Aquarius Man is about to get dumped!!!! Need advice !

I'm a libra woman and I'm dating an aquarius male everything was perfect but then we started arguing about dumb stuff. Partly because I feel we rush into things but let him tell it, I'm the problem. He has been distant and I feel like he is dating someone else so I asked him and he got upset which was a big red flag for me but he swore he wasn't. Then he started acting rude like an a-hole and so I dumped his a--. He has since reached out to me saying he truely loves me and he did not want to break up but he was gonna let it be because I've bern ignoring him. I have been ignoring all his messages because his actions and behavior really hurt me. I opened up and trusted him and I felt like we genuinely had a friendship/ relationship and he just switched up on me. I responded to his message today telling him I just want my stuff from his house and again he keeps saying he loves me anyways and he doesn't want us to break up but he's not gonna keep trying to steer me differently . But I kind of feel like it's all Bulls--- now since he switched up. If I love someone I don't switch up and treat them like that. If I need space I say it if I have a problem I talk about it and try to find a solution and for a while I felt like we were on the same page with communicating but now I feel like he is a lying a--hole. I Did not respond to any of his messages since I asked for my stuff because I really don't want to talk to him until I figure out what I want to do. Right mow I can't tell if he genuinely cares or just saying what he thinks I want to hear, because I don't feel like he loves me, in the beginning I did now I feel like he is full of it. I'm really thinking of dumping him for good

I just asked him twice in two week span, the first time I asked he cut me off and I didn't get to fully express myself and why I felt that way, but I left the issue alone but then things seemed to get worse as far as his behavior towards me and I asked him again this time I fully expressed myself and he said he hates repeating hisself and got mad at me. We have only been dating for 5months now and when we first met we clicked very well he initiated the relationship I was hesitant because it was so soon but I gave in anyways and things were good but then we had a big argument because he was becoming bery clingy and I had a lot going on, school, plus I'm a single mother of two and I started a new job and I told him I needed a couple of days to myself to get things in order I felt things were out of balance and he ignored me for two weeks and I let him because I didn't di anything wrong I wasn't gonna chase after him, I was sensitive to his needs I sent him messages but he ignored them for two weeks then I told him if he wants to break up we can, then he says no your my womsn forever and so things picked back up but never was the same as before I feel like in that two week period were we weren't taking he met someone else and is trying to date both of us based on the changes in his behavior. But he swears that's not the case. He barely wants to spend time anymore and just started acting like an a-- and I was patient but I don't feel like I've done anything for him to act like this. He recebtky became really rude and disrespectful and I told him it's over I'm not dealing with this and now he keeps sending me messages saying he loves me and he doesn't want us to break up. As of right now I'm ignoring him because I'm hurt by his rude disrespectful behavior and I honestly don't know if I should believe anything he is saying

Nah kick this guy to the curb. You have way more worthwhile priorities than wasting energy/time on someone who isn't even putting in the effort.

Thanks that's how I've been feeling. I just wanted to make sure I wasnt over reacting. I really just want my stuff and I'm blocking him after that. He is an a--hole

You are confusing.

A few months ago, you complained to him about him trying to spend too much time with you. Relationships need an initial intense phase to get off the ground, and you rudely put a beak to it.

Than what is the point with all those "cheating" interrogations? Did you actually get to the point where you were exclusive? For many, it takes more than 5 months to reach that level. Let's say he is not chasing after after women..... in his mind, you probably got what you asked for....space. Now you start accusing him of cheating, because he was respecting your wishes...?

Yes, get your things out . You seem both rude and impatient.

If there's no problems start some just to get a reaction or something it may work or not.

Posted by Undine
You are confusing.

A few months ago, you complained to him about him trying to spend too much time with you. Relationships need an initial intense phase to get off the ground, and you rudely put a beak to it.

Than what is the point with all those "cheating" interrogations? Did you actually get to the point where you were exclusive? For many, it takes more than 5 months to reach that level. Let's say he is not chasing after after women..... in his mind, you probably got what you asked for....space. Now you start accusing him of cheating, because he was respecting your wishes...?

Yes, get your things out . You seem both rude and impatient.

I was thinking along similar lines

I asked him for a couple of days to myself because I had finals for school, we still could talk I just could not hang out because I needed to study, I reached out to him both during and after my finals and he ignored me for two weeks and finally reached out saying he was upset because he felt like I was asking for space as a way to break up with him which I explained to him was not true. I said two days isn't a long time especially when I called and texted him during that period. He acted like he understood and things were fine for a week then he started acting rude, mean and disrespectful talking about his exes how went out with them and just acting like we weren't in a relationship anymore and I asked him why is he acting like this all of sudden and he acted clueless and got made and said its my fault because I made him act like that because I hurt his feelings for taking a two day break and that's when I said he was overreacting and if he had a problem all he had to do was talk to me about it and we could've fixed it instead of being an a--hole bringing up other woman and throwing stuff in my face and I told him I'm not accepting that behavior from him and ended it.

Well done kick him out.

But next time both of you got to learn each other's way of communication techniques.

I was sitting here thinking.....Cancer Moon.....ruuuuuuuuuuun.

Not to mention, he goes distant and your first thought is to hound him about cheating? REALLY? Not that something else could be happening, or maybe hes feelin a funk or stress. No it all has to be about you and your shit.

your relationship i'snt worth the energy,