Aquarius Man acts as if he hates me...

The power thing is just because of the Scorpio moon and rising, I have had a few suspicious moments, when my GF started asking questions about my friend, I thought of letting her go, but never did because she told me it was nothing.
For a week, me and my GF didn't talk and then one day we both apologized for our faults. Talking is the best way to straighten things out.

If he loved you or cared for you, it will be shown at a later date, ATM if he's angry, then the last word is his.
He doesn't care what you said in the past or what you said in the mail.
He's hiding it all inside but is too shy/egoistic/fearful (Scorpio moon is not a submissive sign) to tell you.

Just let him know that you were and always will be there for him.
The above would work for me any day. 🙂

This is coming from a guy with Aqua Sun / Scorp Moon.

P.S. - Try to remember if you had done or said anything in the past that may have upset him, you know the scorp moon always picks up the small things in a conversation. For us, there is always a motive behind the help offered.
Reading the Moon in Scorpio will also help you a lot to understand us, we are all or nothing, remember that.

If we love you, we show you that. If we're mean to you then we don't respect you - and we don't love you.

Posted by NZAqua
If we love you, we show you that. If we're mean to you then we don't respect you - and we don't love you.

as a scorp moon, i agree. the first time i get mean, get as far away from me as you can. dont hope for second chances. if im mean to you and you take it, i totally dont respect you and will always see you ass beneath me. plus, it give me a pass to do it again and harder.

Posted by AquaScorp92
P.S. - Try to remember if you had done or said anything in the past that may have upset him, you know the scorp moon always picks up the small things in a conversation. For us, there is always a motive behind the help offered.
Reading the Moon in Scorpio will also help you a lot to understand us, we are all or nothing, remember that.

yup

our sun is really just a generalization of our characteristics. however, its our rising and moon that matters the most. he is techinically more of scorpio for your rising is how others see you and how you feel about yourself. read about scorpio men in that aspect to get more insight. but i do know they hold grudges and are easily spiteful.

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Posted by NZAqua
If we love you, we show you that. If we're mean to you then we don't respect you - and we don't love you.

as a scorp moon, i agree. the first time i get mean, get as far away from me as you can. dont hope for second chances. if im mean to you and you take it, i totally dont respect you and will always see you ass beneath me. plus, it give me a pass to do it again and harder.

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so aquarius loses respect for doormats or scorpio? I got lost in that part..........

another question. Im capricorn which is appeasing rather than confrontational. Would aquarius see this as weakness?

I know they like to be challenged and person who agrees with them all the time and acts like a doormat must look very boring to them. I feel the same as a capricorn woman. If a man is agreeing with me and letting me make all the decisions it seems to me he has no passion or imagination and I lose respect in a way. Ive worked to overcome this but its still there. I realised how much I was benefitting from them and that they didnt have to do that for me..it was gift. So a got my head round it a bit and now if someone starts acting like that towards me I dont take it for granted like I did before.

I still dont get this power business though where people test each other to see who demands respect and who doesnt (ie is a wimp). Can someone explain to me?

Thanks for the feedback everyone!

Posted by NZAqua
If we love you, we show you that. If we're mean to you then we don't respect you - and we don't love you.

Whoa truth. Thanks for being honest.
That's why my intuition told me to cut out some Aquas from my life. They started to be mean, so I gullotined them. Show them I never liked them either.

I've read a bit here and there on these boards about Aquarius having a tendency to act like they hate the ones they really have feelings for.

From what I know of Aquas, they really hate weakness, but you being an Aries, there isn't a problem with that. He prolly resented you for something else.

The Aquas I know will tend to be mean to their partners because they aren't a natural partnership sign, and view their partners as a burden to their freedom, which is just a state of mind, tbh.

I'm an aries and I pushed and pushed and now the beautifully quirky aquarius man that I once had in my arms has found someone else and I am devastated. He has completely cut me out of his life and there is nothing I can do about it but cry every night. The saddest part is that it took him finding another for me to see how wrong I was. We live across the street from each other and when he began to distance himself I thought it was for another neighbor. He told me I was crazy for thinking that, but they were always coming and going within minutes of each other. I tried to believe him, I wanted to believe him, but I was too afraid to be a fool and ultimately I became the fool anyway. Over a period of the last two years he would stop talking to me for making the accusation, go silent, I'd push a little, he'd yell at me, I'd step off give him a week or two then he'd talk to me again and the cycle continued. Every time they'd be gone at the same time the thoughts would creep back into my mind. I was never able to prove that he was with that other neighbor. He did however finally bring someone home and now has blocked me from all sorts of contact. I was so wrong. I am so hopeless now. Some lucky woman is now spending time with him and I can't even talk to him. I am however relieved that it wasn't the neighbor and that is a big weight off my shoulders. It tormented me, made me sick in my head, like a crazy lunatic. I'm surprised that he gave me as many chances as he did for me to stop with it all. Obviously my chances are now are exhausted. I am happy for him and hope that she gives him the love and joy that I should have been giving him all along. I pray that one day in the far off future that our paths cross again and that I am show him how much I have learned from this mistake. I will forever believe any word that comes out of his mouth from this point on. However, on the other hand, why didn't he just tell me that there was someone else, just not who I thought. That would have helped a lot. Just wanted too vent... thank you

I know he won't, which is why I'm so sad. He wasn't with the neighbor, but he was with someone. All I wanted was the truth and he could have told me that I was wrong about the "who" part only. We never claimed to be exclusive, but I do appreciate and respect openness and honesty. At any rate, now that I know that he has someone and not the someone I harassed him about for two years, I sent an email apology for wrongly accusing him of being with the other neighbor, who, by the way, lives there with her boyfriend. He responded only with "read," as I had requested him to so that I can know he received it. In all honesty, I just miss him as a person and a friend. I will work on my trust issues regardless of who or what comes after this. I never want to be so quarrelsome with someone who's presence I enjoy so much ever again.