Aquarius Getting over someone

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by Aquarius213 on Tuesday, August 22, 2017 and has 3 replies.

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@Aquarius213
9 Years

Why does it take so long for us aquas to get over certain relationships?

i hate feeling like the other person already moved on and im still thinking about them like an idiot..

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@justagirl
12 Years25,000+ Posts

Because once we let them in, they see the real us, so we don't do it that often and/or if ever. So if it falls apart, it takes a piece of us away, so we protect that part and hang onto the memories so we still have those pieces ( in a wierd way). Not healthy by any means at all.

my 2 cents

Just don't glamorize the ex or the relationship, that is when you start really clinging to those feelings and make it even worse.

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@Aquarius213
9 Years

Posted by justagirl
Because once we let them in, they see the real us, so we don't do it that often and/or if ever. So if it falls apart, it takes a piece of us away, so we protect that part and hang onto the memories so we still have those pieces ( in a wierd way). Not healthy by any means at all.

my 2 cents

Just don't glamorize the ex or the relationship, that is when you start really clinging to those feelings and make it even worse.

You just described exactly how i feel..

Thanks for the advice..