Aqua hot and cold WHY!

It seems like most aquas I know do this. They come and go, they're hot and cold.

I have Aqua in the 8th house and I'm curious if anyone can give me some insight into how that would effect my relationships with Aquas.

Thanks 🙂

That's what I'm learning and hoping to know more : )

Yeah, I do that. It’s done for multiple reasons.

1. Diverse interest/distraction. I can’t seem to keep my focus on one person. I can get distracted by other things or people that require my attention.

2. Moods. I can feel a lot of love for someone one day and not feel so close couple days later. I live in my head. I don’t feel obliged to show love to people all the time.

Posted by aquarius09
Yeah, I do that. It’s done for a multiple reasons.

1. Diverse interest/distraction. I can’t seem to keep my focus on one person. I can get distracted by other things or people that require my attention.

2. Moods. I can feel a lot of love for someone one day and not feel so close couple days later. I live in my ahead. I don’t feel obliged to show love to people all the time.

That sounds exactly like the person I'm talking about. What if you really like someone and then you keep dissapearing and its always hot and cold. Why? Just wondering in general. Some days things are amazing the next day..... Bye Aqua lol. See you in a week when you wanna talk again lol

we get distracted easily and like to do a lot of things at once. also moody and dont like to show ourselves that much. think of it as someone who does not want to wear out their welcome but in your life lol

moody

which I like, because im the same.. if they dont feel like it they arent doing it. sincere hot and cold cookiemonsters.

actually, theyre just assholes so am i 🤷‍♀️

What's your sign? What type of relationship is it? Is the person a male or female?

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Posted by aquarius09
Yeah, I do that. It’s done for a multiple reasons.

1. Diverse interest/distraction. I can’t seem to keep my focus on one person. I can get distracted by other things or people that require my attention.

2. Moods. I can feel a lot of love for someone one day and not feel so close couple days later. I live in my ahead. I don’t feel obliged to show love to people all the time.

That sounds exactly like the person I'm talking about. What if you really like someone and then you keep dissapearing and its always hot and cold. Why? Just wondering in general. Some days things are amazing the next day..... Bye Aqua lol. See you in a week when you wanna talk again lol

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This sort of non-chalant and inconsistent behaviour comes across as disinterest. Most people show interest by being all over the person they like and being present. In the beginning stages of a courtship, Aquas don’t really give a shit about their love interest because we are not attached nor in love. Emotion based signs like water and fire are passionate and feel very strongly about crushes. They are the people who will even refer to a one sided crush as the love of their life. Aquas just cringe at that. It’s like if I don’t even know you or am friends with you, then I’m not in love with you. We can come off as dismissive and uncompromising in the beginning of a courtship because we don’t feel strongly as most people do about crushes/new love interest. As a result, I prioritize all things in my life equally. I’m not one to drop things just because I like someone. So if I have a plan with mg friend and my new love interest wants to do something on the same day. Well, too bad. Wait your turn and schedule accordingly. Nobody is dropping anything for you.

One time I gave this water dude a chance, I don’t know what the hell I was thinking, but he played the stereotypical games they play to verify if the woman likes them too or as much as they do. He wanted me to chase him and I didn’t. Eventually he came clean and I remember saying this one line to him before dropping him, “I don’t know you. I’m not in love with you. What makes you think you’re important to me for me to chase you. You chase those who you know and value for their presence in your life. If I don’t know you, then I won’t be missing you.”

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One time I gave this water dude a chance, I don’t know what the hell I was thinking, but he played the stereotypical games they play to verify if the woman likes them too or as much as they do. He wanted me to chase him and I didn’t. Eventually he came clean and I remember saying this one line to him before dropping him, “I don’t know you. I’m not in love with you. What makes you think you’re important to me for me to chase you. You chase those who you know and value for their presence in your life. If I don’t know you, then I won’t be missing you.”

What if the other person doesn't chase you? Do you prefer that? Its complicated because most women enjoy being chased. This one whoever she seems a lot like you. I've seen her curve others with lines like. "I owe you nothing. If I respond to you its my choice" I've seen her slip away from people. To me she seems hot and cold. However I know she thinks along the lines that you do. I haven't bothered chasing her but then I wonder if she thinks I'm playing games by essentially ignoring her. I think its clear she's not really my type. I've been with Aquas before and we have very different communication style s.

Posted by WaterBearerer
we get distracted easily and like to do a lot of things at once. also moody and dont like to show ourselves that much. think of it as someone who does not want to wear out their welcome but in your life lol

Lmao! Thank you for the insight. Aquas make no sense to me lol. I'd love to learn more about you guys.

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One time I gave this water dude a chance, I don’t know what the hell I was thinking, but he played the stereotypical games they play to verify if the woman likes them too or as much as they do. He wanted me to chase him and I didn’t. Eventually he came clean and I remember saying this one line to him before dropping him, “I don’t know you. I’m not in love with you. What makes you think you’re important to me for me to chase you. You chase those who you know and value for their presence in your life. If I don’t know you, then I won’t be missing you.”

What if the other person doesn't chase you? Do you prefer that? Its complicated because most women enjoy being chased. This one whoever she seems a lot like you. I've seen her curve others with lines like. "I owe you nothing. If I respond to you its my choice" I've seen her slip away from people. To me she seems hot and cold. However I know she thinks along the lines that you do. I haven't bothered chasing her but then I wonder if she thinks I'm playing games by essentially ignoring her. I think its clear she's not really my type. I've been with Aquas before and we have very different communication style s.

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I said that he expected me to chase him. I don’t mind a guy chasing me but I’m not into him, it’s a deadend and no amount of chasing will do. I only drop lines like those with people I’m really not into. I’m generally a nice and polite person and for me to say standoffish things like that, I’m definitely not into you. What sign are you?

I need lots of stimulation to keep me grounded we can talk about all sorts of interesting things but the main thing that keeps me interested in someone is their character, my friends are my friends for a reason because I am just constantly in awe and learning something new about them even though we talk everyday about everything and anything it trips me out when I learn something mindblowing about them, like last week my best friend told me he nearly fucked a sheep when he was 14 and I pissed myself laughing for hours because somewhere in the back of my mind knew that he did fuck that sheep.

I hate meeting people and I already have them figured out right off the bat, or not that I don’t have them figured out it’s just easy to see where shit is headed with them