Sabreeyne
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Aquarius Man - Cancer Woman: What does disappearing act signal, Why does he do it?
He sounds like one of my ex.
(we broke up without saying anything btw. He just stopped talking and i didnt contact back for months now)
All i can say is if he doesnt show much interest anymore. You should stop pursuing and move on. You two can still be friends if you want to. But i'm just letting u know, aquas tend to disappear alot on their friends/families and lovers and appear out of nowhere like as if they did nothing. Its either you get used to this or ....... you know.. also, Their constant disappearing and "coldness" act dont do well with us, cancers. It'll hurt if you can't get used to it.
(we broke up without saying anything btw. He just stopped talking and i didnt contact back for months now)
All i can say is if he doesnt show much interest anymore. You should stop pursuing and move on. You two can still be friends if you want to. But i'm just letting u know, aquas tend to disappear alot on their friends/families and lovers and appear out of nowhere like as if they did nothing. Its either you get used to this or ....... you know.. also, Their constant disappearing and "coldness" act dont do well with us, cancers. It'll hurt if you can't get used to it.
Posted by Nepturanus+1
not a fan of this pairing.
Posted by aquarius09unless he's (the aquarius) got a lot of feminine planets, there's NO way.Posted by Nepturanus+1
not a fan of this pairing.
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ie, Ronald Reagan and Nancy Reagan.
one of the best love stories.
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