AQUARIANS: What makes you fall?

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by ladyscorpio91 on Tuesday, February 3, 2015 and has 9 replies.

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@ladyscorpio91
11 YearsScorpio

Think back to a person that just STRUCK you instantly! What was it about them or what did they do? What makes you happy and what makes you just totally fall in love with the opposite sex?

My aquarius man and I are slipping away from one another, we are so different but I really care about him.

Sad scorpio 😢

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@NotYourAverageAquarius
13 Years5,000+ PostsAquarius

I'd say being your unique self and not trying to change who you are has far better chances.

Either, you have lost your own individuality trying to please and keep this man...
OR
He is just a douche? Anyone that into me would be someone I wouldn't typically want to part ways with.

Anyhow,
I love people who
- I can totally be me around
- I don't have to constantly entertain them for them to be happy.
- make me feel needed.
- appreciate me for what 'I do' and don't constantly focus on the next thing 'I don't do'.

This is all so very general though....

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@VanillaShake
11 Years

My aqua found something in me before I even knew he existed and sought me out hard thru a mutual friend.... he gets super excited when I am around him he pretty much announces my presence as soon as a friend comes over and has no problem with public displays of affection with me which I hadn't really experienced before ....... HEY BUDDY!!!! LOOK WHO"S HERE! IT"S SHAKE! he will announce as I am sitting with him on his couch.... haha it's funny and cute. It actually took me a couple weeks to completely fall for him... where he fell instantly.... it took me longer because we spent the beginning of our relationship building up a friendship and trust. The bedroom stuff only happened when he finally felt he was ready and as they say this is how we express our love and truly get into someone's soul. I thought it very honorable especially since I was the first woman since his 13 year marriage that ended a little over a year ago. So yeah just be yourself... if it doesn't click then it's not meant to be.....

more fish in the sea they say.... and us scorpios are never short of fish..... just got to be discriminating on who we pick out of that sea.

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@FreeAquarian
11 Years

I fall in lust quite easily, which I'm going to assume comes from my Aries Venus
but it easily took me a year to realize I loved a Capricorn. Still kinda do but I know there's nothing
there for either of us. I loved how I could always count on him to be where I left him, without taking
any of it personal. He was very understanding and forgiving, such I appreciated. I on the other hand lacked that
which I fell for.

Now my Leo, he told me no, and that was all she wrote. He knew how to communicate
and tell me his dreams and goals without being embarrassed. Very forceful and I loved it.
He was all man to me..

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@thisiscrap2
11 Years

Well i failed at that already.

But what do you do when the aqua although selfless isn't "evolved" and doesn't comprimise and communicate well not do to being stubborn or selfish...but because of lacking experience and etc.

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@thisiscrap2
11 Years

Posted by AquaMermaid
Nothing can be done about those Aquarians.You have to be straightforward with them.Stop trying to read his mind through your friends and communicate on one on one level.But yelling at him will push him further away.

Too late. I've messed up there too.

😐

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@AquaNextDoor
11 Years1,000+ PostsAquarius

Posted by flowingwater
My scorp made me fall hard... Felt like I got slapped by Cupid..

I don't know what is was, it's was just him.
His knowledge, wisdom, cleverness, being able to hold intellectual convos, his dark humor, his feel... His adorable face even when he's mad, his goofiness, and how at times we just synch perfectly like darkness and light.
His love, compassion, honesty, and the good heart that he hides from others... I see it all. I can see his strength and weaknesses or how he subtlety tries to impress me but thinks I don't notice but I do... It's sweet.

100 points. That is what I see in that leo I crave so much lol personality & soul