calm, though talkative and funny, but I could tell he was shy.
When we were watching movie though, he was super cuddly, teasing and we had great chemistry.
I just want to ask (esp. Aquas with similar placements), how are you behaving, when crushing/in love?



Probably never crushing. Sounds odd but this is coming from more of that lovey dovey placement. I think talking for 5 months prior is a pretty telling sign already that you've managed to keep his attention. There has to be SOME aspect of you that he really adores. Maybe it's just our way of showing affection but touching is a good sign. I remember going on a date without knowing much prior and didn't even leave that with a hug because I just didn't know her that well. Also might just be me but I'm much more reserved in public settings than I am in more intimate settings.

Perhaps it's also our way of gauging, like how you respond to touch and the interaction and nuances when we speak or joke and how you take it. *shrugs* I suppose we're super perceptive in those details.

What I can say is I'm willing to put in a lot of effort in those early stages so probably expect a lot more of the same. What he's probably looking for is something similar, some sort of affirmation that what he's feeling and experiencing is the same as yours.

I just don't really view it as a crush or love it's more like we behave a certain way because we are interested in what you're about so we bring that part out of you to observe it. click to expand
“I just don't really view it as a crush or love it's more like we behave a certain way because we are interested in what you're about so we bring that part out of you to observe it”


I find this very intriguing. Can you explain it a bit more? click to expand
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I mean no disrespect when I say that I'm not sure what explanation you're looking for because depending on which part you may get a pretty disappointing answer.
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I'm Cap Mercury- woman of few words, and only speak if there's a purpose behind what I'm saying. Quiet


I'm Cap Mercury too, but for me it's more like I talk to people if I find them meaningful in some way. I can rumble though click to expandclick to expand
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Yeah, I'm the same. But, I have to be really comfortable around them. Which is rare for me..
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I almost have the same placement as him,im a scorp moon and my mars is in taurus.you will be pleased how he will show you that he likes you if you show him and make sure he knows that you like him 100% he wont hesitate to go full romance but if there is doubt in his mind even just a little you will see how reserved and constricted he is,he will go with the pros and cons of having a relationship with you,oh and he will be so awkward with you if he likes you even if hes funny he wont be able to show it as being a venus in cap we want to show how mature and a big catch we are to the person of our affection

Yeah, he was a little awkward and was bragging too - oh, my place is in such a great area, we have so much in common (that's actually true) etc. He already has shown a little of his funny side, I guess that's good
I'm probably more awkward than him, Cap Sun, Scorp Rising & Moon xD click to expand
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i cant even show my fun side to the apple of my eye im hopeless😂,she was laughing her ass off at the corner while watching me for a month thats how i got her attention but then when she made her move im just staring at her like a dork😄,you have his attention thats good keep it up,just be yourself
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I almost have the same placement as him,im a scorp moon and my mars is in taurus.you will be pleased how he will show you that he likes you if you show him and make sure he knows that you like him 100% he wont hesitate to go full romance but if there is doubt in his mind even just a little you will see how reserved and constricted he is,he will go with the pros and cons of having a relationship with you,oh and he will be so awkward with you if he likes you even if hes funny he wont be able to show it as being a venus in cap we want to show how mature and a big catch we are to the person of our affection



Yeah, he was a little awkward and was bragging too - oh, my place is in such a great area, we have so much in common (that's actually true) etc. He already has shown a little of his funny side, I guess that's good
I'm probably more awkward than him, Cap Sun, Scorp Rising & Moon xD click to expand

i cant even show my fun side to the apple of my eye im hopeless😂,she was laughing her ass off at the corner while watching me for a month thats how i got her attention but then when she made her move im just staring at her like a dork😄,you have his attention thats good keep it up,just be yourself click to expand
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Hahaha, you're so adorable 😄

He added me on Facebook even though when we met last on Thursday in his place, he was like "My window is still broken after your visit xD" and I almost broke his toilet seat. We're making some plans (mostly what we want to do sexually), but we also keep each other up with events in our lives, at least major ones.

Weirdly enough, I just want to see how this relationship develops, instead of thinking "I want him to be his boyfriend" etc. 🙂
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So, a few days ago I had a first date with Aqua I've been talking to for a five months.
He's Aqua Sun, Pisces Moon, Cap Mercury, Cap Venus and Scorpio Mars.
In public he was rather calm, though talkative and funny, but I could tell he was shy.
When we were watching movie though, he was super cuddly, teasing and we had great chemistry.
I just want to ask (esp. Aquas with similar placements), how are you behaving, when crushing/in love?



Probably never crushing. Sounds odd but this is coming from more of that lovey dovey placement. I think talking for 5 months prior is a pretty telling sign already that you've managed to keep his attention. There has to be SOME aspect of you that he really adores. Maybe it's just our way of showing affection but touching is a good sign. I remember going on a date without knowing much prior and didn't even leave that with a hug because I just didn't know her that well. Also might just be me but I'm much more reserved in public settings than I am in more intimate settings.

Perhaps it's also our way of gauging, like how you respond to touch and the interaction and nuances when we speak or joke and how you take it. *shrugs* I suppose we're super perceptive in those details.

What I can say is I'm willing to put in a lot of effort in those early stages so probably expect a lot more of the same. What he's probably looking for is something similar, some sort of affirmation that what he's feeling and experiencing is the same as yours.

I just don't really view it as a crush or love it's more like we behave a certain way because we are interested in what you're about so we bring that part out of you to observe it. click to expand


“I just don't really view it as a crush or love it's more like we behave a certain way because we are interested in what you're about so we bring that part out of you to observe it”


I find this very intriguing. Can you explain it a bit more? click to expand

I mean no disrespect when I say that I'm not sure what explanation you're looking for because depending on which part you may get a pretty disappointing answer. click to expand
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2 things 🙂

The not seeing as a crush/love. What then?

Bringing that part out. What do you mean by that?
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So, a few days ago I had a first date with Aqua I've been talking to for a five months.
He's Aqua Sun, Pisces Moon, Cap Mercury, Cap Venus and Scorpio Mars.
In public he was rather calm, though talkative and funny, but I could tell he was shy.
When we were watching movie though, he was super cuddly, teasing and we had great chemistry.
I just want to ask (esp. Aquas with similar placements), how are you behaving, when crushing/in love?



Probably never crushing. Sounds odd but this is coming from more of that lovey dovey placement. I think talking for 5 months prior is a pretty telling sign already that you've managed to keep his attention. There has to be SOME aspect of you that he really adores. Maybe it's just our way of showing affection but touching is a good sign. I remember going on a date without knowing much prior and didn't even leave that with a hug because I just didn't know her that well. Also might just be me but I'm much more reserved in public settings than I am in more intimate settings.

Perhaps it's also our way of gauging, like how you respond to touch and the interaction and nuances when we speak or joke and how you take it. *shrugs* I suppose we're super perceptive in those details.

What I can say is I'm willing to put in a lot of effort in those early stages so probably expect a lot more of the same. What he's probably looking for is something similar, some sort of affirmation that what he's feeling and experiencing is the same as yours.

I just don't really view it as a crush or love it's more like we behave a certain way because we are interested in what you're about so we bring that part out of you to observe it. click to expand


“I just don't really view it as a crush or love it's more like we behave a certain way because we are interested in what you're about so we bring that part out of you to observe it”


I find this very intriguing. Can you explain it a bit more? click to expand



I mean no disrespect when I say that I'm not sure what explanation you're looking for because depending on which part you may get a pretty disappointing answer. click to expand
2 things

The not seeing as a crush/love. What then?

Bringing that part out. What do you mean by that?
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Thanks for clarifying!

1. For me crushes I never act on since it's pretty surface level and as for love I think that's something you make your mind up about when you're ready to spend the rest of your life with them which is why I don't think it applied to the OP (this is coming from pisces venus/mars but cap merc) so even if I champion the idea of love it's not what how I view it.

What the OP describes is when I feel enchanted by someone. Whatever it is that draws me to them would warrant me to dig a bit deeper and honestly I can't find any suitable words apart from 'finding them interesting' and it's very different to wanting them in bed. You can generally tell that by any guy's line of questioning anyway.

2. This is the part where I don't feel like you'll like my answer. OP's aqua has a cap venus so I'm going to give him the credit of being much more grounded than I am and probably far more tactical and methodical than me. It could be a certain behaviour and I feel like when you form a question around what you find out from multiple angles through whatever form of verbal communication: jokes, conversations, discussions; you can easily start to piece together how they think and in part if they're receptive to something more private it sort of tells you how much they are willing to share.

I don't really subscribe to the whole pisces empathic powers but I do feel it's easy to read into others and how genuine they when holding a conversation but talking and working people out has been a part of my job for a long time now. I'm sure we all do it at some level but not all dissect it as much as aquas do perhaps. By logic and deduction through observation, interaction and probably a period of time you can form a pretty clear picture of whether you were right about them or not. If were to label it I'd say it's a form of manipulation. It's never anything nefarious and for example sake I could be interested in someone's particular views and I'd challenge it but not in a clashing sense, if it's a girl that's always a certain way I'd invite them to an enviroment where she can't do that. Taking them out of their comfort zone so to speak.

I find it's a lot easier to read into a version of them that you think exists but what I'm doing is to test really if they're compatible with me. It's not all just about them of course they can do whatever they want with me as well, after all this mutual exploration is what's going to solidify the relationship.

I guess to finish off the observation part, it really can be anything. The way you treat others, the way you eat, your hobbies, you interests, relationship with others, the list can go on and I just sort of use the same rules to gauge their interest in me as well.
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So, a few days ago I had a first date with Aqua I've been talking to for a five months.
He's Aqua Sun, Pisces Moon, Cap Mercury, Cap Venus and Scorpio Mars.
In public he was rather calm, though talkative and funny, but I could tell he was shy.
When we were watching movie though, he was super cuddly, teasing and we had great chemistry.
I just want to ask (esp. Aquas with similar placements), how are you behaving, when crushing/in love?



Probably never crushing. Sounds odd but this is coming from more of that lovey dovey placement. I think talking for 5 months prior is a pretty telling sign already that you've managed to keep his attention. There has to be SOME aspect of you that he really adores. Maybe it's just our way of showing affection but touching is a good sign. I remember going on a date without knowing much prior and didn't even leave that with a hug because I just didn't know her that well. Also might just be me but I'm much more reserved in public settings than I am in more intimate settings.

Perhaps it's also our way of gauging, like how you respond to touch and the interaction and nuances when we speak or joke and how you take it. *shrugs* I suppose we're super perceptive in those details.

What I can say is I'm willing to put in a lot of effort in those early stages so probably expect a lot more of the same. What he's probably looking for is something similar, some sort of affirmation that what he's feeling and experiencing is the same as yours.

I just don't really view it as a crush or love it's more like we behave a certain way because we are interested in what you're about so we bring that part out of you to observe it. click to expand


“I just don't really view it as a crush or love it's more like we behave a certain way because we are interested in what you're about so we bring that part out of you to observe it”


I find this very intriguing. Can you explain it a bit more? click to expand



I mean no disrespect when I say that I'm not sure what explanation you're looking for because depending on which part you may get a pretty disappointing answer. click to expand


2 things

The not seeing as a crush/love. What then?

Bringing that part out. What do you mean by that?
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Thanks for clarifying!

1. For me crushes I never act on since it's pretty surface level and as for love I think that's something you make your mind up about when you're ready to spend the rest of your life with them which is why I don't think it applied to the OP (this is coming from pisces venus/mars but cap merc) so even if I champion the idea of love it's not what how I view it.

What the OP describes is when I feel enchanted by someone. Whatever it is that draws me to them would warrant me to dig a bit deeper and honestly I can't find any suitable words apart from 'finding them interesting' and it's very different to wanting them in bed. You can generally tell that by any guy's line of questioning anyway.

2. This is the part where I don't feel like you'll like my answer. OP's aqua has a cap venus so I'm going to give him the credit of being much more grounded than I am and probably far more tactical and methodical than me. It could be a certain behaviour and I feel like when you form a question around what you find out from multiple angles through whatever form of verbal communication: jokes, conversations, discussions; you can easily start to piece together how they think and in part if they're receptive to something more private it sort of tells you how much they are willing to share.

I don't really subscribe to the whole pisces empathic powers but I do feel it's easy to read into others and how genuine they when holding a conversation but talking and working people out has been a part of my job for a long time now. I'm sure we all do it at some level but not all dissect it as much as aquas do perhaps. By logic and deduction through observation, interaction and probably a period of time you can form a pretty clear picture of whether you were right about them or not. If were to label it I'd say it's a form of manipulation. It's never anything nefarious and for example sake I could be interested in someone's particular views and I'd challenge it but not in a clashing sense, if it's a girl that's always a certain way I'd invite them to an enviroment where she can't do that. Taking them out of their comfort zone so to speak.

I find it's a lot easier to read into a version of them that you think exists but what I'm doing is to test really if they're compatible with me. It's not all just about them of course they can do whatever they want with me as well, after all this mutual exploration is what's going to solidify the relationship.

I guess to finish off the observation part, it really can be anything. The way you treat others, the way you eat, your hobbies, you interests, relationship with others, the list can go on and I just sort of use the same rules to gauge their interest in me as well. click to expand
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Thank you so much for explaining it so well🙂